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Carly Driscoll Obituary

DRISCOLL Carly Anne Driscoll, 19, succumbed to a rare cancer, rhabdomysarcoma, on September 9, 2010 at her home in Jacksonville, FL without ever giving up her spirit, her faith or determined fight. She was a graduate of Douglas Anderson School of Arts '09 where she studied creative writing and recently had been awarded The Most Awesome Employee Ever at Hot Topic where she worked. She is survived by her parents Jim and Kathy Driscoll, her sister Jessi and brother-in-law Richard Johnson, her brother Jimmy, her grandparents Evelyn and Clay Cribbs, of Jacksonville, Mark and Mary Goldman, of Jacksonville, and Laura Driscoll, of North Port, FL as well as numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and many many wonderful friends. She was a gifted poet who won awards for her work in high school, was a dance member of the Jaguars Junior Roar, had played on a volleyball team and was also involved in gymnastics. But the arts were her first love. "She was ambitious. She had dreams, goals and ambitions and most of them were completely selfless. She dreamed of helping people. She dreamed of having a venue, a place to have concerts, let local artists display their works and a place to have poetry readings. She wanted to have a place where people could be themselves and be loved," said her close friend and New City Lions band member Josh Card. "She accomplished more in her 19 years of life than a lot of people do in a lifetime." She was Straight Edge and had taken a pledge to live a clean and pure life without alcohol or drugs in October, 2006, a promise she took great pride in. Popular and well-known on the local music scene, she was an enthusiastic supporter and promoter of local music venues like The Imperial and from the time he was 14, she would bring her brother Jimmy, who was three years her junior, with her to shows. "They were partners, really, all their lives," says her mother Kathy. "They were inseparable. When Carly and Jimmy showed up at the Imperial, they just lit up the whole place, always." In February, 2009, she was diagnosed at age 17, a few months before her 18th birthday and high school graduation. There are only 250 cases of rhabdomyosarcoma diagnosed a year in the US, mostly in children. "Her faith grew so much throughout this entire ordeal. It went from, 'God, why would you do this to me?' to 'it's in God's hands," said her older sister Jessi Johnson, who spent hours laying next to her sister during her treatment. "She truly trusted Him, whatever His plan is, whatever His will is, but she would still fight. She would always say, "Don't be sad." Recently, through reading Carly's works, Jessi found that she looked up to her and helped mold her into who she was and how she wanted to be. Even as her disease progressed, she was able to fulfill some of her dreams. A devoted fan of the Harry Potter series of books, which she read and reread, she and her family were invited for a private tour of the Wizarding World of Harry Potter before it opened at Universal Orlando. Construction workers and park staff were so impressed by her spirit, wit and humor, they organized a wristband campaign to remember and support her in her recovery. Dreams Come True, a local organization that fulfills the wishes of seriously ill children in Jacksonville, arranged for a trip to New York City with her family for New Year's Eve so that she could view the ball drop in Times Square. In October, her favorite band Copeland, based in Lakeland, FL whose music she listened to on her iPod continually during her cancer treatment, performed a concert for her and about 100 members of her family and friends and a story about the event appeared on the front page of the Times-Union. "She loved her nieces, little cousins. She loved little children - all the neighborhood kids. Carly would color with them, fix their hair, they loved her," said her mom Kathy, who devoted herself to her care, round-the-clock, right up until the end. "She was a snuggly, loveable person who had a big heart and a lot of love. One of her friends said that we were all praying for a miracle and what we didn't realize, she was a miracle." Her father Jim said, "She was the strongest person in the world, tougher than me. And now she is in no more pain." In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the American Cancer Society, 1430 Prudential Drive, Jacksonville, FL or at www.cancer.org < " rel="nofollow, noindex" class="obit-text-link">www.cancer.org/> and Dreams Come True, 6803 Southpoint Park, Jacksonville, FL or at www.dreamscometrue.org . There will be a viewing on Monday, September 13 from 6 to 9 p.m. at the Corey-Kerlin Funeral Home, 940 Cesery Boulevard, Jacksonville. Services will be held at Arlington Assembly of God, 88 North Arlington Road, at noon Tuesday, September 14 at 12 p.m. noon and a graveside ceremony will follow at Arlington Cemetery. Please Sign the Guestbook @ Jacksonville.com

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Published by Florida Times-Union from Sep. 12 to Sep. 13, 2010.

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Jeannie Turner

September 6, 2025

Thinking of you Kathy...with love..Jeannie Turner..Thoughts and Prayers

Love. Turner

September 6, 2023

Thinking of you Kathy with love.

September 23, 2010

I did not know Carly, let alone even live in Florida.. but I have read her story through music pages off of facebook, and she seemed truly amazing.

The Cross Family

September 16, 2010

Driscoll Family,

Carly's never ending love and joy will always remain in our hearts and the hearts of others whom had the honor of knowing and loving her. She will continue to light up faces and guide us all in the right path.. My deepest sympathies to you all during this time.

Cathy David

September 16, 2010

Your loss of Carly weighs heavy on my heart...sweet prayers going out your way tonight...may God have His hand on your family today and always.

September 15, 2010

To the family,

I was very sorry to read about your loss. I hope you can find comfort in the words found at Isa. 33:24 which say that soon no one will say 'I am sick.' You have my deepest sympathies.

The Bourke family

D Kildow

September 14, 2010

Her story and courage touched my heart. She will be in my thoughts as I battle my own cancer. May God keep you near and comfort you in this difficult time.

Amy Robinson

September 14, 2010

I just wanted to say that if she could make me laugh when I knew her and make me smile in girlscouts I know that she will have them up in heaven rolling laughing and a smile ear to ear!She inspired me if she can fight through this and be brave I will follow through her foot steps I will be strong and brave!You will always be in my heart Carly and thanks for being apart of my life.You will be miss very much!

September 14, 2010

Words seem inadequate to express the sadness I feel. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers."Debbie from Aphotic"

Vignocchi Family

September 14, 2010

Our thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family.

September 14, 2010

Kathy and Jim - we just wanted you to know you have been in our thoughts and prayers. It was so touching to see how man lives Carly has touched and how much happiness she bought into your lives.God Bless you and your family love Angela and John Bledsoe

Dawn Geisler

September 14, 2010

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Allice Parsons

September 14, 2010

We wanted to let you know you are in our thoughts,
please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss.
Our prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Beach Body Towing

Angie Sams

September 14, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

Doug Thompson

September 14, 2010

I know there is nothing I or anyone can say or do to help you feel better. Remember the joy Carly brought, and hold in your heart all the love she gave, always, and know that she is beyond any pain now. God bless you all in this difficult time.
Doug Thompson

Lynda Suttles

September 14, 2010

Our love and prayers go out to you, Jim, Kathy and Jimmy. Your family's love and devotion molded Carly into the beautiful person that she was, inside and out. May your light continue to shine on others the way hers shone on us.
Lynda and Nikki
Grove Park Barber Shop

Jeannie Turner

September 14, 2010

My thoughts and parayers are with your family and friends during this time ~
~Peace and Love~

September 13, 2010

Kathy and Jim - I cannot begin to express my sorrow for the loss of your little girl. I am praying for your family and all the people that Carly touched during her short time here. She was healed in Gods way - she is free of the pain she felt. I am thinking of you during the pain you must be feeling.
God Bless you,
Tina Bell

April Bryan

September 13, 2010

Though I have never met Carly nor your family , I learned of your daughter through my father who is the mail man to Carly's grandparents. As a mother I could not imagine what you are feeling. My heart goes out to your family and may god bless you all throught this tough time. My prayers will be with you family.

September 13, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. As a mother I can not think of anything worse that could happen than to loose a child. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Pam and John Turner

September 13, 2010

Sorry to learn of your loss...we did not know you were going through this. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely, David and Pat Balanky

September 13, 2010

My heart goes out to the family

Devon Brunson

September 13, 2010

Jim and Kathy - there are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. I pray God will hold you tight in His hands and bring you peace within.

Im praying for you all and will be thinking of you.

September 13, 2010

Jim and Kathy,
Another Angel has been called home. Our love and prayers are with you all.
God bless.
Bruce and Cyndi Wiltse

Theresa Coker

September 13, 2010

We at Douglas Anderson love Carly and were very proud of her. We will miss her and her beautiful smile.

Bob & Margaret Dixon

September 13, 2010

Evelyn & Clay,
We were so saddened to read of the passing of your granddaughter. We wish we would have half the drive and determination that she seemed to have, plus her love for Jesus. That must have been one special young lady!
Bob & Margaret Dixon

Mary & Steve Zabala

September 13, 2010

Jimmy and Kathy and family,

Our love and prayers and heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your angel.
May God bless you all.

Mary and Steve Zabala

Patti Zabala

September 13, 2010

Dear Jimmy and Kathy,

No words can express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I pray that God and Carly, along with your dad watch over you and give you strenth.

With my condolences,

Patti Zabala

Allison Barrett

September 13, 2010

Carly the amount of love that surrounds you now is unlike anything I have ever seen. As my cousin I knew you were special in so many ways but your beautiful spirit touched so many others beyond our family. We will all miss you dearly. God has wrapped his arms around you and taken you home. Fly high sweet Angel! Love Always and forever....

Peggy Kilis

September 13, 2010

Although I never had the honor of meeting Carly, I have heard so many wonderful things about her. Her grandmother, Mary Goldman, is one of my dear friends. My love and prayers go to each and every member of her family. May God comfort you in your time of sorrow. He now has another angel.

MyRanda Craven

September 13, 2010

Dear Mrs.Driscoll-
On behalf of myself and Dr.Roy, we want to tell you how very sorry we are for your loss. From the very first time that we saw Carly, I fell in love with her warm smile. She is truly a one of a kind of girl. She was one of my favorite patients. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
MyRanda Craven

Chuck & Dollie McGowan

September 13, 2010

God bless you and your Family in your time of sorrow.

Wood

September 13, 2010

I never meet Carly in person But My cousin is one of her Best friends, I followed and prayed for the family in this difficult time. My heart goes out to her Family and Friends.

September 12, 2010

My daughter Erica graduated with Carly, we send our deepest sympathy, love and prayers to your family. The Feinglass Family

September 12, 2010

I remember the chapbook she created for poetry class. It was hand sewn and seemed to be stuffed with magic. I remember we went to New Jersey as part of a class trip. One of our fellow classmates was sick and Carly was there checking his temperature, a true champion of a fallen friend. I just found out that she passed away, not even thirty minutes ago. I'm trying to muster my way through the silence my heart seems to have fallen under, however even in this dimmness I can remember that we sat together-the words of our conversation have since dissapeared, but her smile remains, something warm even though it seems I've been molded and cast in ice.

If it's not weird of me to say, I think I love you Carly. Though I wish I had told you sooner.

Emmett Buchanan

September 12, 2010

Dear Jim & Kathy, I am very sorry for your loss, I never had the opportunity to meet Carly but heard how special she was through my cousin Derek. My Daughter is a freshman at DBA this year, so I can only imagine how truely special Carly was and will always be! My prayers are with you and your family.

Your Friend,
C. Emmett Buchanan

Soni Weseman

September 12, 2010

Although you don't know me many prayers have been sent to the seat of out Lord since Carly was added to our prayer list at Glendale Community Church. Harvey and Kathy Hahn told us about her and my husband and I prayed faithfully for all of you since we heard about her cancer. Please continue to lean on the prayers of others. We are not the only ones from Glendale praying for you. Our God will comfort your hearts.

Helena Gutierrez Richards

September 12, 2010

Carly was an extraordinary young woman. All who had the privilege to know and love her will always miss her. She brought sunshine and laughter everywhere she went.
To her family, please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and Carly will be in the hearts of all who knew her.
Sincerely

The Hill family

September 12, 2010

As distant cousins we have followed Carly Anne's struggle through Facebook postings and many phone conversations with her grandmother, Memaw. We wish there was more we could have done for Carly and her family... and understand that there is a plan at work. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of them during this difficult time.

Gretchen Johnson

September 12, 2010

We are so sorry for all Carly and your family have been through. What a beautiful and gracious young lady she was. Know that we are continuing to pray for your family. Love, Gretchen,Ace,Chandler,Audrey,Olivia,Leighton Matthew 11:28-30
Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.

Debbie Bolger

September 12, 2010

Dear Kathy, Jim and family,

At this time there is so much I want to say, yet nothing I can say will take away the heartache of your loss. But I can share a memory that keeps coming to my mind these last few days.

When I think about about all of you I remember a beautiful holiday card that you sent that my mom kept on her refrigerator forever. It showed the four of you on the back on your houseboat and this beautiful little girl smiling away. Every picture I have seen of Carly since that day so many years ago right up to within the last few months...there she was.. smiling away.

What a tribute to her and her happy spirit.

May we all learn from her and live our lives as she did, smiling through adversity and never giving up.

With love and compassion.

Debbie Grymes Bolger and family

Your Cousin Lil Mary

September 12, 2010

My Dear Carly Anne words cannot express how much you will be missed and how much you were loved by so many people. You were only here for what most people would say is not long enough, but you touched so many lives in the short time that we had to here with us. It brings me a little comfort in knowing David has you up there with him and you two will be there waiting on the rest of the family to come and join you guys. I'm sure you two will have a lot if catching up to do. I love you my dear Carly and you will continue to remain in my heart forever. xoxoxo

To Aunt Kathy, Uncle Jim, Jessi, and Jimmy: We are all sadden by the loss of our Carly Anne. What ever you may need im here for all of you. I love you. xoxoxo

Mary Goen

September 12, 2010

My heart goes out to your family as I lift you up in prayer for God's comfort and support through these difficult times. Shanna enjoyed babysitting Carly and shared her joy with me throughout those short years. I trust you will seek your solace in the love of Jesus who sustains all of us through times of loss. In Christ Love, Mary (Turner) Goen

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