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Garnett Ashby Obituary

ASHBY C.L.G. (Garnett) Garnett Ashby passed away peacefully just before dawn in his home surrounded by his family on May 14th, the morning after his and Eleanor's 56th anniversary. He is survived by his loving wife Eleanor, his three children Stuart Ashby-Fore of Atlantic Beach, Elizabeth 'Baba' Frew and her husband Peter from Watertown, CT, and Linden and his wife Susan from Milton, GA, as well as his nine grand children: Anna Lester Merkel and husband Weston, Olivia, Francis Garnett Harrison, Arthur, and Gus Fore, Amanda and Garnett Maxmillian Frew, Grace and Savannah Ashby, and his niece Ellie Slade. Garnett was born in Jacksonville on August 13, 1927, the son of Clarence and Eloise Ashby. He grew up on Montgomery Place in Avondale, taking advantage of the river and all that it had to offer. He was an avid sailor, swimmer, skier, diver, power-boater; in short, if it involved boats and water he loved it. He attended the Bolles School as well as the Lawrenceville School in New Jersey. In 1945 Garnett joined the navy, and hearing about this, the Japanese promptly surrendered! After he was discharged he went on to attend The University of The South, 'Sewanee', which he loved and supported for the rest of his life. Upon returning home Garnett went to work for his grandfather, Tharp Roberts, at his company The Monticello Drug Company where he thrived, eventually becoming the president, a position he maintained until 1996 at which time he sold his interest and devoted his attentions to the Monticello Bank. In the summer of 1953 a young beauty named Eleanor Johnson caught his eye while they were both attendants in the wedding of mutual friends. Garnett wasted no time in stating his intentions, proposing, and marrying her. After returning from their honeymoon they made a decision that would change their lives; they left town and moved to Atlantic Beach where they have lived happily in the same house to this day. In 1968 Garnett bought his beloved wooden hulled Nimphus sailboat known widely in local maritime circles as the 'Staunch'. After retirement, he and Eleanor were fortunate enough to enjoy many wonderful trips around the world, often with their friends Nancy McDonald, Katherine Grant, and Anne Murphy whom Eleanor jokingly referred to as Garnett's 'harem'. In all of their travels they held a particular love for the Scottish Highlands, returning every year to their home away from home, Applecross. He was a voracious reader, and was completely contended when immersed in many books at a time. Garnett was a man of vision, often seeing trends well before others took notice. He opened a car dealership with his childhood friend Kenneth Merrill called 'The Car Store' in 1970 where they sold Datsuns, Rovers/ Land Rovers, BMWs, and Triumphs, small interesting imports at a time when people were only thinking Chevy. He built Kona Skateboard Park in 1976, which is still in operation today as the oldest, continuously operating Skateboard Park in the country. With his good friend Doug Milne and others he founded 'Florida Clearveiw Cable Company' in 1978, installing and providing cable access for communities all over northeast Florida and South Georgia before selling to Continental Cable in 1986. He was involved in charities including The Boys Club and The Rotary Club, as well as serving as a trustee of The Ida M. Stevens Foundation and The Roberts Charitable Trust, both local organizations that fund numerous causes in the Jacksonville community. He was also a founding board member of The Beaches Hospital and one of the youngest Commodores of The Florida Yacht Club. Garnett served on the vestry of Christ Episcopal Church and was a founding board member of Vicars Landing. Garnett Ashby was a gentleman in the truest sense of the word; a truly gentle man. His love and friendship touched more people than one can imagine, and he will be sorely missed. The service will be held at Christ Episcopal Church Ponte Vedra on Monday the 17th at 11:30. In lieu of flowers please send donations to Christ Episcopal Church, 400 San Juan Dr., Ponte Vedra Beach, FL 32082; The University of the South, Sewanee, TN 37375; Community Hospice, 4266 Sunbeam Road, Jacksonville, FL 32257 or the charity of your choice. Arrangements are by Hardage- Giddens Funeral Home, Jacksonville Beach. Please Sign the Guestbook @ Jacksonville.com

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Published by Florida Times-Union on May 15, 2010.

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Florian Meier

May 19, 2010

Dear Ashbys,
we were deeply saddened to hear the news about the sudden death of Garnett.
Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Florian Meier (Rosi's nephew) and his college friends

Bill and Jenn Watson III

May 17, 2010

Linden and Susan,
May God fill your hearts with peace and love during this period of great loss. We will hold you and your family up in our thoughts and prayers.

Monique, Wayne and Spencer Kawalek

May 16, 2010

Dear Stuart

We are so sad to hear that your dad passed away. You are blessed to have a close family and I know you will all comfort eachother in the face of this great and sudden loss . In time your pain will be replaced with the multitude of great experiences and lessons your dad imparted to you. He will be remembered as a wise and noble man, true to his family and his convictions. Your parents share one of the great love stories and my heart goes to your mother. You fostered a loving and repectful relationship between your children and your parents and you should be happy you took the time to do so. I will see you soon my dear friend. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. With Love, Monique, Wayne and Spencer

Sherrie McKenna

May 16, 2010

Dear Ashbys and Frews, I have just read the beautiful obituary of your dear dad and husband. Although I only met him once, I heard many sweet stories from Baba about him. I know his passing leaves a great hole in your lives. Jon and I are thinking of you all during these sad days. With much love, Sherrie McKenna

Lynn Bertram

May 15, 2010

Eleanor, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this time. We were all so blessed to have Garnett in our lives. He was truly a man of great character.

Frank Horne

May 15, 2010

I shall always remember sitting beachfront on Garnett and Eleanor's screened veranda enjoying an A and C with Garnett. A true gentleman's gentleman, he will be in my thoughts as will Elanor and the family in my prayers.

Rick Stockton

May 15, 2010

Though he and my dad were very different in their own ways, I remember them being great friends. I learned a lot about style, charm and grace from my "Uncle Garnett." We have lost another unique member of our small circle. Our thoughts are with you all.

Richard Bowers

May 15, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Losing someone you love is so difficult but you always carry them with you in your heart and we are always so lucky and thankful that they have been a part of our lives.

Brian Rowland

May 15, 2010

What a great civic and business leader. Our sincerest condolences to Linden and all of the family.

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