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Patricia Derenzo Obituary

Derenzo, Patricia TROY - Patricia A. King Derenzo, 75, died Thursday, August 20, 2015. Survived by husband, Peter; daughters, Jacqueline, Ann, Nicolle, and eight grandchildren. Calling, Sunday, from 3 to 6 p.m. at McLoughlin & Mason Funeral Home. Funeral services, 8:45 a.m. on Monday, August 24, from the funeral home. Mass of Christian Burial, 9:30 a.m. at Our Lady of Victory Church. Burial, St. Mary Cemetery, Troy. mcloughlinmason.com

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Published by Albany Times Union on Aug. 22, 2015.

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JOAN MURPHY

August 27, 2015

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

paul schneider

August 24, 2015

We are do sorry for your loss jackie. Thoughts and prayers

Eileen Hemming

August 24, 2015

Jackie So sorry to hear of the loss of your Mother. My prayers are with you and your family.

Chuck Eaton

August 24, 2015

Nicky - I'm terribly sorry to hear about your loss. I hope that your family and the memories you share will offer you comfort at this time.

August 23, 2015

Peter and family:

Janice and I are away. We were informed of Pat's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls. We will see you on our return, at the end of this week. We are truly sadden by the circumstances, and the fact that we are not able to be there, at this time.

Tom and Janice

Lisa Balistreri

August 23, 2015

We are so truly sorry for your loss! May all the cherished wonderful memories that you have shared over the years bring you the comfort you need during this difficult time! Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you!

Much love,

The Balistreri Family

donna Mulligan

August 22, 2015

Dear Nicky & family, we were so sorry to hear of your moms passing. We send our deepest Sympathy to you and your family. With deepest sympathy, Fondly, Donna & Jack Mulligan

Linda and Joe Motzer

August 22, 2015

I loved Pat from the first time I met her. We had good memories together. One of my favorites was when we were looking for Mother of the Bride gowns. Her daughters were really picking out old fashioned dresses for her. I said lets not pay any attention to them and pick out something that you like. And I must say she was the most beautiful Mother of the Bride that day. We will miss her. Our love to Pete, Jackie, Anne and Nicki.

August 22, 2015

Pete, Both Joe and I are sadden to see Patricia passed away. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Joe & Cindy Martin

Joanne Vadney

August 22, 2015

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We will miss our neighbor. May Pat rest in peace; God bless her and her family.
The Vadney Family

Barbara (Bonesteel) Balascio

August 22, 2015

To Pat's Family - I went to THS with Pat. We had great times in high school and I am pleased to call her a high school friend and a very nice person. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. It is always sad to lose a MOM!

Lee Bowen

August 22, 2015

My sincere condolences to the Derenzo family. I am sorry for your loss, Peter, old friend. I have very good memories of you and Pat.

Colleen Murphy

August 22, 2015

Peter and Family I am truly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.

Roberta Jones

August 21, 2015

I am so very sorry for your loss ~ Sending thoughts & prayers to her family and loved ones

August 21, 2015

Ann, may God Bless and hold you all close at this most difficult time ! I am so sorry for your loss of your Mom. Sending hugs and prayers. Deb and Chris Finn and Family (Tori,Pat and Dan)

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