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Dick Torio

1929 - 2014

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1929

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2014

Dick Torio Obituary

(News article) Dick Torio, a former All-American wrestler and the longtime owner of a legendary West Toledo fitness club, died on Tuesday. He was 84.

Mr. Torio died at Hospice of Northwest Ohio in Perrysburg Township. A cause of death was not immediately available.

A former All-American wrestler at the University of Toledo and a Korean War veteran, Mr. Torio opened Torio's Health Club on Berwick Avenue in 1957, where it remained until closing in 2013.

While Mr. Torio was known for his dedication to fitness and to a healthy lifestyle, his daughter, Sheila, spoke of her father's presence within the community and his attributes as someone with networking skills.

Each Christmas, Ms. Torio said, her father would string up the holiday cards the family received - cards that came from neighbors in Toledo and from as far away as Japan, Turkey, and Iran. It was a testament, she said, to her father's gift as a conversationalist.

"He never knew a stranger," Ms. Torio said. "Everyone he met, he reached out to them. That's why he had so many enduring relationships. Any age, any generation, he made a friend."

Born Dominic Torio on Dec. 31, 1929, in Jersey City, N.J., he grew up a child of the Great Depression. In the years immediately after the Depression, his family did whatever it could to make ends meet, including "home work" in the tenements of the New York City suburbs. That would include anything from sewing buttons on coats to shelling peanuts inside the home, and those tasks meant extra money for families.

"My dad saw it as a golden opportunity," Ms. Torio said. "That gave his family access to work they may not have had. He shined shoes. He offered to carry peoples' groceries up four flights of steps in a tenement just to make a few coins. He was always a very busy person, a person who saw an opportunity and took it. He was a go-getter. That was him. That's who he was."

John Robinson Block, publisher and editor-in-chief of The Blade, mourned Mr. Torio's passing.

"Anyone privileged enough to know Dick Torio loved him and was lucky he chose to spend his life in our city," Mr. Block said.

Mr. Torio was a multisport athlete at Jersey City's Lincoln High School, but in his final season of high school football, he underwent surgery to insert steel plates into a broken arm and was in a cast for two months. A doctor told him he would never participate in sports again.

Mr. Torio wouldn't hear of it. He went to the University of Toledo with childhood friend Jim Vitale, a former Rogers High School athletic director, and joined the Rockets' wrestling program.

"We came here on a Greyhound bus in 1949," Mr. Torio told The Blade in 2012. "I went to Toledo partially because [UT coach] Joe Scalzo was starting wrestling there. We didn't have wrestling in high school."

Mr. Torio became the first college wrestler to earn All-America status at three weight classes: In 1951, he placed third in the NCAA tournament at 177 pounds; in 1952, he took fourth at heavyweight, and in 1953, he placed third at 191.

He later became a wrestling coach at UT and was one of the sport's top international referees, working at the summer Olympic games in 1960, 1964, 1972, and 1976. In 1968, he was manager of the U.S. Greco-Roman wrestling team. Mr. Torio was inducted into the AAU National Wrestling Hall of Fame.

Mr. Torio coached Greg Wojciechowski, an Olympic heavyweight wrestler and an NCAA champion at the University of Toledo. He said Mr. Torio had a natural gift for teaching, as well as a strong sense of family values and a passion for the sport of wrestling.

"He was a giving person," Mr. Wojciechowski said. "He used to run amateur wrestling tournaments in the area as a volunteer, and he would travel around the country, doing it all as a volunteer. He was giving, and he was good at what he did."

As the owner of Torio's Health Club, he ran a venue that drew a cross-section of Toledo residents, from Olympic-caliber wrestlers to local judges and blue-collar workers.

In the gym, Mr. Torio was known to cut an intimidating presence with both his intellect and his physical stature. In working with gym members, sometimes he found the big issues and emphasized cross-training. Other times he'd find where small adjustments needed to be made.

"His favorite thing was to let you do an exercise that was particularly difficult," said Jon Richardson, a Toledo lawyer. "He'd let you get to the end of it and then he'd say, 'I don't think you're doing that right.' He'd tell you do to it over, and that was his all-time favorite thing to do to somebody."

Mr. Richardson admitted that he could never appease Mr. Torio with what the gym owner considered the "perfect squat." But he remembered when an Olympic-caliber wrestler pleaded with Mr. Torio that he couldn't bench press a heavier weight.

Mr. Torio told him to stop doing bench presses and to focus on squats for two weeks, even as the wrestler argued that he wanted to improve his bench press. When the wrestler returned to the bench press, he found he could lift additional weight.

"He knew there was a right way and a wrong way to do something, and that you maximized the benefit if you did it the right way," Mr. Richardson said. "For Mr. Torio, a subtle change was an essential change."

But unlike current fitness centers and gyms, Mr. Torio reached out to every individual who walked into his facility, whether it was a high school student or a senior citizen.

"You do not see that now," said Don Harbaugh, a Toledo resident and the head of HDD Holdings. "At that time, this was a real gym. There were wrestling mats and free weights, and discipline was needed to exercise properly.

"Dick wouldn't let you get away with doing anything that wasn't correct. He helped your discipline and your self-worth."

The gym also provided an intellectual haven. Mr. Harbaugh recalled that Mr. Torio's gruff exterior belied his intelligence and his affinity toward others. Mr. Torio would pin newspaper clippings on the walls of the facility and underline passages that struck a chord in them, a conversation-starter for gym members.

"You came in to release the stress of the day and to get physical relief, but the mental side of it was just as important," Mr. Harbaugh said. "Dick was a developer of your character and your intellect, and there was a feeling for your community and for the people who needed your help. It was much, much more than a gym. There was the feeling that it was also a classroom at the gym."

Her father's gym and his family, Sheila Torio said, were the focus of his life.

"He was always reaching out to people, and his favorite avenue was through health," she said. "Whether it was through sports or helping people become healthy."

Mr. Torio is survived by his wife, Barbara Grochowski of Toledo; seven children, Mary Torio, Coady Torio, Sheila Torio, Gino Torio, Tony Torio, Angela Beauregard, and Theresa Torio; and 13 grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his first wife, Ann Cody, in 1977.

Arrangements are by Blanchard-Strabler Funeral Home. The family will receive visitors at 9 a.m. Saturday at Gesu Roman Catholic Parish, followed by a Mass at 11 a.m.

Contact Blade sports writer Rachel Lenzi at: [email protected], 419-724-6510, or on Twitter @RLenziBlade.
Published by The Blade on Dec. 10, 2014.

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December 9, 2019

Yikes...December 9th..it's been 5 years of learning my new life. I've been blessed in so many ways. Love to you dear husband!

Lou manning

September 4, 2019

Mr.Torio
Your spirit lives on in family & community!
The welcome/hospitality mat both in the gym and in your home was always present!
You encouraged all of us in both body & soul!
You represented the best of Toledo!
To you & your earthly family I thank you for your graces & kindness!
Love & Godbless!
Beannacht Leat!

Lou Manning,
Toronto, Canada.

Leilani Torio

September 3, 2019

He was my grampa, and I loved him. I grieve over his memory and pray for him in heaven. I believe he comes to me as a cardinal. This particular cardinal watches through my window while I am watching TV.

September 26, 2017

December 31, 2016

Happy Birthday! We miss you down here ... God bless! I love you.

Tony

Barbara Torio

October 10, 2015

I Love You

Bianca Lloyd

June 11, 2015

I am so so so sad knowing that The Dad is no longer with us. I wish I had known sooner. He was always like a grandfather to me and I remember our time together with such fondness. I miss you all and hope that his memory and kind words from everyone bring peace to you.

Chuck Hong

December 25, 2014

I was so sorry to hear about the passing of Dick Torio. I worked for Dick at his Club in the '60's while attending UT. He had a great impact on my life. He'll be greatly missed.

Michael & Nancy McCray

December 18, 2014

Dear Barb and Family We were sorry to hear about Dick. We are sending our prayers to you The McCray Family

Tom Talbott

December 14, 2014

My best to the family.
Dick Torio,great man and real fine friend.
he helped me thru out my career.
Tom TD Talbott

Kenny Sigler

December 14, 2014

I was very sad by the closing of Torio health club.I joined the club in 1959 many men have gone through that club the better for having know Dick.Then I was shocked by his passing,if you knew Dick in the old days you would have thought he would go on forever.My prayers go to Barbara and all the family. Kenny Sigler

James Muhn

December 13, 2014

To the Torio Family:

My condolences to all of the Family.

As mentioned in this Guest Book, Mr. Torio was and will live on as a very underated I-Con for all of what he did to help people for Wrestling and the unique Health Club.

He helped and guided MANY PEOPLE in so MANY ways.

It was great to see him and the many members at an Open House when the Club closed.

He was very strict on how to do the deep knee bends. I still remember and practice all of what he taught me in weight training.

May he now rest in peace.

Sincerely,


Jim Muhn
Maumee, Ohio

Tom Clark

December 13, 2014

I posted this on Facebook and thought I would put it here too

I am sorry to learn of the death of Dick Torio today. Dick wrestled at the Univ of Toledo in the early 50's and was a 3-time All American in 3 different weight classes. He refereed wrestling at the Olympic games in 60,64,72 and 76. In 68 he was the Team Leader for the Olympic Greco team. He owned a gym that was a gathering place for wrestlers and weightlifters.
Although I never actually refereed with Dick he always offered a word of encouragement and sound advice whenever I would see him. When I was selected to work the Olympic games he was one of the people I called and he was very happy for me.
He was certainly by all accounts one of the best referees we ever put on the mat. More importantly he was one of the finest human beings I ever met.
I can remember wrestling in freestyle tournaments in Toledo and Dick was always there. That's one of the reasons I still work the local events...if it was good enough for Dick Torio, it's good enough for me.
Dick is seated to my immediate right in this picture. It was from the 2009 Greater Toledo Wrestling Coaches Association Hall of Fame induction. It was only the 2nd induction class into that Hall of Fame. Being inducted with Dick, Joe Scalzo Jr and Greg Wojiechowski was one of the best days of my life because all 3 men were my heroes.
God Bless you Dick Torio.

December 13, 2014

Dear Barb,there are no words to express the sympathy that is with you and your family. Our hearts go out to you. Dick would always teach training techniques for anyone looking for that winning edge, from athletes and coaches to parents and even business people. His friendly skills would take your performance to the next level. I remember Dick telling me mental training and toughness are just as important as physical talent. With sympathy, Merrell and Karin Solowin, Naples, Fl

Richard Minerley

December 13, 2014

What a sad loss for so many of us. As Dick Torio's nephew, many years of persistent memories flood my thoughts.

Uncle Dick's visits to the family home in Jersey City were always a cause for celebration – a chance to hear more stories of far away places, intriguing people, and exciting events.

And, of course, the opportunity for my three uncles to disagree on everything. At the dinner table, no quarter was expected – nor given. And no opinion was ever changed or modified in the least. But I supposed that's what brothers are for.

Fortunately, my Mom and Grandmother were always peacemakers.

I remember Uncle Dick loading his nephews into a sled and pulling us over the snow covered streets of Jersey City.

The frantic last minute car rides to Newark Airport.

How grateful I was that Uncle Dick took my brother and me (5 times!) to the '64 – '65 Worlds Fair at Flushing Meadows and the Olympic trials at Singer Bowl. And how we methodically sampled wares from one hotdog stand after another.

The “big slide” at the Toledo Swim Club and, of course, the magic that was the Torio Health Club.

I remember how proud he was of his children. How through the years, he called my Mom frequently (and always on New Year's Eve) to update us on the Torio Clan and to ask about us and my son, a young man he never met.

His Christmas cards that always ended with, “God Bless.”

I last saw Uncle Dick and Aunt Barbara at my wedding. My wife observing, “What wonderful people they are!”

I feel that a beautiful candle flame has gone out. But perhaps a flame that has touched and lit a thousand others is not truly gone.

I am forever grateful and privileged to have known this remarkable, extraordinary man.

December 12, 2014

Barb
Sorry to read about Dick's passing. I did not know him, but several college friends of mine worked out under his supervision. Best wishes to you and hope our paths cross again some time.
Regards,
Ernie Perry

Lu O'Mainin

December 12, 2014

A Life well lived and shared with family,community and the world. A rare gem, a mentor, and a gentleman. Thank you to all the Torio family for sharing your dad and husband with the wider athletic community!
We are in his debt for living better lives thanks to his inspiration and welcome over the years! Beannacht De ar a ainm dhilis!

Bill Uckele

December 12, 2014

Dick Torio was a pioneer in the world of physical fitness. In the late 50's Torio's was one of the very few gyms in town and at a time when most coaches felt weight training wasn't necessary. It was at this time when I first met Dick Torio, he was an inspiration to myself and many others to pursue a life of healthy living and training. The world will truly miss Dick Torio. My condolences to the family.

jim kosmyna

December 12, 2014

Rest in Peace My Friend.
God Bless

Sue Stelmaszak

December 12, 2014

Theresa, Angie, and all the Torio family, sorry for your loss. Prayers for you all during this time.

Tim Starner

December 12, 2014

His importance and style will never be forgotten!

Ed Alves

December 11, 2014

Thanks for sharing your gym and your love of wrestling! Rest in peace.

Melissa Wurch

December 11, 2014

There is no one like Dick Torio. He will be missed by many! Love and prayers for peace during this time.

December 11, 2014

Prayers for Mr. Torio. Was always kind to me.
Miss him and Father Scalzo. Ernest Jacob
San Leandro, CA

Jim & Karen Blanchard

December 11, 2014

Torio Family, I am sorry for your loss of your father. He was a great man who influenced many, young and old to reach for their goals. God Bless!

Natasha Roberts

December 11, 2014

Dick always put a smile on everyones face, with his hats and wigs he would wear or his funny jokes he would tell. He will be greatly missed

December 11, 2014

Sorry to hear about Mr. Torio passing away. Ishall remember him always.

Jackie Shaw

December 11, 2014

Shaun Scott and I wish to send the Torio family our deepest condolences. I loved meeting him and hearing all the wrestling stories. Shaun went to the Torio Health Club at the age of 12 and what a privilege to work out at a wonderful gym for many, many years. Dick was one of the most inspirational people in his life and he will be deeply missed. We will also cherish the memories of him. May God be very close to each of you during this time of grief and bless each of you richly. Shaun and I send our love to you Barbara and his entire family

Myrna Bradley

December 11, 2014

"Yo" aka Shelia, I was sad to hear about your dad, they are such an important figure in our lives no matter our age. Know I am keeping you and your family close to my heart and in my prayers.
Love you, Dahling

Chuck Travis

December 11, 2014

Deepest condolences to the Torio family for your loss.

Vicki (Smith) Augsburger

December 11, 2014

I remember Dick with my father Vern Smith at Sunnyside Pool the world wrestling.the gym, as I grew up I would work out on the ladies side. At the gym and swim in the pool to get ready for my swim meets. Dick enjoyed young people he did so much for them to bring your best out never give up. My heart is with you and your family.God Bless

Josip MRKOCI

December 11, 2014

I was sorry to hear about DICK TORIO. We were WRESTLING Friends as well as FILA Referee Friends. I have know DICK since 1968 and had an opportunity to Referee at the 1976 Montreal Olympic Games and a number of World Cup of Wrestling in TOLEDO including 1973. Dick and Joe Scalzo started WORLD CUP of WRESTLING in Toledo. Dick was a great Man, great Referee, a Coach and a friend to many WRESTLERS promoting the Sport of OLYMPIC STYLE WRESTLING. On behalf of London, Ontario Wrestling Community and Canadian Wrestling Community our condolences to his Family. We will cherish the memories of our WRESTLING Friend - DICK TORIO forever.

Vernon Smith III

December 11, 2014

Dear Torio Family,, I am deeply saddened by your loss. Dick was a very close friend to my father and Mother Vern and Ruth Smith. He was also an inspiration to myself growing up. He taught me to never be afraid of any challenge and just go for it! He was also A fabulous Italian cook! He was so kind to my mother after the death of my father,, I will always love and remember him. My Condolences to all your family. Vernon Martin Smith III. Dunnellon Florida

Tina Warren

December 10, 2014

Uncle Dick will be missed by many. I am glad he was in our lives growing up and shared so much love and family with us all. Godspeed and know forever you are in our hearts. Tina Pontarollo Warren

Jim Cannon

December 10, 2014

Gino please accept deepest condolences from the Cannon family.

Margaret Sapp

December 10, 2014

It was my honor and privilege to know this legendary man. first time I met him was at his amazing gym and yes I was totally spellbound. Then and forever. he was 1 in a million and I wish the best for his family.

Bill Kest

December 10, 2014

Mr.Torio introduced me to weight training. Thanks to Mr. Torio's help and training, I excelled in high school wrestling ( 4 yrs at Central Catholic HS). May God bless you.

Lance Stranahan

December 10, 2014

Dick was a great friend of my father, Frank Stranahan, who worked out at his gym many times. Dick also showed my dad some wrestling moves..which he taught me when I was a kid.I had the pleasure of seeing him about seven years ago, when I visited Toledo. We had a great chat and I enjoyed working out in his vintage gym. What a wonderful guy.

Jill Fielding O'Connor

December 10, 2014

Torio family, I am so sorry for your loss. I have so many fond memories of your whole family, the Y, and playing at your Dad's gym. What a beautiful spirit, with a glimmer of fun in his eyes. I hope your memories and those of others bring you some comfort.

Ron Galdys

December 10, 2014

Much has already been said so I will just add that 55 years later, I am still doing the workout that I learned at Torio's health club. And of course doing it correctly. We have lost a giant but not the memories.

Bruce McLaughlin

December 10, 2014

Dick Torio'a gym was unlike any other in the Toledo area then and now. There were no fancy machines to inflate the cost of membership without significant benefit. The equipment was all business. The cost of membership was kept more than reasonable. Perhaps the most attractive thing about the facility was that Dick and the people he hired to assist him knew what they were doing and really cared about the members. Your progress was carefully monitored and constantly encouraged. After a workout there was an opportunity to discuss the events of the day with some extremely interesting people. As the article said, you had the opportunity of both physical and intellectual stimulation. The world will miss Dick Torio. He was one of the good guys.

Rex Ruby

December 10, 2014

Mr. Torio was one the nicest and most encouraging people I have ever met. His contribution to others and particularly those of us who wrestled in the Toledo area cannot be measured. He was an example of what a good man is.
Thank you Mr. Torio.

Clark Baker

December 10, 2014

It was an honor and privelage to be coached by this man. Coach "Wojo" introduced some of his Libbey wrestlers to Torio's gym in the late 1990's. He is a legend and gave so freely of his time and knowledge. He was instramental in developing many of us into better wrestlers and young athletes. One statement he'd often tell us was "you can do it your way, when they put your name on the building, but until then do it again, the way I'm telling you to." I'll never forget the sound of that buzzer from our timed drills. His coaching style was life changing to say the least. Torio is by far the most underrated Toledo icons of all time. He helped me and my teammates tremendously and gets much of the credit for our wrestling successes. I saw several Olympians training there over the years. Coach Torio, I'm only a very small part of your legacy but will proudly carry it on, Rest in peace.

Michael Siffer

December 10, 2014

Knee mail on the way for your family. Celebrate his life!!

December 10, 2014

Dick Torio was my teacher and friend. I would not have become the official that I am today without his teaching and guidance. His presence at competitions always seem to relax everyone because they knew that if they needed guidance, he was there to help. I will miss him and will always cherish the memories of him on and off the mat. God bless you Dick.
Rick Tucci

Ruth Freeman

December 10, 2014

Mary and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.

Tim Quilter

December 10, 2014

Where can anybody begin with Dick Torio? He was a man to whom goes beyond description. He simply was the most kind, thoughtful, and decent man that I could have ever known. He was good to everybody, and had a kindness especially for the disadvantaged. He made wrestling in Northwest Ohio. I will never forget all the help that he gave young wrestlers, and the equipment that he made available. His leadership skills were beyond question. He made things happen, and got people involved like the World Wrestling Championships in 1966. He told us young participants that we "Would be proud as peacocks" for what we did, but it was him who led us, and I would never forget that experience. Books could be written about this man to whom was tough, but kind. He was always kind to anybody who wanted to learn, and he taught so much! May our loving God receive him well!

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