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Vicki Sanders
February 17, 2025
He was a significant presence in my life as a journalism fellow at U of Michigan.
Robert Holt
March 2, 2010
Graham and Mary Jean served as advisers to to a SPAN group of students from Minnesota to Italy in the Summer of 1949. That three months was one of the most formative periods of my life. Graham was project adviser, a guide to Rome and some other parts of Italy,an expert on the opera when we attended performance at the Caracalla Baths, a careful critic of our reports.
Mary Jean and Graham put on a 21st birthday party for me at the Restaurante Due Torre At which Winston Burdett from CBS news was a guest.
At the end of the summer we began to realize we were citizens of the world.
Graham was a great man. His intelligence was monumental; his integrity as solid as granite. I believe I am a better person because of Graham. He will live in my memory as long as I live.
George Rede
March 2, 2010
Along with Mary Jean, Graham made my wife and I and our two little ones feel as though we were the only people in the fellowship program who mattered. True, we came farther and arrived sooner than anyone in my class, but Graham was so kind in inviting us to their townhouse and always taking an interest in our kids (he dubbed our son "Chief Sock-in-the-Wash").
Graham loved the opera and a fine glass of red wine. He had a soldier's posture, an expansive vocabulary and an amazing ability to recall names, dates, places, people and other details when discussing history or current events. He practiced good manners and frowned at profanity. I will always picture him in a navy blue blazer, with gray slacks, a white shirt and perfectly knotted tie. He was kind and sophisticated, always interested in knowing how you were doing and, true to the stereotype, something of an absent-minded professor.
To me, he epitomized "gracious." I'm a better person for having known him.
Susan Ager
February 28, 2010
Where I am today -- in my life, my marriage and my work -- I owe in part to the faith Graham had in me when I was but 26 and awarded a fellowship under his tutelage. He and Mary Jean are also role models for long-term commitment. I was blessed to know them.
Carole Halicki
February 26, 2010
It was my good fortune to have been one of the first NEH fellows under Graham's most capable leadership. He was a remarkable person and I will never forget him. May God bless his soul, and give Mary Jean and all his family comfort. The world is indeed a lesser place today without Graham.
Carole Halicki
341 Country Club Drive
Pekin, IL 61554
Vicki Sanders
February 26, 2010
Graham was a one-in-a-million man and he was a valued mentor as head of the Michigan Fellowship Program. I'll never forget him and I will treasure the lessons and laughter he brought to my life.
Holly Naugle Eaton
February 25, 2010
My deepest sympathies to all of you. I pray all of your wonderful memories will help you through this tough time.
Tom and Kathy Hundley
February 24, 2010
Our heartfelt condolences to Mary Jean and Tom. Graham was an inspiration to generations of journalists. He was a mentor and friend, and he will be missed.
Carolyn Clarke
February 23, 2010
Community Music School staff and faculty extend our sincere condolences.
Jim & Peggy Hiza & Family
February 23, 2010
Our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Jim & Peggy Hiza & Family (Hazleton, Pa)
Anne and Tom Rogers
February 23, 2010
Grahm's passing has left a void that cannot be filled. We only can remember. And we will. We are honored to have known him. Our thoughts are with you, Mary Jean and Tom.
Anne and Tom Rogers
Ann Arbor, Michigan
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