Connelly, O. Joyce TROY O. "Boo Boo" Joyce Frerer Connelly, 77, entered into eternal rest on January 26, 2013 at Community Hospice in St. Mary's Hospital with her family by her side after a brief illness. Born in Troy on October 24, 1935, she was the daughter of the late Lloyd A. Frerer and Olive Cramer Frerer and loving wife of the late Edward J. "Fast Eddie" Connelly, who died in 2004 and the most loving and devoted mother to Coleen Connelly Mantello of Troy and the late Gary "Murph" Murphy. A lifelong resident of Lansingburgh, she attended Troy Schools. She was a medical specialist in the United States Army who cared for the wounded, stationed in Frankfort, Germany during the Korean War. She was so very proud and honered to give them her loving care, as she did to all who knew her throughout her life. Joyce was a true caregiver in every sense of the word. She worked in collections at the New York State Department of Education for 20 years. Joyce enjoyed her weekly breakfasts and trips around town with her beloved friend Louise "Weezie" Trinchillo and her monthly lunches with the girls and her "favorite bartender" Bill at Verdiles in Troy. What fun they had. She loved to reminisce about the trip to Hawaii she took with her beloved husband Eddie for their 25th wedding anniversary and forever friends Carol and Bob Harrington. Joyce was blessed with many family and wonderful friends that meant so much to her. Her giving and loving ways knew no end, she will be so very missed by all who were so lucky to be touched by her love and kindness. Survivors in addition to her daughter Coleen; include her most cherished grandchildren, Jordan Anthony and Samantha Claire Mantello; her favorite son- in-law Craig A. Mantello, all of Troy; her much loved grandnephew Devon Osterhout; her loving and devoted nieces, Aloma Osterhout and Carol A. Connelly who have been there every step of the way. She was also survived by several nieces and a nephew and of course so many beloved friends and her beloved Boo Boo Kitty. Joyce was predeceased by her only brother, Lloyd A. Frerer Jr. Funeral services will be Tuesday, January 29, 2013 at 7 p.m. at the McLoughlin & Mason Funeral Home, corner of 109th Street and Third Avenue, Lansingburgh, with Rev. Rick Otto, officiating.Calling hours will be 4 to 7 p.m. on Tuesday, prior to the service, at the funeral home. Cremation will take place at Gardner Earl Crematorium, Troy. Burial will take place at Saratoga National Cemetery, Schuylerville. In lieu of flowers, donations in Joyce's memory made be made to Best Friends, 5001 Angel Canyon Road, Kanab, UT 84741. www.bestfriends.org To light a candle and offer words of condolence visit mcloughlinmason.com
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COLLEEN, I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF THE PASSING OF YOUR MOM. I JUST FOUND OUT TODAY (WEDNESDAY)FROM ALOMA OF HER PASSING. JOYCE WAS A GREAT LADY AND WILL BE MISSED A LOT. IF I HAD KNOW SOONER I WOULD HAVE GONE TO THE WAKE LAST NIGHT.
JOAN FROM WATERSIDE SR. APTS.
JOAN MURPHY
January 30, 2013
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
JOAN MURPHY
January 30, 2013
I worked with Joyce at HESC she was a lovely caring person my thoughts and prayers are with her family.
Jean Mills
January 29, 2013
Dear Collen, Craig, Jordan and Samantha
You have my deepest condolences on the loss of such a wonderful woman.
I enjoyed talking with her and way back when - actually get to see her in person, when she would come out to a venue where I was working and Murph would want to come out for karaoke and she and Louise would be there to hear him sing and just enjoy the evening while chatting with many of their friends.
I just had a nice chat with her the day after Christmas - I always called her during the Holidays after I would get her Christmas card. Never at a loss for words and always so sweet.
I will miss her and there is no doubt she will be missed by so many. She was a bright light and will try to follow her lead and try to always be happy and keep a positive attitude regardless of how things really are!
My heart goes out to all of you - God
Bless her and God Bless you.
Take care - with Love
Marie Slagen
January 29, 2013
Coleen God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jim Geddis
January 28, 2013
To the Connelly family,
My deepest sympathies on the loss of Joyce. I looked forward to those monthly lunches as well. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.
Bill Nash
January 28, 2013
Colleen & Sam, We are so sorry for your loss. We are hear to lend and ear or for a shoulder to cry on. May peace be with you and your family.
wendy & sarah adams
January 28, 2013
I enjoyed working with Joyce, and the special times we had with many laughs. She was very supportive to "Making Strides" and the Breast Cancer walk every year. "The Friends' Team" appreciated her support. Bless her always!
Sandy Carmichael
January 28, 2013
Coleen, Craig, Jordan and Samantha
Our hearts go out to all. Boo Boo will be missed but her memory will always be in out Hearts..Love you xo
Terri, Christian and Robert
January 28, 2013
Dear Colleen and family please accept our condolences. I worked for 20 years with your mom and seven in the same unit. She loved her family. Now the evening sky has another bright star in the heavens.
Jerry Sanders
January 28, 2013
Colleen and Family
Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family at this most difficult time.
Donna and Manny Ned
January 28, 2013
Collen..So very sorry on the loss of your Mom ..what a sweet woman she was....My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow...
Ruthie Teta
January 28, 2013
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