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Tim OToole
January 19, 2021
One of my earliest memories of Dave was at Fordham (my freshman year). He, Roman Laba and I had rooms in a walk-up apartment in the Bronx - overseen by an old Irish couple. On Sundays the three of us would get a pound of cold cut roast beef, a loaf of bread, and a small jar of mayonnaise, and "picnic" in our rooms. The very next semester we got our own walk-up apartment (top floor) and were quite responsible in our independence. The walk up Fordham Hill and that walk-up apartment gave us very strong leg muscles.
Theresa and Lloyd Camp
May 7, 2017
Dear Pat and Family,We moved to Florida two years ago and on May 6, 2017 we learned of your loss. We are so sorry and we send our condolences. We can remember all those Little League seasons with Dave's great smile whether we lost or won.Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you and your family.
Howard Whitaker
January 29, 2017
The Coffey Family,
We deeply regret that we were unable to be at the service for Dave. However please know that our thought's and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time. We haven't seen the Coffey family in quite some time however, we will never forget the great time we had when we took our son Michael up to the Coffey's home to catch a ride out to Notre Dame with Mike. Although that seems like yesterday it was many years ago and what a wonderful impression your beautiful family, left upon us during that visit. Dave will be greatly missed however, our memories of him will last forever. May God Bless Him.
Howie and Margie Whitaker
Diane & Buddy Ferrara
January 27, 2017
Pat, Michael, Michelle, Brian and Beth
We can't begin to express our feelings for your loss . Pat we have known you and Dave since Joey and Brian were five years old . We will always remember the kind, loving, fun man Dave was, always with a smile on his face. Because of the flu bug going around our family we are so sorry none of us were able to attend the wake . Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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Tim OToole
January 27, 2017
Dave, Roman Laba and I roomed together off-campus for two years during our Fordham undergraduate days. Our fifth-floor walk-up with dirt cheap rent (sublet from an Irish waitress) was a haven for us back then. Dave's cheerful spirit was tangible, and I can only imagine the severity of your loss. All of us who knew Dave at one time or another should hold fast to our memories of him. My sympathies to all of you.
January 26, 2017
Coffey family,
I'm sorry for your loss! Oh my, I cant believe it. He was the nicest man along with your whole family. I will miss him truly. Many regrets, keep your heads up he loved you all so much!
LOVE ALWAYS,
Darcy Herman
ralph and carol schimmel
January 26, 2017
Our deepest sympathies to the Coffey family. We pray for your comfort and support during this difficult period.We are unable to be there, however we sent a donation in Davids name to the Capital City rescue mission. We continue to pray for the Coffey family. May God bless you.
Amy Smith Roberts
January 26, 2017
Mrs. Coffey, Mike, Michele, Brian and Beth,
I have such fond memories of Mr. Coffey. He was always smiling, always happy, always kind and very patient - he put up with a lot of mischief from us in highschool. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Suzanne Donnelly
January 26, 2017
Brian, Maria & Family -
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Brian's dad. Our heartfelt condolences are with you and your family.
Kevin, Sue & Madeline Donnelly
Eileen & Bill Ranken
January 26, 2017
Pat and family, Bill and I are so shocked to hear of Dave's passing. Just getting to see you both again over the last couple months was much joy. He was one of the nicest people we know. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sara McDonnell
January 26, 2017
Beth,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have such found memories of your father from the AHN basketball days. He always knew how to make us all laugh and smile.
My prayers are with you and your family.
James Reed
January 26, 2017
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Tamie Carpentier
January 26, 2017
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I worked for Dave at Social Services. He was a great man. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Carol Schulze
January 26, 2017
So sorry for your loss. MY Prayers are with you all.
Garry and Lucretia Finkell
January 25, 2017
Pat and Your Family, We are so sorry. Dave and I went to Fordham together. We took several memorable trips in his car to and from Fordham at holiday times. I was so happy that we could continue our friendship by working together at the Dept. of Social Services. He was a wonderful guy, and I know how much his family meant to him. He talked about all of you constantly and in glowing terms. You are in our prayers during this sad time.
Sharon Green
January 25, 2017
Pat and family, I was so saddened to hear of Dave's passing. I have fond memories of all the fun times we had in our younger years. God bless you all and keep you in his loving care in the days and years to come. You will be in my thoughts and prayers in the days to come.
Linda Mullaney Roy
January 25, 2017
Thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you be surrounded by the Love of family and friends always.
Your cousin, Linda & Hubby Bob
Bob Van Dam
January 25, 2017
I went to Columbia was David and he was one of my classmates that I considered my friend. So very sorry for your loss
Nancy & Doug Kelley
January 25, 2017
Pat, Michael, Michele, Brian, Beth:
We were so saddened to hear of Dave's passing. We have many fond memories of Dave and your whole family when our kids were growing up together. Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Sandy Carmichael
January 25, 2017
Both Sonny and I will miss Dave at Bocce and lunch. What great memories. Sending our love and prayers.
January 25, 2017
Pat and Family
You may not remember me but my son Jim played youth hockey with Brian many years ago. More recently I enjoyed playing golf with Dave here in Florida and in the summer in the CARGO golf league. I extend my most sincere condolences to you. I always e enjoyed playing with Dave as he was always a very happy partner. Smiling even after an occasional bad hit.
The Tuesday group here in Florida all spoke highly of him.We also will miss him.
Jim Mackey
Kathy Mather
January 25, 2017
To Patricia and all of David's Family,
I am truly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all. I am truly saddened. People come into your life in different ways. I met Pat and David through Kay's Pizza and the Towne Tavern. I liked you both from the first time I waited on you!!! Truly one of my favorite couples. May god be with you all.
Sue Wood Gartley
January 25, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss. May your memories comfort you during this sad time. Dave was such a nice person. Sue Wood Gartley - Class of 1962 - Columbia High
Kerry Furlong
January 25, 2017
Pat, Michael and the entire Coffey family, I am saddened to hear of Dave's passing. I always enjoyed my conversations with him surrounding sports and in particular Notre Dame. Please know that you all will be in my thoughts and prayers.
January 25, 2017
Dear Pat & Family,
What a shock to read about Dave's passing. So many wonderful memories of our years together at ice rinks all over.We still talk about those wonderful times! Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.Much love
Gina
The Finley Family
January 25, 2017
We are so very sorry for your loss. We will miss seeing him at Dynamo hockey games. He was an avid cheerleader for Liam and the team!
Robb & shivaun Stauber
January 25, 2017
Pat and the Coffey family, We truly enjoyed knowing David, and especially enjoyed listening to him share his excitement and love for his grandchildren. We could always feel the great passion David had for his family. You are all in our prayers and thoughts during this difficult time. God Bless
Rose Perrotto
January 25, 2017
Pat and Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Dave was a kind man who always had a smile on his face. He will be missed by all who knew him. My prayers are with you all.
January 25, 2017
We are so sorry for your loss. May you find a measure of comfort in the "God of all comfort". 2 cor.1:3 Respectfully.
Ann McCullough
January 25, 2017
Pat and family, may you somehow find peace at this time of great loss. Cherish The memories you hold in your heart. Ann
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