Ruth Elam

Ruth Elam

Ruth Elam Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Jun. 14, 2010.
ELAM, Ruth Kirk, age 83, of Chesterfield, Va., passed away on Sunday, June 13, 2010. Mrs. Elam was preceded in death by her husband, Dorsie C. Elam. She was a charter member of the South Hopewell Church of God, and was retired from the IRS. Mrs. Elam also worked at Infilco Degremont in accounts payable for many years and later in life at the Ukrop's in Colonial Heights. She loved to bake and cook, was an excellent gardener, and loved canning vegetables. Mrs. Elam is survived by her children, Marvin D. Elam, Onita E. Daniel and husband, Randy, Karen D. Phares and husband, Richard Papcun, and Kirk W. Elam; her grandchildren, Jason Shelton, David R. Phares III, Lindsay Elam, Drew C. Elam, and Meredyth Daniel; and a number of brothers and sisters. The family will receive friends at the Chester chapel of J.T. Morriss & Son Funeral Home on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 from 6 to 8 p.m. A funeral service will take place on Wednesday, June 16 at 11 a.m. in the South Hopewell Church of God, Hopewell, Va. Interment will follow in Bermuda Memorial Park, Chester, Va. Flowers are welcome, or memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer's Association Greater Richmond Chapter, 4600 Cox Rd., Suite 130, Glen Allen, Va. 23060. Condolences to the family may be registered at www.jtmorriss.com.



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June 15, 2010

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Gail Rice

June 15, 2010

Knowing your heartfelt loss at a time like this may seem overwhelming but you have many friends praying for you as you go forward. There are never words for a time like this but know that we care. Love, Gail & Curtis Rice

Fran Loftis

June 15, 2010

Marvin,

I am so sorry that you are suffering the loss of your mom. This will leave a void in your life like none other. Just focus on all the good times that you shared with her; all the laughter and joy that she brought to your family. She was a good wife to your dad and a great mother to you guys. Always keep those good memories alive by sharing them with others.

Love you,

Fran (Eubanks) Loftis

Elia Mills

June 14, 2010

Onita and family
I am so saddened to hear of Ms.Elam's passing.She was a beautiful soul and it was my honor to care for her.You our in my thoughts and prayers.
Ellie
Lucy Corr Village

June 14, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.....Marvin, please let us know if there is anything we can do.....Bernard and Mary Coalson

June 14, 2010

I am so saddened to learn that your Mom passed away yesterday. She was a wonderful person who shared her kindness when I first joined IDI and many of us fondly remember her baked treats she often shared with us. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family. Norman Wilkerson

Charlene King

June 14, 2010

Marvin, Kirk,Oneida and Karen,
I am really sorry to hear about your Mom. I was thinking about you all the other day and the time we had when we were young and our parents was just starting South Hopewell Church of God. Mom, (Kathleen Storey) really thought a lot of Sister Elam. I am living in Georgia now with my Aunt but if there is anything I can do, please let me know. My prayers are with you. Just think her and Mom are probably in heaven talking about us.
Charlene Storey King
Waycross, GA

Bob Babcock

June 14, 2010

Dear Kirk,
I am sorry to hear about your Mom's passing. I cannot imagine the pain of losing your Mother. May the love of those around you help you and your entire family through the days ahead.
Bob Babcock

June 14, 2010

Kirk, So sorry to hear about your mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If there is anything I can do, even just be a good listener, please let me know. I know how hard all this is for you. Terri Harris Frankenstein

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