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Melanie Cross Obituary

CROSS Melanie MacLean Cross, a founder of the historic preservation group Old Arlington Inc. and a community activist, died at her Jacksonville home Monday after a three year battle with cancer. She was 55. A rosary will be said at 9 am Saturday in St. Joseph's Historic Church, 4124 Loretto Road, Mandarin, where the funeral Mass will be at 10am. A reception will follow in the church's Cody Family Enrichment Center. Born in Jacksonville and reared in Arlington, Mrs. Cross moved to Mandarin in 2002. A graduate of Terry Parker High School, where she was named state high jump champion, she graduated from the University of North Florida with a degree in Economics. At UNF she started the fencing club. Mrs. Cross had recently worked as a grants writer for Catholic Charities. She also served as executive director of Citizens for a Scenic Florida and was executive director of the Spina Bifida Association. Earlier in her career, she was with the Jacksonville Downtown Development Authority, where she helped establish downtown standards for historic lights and pavers, the formation of the IM Schulzbacher Center for the homeless and her work on the Mayors Performing Arts Committee for the Performing Arts. Melanie was passionate about her Scottish heritage; she lead her family to the gathering of the MacLean clan at Duarte Castle on the island of Mull in 2007 and was very active with the Northeast Florida Highland Games. In addition to her mother and father, Georgia and Don MacLean, her husband of 21 years, Richard B. Cross, two sons, Robert Angelieri and Adam Brian Cross, a brother James Paul MacLean, three sisters, Melissa Turner, Jan MacLean, and Marjorie MacLean and her aunts, Norma Kirby and Jean Yontz. The family suggests memorial contributions to Catholic Charities, 134 E Church St. Jacksonville, FL 32202. Arrangements under the direction and care of ETERNITY FUNERAL HOME, 4856 Oakdale Ave. Please Sign the Guestbook @ Jacksonville.com

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Published by Florida Times-Union on Feb. 22, 2008.

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Jan MacLean

February 24, 2022

Love and miss you!

Vicky Bogetto (Horn)

February 28, 2008

My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family!

Bobbie and Lamar Prevatt

February 24, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss and hope memories of your wonderful daughter Melanie will be a comfort to you.

Matthew and Ruth (Jaques) Aiello

February 23, 2008

To The MacLean Family:

Please accept our condolences on the loss of your daughter.
The legacy she leaves to her community through many areas of care and service will be long remembered.

Ernie Grose

February 23, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the entire family.

Judi & Joseph Angelieri

February 23, 2008

To the Maclean-Cross Family,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences at the news of your loss. You are in our prayers.

Patti Reed

February 22, 2008

Jan & family, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Fondly, Patti Reed

Al Battle Jr.

February 22, 2008

To the Family

I am very sorry to hear about your loss.

Melanie was very kind and helpful to me when I started working for the City of Jacksonville and the DDA. I have fond memories of her being there to help when she didn't have to be so helpful. Her patience and attitude were greatly appreciated.

May God Bless the Cross and MacClean family at this time of loss of a loved one.

Chris Hiday

February 22, 2008

Don & Georgia-
We are so saddened to learn of Melanie's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family during this difficult time."Blessed are those who mourn for they will be comforted." Mt 5:4; "For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him." Jn 3:17
We pray your faith in the LORD with sustain you both.
Yours in Christ,
Rob & Chris Hiday

Ernie Grose

February 22, 2008

I send heart felt sympathy to the entire family.

Shirley Durrant

February 22, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

February 22, 2008

Maclean-Cross Family,

My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
God Bless You,
Denise Akers CRHP team 11

Karen Mathis

February 22, 2008

Our deepest sympathies to Melanie's family. Melanie was an inspiration to the citizens of Jacksonville and a loyal supporter of her friends as well as her passionate causes. The world is a better place because of Melanie.
We will miss her.

Dr. Tina Warren

February 22, 2008

The world has lost a beautiful person. My condolences to the family, and especially to Adam. I will pray for her repose.

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