James Headley

James Headley

James Headley Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Dec. 5, 2009.
HEADLEY, James J., 80, of Mechanicsville, Va., passed away on November 3, 2009. He was preceded in death by his son, James Jeffrey Headley. Also preceding him were his parents, Oscar and Etta Headley; brothers, Alfred, Louis, Robert and Earl Headley; and sisters, Helen, Alice and Joyce Headley, and Lena VanLandingham. He is survived by his wife, Madlynn W. Headley; his daughter and son-in-law, Lisa and Douglas Koch; daughter-in-law, Sherry M. Headley; brother, Edward Headley and wife, Hazel; and sisters, Marie Cooke, Millissie June Headley, Nellie Mae Jewell and Mary Williams; as well as many beloved nieces and nephews, cherished in-laws and treasured friends. Jimmy was retired from the Federal Reserve Bank of Richmond, Va. He served in the U.S. Army and was a Korean War Veteran and a member of VFW Post 9808. A memorial service will be held on December 12, 2009 at 1 p.m. at Bennett Funeral Home in Mechanicsville, Va. Inurnment will follow at Signal Hill Memorial Park in Hanover, Va. The family will receive visitors following the inurnment on the Veranda at Hanover Tavern, 13181 Hanover Courthouse Rd., Hanover, Va. In lieu of flowers, donations in Jimmy's name may be made to VFW Post 9808, 7168 Flag Ln., Mechanicsville, Va. 23111, or H&N Clancy Assisted Living Home, LLC, 4617 W. Moon Blossum Ln., Phoenix, Ariz. 85083.


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Betty Fahed

December 11, 2009

Lisa, my heart goes out to you and your mother. I know the recent years have been very hard for you, and I know that you'll never regret moving your mother and dad out closer to you. Your dad was such a fine man, and I always had so much respect for him at the Bank. I always called him Mr. Headley because he naturally commanded respect. My thoughts and prayers are very much with you and your family during this sad time.

December 9, 2009

Madlynn & Lisa,
Fran had called Tyler to tell him about Jim. Words cannot express how sorry we were to learn of his passing. He was truly a wonderful man and I'll always remember his warm smile. We've missed y'all so much. Too many years have gone by but the fond memories remain.
With much love,
Beth & George

Jan Ashby

December 8, 2009

Dearest Madlynn,
Oh what a wonderful man--he will be missed in so many ways. I share in your sadness and rejoice in having had the privilege of knowing him. I can see his beautiful smile and will cherish his memory. May God comfort you and Lisa as you celebrate Jimmy's life. Fondly, Jan Ashby (Light)

Judy Pulley

December 7, 2009

Dear Mrs.Headley and Lisa,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Mr.Headley was my supervisor and friend. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all.

Susan Hamlin

December 5, 2009

Madlynn & Lisa -

Jamie & Shawn remember all the good times growing up with Jimmy & Ma Ma.
You were like their grandparents. We will all miss him and all the good memories. Love, Susan, Gary, Jamie & Shawn

Lydia Driggers

December 5, 2009

Dear Madlynn
I was so sorry to read about your husband. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. We worked together at Verizon and do miss not seeing you.
take care!
Lydia (McGuinn) Driggers

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