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Gary Flower Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
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January 5, 2011
Pam and family, I just found out about your Dad. I am sorry for your loss. He had the most contagious smile. He will be missed by many. Dale Batkins RIC
Kathy H
November 12, 2010
Chad, I am so sorry to hear of the recent loss of your father. Just know that you have friends that are thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. I never had the honor of meeting your father, but from the post I have read here, he sounded like a wonderful man who will be greatly missed. Take care.
November 9, 2010
Pam and family,
We are all saddened to hear the news about Gary. In the coming days may your hearts continue to heal.Please know that he was respected in his profession and will be missed.
Candy Stokes/Roanoke Trade Services/Charleston
Barry Ryan
October 28, 2010
The Flower Family, i am so sorry to hear about your lose, my thoughts and prayers are with you and yours at this sad time
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Vinny Di Costanzo
October 28, 2010
Dear Pam and Family
I was deeply saddened to learn of Gary's passing. He was a great guy, quick with a smile and a true gentleman. He will be missed.
I wish you good luck and God's blessings.
Linda & Fred Mackta
October 21, 2010
We were very sorry to learn of Gary's passing. It was a pleasure working with him during our days at MISC. Please accept our sincere condolences.
William Lewis
October 21, 2010
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Wendell Powell
October 21, 2010
Mrs. Flower, Laurie, Chad and Pam, I am so very sorry for your loss. Mr. Flower was always a kind, family loving man for whom I respected very much. I know he will be truly missed and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kenny Snyder
October 21, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.
C.D. Burr
October 20, 2010
Very saddened to hear of Gary's passing. My kids & I had the pleasure of spending time with he and his family for several years, mostly at hockey games. Great family and Gary was a great guy! He will be missed, my thoughts are with you all.
Kelley Brooks
October 20, 2010
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Patricia Price
October 19, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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Stefanie Lacks
October 19, 2010
I am very shocked and saddened to learn of Gary's passing. I really enjoyed working with him. My condolences to the Flowers family.
Sylvia Williams
October 19, 2010
My sincere condolences to the Flowers family. Gary was a very conscientious person and was pleasant to work with. Gary was always ready to solve any problems that arose in transacting his Trade business.
Sylvia Williams
October 19, 2010
My sincere condolences to the Flowers family. Gary was a very conscientious person and pleasant to work with. Gary always made sure that any problems that arose in the Trade business were solved.
Judy Wilson
October 19, 2010
Lynne, Lori,Pam,Chad and family - was so shocked to learn of the passing of Gary. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow
Keith & Shannon Davis
October 19, 2010
Andrew "Flower",
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!
Keith, Shannon, Logan, Gavin & Talan Davis
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