Ardent R. FaJohn Sr.
Ardent R. FaJohn Sr.
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Ardent FaJohn Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
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Hollie Schnepf
March 11, 2025
Hey Papa... It is hard to believe that it has been twenty years now. I think of you all of the time and miss you always. I wish you were around to meet my husband and your great granddaughter. I know you would love them both. I love you and can't wait to see you upstairs one day. Keep smiling down and watching over all of us.
little Ronnie FaJohn
September 27, 2019
Hey Pop,
It's getting that time of the year. The weather is changing fall is coming it's when I have you and MaMa on my heart and mind. A lot has happened since you passed but I know all of you are up there watching. I want to thank you for showing me how to push through pain and over come challenges in life. I love you guys and I am glad your watching over me.
Always on my mind,
Little Ronnie
September 21, 2012
Just wanted to say I was thinking about you this morning....Kenna and I had potato cakes for breakfast and she wanted to know where I figured out how to make them. I told her courtesy of my papa :) We all love and miss you so much!! You've been on my brain alot lately between your birthday having just gone by and now Cullen's birthday coming up which is always a sad reminder of when you left us. I still have a big hole in my heart that will always be there and you are NEVER far from my thoughts and prayers! Love you, Dawn
Little Ronnie Fajohn
August 31, 2012
Hey pop just want to say I love you and was thinking of you because your birthday is coming up
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Dawn Manning
September 16, 2008
Hey, Pop. I just wanted to let you know that I have been thinking of you a lot lately, a lot more than normal that is. It always happens anyway this time of the year, when your birthday comes along, and then Cullen's because you left us the night before he turned five. I broke my ankle about a week or so ago, so I'm on crutches right now. Every time I hear the clink and clank of my crutches hit the floor, it's like I can hear you and your canes right there with me again. And for right now I sit on a chair if I'm washing anything in the kitchen or getting something ready to cook, and it never fails that I picture you sitting at the sink washing dishes when I was little, or sitting at the stove cooking some fried potatoes. I just wanted to say that I'm SO GLAD for all the times I washed the dishes for you, cut the grass so you didn't have to, or simply filled your glass of ice water to help quench your thirst. And if there were ever times I was selfish and didn't, I wanted to say I'm sorry. I can't even begin to express how much I miss you and how sad it makes me that you're gone. I just wanted to let you know that I still love you, miss you, and think about you always.
Beverly Seifert
September 14, 2008
Happy late Birhtday Papa! I went camping this weekend for a Girl Scout Leader training...while I was there, I sang Happy Birthday to Papa...then a coppehead slithered by my feet...YIKES! He would've been so proud that I didn't pee my pants! I can't believe that it's been almost three years...where has the time gone? I think of Pop every day and will do so until I too take my last breath on earth. I love all of you in the family...take care and God Bless!
little ronnie fajohn
August 8, 2008
hello papa i love you and miss you and mama i think of you both every day
Beverly Seifert
December 25, 2007
I can't believe we made it through another Christmas without Papa! He would've been so happy that we all got together to celebrate and be a family. For those who couldn't be with us, Merry Christmas from all of us!
Beverly Seifert
October 13, 2007
It's hard to believe that Papa has been gone for 2 years! Dawn-ne and I went out to celebrate on his behalf! We went to Sal's and ordered pizza......one of his favorites! Dawn even managed to make me look away so she could snatch a pepperoni off my slice! Papa would've been so proud ;)
Rosie Zglinski
October 4, 2007
Hi Pop!
I can't beleive that it's been two years since you left us. I know I haven't written in awhile...but life is crazy! I think of you so often! Michael is going through a lot of challenges with his school work. I'm glad I wasn't the GENIUS he is! It drives me crazy. We have a lift chair that we're sending to Tom's Mom. She is really having a hard time recuperating from her Meningitis. It makes me think of you. It's the same color as your chair. I can picture it lifting her up...just like it did you.
I love you so much Pop. I miss our calls...especially since it's football season and you knew the scores six hours before I did! Take care of Mom and give her a happy birthday! I love you and miss you so much!
Rosie
Beverly Seifert
June 22, 2007
The strangest thing happened yesterday. Rachel was working and scheduled to get off at 5:00, by 5:35 she wasn't home. I called her on her cell phone and she told me that she decided to stop by the cemetary and visit Nana and Pop. She was very surprised to see the new military foot stone that was placed on his grave. She said it was beautiful. Thank you Little Ronnie! We love you!
lil ronnie
May 26, 2007
Hey pop I love you so much there is a hole in my heart that has been there sense you and mama left us.I talk to you and mama all the time that helps because i know you both hear me. I love you both so much
Beverly Seifert
March 31, 2007
Well, tomorrow is one of Papa's favorite days....April Fools! He was so good at playing pranks and getting everyone to fall for his jokes. I remember trying so hard to psyche him out every April Fools day, but he always caught on. He was the "Fool" champ. How I wish I could get pranked by him again tomorrow. I would laugh harder and relish every detail of the trick so I would never forget the smiles he gave to evryone. I love you Papa. Rest in peace.
Beverly Seifert
February 26, 2007
It is days like this when I really miss Papa the most. Today I received news that a 21 year girl that I know has terminal cancer and it's only a matter of weeks. I also found out that a Girl Scout in another troop, who was only 15 years old passed away last night from a blod clot. Life is so darn unpredictable and we all get caught up in a busy schedule that sometimes we forget to show our love for people we care about. We forget to spend quality time with them, thinking "there's always tomorrow". Sadly, this isn't true.......we never know when we won't have the chance to say goodbye, like with Papa. He went into a peaceful sleep, closing his eyes and putting all his faith in God. Life is too short to keep saying "if only", so grab each day...embrace it fully...love those dear to you...be nice to a stranger...call a relative...always say "I love you" at the end of a phone conversation...and remember to thank God for all your blessings AND your burdens. To all my family, I love you with all my being, my heart and soul! Let's be as loving, considerate and wonderful as Pop and Mama were. God Bless you all!
January 3, 2007
Hi Pops, Just wanted to say Happy New Year, as if you will read this. Miss you and Mom so much.
Love Danny
Rosie Zglinski
November 26, 2006
Hi Pop,
Dawn and I were talking today about your public appearances as Santa! Each year Grandma would figure out what to do for Christmas by the appearances that you had. It made me think of all the years that you showed your love to all the children and parents. I remember being your "elf". I remember freezing cold nights when we would go to so many places. I remember being at the elementary schools...and the children being so excited!!! You brought so much joy to all that knew you and so many that didn't! Although I couldn't be there, I heard there were so many Santas at your service. They came to pay their respects, because YOU WERE THE BEST! It's difficult to celebrate the joy without you here. You were so much of the joy! I miss you so much and know that so many people are feeling the same thing at this time of year. I feel it a little differently! I miss you, Pop! I miss calling you twice a day and checking up on you. I miss your corny jokes. I miss having you here! Take care of Mrs. Claus and have a wonderful holiday looking down on us!
We love and miss you,
Rosie, Tom & Michael
Dawn Manning
October 12, 2006
I love you, Pop! I wish I could talk to you right now. Miss you tons!
All my love,
Dawn
Dawn Manning
September 12, 2006
Hey Pop!! I was gonna try to beat everyone to wishing you a happy birthday, but I guess I'm already too late. I miss you so much, and I still go to pick up the phone and call you whenever I see or hear something I think you'd want to know. Cullen started Kindergarden this year and so far he loves it. I was expecting red lights, or at least yellow, from his teacher, but so far all green. He's doing great. And Kenna is in 2nd grade and thankfully still eager to learn. She has always done so well in school, that it's gonna be hard for the boys to all follow her. I know they'll all do fine though. Next year will be the toughest when I have to let Cody and Taylor go. They are just my babies and it'll be the last ones to send to school. Even though I guess they're not really babies anymore, almost 5 now. Well, believe me, I will think of you even more tomorrow than I normally do on any other given day. I still have the picture on my phone that I took of you with the "Santa" background. I love and miss you so much. I wish I could pick up the phone and tell you "Happy Birthday". I guess this will have to do. Keep an eye on Grandma for me, and I hope the two of you watch over Kenna and Cullen when they're away from me at school. All my love!!!!!!
Dawn
Rosie Zglinski
September 10, 2006
Hi Pop,
I guess I am a lot like you! I wanted to beat everyone else in wishing you a Happy Birthday! Today has been really sad. I've missed you so much. I'm not sure why today has been harder than the rest. I just know that I've teared up a couple of times today! I wish that I could still send you silly birthday gifts, and call as soon as I got up. We are all feeling the loss of not having you here. It's not just me.
I love you so much, and take care of Mom! I love you both to infinity times a million!
Rosie
Ashley Fletcher
September 8, 2006
Hey Poppa,
Sorry its been so long that I have wrote to you. I am so busy right now Gavin started school he loves it but I'm alittle sad. He is gettin so big. Trevor is in the second grade, and is doing great. I miss you and will write more later. I love you always, Ash
Rosie Zglinski
April 16, 2006
Hi Pop!
Happy Easter! I'm sorry that I don't write as often as I should, but I want you to know that I think about calling you often.
Dawn rode by the house today on the way to Aunt Ellie's and said everything is still the same. She said the trash cans are still in the same place, and the grass needs cutting! Go figure. Little Ronnie said that the lady that is living there is so sweet. He said that if I drove up and said "I used to live here, can I come visit?"...she'd open the door! I'm thinking of doing that this summer. I miss you so much! So many things happened between us in life, and through it all we remained close! I wish you could still be here to get to know Michael even more. He's doing so well. His Dad passed away last month...so this had been a difficult time for us.
Take care on Mom and know that you are in our hearts and in our dreams!
I love you and miss you,
Rosie
Dawn Manning
March 24, 2006
I love you, Pop!!!
Dawn Manning
February 28, 2006
Hey Pop,
I just wanted to let you know how much I've been missing you lately. We were out of town for a couple of days and I picked up the phone to call you so many times before we left to let you know not to worry if you tried to call and didn't get any answer. And I've wanted to call you and let you know we made it back ok so many times since we got home. It seems like everywhere I turn lately I see something that brings back memories of you. I miss you and grandma so much. I don't think reality has set in yet. I still looked for you to show up early, as usual, to Kenna, Cody and Taylor's birthday parties. And I kept waiting to hear you call out for me to bring you a glass of water. I still have the tape that Beverly gave to me with you and Grandma on it, but I haven't been able to bring myself to listen to it yet. I've tried a few times, but just can't do it. Just know that I love you and miss you so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I consider myself truly blessed to have known you and to have been able to call you my grandpa. You are truly a wonderful man and a very special person. I LOVE YOU!!
Dawn
Rosie Zglinski
February 4, 2006
Aloha Mom & Pop!
Today is not a special day
to write and say "Hello"!
Today is just the time for me
To let my feelings flow.
You're on my mind so much each day...
That I just want to call!
I start to dial your number...
I hang the phone back on the wall!
Daddy you would be so proud...
Your Steelers are on the way!
And in the Super Bowl tomorrow...
My Seahawks they will play.
I know that we can't call and place
A bet upon the game.
But in my mind
Your teasing voice still remains the same!
Mom, there is no certain show...
I want to share with you.
The only thing I want to share...
Is I'm still feeling blue!
The tears are now still in my eyes...
When I think of what we had!
Not often do you have a Mom...
That's the best friend you've ever had!
I can't begin to tell you...
How much I miss you so!
I wish that I could see your face..
All smiles with such a glow!
I miss you both so much...
In so many different ways!
Just know that you are always on my mind...
As I travel through my days!
I love you to infinity times a million!
Rosie
Beverly Seifert
December 30, 2005
Papa,
The New Year is upon us again. I'm really gonna miss teasing you because you won't stay up to watch Dick Clark.
Little Ronnie found the Christmas present you had wrapped for me in the attic. I kept it in the living room until Christmas Day. I was so over-joyed to see all the beautiful placemats, pot holders and coasters that Mama had made. I can't believe you kept them a secret from me. What was so special about the box was hidden under all of those beautiful handmade goodies.........a pillow with the picture of you and Mama on the material. I was so touched and happy to see your smiling faces at me, I couldn't help but cry.
You always were special just because of you, and even more special because you portrayed Santa so well. Boys, girls, men and women of all ages had a better Christmas spirit because of you.
Christmas will always be the most special time of year for me when I will feel closest to you, especially after you made this one so memorable and you weren't even with me to share it!
Papa.....you were greatly loved....you are greatly loved.....and you will ALWAYS be greatly loved!!!! Thank you for being mine!
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
My eternal love,
Bevie
Misty Styer
November 24, 2005
Dear Mr. FaJohn,
I just wanted to Wish you and your family a Blessed & Happy Thanksgiving. =)
Your Friend,
Misty Styer =)
Rosie Zglinski
November 23, 2005
Hi Mom & Pop,
I feel like I have to alternate between guest books...and this is your turn Pop! Happy Thanksgiving! I just wanted to let you both know how thankful I am for all the things you did for us as we were growing up, and after we had finally grown up. You both were always there for us. As kids, Mom was always there waiting when we returned from school. Pop, you were there when we really needed you.
I'm thankful for your loving hearts that taught us HOW to love. I'm thankful for the soothing hands when we were sick. I'm thankful for the sacrafices that you both made raising 8 kids and half of the neighborhood!
Not one of us would have been the adults we are today without your guidence. May we all pass on to our children and grandchildren the values and morals that you have blessed us with!
I wish I could pick up the phone and call and say "Happy Bird Day!"...but I can't. Just know that you are in our hearts with thank felt praise for all you've done.
I love you to infiity times a million!
Rosie
Ashley Fletcher
November 23, 2005
Hey poppa,
I was just thinking about calling you so I'll just write to you instead.I have used your crock pot alot I'm using it right now to make your favorite meatballs. I really miss you alot.I only wish I could think you for everything youv'e ever done,not only for me but for everyone. Ecpecially Little Ronnie you and grandma both are the most selfless people I will ever know. I'm very proud to say that you are my Grand Parents.Well I don't have alot of time but I just wanted to say to you & grandma that I love you in miss you both so very much. Happy Thanksgiving to you!!!
I love you. Ashley
Misty Styer
November 12, 2005
Hey Mr.FaJohn or as you were known around Walmart as Santa, This is Misty one of your favorite Cashies @ Walmart. Man I didn't know Ashley was your GrandDaughter. She and I have known each other for sometime now. I am sadden that I didn't know sooner. She is a sweet girl. I see where she gets it from. Guess what? Me and Ashley's son have the same name.. Trevor =). Man Walmart just isn't the same since you have been gone.I can say I miss you sneakin up being me and scaring the living crap out of me with your bell. I miss the big hugs you would give me every time I seen you. I miss you not being there to cheer me up when i'm having a bad day. We still talk about you and everyone still has you within are hearts. There was Four Walmart employees there to tell you to sleep well. Nicole(service desk) Lisa(cashier) Myself and Chris(accounting). I wanted to speak badly when they asked if anyone wanted to say a few words to you and your family. But by the time I calmed my self down time had ran up. But I know you heard me in my prayers that night. Well I have some how made this into a book so I think I will end this for now. But I will be back from time to time to let you know everyone is doing. Oh! Nicole wanted me to let you she is having a baby! =) We will find out what she is having next month! Anyways, i'm going to go for now. But this isn't the last you will hear from me. I miss you dearly and your family is always in my thoughts and prayers. I am Honored to say I knew a true Angel sent here to earth. You take care of yourself and never forget me, Because I know I will Never forget you. God Bless You and Your Family.
Your Friend,
Misty Styer
Rosie Zglinski
October 23, 2005
Hi Pop & Mom,
I just wanted to let you know that I think you would be pleased with how everything is going with the estate. Little Ronnie has done an awesome job of being fair and trying to give everyone the things that mean so much to them! I think most of the kids have at least one piece of furniture or an appliance now in their homes. What a memory! Your well stocked pantry is helping the "Christmas Mother". The car with the lift is now with Big Ronnie and his family for Liz's mom and your scooter has gone to Carol, Ken's Mom. She said "Now I can go to Walmart without feeling guilty about anyone getting tired from pushing me!" Ronnie made boxes for all of the children and grandchildren with pictures, Santas & many more memories! Wrapped presents were found in the attic with lucky recipients names!
Even though your not with us any longer, you just keep giving and giving.
I miss you both so much and still check my machine every day for a message from you! You do come to me in my dreams.
I love you so much. Take care of each other!
Love and Aloha,
Rosie
Dawn Manning
October 20, 2005
Hey Pop! I just wanted to say hi and let you know that you've really been on my mind this last week. It's been a really hard week for me. I was calling your house just to hear your voice on your machine, and I called Sunday night and it was still there. Then I called Monday morning when I was out with the kids and got the message that your phone had been disconnected. I called Mom to talk to her because I was trying not to cry. I just wasn't expecting your phone to be cut off. I don't know why, I should've expected it, but it still caught me off gaurd. It was just nice to be able to still hear your voice. I've been thinking about when we were all kids and stayed with you and Grandma. I remember how you used to paint Ronnies toys with a yellow paint pen, and I remember the time that Ricky got mad at you for something and poked holes in the bottoms of all of your paint cans, and the time "someone" set the back bathroom on fire, but I won't mention any names. I remember when I used to cut the grass for you every weekend and you would always try to get me to mow over Grandma's flowers with the mower because they were weeds, but to Grandma they bloomed so they were flowers. I remember the time when Grandma was napping and you got me to go out and trim the bushes in the front yard so she wouldn't yell about it, but that didn't stop her when she woke up. I don't know who she was more mad at, me or you. She was mad at you for telling me to do it, and mad at me for listening. She never stayed mad for long though. Her heart was too big. I remember when I lived with you and to get me up in the morning you would put cold water on my face, I used to get so mad. I remember how you used to count all the dishes in the kitchen, and when I would clean the kitchen you would come and count the glasses, and say "There's one missing girl, please go find it.". I remember all the card games we played, and you teaching me how to play cribbage, which I've since forgotten. (I think my kids have killed off some of my brain cells somehow, and I'm not sure how many I had to begin with.) I can't even count how many times a day I go to pick up the phone to call you to just check up and make sure you're okay. I still haven't accepted that you're not with us anymore. I'm not sure when that reality will set in. I remember talking to Grandma and she would sometimes get on the subject of "when I won't need this anymore", and I would always tell her that nothing could ever happen to the two of you, because I just couldn't imagine life without youll. Now I'm living it and it just doesn't seem real.
Well, on a lighter note, Matt and Mary's wedding was beautiful. I don't think I've ever seen a more glowing happy bride in my life. Mary was just ecstatic, and it showed. I'm so happy for the two of them. And I finally got to meet Alicia and the girls. They are absolutely adorable. They made the cutest little flower girls ever. I know you and Grandma would've enjoyed it.
Well, I've gotta go. The bus will be here shortly and I've got a few things to do first. I love and miss you, and give Grandma a belated birthday hug for me. Hugs and kisses!!! Dawn
Dan FaJohn
October 19, 2005
Hi Pop,
Was setting here thinking of you and wishing I could pick up the phone and hear your voice.
I know you and mom are together now and that I will see you again some day soon but that doesnt take away the empty spot in my soul, the one I have filled with tears thinking of your Love and the way you Loved us kids. I will continue as best as I can. Deb is so much like momma, I only wish you would have had time to really get to know her.
See you soon, Love Your Son Danny
Ashley Fletcher
October 12, 2005
Hey Poppa,
I know in my heart that your happier now that you are with Grandma again but I can't help but feel sad and stuff right now. I hope you can forgive me for that. Well I'll start off this letter by telling you something as if we were telking on the phone.You would say"hey girl, how are you," i would say I'm good I guess." then you'd say"How are the boys?" they are doing good Trevor had two test in school got 100% on both of them he is so smart, he didn't get it from me huh.LOL.
I miss you so much and still call your phone all the time just to hear your vioce for just on second. I am going to miss the calls I would get from you all hours of the morning. mom used to say she was going to buy you a clock with Hawaii time on it cause you would call her so early, But don't be sad I have taken over for you I wake her up now.LoL.
Well I want you to take great care of Grandma for me and I can't wait for you and her to come see me in my dreams just the way her and my dad did. I love you and miss you poppa.Rest in peace for you are finaully home!!!
I love you,
Ashley
Wayne & Tabitha Walker
October 10, 2005
We are sad to hear the news that our Santa Clause has passed but happy to know that he is with our Lord. We did not know and regret that we were unable to attend the services. We send our sincerest sympathy and condolences to all of his family. He always made sure that he had something tucked away to share with the kids in the neighborhood. Such a nice man. We will miss you dearly. Love, Tabitha, Wayne & Bradlee - 4838 Stanley Drive.
Domenic FaJohn
October 9, 2005
I will miss talking to you every day, as I already do. You were a wonderful brother and a great friend. Gloria, Brenda and I would like to express our deepest sympathy to all of Ardent's family. Even though he is gone, his love will stay with us forever.
allen fajohn
October 8, 2005
hey pop its been a week since your passing i did write early this week but it was never posted. i hope you didnt think i forgot you i would never do that. I have taken over making the calls for you I talked to aunt regina 2day.she really misses you and so do I.my heart will never be the same you and mom have taken part of it with you. I love you pop forever
Furrie Bonetti
October 7, 2005
To the family of Ardent:
Sorry to hear of your loss. I called at the hospital, but Ardent had already gone home. When I came back from North Carolina to check on how he was doing, it was too late. I will miss talking to him on the phone.
Your cousin, Furrie
Ashley Fletcher
October 7, 2005
SLEEP WELL
Today we had to say farewell,
To a man we all know and love,
For he has gone to Heaven,
To show his abiding love.
Try not to be sad,
For he is still here,
To Show us all,
To have no fear...
No fear of death,
For it is Grand,
To finaully be able to say,
God lend me your Hand...
Lend me your hand,
To show me the way,
To the Heavens above,
That we all praise each day.
So Pop I know your up there today,
And saying Ashley I'm Finaully okay.
I have no more pain,
My legs are as good as new,
And one day girl,
I'll be able to show you...
So Poppa I must say farewell for now,
But I quit don't know how,
I don't know how to say Goodbye,
So I'll just say farewell for now,
I love you in sleep well!!!
I love you Pop I'll see you in all do time,i'll miss you everyday.
Love Ashley
Ashley Fletcher
October 7, 2005
Hey Poppa,
I have been wanting to write, but didn't know the words to say.When I came home and lived with you and Grandma that was a very special time for me, we got very close you and I.Everytime I would talk to you the very First thing you would ask me is" How are the boys." Now I know you will always have your eyes on them and keep them safe.Even when its not in my power.I remember when I was little and I used to go into the kitchen and just stand there with the fridge door open you'd say shut that door, and I never could figure out how in the world you knew that I was in the fride and you were in the other room.Grandma would laugh and say"oh, Ardent leave her alone she's hungry."I am not ready to die right now, but when ever God says its time for me I know in my heart I will be at Peace Just as you and Grandma and my Father,most of all Because I know you 3 will be standing there waiting Grandma saying"There goes my sunshine,and you sayin"there's my Girl"and my Father will Say Goodbye like we never got the chance,and i missed you and I love you And then we will all dance.The Bible says theres a time to weep whitch is now.A time to morron,also for now.And finually my time to dance will be when I see you three in the Beuatiful Place we all call home.Rest in Peace Poppa I love you & miss you everyday!!!!
Courtney Carter
October 6, 2005
Hi Poppa FaJohn,This is Courtney (Brie's little sister). I went with my sister to your funeral yesterday, that was hard. I miss your hugs when i would get to your house or when i would leave. I wish i would have come and seen you more often these last couple of years. I remember the last time i came to visit, we sat and made braclets out of beads while you talked to Brie. You were always working on something when we would come and visit and i found it so amazing. I still have the first wishing well that you gave me made out of the clothes pins, I wish had kept the other things that you made me but they all broke. I know that you are in a better place now. I will see you again someday, but until then keep an eye on everyone down here please. Love Alwayz
Brianna FaJohn
October 6, 2005
Hi Pop, this is Liz and I am typing for Bri - here goes.
I love you no matter what, you are going to be the one in our heart, you are going to be the one I love. I love you while you are up there and we are down here, and I know we will always be in your heart. I love you Pop and Grandma.
Ronnie & Liz FaJohn
October 6, 2005
Hey Poppa, It's Liz. I miss you with all my heart. I wish I could hold your hands one more time, and tell you how much I love you. Bri colored a beautiful picture of God and you and mom, and said she did not put hair on God because she didn't know what color it was. I told her it was the most beautiful picture and we would make sure you would see it. I know you are at peace now, which helps make it easier for us. We love you and miss you so much. Love always, Liz Here is Ronnie -
Hey Poppa, it won't be the same without you. No more 5:00 AM birthyday calls. The April fools day jokes won't mean the same thing. When I tell Bri..."pull my finger", it will take on a whole new meaning. I wrote a poem the day you left us, but couldn't read it to you. I hope you understand, but it just wasn't time for me to share it with anyone but you. It's been five days now, and you would think that your passing would get easier to accept, but there are little moments that just wipe me out. I'm happy for you that there is no more pain, and that you are at rest now. I know that there will be a day that we will all be together again, and I look forward to it. Anyway, here are a few words I put together, and I know that you will understand their meaning. Love, Ronnie
The mercy of living has come in the night.
Be at peace my dear Poppa, there will be no more fight.
There once was a day when you’d protect all,
Stoically suffering the pain of the fall.
Now your children all grown, have come into life.
Built strong from your courage, they can handle all strife.
Your life had more meaning than you could ever see.
You were the anchor, the meaning, the root of the tree.
That root covered acres, and encompassed all ends.
For in your life there was measure and all were your friends.
You were our coach, our referee, and sometimes the whip.
The magic of morning, a strong sailing ship.
Those days are all over, a life now askew,
Your children now carry all the good that you knew.
The mercy of living has come in the night.
Be at peace my dear Poppa, there will be no more fight.
Dawn Manning
October 6, 2005
Pop, I haven't written anything yet because I don't feel like I know what to say. I'll start with I love you and miss you so much. You were always a steady in my life, and you were one of the few people who I never had to doubt at any time loved me unconditionally. You were always there if I needed a laugh, or if I needed to cry, and you always made me feel better. Living with you and Grandma so much when I was growing up made you more than just a grandfather to me, and I know that you already know that. I'm so thankful that my kids had the opportunity to get to know you. I'm thankful for the lunch dates that the kids and I had with you. I'm thankful for the wonderful memories I have in pictures of my kids sitting on my "Santa's" lap. They love you so much. Kenna is the only one who is old enough to really start to comprehend what is going on, and Saturday night when I got the phone call that you had left us for a better place, she sat in the kitchen that night and cried with me. Then all of a sudden, she stopped crying, and she told me, "Mom, we should try not to be so sad about Pop, because now he gets to be with his wife again and he probably really missed her. And his legs don't hurt anymore in heaven, he can run now." Big words from a 6 year old, but she helped me put things in perspective a little quicker. I can't imagine life without you, without being able to hear your voice, or just sit and talk to you on the phone. I've called your house several times just to hear your voice on your answering machine a few more times before it's not there to hear anymore. When I get really sad about all of this and I feel down, I go to pick up the phone and call you because I know that you'll make me feel better just like you always did. I guess it will take time for those habits to be broken. I am happy knowing that you are with Grandma again, and the rest of your loving family. Please keep your loving eyes watching over my babies for me when I can't be with them. I would steal moms words and tell you that I love you to infinity times a million, but that can't even begin to describe how much I love you and how much you are and will always be missed. I love you so much, Pop. I'll keep my eyes open for my usual sign from Grandma, and will always look for two together now. I LOVE YOU!!!
Sheila Sapp Sosa
October 5, 2005
To the family: So long it has been, the memory of Mr. FaJohn as a family friend is faint, but the memory of Santa Claus each Christmas Eve is still untainted from my mind, as if I were still a child, waiting for him to bring candy canes and ask me what I wanted for Christmas. Amazing, at 41 years of age, the recollection is so vivid. He may have loved his role as Mr. Claus, but I hope he knew how much we (the children) loved him too. My sympathies to the entire family.
The Family of Earnest L.Taylor
October 5, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers are with te family at this time of sorrow.We have many fond memories of him.We were just talking about him the other day.May your family always share the memories and keep them alive.
The Family of Earnest L.Taylor
PATRICIA FAY
October 5, 2005
TO ALL OF UNCLE ARDENT'S FAMILY, MOST OF YOU PROBABLY DON'T EVEN KNOW ME, BUT I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT I'M THINKING OF YOU AND TO EXPRESS THE SADNESS THAT I FEEL, BUT IT'S HARD TO PUT IT INTO WORDS. AFTER MOM PASSED AWAY ( AUNT ADDIE , ARDENTS SISTER ) I NEEDED AND LOOKED FORWARD TO UNCLE ARDENT'S CALLS SO MUCH. MOM WAS SUCH A GREAT LOSS FOR ME AS I'M SURE UNCLE ARDENT IS FOR YOU BUT I GUESS I GET SOME PEACE FROM REMEMBERING HIS PHONE CALLS AND THE WORDS HE SAID TO ME REGARDING GOING TO HEAVEN AND BEING WITH YOUR LOVED ONES...HE TRIED TO COMFORT ME WITH THOSE WORDS AND NOW I'M SURE HE'S UP THERE WITH MOM AND ALL HIS LOVING FAMILY. WE COME FROM A GREAT FAMILY LINE AND MY HOPE IS TO LEAVE BEHIND SOME OF THOSE GREAT ATTRIBUTES, LOVE AND MEMORIES THAT MY MOM AND YOUR DAD HAS LEFT US WITH. KNOW THAT MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND EVEN THOUGH WE DON'T SEE EACH OTHER, WE ARE STILL CONNECTED. CALL, WRITE OR VISIT ANY TIME. LOVE YOUR COUSIN PATTY FAY
AJ&June Hughes
October 5, 2005
Pop, we so miss your hearty smile and birthday calls, but we know that your "Job" was done, and you are now where you are supposed to be.We pray that you will look after the ones of us that are here, and know that you are where you belong.We will forever miss you...
Bevie Seifert
October 4, 2005
Today was the day of Pop's viewing. Boy, was there a crowd! They had to get a second guest registar for everyone to sign. I probably didn't know half the people I saw, but they all shed at a tear at his passing.
I always knew Pop was an amazing man, but to see the multitude of people that showed up was a testiment to that.
Papa was loved by so many and touched so many hearts. He always had a warm smile, a helping hand, loving arms and a generous heart.
He was my hero and inspiration and will be GREATLY missed.
His love will go on forever in all the peoples lives he touched. He is gone, but will never be forgotten.
My love for Pop is eternal.........
Wade & Terri Deans
October 4, 2005
So many fond memories we have of Mr. Fajohn, but our favorite memories are captured in photos of "Santa Claus" holding our newborn baby on her first Christmas. She was so tiny on his big lap and he held her like she was an Angel. Now he is being held by Angels and we hold him in our hearts. Our prayers hold his family near and dear for peace and comfort. Be blessed. With Love from The Deans Family in Texas.
Madeline Rakaczky Rakaczky
October 4, 2005
My dearest brother Ardent,
You'll never know how much I'll miss you. How I looked forward to your calls every night. I'll always remember the good times we had when you were here and your happy birthday on September 13th. I'll try in my heart to take this pain away I'm feeling right now. May God look after you. There's so much I could say...I just wish I could talk to you again. I love you very much.
Your sister,
Madeline
Rose FaJohn
October 3, 2005
You will be greatly missed, Pop. I am happy that you are with grandma agian. We will always have you in our hearts and I hope you always keep an eye on us all.
Rosie Zglinski
October 3, 2005
Even though we pray
Sorrowful, unexpected things
Happen every day.
They come and take our breath away…
Even though we pray.
We pray to keep our loved ones safe…
To keep them here with us.
We pray to take their pain away…
Or take them, if You must.
I guess You felt the time was right…
For Pop to join you.
I guess on earth his work was done,
He’s joined the chosen few.
The few that touched so many souls…
That gave all that they had.
The few that made so many smile…
Not judging, good or bad.
Pop was one that touched us all…
Each and every day!
Pop was one that touched us all
And even though we pray…
We could not keep him here with us.
His time on earth was done.
We could not keep him here with us…
His greatest battle’s won.
He won the hearts of all that knew,
This caring giving man.
He won respect from all he met,
He stood, he never ran.
Even though we pray each day.
To have our selfish ways.
Sorrowful unexpected things.
Happen every day.
Love always,
Rosie
Eddie Shaw
October 3, 2005
We wanted you to know how much he will be missed. He was a wonderful man. God Bless Each of You!
Eddie & Patty Shaw (Patty Deans daughter of Pat Deans)
Rosie Zglinski
October 3, 2005
Hi Pop,
The phone call on Saturday really through me for a loop! I just wasn't expecting you to pass before our nightly chat! I'll miss you terribly, but am glad that you are no longer in pain, and you're now with Mom.
I won't be able to make it to your service. It's the same day as my surgery. I'll be there in spirit.
I'll "talk" to you soon.
Love always,
Rosie
Kenny Day
October 3, 2005
I was Mr. Fajohn's fist In-Law, or should I say (Outlaw). I will never forget the first time that I sat down at the Dinner table with him and his family.He could make the best spaghetti and meat balls you ever tasted! After sitting down to dinner he said to me whats that?As he pointed across the room! When I had my head turned he took his fork and stole a meat ball from my plate! I wasn't sure how to react, but everyone laughed and so did I. Mr. FaJohn could make you smile in your darkest moments. He was most definately a genuine kind of person. The world needs many more like him. My heart goes out to All of his family and the ones dear to him. May God Bless him! He will surely be missed !
Beth Cooke-Gautreau
October 3, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with your family,Beverly has been a big influence with my daughters over the years, though I never met "pops", I imagine that (in part)is where she got it from, May God Bless your family and keep you especially close. Bo, Beth, Alee and Ana Gautreau
Heather and Joe Norman
October 3, 2005
Over the years Mr. Fajohn has brought many a smile...and a good laugh...to my heart. Know that he is smiling down on you from heaven now. our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Charles Patterson
October 3, 2005
What a pleasure for me to have been a friend of Mr. FaJohn, I got to spend a little time with him just before his passing and he never complained of his pain and wanted to talk of his family all the time. We all owe him for the service he did for our country. I will surely miss him, but I learned a lot from him during his last several years here on earth. I look forward to seeing him in heaven and talking more. God bless his family at this time.
Susan Seifert
October 3, 2005
My deepest sympathy to the family during this difficult time. The Seifert Family
Viva McKee
October 3, 2005
I was sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you.
The Staff of Morrissett Funeral Home
October 3, 2005
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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