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PATRICIA PUGH Obituary

PUGH Patricia Pat Mary Winney Pugh died January 21, 2013, and has rejoined her husband, Roger, in Heaven. She was born March 18, 1919, in Oakland, CA, to Delbert Clyde Winney and Bertha Margar Cronin, whose parents were first generation Americans from Ireland. Pat lived in East Helena, MT, and Tacoma, WA, but spent her formative years in Wauna, WA, where she helped her father build the family home. Pat attended Washington State College and graduated from the University of Washington, majoring in music. She was selected for Mu Phi Epsilon, national women's music honorary. Music would resonate throughout her life, including being an accomplished pianist, junior high music teacher, and teacher superb to her grandchildren! In the 60s and 70s, she was very active in Sweet Adelines and was musical director of Sing Out Jacksonville, affiliated with Up With People. In later years she played the organ at Our Lady Star of the Sea Catholic Church in Ponte Vedra Beach and frequently sang with choral groups throughout Europe. Music also had links to how some of her children met their future spouses. As a result of her musical involvement, some of her children met and married lifetime partners. During World War II, while teaching in Tacoma, she met the man who would become her husband of 49 years and the father of her six children. After the war, Pat and Roger lived in Durham, NC, while Roger earned his master's degree in hospital administration at Duke University. They lived in Bluefield, WV, for nine years before moving to Jacksonville. She loved dogs, especially Duchess, Monk, Cleo, Sandy, Otto, Moses, Aaron, Sam, Prince Charles, Sir William, and countless others. Pat is survived by the following: her children John (Peggy) of San Rafael, CA; David (Betsy) of Jacksonville, FL; Patricia (David) Reynolds of Callahan, FL; Kathleen Whitton (Kevin) of Rome, GA; Mary Steffes (Paul) of Duluth, GA; and Melanie Mueller (Doug) of San Antonio, TX. Pat was also blessed by grandchildren Kelly Miott (Bryan) of Signal Hill, CA; Kevin Pugh (Rachael) of Camarillo, CA; Jason Pugh (Marissa) of Los Angeles, CA; Brian Pugh (Lisa) of Jacksonville, FL; Melissa Reed (Rob) of Simpsonville, SC; John Reynolds (Traci) and Matthew Reynolds (Andrea) of Hilliard, FL; Melanie Tremaroli (Craig) of Fishers, IN; Megan Steffes and Greg Steffes of Duluth, GA. The blessings continued in recent years with the arrival of great-grandchildren Colin Reynolds, Garrett Reynolds, Taylor Tremaroli, Connor Tremaroli, Carson Tremaroli, Riley Reed, Jacob Reed, Reese Reed, Kennedy Pugh, Emmet Pugh, and Lauren Miott. Her sister, Kathleen Rockwell, of Seattle, WA, and 11 nieces and nephews also survive her. Pat lived life to the fullest. In 1950, she drove the first of many cross-country trips with children by herself, culminating with all eight Pugh's traveling in 1962 from Jacksonville to Seattle for the World's Fair. There were also first cross-country train trips and first-time airplane trips. She was still playing tennis well into her 70's. At nearly 80 years young, she captained her ladies' tennis team. She instilled in her children the curiosity and adventure of travel by her example, going to Europe nine times. She loved her singing trips to some of Europe's finest cathedrals as well as the Bush 41 White House. Even into her 90s, with her failing eyesight, Pat could sit down at her beloved Steinway piano and play a well-tuned routine that included Mack the Knife. In lieu of flowers, please sent contributions to Community Hospice. Please Sign the Guestbook @ Jacksonville.com

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Published by Florida Times-Union on Jan. 23, 2013.

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A Flint

January 19, 2020

Patty Pugh was definitely one-of-a-kind! I miss her.

February 13, 2013

I will miss you mom, my best friend. Rest now in the arms of Jesus. I will always mourn my loss, but will be comforted in happy memories of the many great adventures we had together. Love you always.
Your daughter, Mary

February 1, 2013

We will miss you

Rich aka Deacon Rich Younkin

January 29, 2013

My prayers and sympathy. Mrs Pugh was the same age as my mother when she passed. I only met her a few times but
I see the fruits of her labor often. What a wonderful family. She is up
there watching over us and putting in
a good word with the Lord playing her
piano or organ. God Bless. Rich

Lisa Flint

January 26, 2013

What a beautiful celebration of Pat yesterday. She was such a dear (& unique!) neighbor and friend, and I was glad to be able to meet all her children, hear the wonderful tributes, and reminisce about the joy and special character that was Pat.

January 25, 2013

Mary and family, I am sorry for your loss. Your mom would have been happy with the way you said good bye. It was a beautiful service, I loved the humor. What great memories she left in her 93 plus years . Your brother did a wonderful job eulogizing your mother. With Prayers for your family, Mary Range Pattee

Mrs. James Christian Pfohl

January 25, 2013

Pat and I worked together in the public schools of Duval County. She was a superb teacher, excellent musician and a beautiful influence on everyone who worked with her.
Her legacy will live on for many years.

Carolyn Day Pfohl

January 25, 2013

Melanie and family,
Cherie and I express our deepest sympathies on your loss of a fascinating woman who, it sounds, lived her life to the fullest. She is adding beautiful music to the choirs of Heaven at this moment! May Jesus the Healer bring comfort and peace to you at this difficult time.
--Frank and Cherie Mueller

Mary Frances Winney Hendry

January 24, 2013

My sympathy to all the family.
Mary Frances Winney Hendry. I saw the Winney connection in the paper.

Kathleen Whitton

January 24, 2013

My Mom was a most extraordinary woman. As much as I did not like going to the Lodge, I thank my lucky stars that I did take her there for dinner on a Saturday night less than two weeks before the fatal fall. The photo here was taken on the patio of The Lodge where Patricia, Colin, and I had lunch with Mom. It was a beautiful day and it will remain a special memory. My Mother had so many fine qualities and the best of her came through during her final days on this earth. The staff loved her and she was very grateful for every kindness extended her. Dad has missed her and it was time to go home. Rest well, my friend and keep the light on.

Marylee Kott

January 24, 2013

Dear Melanie and all the family,
I was so blessed to have met your mom at Mel and Doug's wedding and then I remember so very fondly when she came to Houston with Sweet Adelines and the two of us had such a fun time together. I wish I had had other opportunities to know her better.
Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.

Diane Parker

January 24, 2013

What a great actress she was! I shared the stage with her in Miami in a Sweet Adelines' performance. Her comedic timing and character portrayal were amazing. A very talented lady who loved life and lived it with such zest. I'm glad our paths crossed.

January 23, 2013

My dear Pugh family. your mother and my sister Pat was such a wonderful person. she is now joined in heaven with Roger mom and dad. I am so sorry that I will be unable to attend the service as my Heath is quite poor. Please sing a song for us up here in Seattle as we will be thinking of you Friday. All my love Kathleen Rockwell

January 23, 2013

To my dear Pugh family, my sister and your mother was such a wonderful person. I am glad her pain is over and she is now reunited with Roger, mom and dad. I wish I could so be with you for the service but my Heath is quite poor. Hope you enjoy the flowers and please sing a song for all of us here in Seattle. My love Kathleen Rockwell

January 23, 2013

She sounded like a special lady. You that knew her where blessed!

Tracy Reed

January 23, 2013

My condolences to the Pugh children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. May music remind you of her memory everyday.

January 23, 2013

My entire family and i remember Pat with joy and love which is what she always gave to us. I remember Pat as my singing companion and someone who i shared many of my most enjoyable times with during the years we sang together. Whe was always there for me to encourage me and keep me going in my darkest hours. You were all so good to your mother, and I know that you have faith that she is now at peace, free of pain, and with her wonderful Roger, your dad. I send you all my most sincere love and sympathy Bonnie

January 23, 2013

A LIFE IS LIKE A SONG WE WRITE
IN OUR OWN TONE AND KEY,
EACH LIFE WE TOUCH REFLECTS A NOTE
THAT FORMS THE MELODY.

WE CHOOSE THE THEME AND CHORUS
OF THE SONG TO BEAR OUR NAME,
AND EACH WILL HAVE A SPECIAL SOUND,
NO TWO CAN BE THE SAME.

SO WHEN SOMEONE WE LOVE DEPARTS,
IN MEMORY WE FIND
THEIR SONG PLAYS ON WITHIN THE HEARTS
OF THOSE THEY LEAVE BEHIND.

Thinking of all of you at this most difficult time.

Pat Bennett
Keystone Heights

Joe and Glenda Hess

January 23, 2013

Joe and I met Pat many years ago at Our Lady Star of the Sea. She was a wonderful lady and we always enjoyed talking with her. She will be missed!

Cheryl Wenzel

January 23, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go with you and your family.

Carol Pierce Moor

January 23, 2013

She leaves an awesome legacy of influence. Fondest memories with Sing Out Jax. My sincere sympathy for the family. She will be truly missed.

January 23, 2013

The world has lost a great teacher. I had your Mother when I was in the 7th grade she taught me what music was all about. She was a very special lady. My prayers are with all her family at this time.

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