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Thomas Stringfellow Obituary

STRINGFELLOW Please Sign the Guestbook @ Jacksonville.com Thomas Gerald 'Jerry' Stringfellow, 51, passed away suddenly April 21, 2011. He was the son of Thomas Edgar and Margaret Welch Stringfellow and a native of Jacksonville. Jerry graduated from Wolfson High School , class of 1977 and Florida State University, class of 1983. Jerry was a longtime member of Southside United Methodist Church. He faithfully attended to the multimedia needs of his church. He was also a former member of Good Shepherd UMC, Swaim Memorial UMC and was a former youth director of Swaim. He was employed with Fidelity National for twenty eight years and was also a member of United Way. Jerry married his best friend, Cheryl Stern on February 21, 1981. Surviving are his loving wife and best friend, Cheryl, and three children, Heather (Chris) Lester, Elizabeth (Russell) Stringfellow and Thomas David Stingfellow; father, Thomas Edgar Stringfellow and stepmother, Joan Stringfellow; father-in-law and mother-in-law, Clifford and Ruth Stern; sister, Sherri (Fred) Berley, loving stepsisters, Pam, Karen and Linda (Charlie); grandchildren, Aeris and Atticus Lester; nephews, Frederick and Patrick Berley and many loving extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his mother, Margaret Stringfellow and niece, Christina Berley. Jerry was a one of a kind, special person whose unselfish and giving nature touched the lives of everyone he encountered. The empty spot in our lives will be impossible to fill. A Celebration of his life will be held on Friday, April 29, 2011, at 4:00 p.m. at Southside United Methodist Church, 3120 Hendricks Ave., Jacksonville, FL. In lieu of flowers, memorials in his name may be directed to: Jacksonville Cleft Lip/Palate Clinic, 820 Prudential Drive, Howard Bldg., Suite 405, Jacksonville, FL 32207, Phone: 904 633-0935 or American Diabetes Association, P.O. Box 11454, Alexandria, VA 22312. Arrangements by Hardage-Giddens Funeral Home, 4115 Hendricks Ave., Jacksonville, FL. Please visit Jerry's memorial webpage at www.mem.com .

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Published by Florida Times-Union from Apr. 24 to Apr. 25, 2011.

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May 9, 2011

I am Jerry's Niece Amanda (Stern) Beaulieu. Jerry truly was a magnificent person. I didn't get to spend much time with him in the past years, but I have wonderful memories of him when I was growing up before he had children of his own. He meant the world to me as a child and he will be deeply missed. My heart truly goes out to my aunt (my father's sister) Cheryl. I pray to give her strength every day to get through this. All my love goes out to his children. I wish the best for his family in their time of need.

May 9, 2011

Stringfellow Family,
I heard the news of Jerry's passing just yesterday. I can't add much to what has already been said, but I feel I must try. Jerry was a brilliant clown with a heart of gold. When I started at CPI he was my mentor. He taught me to work and to mix play with it. He taught me to be good to others. What else does a man really need to learn ? God bless and soothe your hearts until you meet again.

Virginia Frederick

May 8, 2011

It is never easy to lose a friend early and Jerry was much too young to go. We will all miss hime very much.

Chuck & Gail Robinson

May 5, 2011

Cheryl, Heather, Beth & Thomas,

We just heard of Jerry's death and are so saddened we were not able to attend his funeral. I know your heart is breaking and there aren't any words that can soothe you. Just know that we loved Jerry and still love you and the kids. Jerry will always be in our hearts and you are in our prayers. God has a special job for him in heaven and you will be together again.
Much love, Chuck & Gail Robinson

Cindy Conover

May 5, 2011

It has been a true pleasure working wiht Jerry over the years. I worked with him from the client side and as a fellow employee. Jerry was always the "Calm in Storm". The clients that I support have also held Jerry in the highest esteem and have stated how much they have appreciated him over the years. When the phone call would come in he always gave me a minute to prepare myself before connecting me to the open Bridgeline .... and it was so thoughtful. I will truly miss .... My Voice In the Night ! May God Bless and Keep You All Safe In His Love.

Jackie Pearson

May 5, 2011

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

John Berley

May 5, 2011

Dear Cheryl and Sherri,
We are so sorry and saddened by this news and send you our thoughts and prayers - thinking that Jerry will always be remembered for the seeming ease with which he lived his life and the joy that he brought to everyone around him. That will live on with every smile, as it's impossible to not think of Jerry without smiling...we love you very much.
John + Sian

Scott Holy

May 4, 2011

Jerry was someone I looked up to at work. Whenever I asked Jerry to share his vast knowledge with me he was always friendly & enthusiastic. He never made me feel like I asked a dumb question, even when I did. I miss that.
My wife and I always looked forward to visiting with Cheryl & Jerry at the company Christmas parties. We would spend a little time talking about our young families and our lives away from work. Those were enjoyable times. I miss that.
Over the last few years most of my contact with Jerry was through emails, both thought-provoking and humorous. They always put a smile on my face. I'll miss those. I'll miss you Jerry.

Tom Girten

May 3, 2011

I always enjoyed working with Jerry over the past 25 years. He always came ready and willing to do what it took in sometimes unique situations. It was certainly a pleasure to have known Jerry and he will be missed by his extended work family.

Darlene Strickland

May 3, 2011

It was a pleasure working with Jerry for the last 28 years. Anytime he was called upon to help he always did so willingly and with a tremendous attitude. My thoughts and prayers are with his family as you celebrate his life and memories.

Heather Gollnick

May 1, 2011

To the Stringfellow family -

Words are so inadequate at a time like this - but prayers are not. So please know I am lifting your name up so that you may feel at peace knowing that Jerry is with his Lord. Although I knew him briefly, his quiet strength will be an example to me always. You are truly blessed to have had him in your lives - and his memory will live on in everything you do. Cherish your time with him - it was truly a gift that will stay with you forever.

Milt Parker

April 29, 2011

One time in Church at Swaim people were asked what they were thankful for; what stories of grace and compassion they had to offer as a testament. My mother stood up from her seat in the choir loft, and in a breaking voice, said she was thankful for the men who helped her sons learn what a good man can be. Jerry is one of the men she was talking about. Such an easy, low-key person, he would probably be slightly embarrassed at being given so much credit for helping shape others but indeed Jerry had a massive effect on many of us. Heck, he taught me how to drive,shared the wonder of stereophonic music, took groups trick-or-treating, he and Cherly even showed us how to hold babies ... more importanly, he walked the spiritual talk ... countless times he was exactly what people needed: compassionate, subtle, intelligent, and available.
I often think of my students as acorns. I can only plant the acorn and try to give it what it needs to be strong, yet I know mighty oaks will reach for the heavens, even if I never get to see them. That's what Jerry did for me. He helped me grow and become a good man.
I have studied words my whole life and now they seem so frail and useless as I try to find the right ones ...

Joe Hodgins

April 29, 2011

To Cheryl and family, I really looked up to Jerry as my Spiritual Mentor, he was a wonderful teacher. The time we spent together in the Beliver's Class at Swaim was my start to forming a solid relationship with God. Jerry was truly a servant of God, and I felt blessed to have known him. Words cannot begin to explain or comfort your loss at this time, but I pray for Jerry any your family to receive God's guidence and feel his spirit during this time. Love Joe Hodgins and Family

Arthur/Ann Hernandez

April 29, 2011

May our hearts continue to be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times with Jerry. Together this evening, we celebrate a life well lived. Twenty-three years ago he helped me relocate homes. Between Jerry, me, and Jerry's blue well-used trailer, we spent a tortureous late spring day moving all my heavy household items. Thank you again Jerry & RIP --- Art/Ann Hernandez

Julia Jenkins

April 29, 2011

Jerry, you are already sorely missed. It has been an honor working with you for the past 23 years. I will miss your patience, voluminous knowledge base, and kind heart. May God bless your family during this difficult time. I look forward to meeting up with you in the hereafter. ~ Julia Jenkins (Lender Processing Services)

DeeDee Richter

April 29, 2011

Cheryl,
My deepest sympathy is with you. May God grant you peace at this difficult time.

Sincerely,

DeeDee Richter
Englewood c/o '79

Paul & Marian Daniel

April 28, 2011

Cheryl, Praying that you will feel God's love surrounding you, and your children during this difficult time. Thank God for the message of Easter, that because of Christ's death, Jerry, and all those who believe, have life everlasting. We mourn our earthly loss, but rejoice that he is part of the Church triumphant.

Frank Fitzsimmons

April 28, 2011

Jerry was a true servant of Jesus Christ - selflessly sharing his gifts and graces with anyone in need. His work on earth may be done, but the seeds he planted in the lives of otherw will bloom and grow and proliferate for years to come. Jesus said, "In my Father's house there are many rooms, and I go there to prepare a place for you so that you may be with me." Rest in eternal peace with the Savior you so faithfully served brother!

Dennis O'Con

April 28, 2011

I will miss Jerry's calming voice when I was called during the night for problems that I was supporting.

Dennis O'Con

April 28, 2011

I have worked with String for many years. He was one of the voices at night that called me when issues happened with Licensed Clients and remote jobs that I was supporting. His voice and calls were calming in that when he called you, most times he had the solution already worked out. He just needed some one responsible for the job to give the "ok" to proceed with solution. I have never heard him complain about others and he was humble about his own abilities. will miss him a lot. Dennis O'Con, LPS

Cheryl Stringfellow

April 27, 2011

To my beloved, you were my rock,my lover and friend. The day you asked me to marry you I was speechless, but I quickly said yes. I was so proud to become your wife! I will always love you, my heart has a hole in it and I know when God reunites us in His time my heart will once again be full. Thirty years was not long enough for me, I wanted to grow old(er) with you, but God has other plans. I Love you always and forever,
Cheryl (Pokey)

Gretchen (Farley) Holtz

April 27, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with his wife, Cheryl, and her family.

Heather Stringfellow Lester

April 27, 2011

There is going to be an empty spot in my heart for the rest of my life without you here. People may sit at your computer, but they will never fill your chair. I am at a loss for what to do or say, but I promise that I will be here for Mom, and that we all want to make you proud. I have always strived to please you, but now I will try harder than ever to live life "according to Jerry." I keep catching myself almost emailing you to ask you a question about something technical or walking toward your computer to see if you have any new viral videos to watch. I have hardly gotten any emails since you passed, and that just makes the reality hurt even more. Like I have said before, just about any guy can become a father, but it takes a special kind of man to be a Daddy. I will forever hold a few GB in my heart for you, and will proudly tell people that I am the oldest child of Jerry Stringfellow. I am so glad that you were able to walk me down the aisle, to be there when Aeris and Atty were born, and to see them start their lives. It pains me beyond belief to know that any other children that I have won't get to know you, but believe me, they WILL here stories! I love you, Daddy. You will forever be missed.

Love,
Heather

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Carroll Grisco

April 27, 2011

Jerry was a very special guy and he will be greatly missed.

Renzo Cafiero

April 27, 2011

We will miss Jerry greatly. A friend I admired from the day I met him.

Jerry Funderburg

April 27, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with the Stringfellow family at this difficult time. Jerry was a wonderful coworker and someone I'll always remember with a smile and wealth of knowledge. My memories of Jerry will last forever.

Calvin Curry

April 27, 2011

You will be missed.

Monroe Woodard

April 26, 2011

Jerry was a true Christian, a friend to many, and a role model. God bless his family. I will truly miss him.

Rolie Sayward and Family

April 26, 2011

Our condolences to the Stringfellow family. It was a privilege knowing and working with Jerry.

Our thoughts are with you.

Mike Reublin

April 26, 2011

My prayers for peace are with Cheryl and the children.

Jerry was my mentor when I started at CPI. He possessed a wonderful ability to teach, and was always ready to use that talent. I'll miss him.

Rommel and Lynn Ventura

April 26, 2011

To The Stringfellow Family.
Our deepest sympathy go out to you. Jerry was an inspiration at work. He always had a kind word and kept us going at night with his wit and wisdom.

We will pray that through his death, the light of Jesus may shine and He will give your family His strength.

John 14:1-3
Let not your hearts be troubled;
believe in God, believe also in me.

In my Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so, I would have told you; for I go and prepare a place for you.

And when I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you unto myself, that where I am you may be also.

Judi Stevenson

April 26, 2011

To the Stringfellow and Berley Families: We were deeply saddened to hear of Jerry’s sudden passing. Some of my fondest childhood memories were going “shrimping” in Mandarin at his parent’s house where Jerry would entertain me by building hot wheel tracks as tall as the ceiling. He was always willing to share his spirit of adventure with anyone who entered his house, much like the Lord. It was an exciting day when he brought Cheryl into the family as it brought a new level of excitement to his already jovial life. His children and grandchildren were the icing on his cake; he was so very proud of all of you! May you all find healing and peace in your time of sorrow from His maker and may you celebrate the life of an awesome husband, father, son, brother, and child of God. There was none better! We will miss him dearly, but are thankful to have been privileged to be touched by his faithful life of service. We will all see him again and celebrate.

April 25, 2011

Cheryl, Tommy, Sherri and Families: I just learned of Jerry's passing and am at a loss for words. But, I can remember the day he came into your lives and mine. He was a special little boy, one I babysat for many years ago and was special to me in every way. I knew I could always count on him when the need arose. Jerry was one of a kind, always found time for everyone and will always be remembered by the special person he was. My heart and prayers are with each of you, in the coming weeks. May God bless you and give you the strength to see you through these difficult times. In Deepest Sympathy and Love, Betty Sullivan, Franklin, NC

Larry Self

April 25, 2011

Cheryl and family, I offer my heartfelt condolences to you all. I have fond memories of Jerry, you and your children, especially at the company picnics. I pray God's comfort, blessing, and hope for you all.

Larry Self

April 25, 2011

I offer you my sincere condolences in this most difficult time. You are a sweet family and I pray God will comfort, strengthen, and lift you up to carry on the heart for Him that Jerry had. May God richly bless you all.

Pastor Alan and Cynthia Encinosa

April 25, 2011

We always enjoyed being with Jerry. He made a large imprint in our whole family's lives. We remember fondly the time spent together serving at Swaim IMC and being in Jerry's Sunday School class.

Our love and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

tiff joos

April 25, 2011

to cheryl,heather, beth , tom

it was an honor to know jerry i will always remenber him play jokes like plastic bugs and the anwering machines message they were as funny and i will never forget him and your family

Dennis & JoAnna Gamble

April 25, 2011

To Cheryl and Family,
May God's love give you strength, peace, and comfort now and forever. We will never forget Jerry and all that he did to help Dennis plan the most beautful surprise wedding anniversary. He was a great person, inside and out! He will be missed. If there is anything we can do for you and your family, please don't hesitate to let us know.

Jerry and Cheryl at our 25th Wedding Anniversary

Dennis & JoAnna Gamble

April 25, 2011

April 25, 2011

We are sorry for your loss and will keep you in our prayers. Jesse Womack and Mary Hunter

Michael and Susan (Geisler) Hartley

April 25, 2011

We are both saddened to hear the news about Jerry. We all went to Wolfson together and have many fond memories of him. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Wells

April 25, 2011

Cheryl, Heather, Beth, and Thomas,

Jerry was a devoted family man, a servant of God and a good friend to many. He touched us all and will be missed.

Our hearts break for your loss. You and the family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Krystie and David Wells

Carl And Mary Bryant

April 25, 2011

So sad

Glenn Dowdy

April 25, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. Jerry was one of those "good guys" you could always count on.

April 25, 2011

So sorry to hear of Jerry's passing.


Jimmie Russell, Santa Rosa Beach, FL

Clara Shalley

April 25, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. It still is a shock and I am so sad for all of you. Mr. Jerry was a kind and great man. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Clara

Valerie Gutierrez

April 25, 2011

Our hearts and prayers go out to the entire Stringfellow family. You will truely be missed Jerry. Weller-Gutierrez Family (Val, Rochelle, Aaron, Ryan & Caitlyn)

anne flores

April 25, 2011

cheryl and family
so sorry to hear of your loss ,it was a shock ,i know he will be missed by many ,i remember him from good sheperd church ,he was always working hard whatever needed to be done ,
you are in our prayers . frank and anne flores

Haley Jones

April 25, 2011

Isaiah 61:2-3, says that the Lord will comfort those who mourn and provide solace for those who grieve -- bestowing on them "a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair."

Godspeed to our dear friend Jerry. We will miss you and your wonderful sense of humor.

We Love You,
Cheryl, Heather, Beth and Thomas

The Joneses

Michele Hartley Careme

April 25, 2011

I was truely saddened by the news today. I knew Jerry back in high school and will always have fond memeories of his kind and funny spirit, I know that his family was lucky to have him and I am so sorry for your loss.

June Jones

April 24, 2011

My heart felt sympathy goes out to the family in the loss of a husband, father, son, brother,uncle and a friend to many. Tommy sent an email letting me know of Jerry's passing. I will miss getting the updates on the family. Jerry was so proud of his children and grandchildren. May God give you comfort and peace.

Christine Sasser

April 24, 2011

Cheryl & family, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart was heavy to hear your news. But Easter is a great reminder of Jerry's resurrection life.

Gerry Napoleon

April 24, 2011

Beth, you, and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. It is so hard losing a parent, but in time your grief will be replaced by happy memories of your time together. May God's holy spirit be with you all.

april joos

April 24, 2011

jerry is a great man he was like a second father to meand my sister i rembrance he would be at the church pinic and would be over with the kids playing head up 7up and would the one ask everyone to giving a dollar to try to sank the pastor in the drunk tank.

Kevin Rolfe

April 24, 2011

I was honored to call you my friend. You will certainly be missed by many!

Betsy Thorpe

April 24, 2011

Jerry you will always be remembered as a good man with a big heart. You loved all of Gods creatures, both big and small and your servant's heart will surely be missed. But rest easy now my friend, your work here is done.
You served The Lord well.

April 24, 2011

Jerry and I were close friends in high school and for a few years after. I was a groomsman at Jerry and Cheryl's wedding. He was so fortunate to meet Cheryl who brought so much happiness and purpose to his life. Toghether they were so much more than either was individually.

Sadly we lost touch over the years because I moved away from Jacksonville. But I will never forget riding around in Jerry's mustang with Bruce Springsteen blasting from the 8-track tape player.

My deepest sympathy to his family.

Ken King
Raleigh, NC

Beth Stringfellow

April 24, 2011

Daddy, I love you and miss you so much.

Sherri Fussell

April 24, 2011

What a loss for this earthly space, but Jerry is in glory with Jesus. Prayers for comfort and peace to you Cheryl, Heather, Beth and Tom as you mourn. Feel the love of all those Jerry touched with a kind word or smile. You are loved!

Easter Pink Dog Wood Trees

Charlotte Liphart

April 23, 2011

These pictures of pink dogwoods remind me that Jerry is going to be happy praising and thanking God all the time now, and that to heal that is what we can do. Laus Deo is what George Washington used to say, and it means applause to God.

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