Heather Blanton

Heather Blanton

Heather Blanton Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Nov. 29 to Dec. 1, 2009.
BLANTON, Heather Nicole, 20, of Amelia, Va., was born in Richmond, Va. one Miraculous morning, July 24, 1989. She went to be with the Lord on an Unforgettable day, Thursday, November 26, 2009 as the result of a car accident. Heather joins in Heaven, her grandmother, Judith H. Blanton (Grandma Judy); great-grandparents, Charles B. and Mildred P. Hanks (Grandma and Papa Moo Moo Cow). Heather was a breath of Joy to all who crossed her path and most remembered for her loving spirit and smile. She leaves behind to endure her memory, cherished parents, Eddie and Cindy Blanton; a loving sister, Emily Blanton; beloved Fianc‚, Chris Frohman and his father, Ray (Bubba) Frohman Jr.; Grandparents, Ed Blanton (Papa Ed), Elvin (Papa Elvin) and Doris (Grandma Doris) Desper; two aunts, Lora Blanton and Penney Averette; five uncles, Timmy and Danny Desper, Rusty Blanton, Robby Averette and Chris Ouellette; four cousins, Grace and Kyle Averette, Linzee and Kaitlin Desper; along with great-aunts and uncles, extended cousins, and a host of other family and friends. Family and friends will gather at Bennett's Funeral Home, 14301 Ashbrook Parkway, Chesterfield, 23832, on Wednesday, December 2, from 2 to 3:30 and 6:30 to 8 p.m. in remembrance of Heather. Funeral Service will be held 11 a.m., Thursday, December 3, at Southside Nazarene Church, 6851 Courthouse Road, 23832. Graveside service to be held at 2 p.m. at Smyrna Baptist Church located at 1420 Rock Castle Road, Goochland, 23063. May the Lord's work be done through Her on Earth as it is in Heaven.


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July 14, 2010

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July 14, 2010

Lee

February 4, 2010

I met your daughter only once and was amazed at how smart and mature she was.
Remember the beautiful times you shared with her. Try, though it is hard, to remember her life here as a great gift rather than a tragic loss. I too, have suffered the pain of burying a child before me. May God grant your family the strength and courage to endure until you join your sweet Heather in heaven.

Brittany Buchanan

December 7, 2009

I met heather back in middle school and she was always a sweet girl. Heather was always fun to be around. We grew apart as the years went on but she will truly be missed. I found out what happend just this past friday and it blew me away. She was and always will be one special person. My thoughts are with your family.

Rochelle Bland

December 6, 2009

Cindy, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family will continue to be in my prayers.

Kim Adams

December 4, 2009

Cindy, I am so sorry for your lost. I can not say enough to express my heart felt sympathy for you and your family. Please know that my family and I have always kept you in our prayers and thoughts and will continue to do so.
Love & Prayers,
Kim Adams

Freida Ann McNeil

December 4, 2009

Dear Cindy...I am so very sorry for your loss. I don't know if you remember the times we shared "kid talk" at RBHA. Your girls and my three were about the same age even though two decades separated our ages. We shared and chuckled and wondered...I'll never forget our little chats. I respected you and admired your devotion to your girls. Life delivers so many twists and curves. I can tell from the other entries that Heather was cherished and loved by many. I believe deeply that God loved her too. Be strong and remember the love! I praise God for her life and legacy.

Gail Santarelli

December 4, 2009

Cindy, family,
My heart aches for you. Sending love for peaceful healing.

Nancy Philpy

December 3, 2009

Dear Cindy,
I am so sorry for your loss. I was so shocked and sad to hear this. I feel so for you and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Tammy Richardson

December 3, 2009

Cindy,

We cannot even began to know how you are feeling right now, but just know that Heather was special and we believe she is safe in the arms of the Lord. We are praying for you and your family.

With Love,
Gary and Tammy Richardson,
friends of(Martial Arts World)

Tracey Jenkins

December 3, 2009

Cindy - It is hard to know what to say during such a time other than you are in my prayers and clearly the prayers of many. Your daughter is in safe arms, yet you and your family endure the loss. I do pray that you will find love and light during this difficult season of your life. The Lord is with you and understands your pain.

Steve Dubuque

December 3, 2009

We will keep Heather and her Family in our thoughts and prayers.

Martha Kurgans

December 2, 2009

Cindy,

My heart goes out to you and your family. I was terribly sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

December 2, 2009

Cindy,

I cannot conceive of the enormity of your loss--my heart goes out to you and your loved ones. I only hope the strength, love, and care of those surrounding you will support you through this grief process. Will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!
Love,
Laurie Rokutani

A+ Center of Excellence

December 2, 2009

"Heather, Full of smiles, Laughs and Love. Thank you for making a difference in the lives of the children at A+. You are a Friend, Leader, Blackbelt. We love you Heather" A+ Center of Excellence and Martial Arts Academy..

Amanda Wall

December 2, 2009

Heather and I were friends throughout school.. When I heard the news, I just couldn't believe it. I don't think it's still quite settled in yet.. To her family and Chris, I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers and thoughts go out to you.

Brent McCraw

December 2, 2009

Cindy,

Peace and comfort to you and your family. Prayers and love.

Mike Fragala

December 2, 2009

Cindy and Eddie,
I was deeply saddened to learn of the passing of your daughter, Heather. No words seem sufficient. Even though the Angels rejoice that Heather is home, it leaves a deep void on earth only His love may fill. I pray God may ease the burdon of suffering on you and your family.
Godspeed Heather.....

Mike and Lisa Fragala and Family

December 2, 2009

Cindy, Susan Pauley forwarded to me this sad news about your sweet girl, Heather. Your loss is heartbreaking to me. Just now I said a prayer for you and your family, that tender mercies of comfort be provided to you all through the friends and family who care so deeply for all of you as you grieve. Missy Rand Barker (Richmond/ Charlottesville, VA)

Tasha Inge

December 2, 2009

I remember Heather as a beautiful child full of spirit and cheer she gave smiles wherever she went I coached her in cheerleading and she was a dear friend of my sister Amber's. My sympathy is with your family in this devestating time of sorrow please try to cherish her wonderful spirit and know that she brightened so many days may you feel her love always & may peace love & blessed memories remain with you always~
Peace & Love Always~
Tasha Inge
Tabitha, Amber, Jessica Cindy & Larry Inge~ ya'll are in our thoughts & prayers

Martial Arts World

December 2, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Crystal Valle

December 2, 2009

Dear Heather,

I can not believe that you are gone, it is so unreal to me. I had no idea how to react when I saw your facebook and all the post that people had wrote. I know your family is having a hard time coping with you being gone, I just wanted you to know that you will be missed by so many. I just think about us in Mr. Blands class in SIXTH GRADE wow so long ago... you and I always got intouble for talking and goofing off. I know after middle school we grew apart but the memories will always live on with me. God has a plan for everyone and maybe he just wanted you home with him. I hope that God brings peace to your family and loved ones.

Peace & Love,
Crystal Valle

Mellie Randall

December 2, 2009

Cindy -- I am so sorry to hear of this terrible tragedy. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Gina Thorne

December 2, 2009

Cindy - I am so very sorry for your loss. I am shocked. My prayers go out to you and your family.

Jerri Shannon

December 2, 2009

Cindy you and your family are in my prayers today. I am so deeply sorry for our loss; I know that today Heather sits with our Lord. Peace.

Lynn Davy

December 2, 2009

Heather captured the hearts of many and she will be forever remembered. Heather made a difference just by being who she was. She shined an inner light and touched the lives of many both near and far. In memory and in celebration - of someone who made this world a brighter and better place. Our warmest thoughts and deepest sympathy.

Sam and Prentiss Francis

December 2, 2009

Cindy and Framily. sorry to hear of your loss. Heather was such a sweet girl. All of the Martial arts days with our families. If you need anything please let us know. Love you guys.

Sam and Prentiss Francis and Family.

Megan Johnson

December 1, 2009

Heather was such a beautiful soul. I have so many great memories with her and 'The Girls'. Over the last few years, Heather and I had drifted, but no length of time could ever erase the memories we have together. I can't believe she's really gone, it hurts to think she's no longer with us. But it eases the pain knowing she's up there in heaven, our new guardian angel, looking down on all of us. She'll always be missed, nothing could ever change that!

Blanton Family, you are in my prayers during this time, I can't even imagine the pain you are feeling, but we'll always have her smile in our hearts, and her joyous laugh in our thoughts <3

erich kuhlmey

December 1, 2009

Eddie Cindy Emily Chris My thoughts prayers and love are with you all gonna miss that sweet smile !

Elizabeth Fritts

December 1, 2009

Cindy and family. My heart is with each of you. I feel that Heather is on of "my girls" and she will be missed. Each of you will remain in my thoughts and prayers.

samantha manoley

December 1, 2009

eddie,cindy and emily,

you all have been like family for as long as i can remeber i cant believe heather is gone and i can't even imagine the hurt and feeling of loss you have i remember always being at your house and i will always remember heather's loveable personality and smile i will miss her greatly and i am here for you if you need anything

love,
samantha

Kathy Boykin

December 1, 2009

I am SO sorry to hear about the loss of Heather. She was a beautiful, sweet, funny, and wonderful young lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

The Boykin family

Regina Powell

December 1, 2009

Cindy, and Family
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Heather was a beautiful and kind young lady..I remember seeing her grow up in my Girls Scout troop. Heather will be missed by all who knew her and loved her.

Jo Ann & Allen Wells

December 1, 2009

Heather and Chris live next door to us. We spent many a summer afternoon cooking out or just visiting. We enjoyed seeing their faces when Heather and Chris would talk about their next home improvement project or seeing Heather's eyes sparkle and the pride she showed when she completed a project by herself that turned out better than she expected. If given the opportunity to get to know Heather and Chris, you couldn't help but love them. We considered ourselves blessed to have them as neighbors and friends We are truly saddened by the Blanton Family and Chris's loss. We will always carry fond memories of the times we enjoyed together. Everyone is in our thoughts and prayers.

Brittany Stone

December 1, 2009

I got a call from and friend that told me Heather was gone. I couldn't believe it. It still hasn't fully hit me. I offer my condolences to the Blanton family. Just smile at the good times you spent with Heather and remember she is always with you.

Carmen & Dean Baker

December 1, 2009

My condolences to the Blanton family. Heather went with our family on a cruise to Mexico right after High School graduation. She was such a joy to be with and we're very fortunate to have gotten to know her. Her funny storytelling and upbeat personality will be forever remembered.

December 1, 2009

This is definitely the most beautiful obituary I have ever read(if there is such a thing). I am a complete stranger, but my heart is hurting for all her family. I have grandchildren, great-grandchildren and I don't know how I would cope if this happened to one of them. May God keep you in his care. Nancy Blalock, Blackstone, VA

December 1, 2009

To the Blanton and Frohman Family:
We knew Heather through the Frohman Family and she was a great girl! A pleasure to talk to. We can't even imagine the pain you are going through but know that she is in a better place where no more harm can come to her and that she will always be looking over you all and she will surely be missed! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all!

Pete and Angie Satterwhite

Brooke Herndon

December 1, 2009

Blanton Family,
I'm so sorry about Heather, she was always fun to hang around and she will be missed by so many.

Chris,
I'm feel for you so much, I can't imagine what your going through right now, I know how much you cared and loved her. But I know that you will carry her with you everywhere you go. I'm always here for you if you need me, no matter what.

Love, Brooke

Nicol Dawson

December 1, 2009

Eddie, Cindy, Emily & Family,

I am truely sorry for the loss of Heather. I remember growing up with her. She was such a kind person. We will truely miss her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.

Love, Nicol & Paul Dawson

Brittany Newman

December 1, 2009

All the amazing memories I had with Heather with always be with me. It hurts to know she is gone, but she is in a better place. She was a great friend. I miss you and love you Heather! See you soon!

KC

December 1, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the Blanton Family.

Amanda Parrish

December 1, 2009

Blanton Family,
I am truly sorry to hear about Heather. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Amanda Parrish (Worrell)

December 1, 2009

I didn't know Heather but I myself have a daughter, I can not even begin to take something like that in happening. I am so sorry for your loss and pain. Take in and keep in your heart all the wonderful memories that you have had with her. May God bless you and your family.

Brandy Manoley

December 1, 2009

Cindy,Eddie,Emily,

My thoughts and prayers are with you all I could not belive it when i heard it i will miss her so much. Many good memories i had with her and youll babysitting, swimming, and always being over youll's house when youll lived around the corner i am always here if youll need anything just let me know.

love,
Brandy

December 1, 2009

Cindy, Eddie and Emily,

Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. We are so sorry for your loss. May it give you peace to know that Heather is with her Heavenly Father and her eternal life is beginning now and she will be waiting for you there.

-The Spencer Family
"Little Cindy"

Daphne Norfleet

December 1, 2009

I lost a 13 year old son in a car accident 14 years ago. I feel your pain and pray for God's love to be with you in every way possible.
My deepest sympathies to your entire family.

Marina Manoley

November 30, 2009

Cindy, Eddie, and Emily,

I am so sorry to hear about Heather. She will be missed by all of us. It seems like just yesterday I was babysitting her and Emily. Thoughs memories will never leave us.

If you need anything let me know.

Love,
Marina

Roy & Karola Manoley

November 30, 2009

Eddie, Cindy, and Emily,

Our heartfelt sorrow is with you at this time. Heather was an extended part of our family and we will miss her as will you. If there is anything we can do for you please do not hesitate to let us know. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Abbey East

November 30, 2009

Emily and Family,
I am so sorry about the loss of Heather. Emily- I am here for you, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. If you need anything Emily don't hesitate to call or text me.
Abbey East

Kim Moore

November 30, 2009

Cindy and family,
I was very saddened to hear of your daughters death.
My brother Trey was 19 when we lost him several years ago.
I cannot begin to imagine a parents loss, only as a sibling.
much love,
Kim Woodruff Moore

M Carrington

November 30, 2009

Eddie and Cindy, my prayers are with you. Words can not express how we feel with the sudden death of a loved one. Only actions from friends and family will let you know that you are not alone during this time. Heather will be greatly missed on this earth. Just a small comfort to let you know, she is ALWAYS watching over you.

November 30, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Myra, MARCC/VA & Millwright LU 1402.

Josie Ahlin

November 30, 2009

Eddie, Cindy & Emily: My sincerest sympathy to all of you and to Lora, Rusty and Ed. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Josie (Georgie's sister)

roy desper

November 30, 2009

"Cindy, Eddie, and Emily im so sorry to hear the bad news. I feel so bad because i seen her in the mall, and only talked to her for a few minutes when i should have talked to her for a while because i haven't seen her in a long time. Yall are in my prayers stay srong and keep your head up.(ROY DESPER)

Aimee Sanzone

November 30, 2009

Eddie Cindy and Emily i am so sorry to hear about Heather. I have known her over 6 years. She was a smart and beautiful person. With a beautiful spirit. She will be greatly missed.


Aimee Sanzone and Family

Cindy King

November 30, 2009

Cindy and Family

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Stacy Hankins

November 30, 2009

Eddie, Cindy & Emily-My heart is breaking over your loss. No words can be spoken that will ease the pain right now, only time can do that. My family will pray that God's promise of seeing our loved again will bring comfort to you. I did not know Heather personally, but I do know your dear sweet Emily, and since they were raised by the same two wonderful people I know that she is was just as dear and sweet as her sister. Emily, I know this is going to especially hard on you. I lost my sister too and there is not a day that goes by that I don't think about her. I miss her very much. If you need anyone to talk to or just to cry you can call me. She will be missed but never forgotten!
Eddie, Stacy & Girls Hankins

November 30, 2009

For the Blanton Family:

I am truly sorry for your loss. I know Heather will be missed. I worked with Heather, even though it was for a short time, she was a very sweet person. You and your family are in my prayers.

Patti Wickersham

November 30, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts are with you her family and all who knew her.

November 30, 2009

Emily and Family,

I am so sorry to hear about Heather. Em-stay strong for your family because you have that special quality. You all are in my prayers. Let me know if I can be of any help. May God be with you.

Robyn Goff
Manchester High School Success Program

Sandy Gittman

November 29, 2009

Cindy, Eddie and Emily - My Prayers go out to you and the rest of the family. I know Heather will be missed - I thought she was so special - the way she helped me in my time of need with my 3 grandchildren, Christian, Summer and Amber-Mae. She is truly special.

Brittany Pearson

November 29, 2009

To the Blanton family and friends,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Heather and i were high school friends. I'll never forget she was the 1st new friend i made on the 1st day of chemistry class in 11th grade. We laughed and joked and told each other just about everything. It feels good to reminisce about her but also saddens me all at once. . .she will be missed.

November 29, 2009

God bless your family

B D

November 29, 2009

Words cannot express how sad I feel about Heather leaving us. I did not know her very well, but I know she was so very kind and beautiful. I know her family and friends will miss her greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with them.

Dixie House

November 29, 2009

Blanton Family,

I am deeply sorry for your loss. Heather was a great friend from Elementary School, a neighborhood friend as well. I will miss her! Stay strong! Your in my prayers.

Love,

Dixie House
Hening Elementary

Johnetta & Keith Taylor

November 29, 2009

Cindy and Family, Our hearts go out to you during this time of sorrow. Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel. Heather brought so much joy to our lives throughout the years during the time she spent at our home with Keisha. We will cherish all of the wonderful memories. Heather’s joyous spirit will always live in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

November 29, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Susan Craver

November 29, 2009

Cindy and Eddie,
I just found out about Heather. I am shocked and saddened!!! I still remember her as a little baby. I know there is nothing I can say to ease your pain at this time, but know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and if you need anything, I am a phone call away. Hold your memories of her close to your hearts as I know you will.

Robin Hancock & Family

November 29, 2009

Giddyup Heather, you will forever ride on in our hearts, memories and prayers. You are loved greatly. I know they have a horse saddled up and ready to ride just for you. R.I.P. BEAUTIFUL GIRL! Our thoughts and prayers with the family. We are here if you need anything. I love you all!

November 29, 2009

Emily & Family,

I am so sorry for this tragic loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Emily, I'm here for you.

Kristin Breslin, Manchester High School SUCCESS Program

E Hollandsworth

November 29, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

November 29, 2009

We are so sorry this has happened. Heather was a wonderful, sweet girl. There is no greater love on this earth than a love for your child. Our love and prayers are with your family. May God Bless and he will be at your side. Our love, Pee Wee and Yvonne

Fred Ryan

November 29, 2009

Eddie and Family, we sure are sorry to hear about your great loss of Heather, our thoughts and Prayers are with you and the Family. If there is anything we can do, don't hesitate to call.

Phyllis & Freddie

November 29, 2009

i will miss all the great times we had together, but ill see you later in my life, miss you and love you

Jessica Thomas

james castle

November 29, 2009

My memories of this very beautiful sweet young lady coming to work each morning with always smiles and happiness. Heather always love to talk about each morning the great positive things that happen in her life and so excited to tell them with smiles. All she ever wanted in life was a great big four-wheel truck to drive that was one of her dreams and goals. Any task I needed she was there to make shure it got done and go out of her way to do things to be so helpful to me. I could always count on her , that was heather always going out her way,always smiles and always happiness. Too heather parents thank-you for making heather the best and very special young lady who I going miss very much. Heather parents,little sister, and chis she loved you guys so much and my heart goes out to you guys missing heather. Bert castle

November 29, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this time of sorrow.

Claiborn & Mary Lois Jessup

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