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ERIC GOODLING Obituary

GOODLING Eric Hemphill Goodling, 43, Jacksonville Beach, passed away suddenly on September 21, 2011. Eric was born in St. Vincent's Hospital, Jacksonville, Florida on January 11, 1968, the youngest of Don and Neese Goodling's five children. Eric grew up in Atlantic Beach, and attended Atlantic Beach Elementary School, Fletcher Senior High School, graduating in 1986, with letters in wrestling, soccer, football and track. He received both an AA and AS from FJC, Jacksonville. Eric was baptized and confirmed at Community Presbyterian Church, Atlantic Beach and worshiped there until he moved to Oregon to begin working in 1993. Upon his return to Florida, Eric worshiped at St. Paul's Catholic Church, Jacksonville Beach, Florida. Eric was a member of Boy Scout Troop 37, at Community Presbyterian Church, and achieved the rank of Eagle Scout. Eric was also a retired member in good standing of the American Red Cross Life Saving Corps. Eric was predeceased by his father, Don Goodling, Atlantic Beach, his sister, Carter Goodling Tanaka of Osaka, Japan, his grandparents, Jacob and Harriett Ostner of Jacksonville and Don and Peggy Goodling of Atlantic Beach. He is survived by his mother, Neese, brothers, Sandy, William, and Beaver, of Atlantic Beach and their wives, Heather and Anna , nephews Daniel and Jacob Goodling, nieces Shell and Wren Tanaka and brother-in-law, Keisuke Tanaka of Osaka, aunts and uncles and cousins scattered around. Additionally, he is survived by his God-parents Thomas J. Hoey of Kurtistown, Hawaii, Penny Drew Ware of Jacksonville, and Sally Drew Rowe of Columbus, Georgia. A memorial service celebrating Eric's life will take place on Saturday, October 1st at 10:30 AM at Community Presbyterian Church, 150 Sherry Drive, Atlantic Beach. Additionally, the American Red Cross Life Saving Corp will honor Eric with a ceremony at 6 PM, Friday, September 30th at the Life Guard Station at Beach Blvd and Ocean Front, Jacksonville Beach. All are invited. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorials be sent to the Boy Scout Troop 37 at Community Presbyterian Church, 150 Sherry Drive, Atlantic Beach, FL 32233, American Red Cross Life Saving Corps, 751 Riverside Ave, Jacksonville, FL 32204, Resurrection Anglican Church, P.O. Box 330808, Atlantic Beach, FL and Community Presbyterian Church. Interment will be for the family at a later date in Oaklawn Cemetery. HARDAGE-GIDDENS OAKLAWN CHAPEL, 4801 San Jose Blvd is serving the family. Please Sign the Guestbook @ Jacksonville.com

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Published by Florida Times-Union from Sep. 28 to Sep. 30, 2011.

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John and Georgia Goodling

September 22, 2012

We grew up watching Eric grow up on 5th Street. He was a curious soul; always asking much more than he was telling. His father and two uncles had become engineers at UF and Eric wanted to know all about science and engineering. Be it fluids, mechanics, math, heat, waves, rainbows, or whatever. And he attentively listened and absorbed.

We will miss him forever. May he rest in peace.

stacy howland

October 22, 2011

Eric, so many years have passed but my memories of our time shared with mutual friends are some of my best memories ever! i hope you get to live in your most joyous memories for eternity.
~ Stacy Sims Howland, Yorktown, Virginia |Contact Me

Trudi Harris

October 17, 2011

Dear Aunt Neese,
I just talked to Aunt Joan yesterday and learned of Eric's passing. This is just too sad! I always have such fond memories of you, Uncle Don and your beautiful blonde children. I will be praying for you and the family. So sorry about Carter also, loosing two children has to be hard. I love you!!! Trudi

Mary Claire Holloway

October 7, 2011

As our families grew up together in Atlantic Beach, I remember “little Eric Goodling” - A sweet boy, busy under the artistic eye of the funnest mother in the world, Neese. Just a couple of years ago, I got to know Eric as an adult. He had grown into a kind and thoughtful man with big ideas and great enthusiasm and he always greeted me with a comforting hug, and a sweet smile. The Goodling Family is legendary in our community for their kindness, humor, artfulness, and lovingness. Eric's life is a part of that enduring legacy and he will be greatly missed. My thoughts are with you all.

Charity Hudnut

October 4, 2011

Eric was always such a kind soul and I'll never forget how he made me feel welcome when we first moved to Atlantic Beach. He will be missed.

Beverly Hadden

October 3, 2011

Neese,

My heart goes out to you. I was out of town at the time of Eric's service but my son, Adam Vogel, attended the service at the life guard station and said it was very moving. I know that Adam loved Eric and we will all feel his loss.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Donald Connor

October 2, 2011

Eric was a great guy and would glady help any friend . He will be missed by all those he came in contact with.

Dusk at the Guard Station

John & Georgia GOODLING

October 2, 2011

John & Georgia GOODLING

October 2, 2011

During frequent visits to Atlantic Beach back when, nephew Eric along with his siblings made the time here all about family. If we didn't boat up the ICW for fun in the dunes, crabbing, or hunting for clams, the eight children along with the DLs and JGs became a group of food gatherers. Always time to pull the big Seine net from fifth street to tenth street and hauling in whiting, flounder, crabs, and empty beer cans, a great crowd would gather as we dragged the net to the beach in anticipation of what would become our evening meal. Eric being amongst the smallest would take the ocean side pole out deep along with William and an other wee ones and do his best to help pull against the current. And collect the catch to be hauled away for cleaning and eating late in the afternoon. Always he helped with whatever needed doing.
He was joyous and happy, inquisitive and studious, wore a great big grin and wide eyes.
Those were the days!!
There is an empty hole in our hearts now.

Uncle John and Aunt Georgia

Life Guard Lifeboat with plaque

John & Georgia GOODLING

October 2, 2011

David Goodling

October 2, 2011

Our best memories of time spent in AB were mostly with all of the 5th street Goodling family pulling the net through the surf and eating like Kings into the am.
We will mourn the loss of Eric and celebrate the good times past, present and future.
David, Sarah, John, Peyton and William.
Auburn, Alabama

GReg REIMER

October 2, 2011

Eric was one of the nicest people you could ever meet, I'm honored to have known him and called him brother. Eric became one of us so many years ago, what is now called 'old school'... you knew, that no matter what it was, if you needed his help, he'd be right next to you no matter how thick it was going to be. So many memories, such good times shared, you'll never be forgotten.
While We, all of his 'other' Brothers will miss him along with his family, the people who didn't know him are really the ones to have sympathy for.
GReg Reimer
w/c 82
...and, as Eric would surely extend to anyone of us, if there is anything i can do for his first family, all you need do is let me know!

John Layton

October 1, 2011

The NE Florida Alumni Association of Pi Kappa Alpha Fraternity extends its sincere sympathy to Neese and family. Eric's father was a Pike along with Uncle Pete Goodling and Uncle John Goodling.

Faith, Love and Hope.

Allison Hall Hillis

October 1, 2011

You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Happy memories always seem to be emanating from Eric's childhood home on 5th Street and we hope these happy memories will carry the Goodling family through this time. Love, The Hillis Family

Wil & Sheila Wygal

September 30, 2011

Thank you for being a good friend, Eric.
Retired surfman, Wil Wygal, the 1st summer class of '87
Our family will miss Eric's visits to our home. Eric was always smiling, whether there for a "cook off" or to lend a helping hand.
Wil, Sheila, and family

Heather and Eric at Fletcher High School Play

Joy Sherman

September 30, 2011

Dearest Neese and family,
Although not in A.B., we are with you in spirt...our love, tears, and thoughts are with all of you. How fondly we remember Eric, always so polite to us...a real southern gentleman raised by wonderful parents. I remember, too, what a good uncle he was and the many plays and birthdays he celebrated with the boys. Here is one that I took during intermission when he accompanied us to a High School play in which both boys participated. I know it meant so much to the boys and to Heather and Beaver to have Uncle Eric there. We will always treasure those good memories.
With love and condolences from your extended family,
Rob & Joy

September 29, 2011

I have such fond memories of Eric at the beaches when we were all kids and soooo glad I got to visit him in Oregon. I will cherish that time and hold those memories very dear forever. I was awed by his sense & sensibility, the depth of his feelings, his respectfulness of others and perseverance. The news of his death is crushing - I'm adding photos of him & some of the good times so that we can remember & laugh. Much love & tears to all who knew & loved him, too. Kathryn Robbins (Kat Cuz...)

At Fort Goodling

Kathryn Robbins

September 29, 2011

The Goodling Five! Don't know the year...

Kathryn Robbins

September 29, 2011

Becoming quite the man at 11 years - 1979

Kathryn Robbins

September 29, 2011

8 Years Old

Kathryn Robbins

September 29, 2011

Eric at Easter - 4/11/71 - Just what I remember - lots of laughter, playing outside!

Kathryn Robbins

September 29, 2011

Eric's First Birthday

Kathryn Robbins

September 29, 2011

Eric & Mother Neese - February 1968

Kathryn Robbins

September 29, 2011

Big Sister Carter embracing Baby Brother Eric - then, and now...

Kathryn Robbins

September 29, 2011

Nikki Morris -Hall

September 29, 2011

Too early my sweet friend. You always seemed to smile with your eyes. Thinking of you Neese, Sandy, William, Beaver, Heather, Anna and those precious kiddoes.

Kathy Clower

September 29, 2011

Heather & Beav, Jim and I learned about your loss through the obituary in the Times-Union. We are so sorry. We have shared the information with your Eagle's Nest family.

Karen Dyer-Carter

September 28, 2011

Neese, we are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you and your family at this time of sorrow. Love always, Karen Dyer Carter

Jennifer Rowe

September 28, 2011

Many prayers Ant Neese

Linda Feather

September 28, 2011

More heartache for you and your family, Neese - I am thinking of you.

Maurine & Andy McCullough

September 28, 2011

We are keeping you in our prayers.

September 28, 2011

I remember Eric coming to our house with my daughter Lynn when they were teenagers. He was such a great kid and always smiling.I know he will be missed and may God comfort his family.

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