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Harold Frey Obituary

Dr. Harold J. Frey
Dr. Harold Jacob Frey, 90, of El Sobrante, Calif., passed away at home on Monday, Oct. 20, in his home. His daughter Pam was by his side and he was at peace. Hal had been in failing health for the last two years.
He was the husband of Wilma (Heiple) Frey. Born in Lehighton, he was a son of the late Charles and Mary (Kistler) Frey. Hal's love of gymnastics began in high school; he graduated in 1942. He went on to graduate from Penn State University. At Penn State, he competed on two National Amateur Athletic Union (NAAU) championship teams, one Eastern Intercollegiate Gymnastic League (EIGL) championship team and won gold in tumbling at the NAAU competition in 1944. He won three additional medals in tumbling at NAAU competitions. In the vaulting event, Hal won three NAAU medals.An all-around athlete, Hal was a member of the Penn State wrestling team and placed third in his weight class in the EIWL Championships. He also was a pole-vaulter and placed second and third in every meet.
There was no Olympic competition in 1944 due to World War II, but Hal was selected as an Honorary 1944 Olympic Team member by the National Collegiate Gymnastics Alumni Association (NCGAA) based on his fourth place AA performances at the National AAU competitions in 1944 and 1945.
Hal coached at the University of Illinois, Chicago (UIC), for 10 years, leading his men to team gold three times in the Midwest Open Championships, the NAAU Championships, (1949), and four undefeated seasons. A versatile coach, he coached soccer at UIC for three years, only losing two games total. His UIC soccer team was undefeated and won the Midwest Soccer Championship (1956).
In 1952, in Chicago, Hal met and married the love of his life, Wilma Heiple. In 1957, he moved his family to California so he could start the next chapter in his coaching career.
He served the University of California - Berkeley Golden Bear gymnastics program for more than four decades, including 27 years as head coach from 1958-69 and 1971-83. He earned NCAA Coach of the Year honors three times in his career and led Cal to NCAA team titles in both 1968 and '75. The Golden Bears won 12 Pac-8 Conference championships under his guidance.
Hal was a tenacious competitor and a master of strategy. He led Cal to 10 undefeated seasons between 1961 and '78 and posted a 238-39 dual-meet record during his tenure, including an 89 meet-win streak over a nine-year period. He oversaw 13 individual NCAA title-winners, six Olympians and one world champion.
Hal was instrumental in helping to galvanize college coaches and administrators who eventually replaced the Amateur Athletic Union (AAU) with the U.S. Gymnastics Federation (USGF) when the Federation International Gymnastic (FIG) recognized the USGF as the national governing body for U.S.A. gymnastics. The USGF later changed its name to U.S.A. Gymnastics.
Hal judged and was involved in the judging process for 58 years. He judged local high school meets, Jr. Olympic competitions, college dual meets, NCAA and NAAU Championships, Olympic trials, international meets such as the Goodwill Games, Pacific Alliance Games and the American Cup Championships. He also served as chair of the NCAA Rules Committee.
Hal was recognized over and over for his dedication to gymnastics and the pursuit of excellence. Humble and modest, he was always amazed when a governing body singled him out for an award. perhaps one of the best stories is the time in 1998 when he received the Service Star Award from USA Gymnastics for its "appreciation for outstanding contribution in the area of men's gymnastics." At the end of the championship competition held in Indianapolis, Ind., the award was to be given out at a banquet. The award was to have been a surprise, but Hal unwillingly ruined that plan by telling gymnastics officials that he didn't plan to stay for the entire competition. "I wasn't going to stay the whole week, but the guy called me and said it was supposed to be a surprise; he had to tell me," Hal said.
Hal was also a passionate fly fisherman, golfer and college instructor.
In addition to his bachelor's degree, he also earned his master's and Ph.D. degrees.
He always took the time to write encouraging and kind notes in the birthday cards he and Wilma sent out to family members and friends. They opened their home throughout the years to those who needed temporary housing.
Hal traveled extensively and he always looked forward to fishing trips in Canada and Alaska.
Surviving in addition to his widow are a daughter, Pamela Sue (Frey) Armer of Richmond, Calif.; two stepsons, Terry (Lissa) Newton of Lakeville, Ind., and Donald (Nancy) Newton of Plymouth, Ind.; three grandsons, Christopher, T.J. and Tim; and two great-grandsons, Tyler and Donovan. Throughout the years, they were all fortunate to spend time with him.
Hal and Wilma returned almost every summer to Lehighton so he could maintain his strong connection to his hometown. They also spent time in the Chicago area visiting with Wilma's sister, Dorothy Judd, and her four daughters, and frequently stopped in Arkansas to see Wilma's brother, Loren Heiple, and his wife, Bonnie.
When he retired, he and Wilma built a summer home at the edge of the Frey family farm in Lehighton. He loved the annual Frey reunion.
Hal was one of 12 children. Also left to cherish his memory are his siblings, Carrie Stewart, Myrtle Creitz, William "Willie" (Edna) Frey and Marlin (Betty) Frey, all of Lehighton, Charles "Chuck" (Narene) Frey of Andreas, Donald Frey of Levittown, Kermit Frey in Florida and Norwood "Woody" (Joan) Frey of Newtown; and many nieces and nephews.
He was also preceded in death by three brothers, Paul Frey, Nevin Frey and Russell Frey.
Service: A celebration of life service will be held at a later date. Per Hal's wishes, cremation has taken place.
Contributions in his name may be made to the following fund that is already established at the University of California - Berkeley: The Dr. Harold Frey Scholarship for Men's Gymnastics,
Cal Athletics Department - Attn: Kevin McCormick, 195 Haas Pavilion, Berkeley, Calif. 94720-4422. Please be sure to send a note directing your donation to the Dr. Harold Frey Scholarship for Men's Gymnastics fund.
The family would like to extend a special and heartfelt thank you to everyone who has been a part of Hal's wonderful life. Deep in our hearts, Hal will always stay, loved and remembered every day.
Portions of the wording in this obituary were found on the following websites. His career and contributions to the sport of gymnastics are well-documented. http://www.calbears.com/ViewArticle.dbml?DB_OEM_ID=30100&ATCLID=209732009; http://www.usghof.org/files/bio/h_frey/h_frey.html; and http://articles.mcall.com/1998-09-10/news/3209200_1_usa-gymnastics-harold-frey-gymnastics-team.

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Published by Times News on Oct. 25, 2014.

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Art Shurlock

March 5, 2015

Hal had been a part of my life for over 60 years. I am grateful that my wife and I decided to spend the holidays with Hal and Wilma in 2012. They were both still in good health and we were able to share our memories. We cherish the time we were able to spend together. We are deeply saddened by their passing and miss them every day.

Hal and one of his Alaska salmon.

February 28, 2015

Hal and I both taught in the Department of Physical Education at Cal from the early 1960s through the 1990s. We continued fishing together as long as he was able to. He loved to catch fish.

I was always impressed by How much Hal accomplished coaching under adverse conditions and initially attributed it to ability, long hours, and hard work. But one day during our fishing, I saw something more that I believe helped shape his success.

That day was unusual because we were not catching fish. When I checked the water temperature, I realized we would be lucky to catch even one fish. So, although I continued to fish hard, I scaled down my expectations.

At the end of the day I reeled in and went to watch Hal's last cast. Neither of us had caught a fish. But when he failed to catch one on that last cast, he was suddenly in a state of complete disbelief. He had still fully expected to catch a fish on that cast. Apparently the limiting conditions of that day were not allowed to enter his mind, and the hundreds of unsuccessful casts he had just made were somehow irrelevant. His only reality during that cast was an unwavering belief that he was going to catch a fish. I had never seen a response like that. It reminded me of a man of strong faith who has seen the circumstances of his life turn sour, yet still has complete trust that God is abut to pour down a blessing on him.

So I began to get the picture of a coach who, on one hand, fought hard to overcome limitations affecting his program, yet would not allow those limitations to interfere with his focus on the potential of what could be achieved. When we look through a filter of limitations, that perspective can eventually erode away high expectations. Hal couldn't do that. He expected only the best that was possible from himself and those he coached.

And that is exactly what he got.

Rest well, my friend,

Al Kyte

David Kruse

October 28, 2014

I will never forget his passion for teaching, but most importantly, he constantly provided an example of how to decide what you feel is important in life and never stopping until it is achieved. I will cherish the impromptu lunch we had in South Bend, Indiana, during which we spoke about finding a balance between family and career. Here's to an amazing life and individual.

Dan Connelly

October 27, 2014

Hal was very important to me in my development as a coach and gymnast. After having been recruited by Hal I went ot USC. He was always very kind to me even though I made that choice. He made a tremendous impact on many people over his career and I am one. I will very much miss this very giving person.

Dave Peterson

October 26, 2014

What a great man, mentor, and driving force for men's gymnastics. Hal was always so welcoming, supportive, and direct - we all can learn so much from men like Hal. I will miss the occasional discussion on the direction the sport is going and how we can all advocate to make it better. His kind and encouraging words to me directly will always be treasured. Thank you Hal, for a life to live up to.

Linda, Rachel & Paul

Paul, Linda & Rachel Tickenoff

October 26, 2014

Dear Wilma and Family,

Even though I knew Hal's health had not been good for the past couple years, non-the-less, my heart was saddened over the news of his passing. I pray all will be well with you and family and that God graciously gives you comfort and good health as time passes.

Hal was a beloved and treasured friend and will be dearly missed. Please let us know when and where the memorial of life for Hal will be held. If at all possible, we would love to be there.

With much Love to you and family from ours,

October 25, 2014

Wilma - Very sorry to hear about Hal, we suspected problems when we didn't hear from you lately. Our prayers are with you. I will cherish his friendship and generosity for ever. God bless you and Pam. Love , Bob & Gwen Kreidler

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