Nathan Havens Obituary

HAVENS

Nathan Beau



Nathan Beau Havens, 42, beloved son of James and Karen Havens of Woodville, Ohio and brother of Amy S. Havens of Ocean City, New Jersey, died unexpectedly of natural causes on June 21, 2013, in Brunswick, Georgia.

Beau was born August 27, 1970 in Toledo and attended Harvard Elementary School before moving to Woodville in 1978. A superbly graceful and gifted athlete, he excelled especially in basketball and track at Woodmore schools and later Oak Harbor High School, from which he graduated in 1988. He led Oak Harbor's basketball team to its first SBC Conference championship in 1987, and the 4 X 800 track team to Oak Harbor's first state track championship in 1988. He attended Ohio State University and Lincoln Electric Welding School, held a variety of jobs in construction and was an excellent house painter.

Confirmed into the Woodville United Methodist Church in 1984, he had recently found a warm and welcoming church home at tiny North Brunswick Christian Church.

An auto accident in 1988, which he just barely survived, killed a friend and altered the course of his life. He began to travel, usually on foot, throughout the United States, working in Arizona, Missouri, Colorado, South Dakota, Oregon, Utah, Wyoming, Nebraska, Iowa, Idaho, Texas, Tennessee, Florida and New Jersey. He married twice briefly, but mostly preferred to fight his demons alone. A keen watcher of birds and animals and the constellations under which he often slept, Beau forged a rare connection to the natural world and its creatures and conditions, requiring little and experiencing much. He was a man who lived on his own terms, not the world's.

Friends of his youth will recall how funny, bright and generous he was, how kind to small children, how attuned to the feelings of others, as well as how formidable he could be. Despite everything, those qualities and his love for his family never really left him.

A memorial service for Beau will be held on Saturday, July 20, 2013, at 2 p.m. at the Woodville United Methodist Church, 210 W. First St., Woodville. His boyhood pastor, Rev. Richard Thomas will officiate and there will be opportunity for sharing reminiscences. His ashes will later be interred in a family cemetery in southern New Jersey.

Tributes to Beau can be sent to the North Brunswick Christian Church, 3131 Cypress Mill Road, Brunswick, GA 31525 or to the Georgia Sea Turtle Rescue Center at Jekyll Island Foundation, 381 Riverview Drive, Jekyll Island, GA 31527.

Published by The Blade from Jul. 7 to Jul. 9, 2013.
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This was very tragic to me. I was married to Beau from 95-98. He was a troubled man but not a troubled soul. He knew Jesus and wasn't afraid to tell the world in spite of his affliction with alcoholism. I loved him deeply when nobody else understood him. He made me laugh. I will always look back at our time together with love.

Tammy McIntosh Yates Havens Miller

RIP BEAU and say hi to Justin for me

Tammy Miller

May 15, 2014

I am Kelly's mother. I'm so sorry to hear about Beau. He was a wonderful person. I wish we had known sooner.

February 7, 2014

Dear Jim, Karen and Amy,
Please accept our deepest sympathies. We are so sorry we were unable to attend Beau's Celebration of Life and heard it was very special.The Obituary was moving. I will always cherish the beautiful letter he wrote me. You all are in our prayers. With Love Always, Joanie, Aunt Maria, Christopher and Brian

Joan Cochran

August 25, 2013

We are praying for you Beau and know you are up there with my dad and his brothers and all our Havens relatives. Thank you for the wonderful letter you wrote me. You will always be in our hearts. With Love, Cousin Joanie, Aunt Maria and Christopher

Joan Cochran

August 25, 2013

Amy Johns

July 26, 2013

Rest in peace Beau, one of the most talented athletes ever and quick wit that could always produce chuckles...we are blessed to have known you:)

Katie Screptock-Plantz

July 21, 2013

Dear Jim, Karen, & Amy,
May HIS peace be with you during this time of bereavement. We wish we were able to travel more easily but cannot so we pray for your solace and for Beau's soul. May he rest in peace.

George & Margie Bondor

July 19, 2013

I have many nice memories of Beau and our school days at Woodmore. His smile was infectious and he was always a sweet person. Hoping his family can find comfort knowing Beau has finally found Peace.

Mary Thomasson

July 19, 2013

Karen, Jim & Amy ... I am so sorry for your loss. My memories of Beau will always be of the great times as kids playing bombardment in your backyard and basketball upstairs in the barn. Thoughts and prayers from my family to yours.

Tracy ( Bondor) Nelson

July 17, 2013

Karen, Amy and Jim: Again, my condolences. The obituary notice was beautiful, and so is the photo of Beau. He was obviously much admired and loved.

Barbara Kulzer

July 17, 2013

I never spoke with Beau, but as a fellow track competitor in high school, he was simply one of the most gifted athletes I have ever seen. May he rest in peace.

July 17, 2013

Never met Beau, but knowing his family, a wonderful person was lost to these times.
To hear that he traveled and enjoyed every bit of the beautiful earth he covered, I honor him.
We all have our way of honoring the earth we are part of, and Beau fulfilled that.
My deepest sympathies to Karen, Jim and Amy for the loss of a wonderful son and brother.

Pat Strobl

July 16, 2013

Karen, Jim and Amy-Think of you daily, we love you and know that you will find peace together. Reflection of fond memories and time will heal the heart and mind. Were always here for you as you have been for us. Fondly and heartfelt, Mary, Sarah, Betsey, Josh and Jennifer Havens

July 16, 2013

Beau was my 1st best friend, he took me under his wing when I moved to woodville from England. He was & is an inspiration to me & many others, I am blessed to have known him so well for so long ! I will always remember him, with much fondness and love. I will see you in heaven brother ! My sympathies & prayers to Jim, Karen, & Amy .

Luke Riseborough

July 16, 2013

God bless.

Nick Magers

July 14, 2013

To Beau's Family,

We deeply regret your loss and our hearts, thoughts and hopes are with you.
We wish we knew Beau, but we did'nt. That is our great loss.
But, maybe in someway, we can know Beau through your family.
Your family has a joy for life; dedication toward adventure; love of humanity, friends and family; and the imagination of change for the better.
From now on, through your family and all of our families, especially in the rememberance of those who passed and those who continue on, we shall all remember your Beau.

Bless Beau.

With Love from Bob, Helen and Mickayla,
and with deep remembrence from your aunt Ruth.

Vaeth Robert

July 13, 2013

My heart feels for you. Beau and I were friends and had had lockers next to each other in High School. We even went on a couple of dates. He was very special! I am so so sorry to hear about his last days. You are in my prayers. We'll see Beau in Heaven.

Tamara Dailey

July 13, 2013

so sorry for your loss. we went to school together and i remember how well liked he was. we are thinking of you all and may God hold you close and bring you comfort

Jeff young

July 12, 2013

You have my sympathy. Denny Epling

July 12, 2013

You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Bev Rings

July 12, 2013

Jim and Family,

Sorry to hear about the passing of Nathan. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of your family during this sad and difficult time.

John & Sue Vaeth

July 11, 2013

You have told me the special place in your heart your brother held Amy and I send you warm thoughts to give you some comfort in what must be a very difficult time for your whole family and friends....see you soon- Sue Van Duyne

July 11, 2013

July 11, 2013

Sending love and support. So very sorry for your loss.

Karen Barlow

July 11, 2013

Our hearts go out to you all at this time. The love you shared as a family held a depth few families have. Beau was truly his own man and we will honor that.

Nancy Morrison

July 11, 2013

I am a friend of Amy's and although I never met Beau I felt like I knew him through the stories and love Amy always had for her brother. I know his family will miss him and I send my condolences to you all. His soul is soaring and free to give his light to the universe. My love to you all. Lenore

Lenore OConnell

July 10, 2013

Amy, Karen and Jim, I cannot help but think of Beau's smile and the happier times that accompanied it. My thoughts are with each you, with a special hug to Amy.

Julie Rice

July 10, 2013

We have wonderful memories of a beautiful & charming boy with much natural talent. Jim, Karen & Amy, may your pain be lessened by the hope that Beau has found his elusive peace. Our love and prayers are with your family.

Bem & Kate Rice

July 10, 2013

My sincere condolences to Beau's family on his passing. I was Beau's 6th grade camp counselor and enjoyed his vibrant personality. He even recognized me when I saw him just over a year ago. His obituary described him from the time I met him til the last time I was able to see him. He truly was a remarkable young man. God Bless to his family and THANK YOU for sharing his life.

Dan Cuevas

July 10, 2013

I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of your son. Please know you are in my prayers.

Lisa Mitten

July 10, 2013

watching this young man slam dunk the basketball as a high school athlete brought a smile to many faces. we were proud to have you on our team at oak harbor high school. thank you for the memories.

July 10, 2013

Very sad to hear this. Beau was a great friend to me in my trying times. Though I haven't seen him in many years I've often thought of him and his wonderful family. RIP Beau!!!

Mike Eichman

July 10, 2013

Jim and Family
Sorry to hear of the loss of your son

Jesse & Kay Ottney

July 9, 2013

We are so sorry to hear about Nathan... may you find comfort in prayer to the God of all comfort, and may he help you all through this difficult time.

Becca and Isaac

July 9, 2013

Offering sincere condolences. It's comforting to know that "God cares for you" and invites you to look to Him for comfort. 1 Peter 5:6,7

July 9, 2013

To Mr and Mrs Havens and Amy, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Beau. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult and sad time.

Carol Leigh Montgomery-Meyers

July 9, 2013

Beautiful Beau....I am so glad he was part of my life....he was such a great person...he seen the good in people and he made you feel good about you...he will always be special to me...and our time spent together will never be forgotten...and I pray the lord wraps his arms around you and tells you its all gonna be ok....till I see you again my friend. My prayers go out to your family.

Julie Edwards

July 9, 2013

Jim, Karen & Amy,
Prayers to you during this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. There are so many memories of Beau through church and school. He had a beautiful smile and sparkling eyes and always could make you smile and laugh with his quick witted comments. His memory will live on forever.

Jill (Bowman) Bosh

July 9, 2013

I'll never forget those beautiful bright blue eyes and impish grin with which Beau charmed me in English class. Peace, Beau.

Karen Haensch

July 8, 2013

May the power of God work through others as God worked in Beau's life.

Michael Ontko

July 8, 2013

May god bless him

July 8, 2013

Prayers for the family of Beau. What a beautifully written obituary. May his memory live on forever.

July 8, 2013

Beau, A loss for us on earth, a gain to the kingdom of heaven. Your spirit will live on forever!
Hugs and prayers to a strong family and all whose life he touched.

Laura Lang

July 8, 2013

Our sincere sympathy to Amy, Jim, and Karen. I have many memories of your wonderful, talented family. Beau will be missed by many and your beautifully worded obituary is a great tribute.
Dr. and Mrs. Bernard J Judis

Bernard Judis

July 8, 2013

Jim, Karen and Amy, It seem like yesterday watching Beau, Kirk and Dennis riding those BIG WHEELS up and down the sidewalk those three sure had a great time. Many years have past but we could never forget our special neighbors from Circular Dr. Our deepest sympathy. Beau and your entire family will always be in our thoughts and prayers. Jim & Janice Mackley

Jim & Janice Mackley

July 8, 2013

Our prayers and thoughts go out to the family.


Richard, Robert and Carolyn Astle (Nicolosi)

July 8, 2013

Mr. Havens' obituary was beautifully expressed showing great love, compassion and wisdom for him. Well done.

July 8, 2013

My prayers and thoughts are with his family. I remember Beau from school. His great athletic talent and kindness to everyone. I'm so sorry. May he rest in peace.

Steffanie Cruz

July 8, 2013

Prayers will be with you and your family

Ken Hernandez

July 7, 2013

So sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathies to Amy, Karen & Jim.

Wendy (Owen) Miller

July 7, 2013

Rest in peace. Prayers with the family.

R Thompson

July 7, 2013

Thoughts and prayers for Jim, Karen, and Amy...Beau was a wonderful, gracious individual. May the many happy memories carry you all through this very emotional time. Much love...

Chris Bondor

July 7, 2013

So many really good memories from your days at Woodmore and visits to our home. You gave us lots of smiles and your laughter was contagious. God bless you and rest in peace Beau.

Sharon (Cummings) Dunn

July 7, 2013

Jim, Karen, and Amy, you have my deepest sympathy for your loss. Beau is at peace now and forever. The obit is a beautiful tribute to him. May the wonderful memories be with you always.
Judy and Mark Karchner

July 7, 2013

Brett Krieger

July 7, 2013

So many great memories of Beau it is hard to pick a favorite and even though I haven't seen him in some time, I will miss him always. My prayers go out to his family.

Vicki Shrader-Selhorst

July 7, 2013

Prayers for your family...

Misty Mcclain Otterson

July 7, 2013

Lisa Oestreich

July 7, 2013

My thoughts & prayers are with you all. So sorry for your loss.

Erica Fisher-Dailey

July 7, 2013

Great guy. ALWAYS smiling. Thank you for the memories Beau.

You can now Rest In Peace my friend.

T Rodriguez

July 7, 2013

Beau's obituary captures his spirit perfectly. Beau engaged me more than once with his spirit and bright eyed smile. May his family and friends find peace and comfort.

Jan Preston

July 7, 2013

So many good memories of Beau. Lots of laughs and fun. I will be keeping him and your family in my prayers

Emily Kruse-Costell

July 7, 2013

I have fond memories of Beau, he had bright eyes and made us laugh, and always generous. Prayers for the family.

Stephanie (Rife) Jennings

July 7, 2013

RIH Beau...so many great memories and tons of laughs. You were one of a kind. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.

Emily Kruse-Costell

July 7, 2013

what a kind soul, gone too soon

July 7, 2013

Beau was truly one-of-a-kind in all the best ways. Handsome, kind, and thoughtful. Never spoke a bad word about anyone. Rest in peace, my friend.

Aimee Markin

July 7, 2013

So many fun memories of times with Beau... continued prayers for Jim, Karen and Amy...

Grant Cummings

July 7, 2013

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