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Linda Messina Obituary

LINDA A. (aka LYNDA) MESSINA MONTCLAIR, NJ - Linda A. (aka Lynda) Messina passed away on Saturday, December 7, 2013 at Hackensack University Medical Center with her loving family by her side. Born in Trenton, NJ, she grew up in Ewing Township, NJ and has resided in Montclair, NJ for the past 10 years. Lynda graduated from Ewing High School Class of 1978 and received a Bachelor of Science Degree from Brandywine College. Lynda was currently employed by Tishman Speyer in New York City, NY as an Executive Assistant to Senior Management. Prior to her employment at Tishman Speyer, she worked for Merrill Lynch as an Executive Assistant for 22 years. Lynda was an avid cat lover and one of the most knowledgeable New York Yankees fan. She loved being with her family and her girlfriends, the female Rat Pack. Lynda loved life and her family more than anything in the world. Lynda was an accomplished body builder training at Man's World Gym, Trenton, NJ and winning the titles of Miss Trenton, Miss New Jersey, Miss East Coast, and Miss USA. Lynda is predeceased by her parents, Gaetano V. and Dolores Francis-Messina and her maternal grandmother, Stephanie Goliszewski-Francis. Lynda is survived by her brothers, Thomas Messina of Lawrence, NJ; Larry Messina of Ewing, NJ; Anthony F. and wife Kimberly Messina of Ewing, NJ; and Edward Messina of Ewing, NJ. She is also survived by her one and only very special niece, Rachel Anne Messina, who was the apple of Aunt Lynda's eye and the most precious joy of her life. She is also survived by her uncle, Edward Francis, Jr.; and cousins, Edward Francis, III and wife Terri; and Peggy Mulryne and many aunts, uncles, cousins and many many friends. Calling hours will be held from 5:00 pm to 8:00 pm on Thursday, December 12, 2013 and from 8:30 am to 9:30 am on Friday, December 13, 2013 at Hartmann Memorial Home, 2830 Nottingham Way, Mercercville, NJ 08619. A funeral mass will be held at 10:00 am on Friday, December 13, 2013 at St. Hedwig Roman Catholic Church, 872 Brunswick Avenue, Trenton, NJ. Cremation will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to the John Theurer Cancer Center at Hackensack University Medical Center, Mantle Cell Lymphoma Division, 92 2nd Street, Hackensack, NJ 07601 and the ASPCA at ASPCA.org.
Published by The Trentonian from Dec. 10 to Dec. 11, 2013.

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Vicky Vinch

February 18, 2025

To all:

Words cannot express the feeling of loss here. Lynda was indeed an angel who lit up the world with her smile and joy she shared with everyone. We had so much fun! I will never forget you!

With love -

MaryAnn Gibson (Nana)

December 4, 2023

Linda I´m so grateful to have known you through my daughter Mary... she & Steven adored you & I know the feeling was mutual. I still have YOUR BEAUTIFUL cat tree! Angel & Snuggles use it 24/7 & they LOVE IT!! They´re on it every day & whether it´s hot or cold, they love the porch bc that´s where their cat tree is.. it´s in the corner; they LOVE looking outside at all the birds & squirrels. You are SO MISSED...

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Robyn Pasquito

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Robyn Richter Pasquito

December 8, 2015

Lynn - I miss you so much each and every day! My heart aches still...even more than the day you passed. I talk to you every day...all day...and when I laugh at funny things, I know are laughing too. I feel you with me, watching over me and I know you'll be waiting for me with open arms when my time comes...
Missing you more and more...Holding you close to my heart always.

Robyn

Christine Lee

December 9, 2014

Hi Melissa Pelke,
I agree - I think of her all the time. Miss her so much.

Melissa Pelke

December 8, 2014

Not a day goes by where I don't think of you. You & the Messina Family are forever in my thoughts and prayers.

Sue Harrison Lovell

October 9, 2014

My heart is filled with sadness in hearing of Lynda's passing. Lynda was one of my best friends in high school. I will always cherish so many memories of time spent together that make me smile. My thoughts and prayers are with the Messina family, and friends.

George Shepard

July 21, 2014

To the entire Messina family we wish only love to your family...
The Shepards

Curtis Bery

June 21, 2014

I miss my dear friend and the good times we shared together. My condolences to all her family for the loss of a beautiful and fun loving person.

Linda (Langley) Maradol

December 28, 2013

Dear Tommy, Larry, Anthony, Eddie and your extended family, it is with such deep sorrow that I learn of Lynda's passing. She was my closest friend for many years growing up. I will always carry her in my heart. May we all hold tight to the happy memories we have shared and celebrate her life.

Steve Henry

December 26, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the Messina family and friends. Although it's been many years since I've seen Linda her memory will always live on. She will be missed.

Michael LaRossa

December 15, 2013

Linda was such a wonderful person. My heart felt condolences go out to her brothers.

Donald Harris

December 13, 2013

A beautiful person who inspired me to be all I can be health wise. So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with Linda's family

jimmy Lopez

December 13, 2013

Sorry for the loss I remember her from man's world gym when I also trained there . She had a great smile and personality that truley be missed. My heart goes out to her family. RIP

Angie Workman

December 13, 2013

Lynda,I will forever miss your amazing smile that lights up the world your infectious smile and your amazing grace ! I have never meant anyone like you. I will miss our private chats at the office and our pow wow's on Sephora adventures. You have touched every heart in this office and we miss you soooooooooooo very much. Until our reunion in Heaven I pray you will look over us as the Angel that you have always been on earth. Rest in Peace dearest freind. Angie

Ruthann & Martin Jennings

December 13, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Messina family. Lynda was a joy to meet, and be around. It was my priveledge to share my love of the Yankees with her. Our hearts are saddened.

Dawn Papszycki Jobson

December 12, 2013

Lynda was always a bright and shining light that will never dim! My condolences to your family..

December 12, 2013

Anthony
Our prayers are with you and your family. The many memories you have with your sister will keep you strong. God must have needed another angel.

The Erney family

Beth Yaccarino

December 12, 2013

On behalf of the Yaccarino family we wish to extend our deepest sympathy for your great loss. May fond memories of Lynda ease your grief.
Joyceann, Frank, Beth and Cheryl

Sherry Ervin-Friedman

December 12, 2013

Thoughts and prayers are with the Messina family. May you cherish your special memories every day of Linda. They will hopefully bring you comfort. She was special back in the day in the "heights" and seemed to carry that special light all through her years. May she rest In Peace.

MaryAnn Gibson

December 12, 2013

I will never forget the love & sincerity of Lynda's precious heart & her deep bond & enduring friendship she had with my daughter, Mary Barrasso. It was something that was so very meaningful to me as a Mother. Lynda & I shared our love for our pets; & her devotion to both Lorenzo & Michael was obvious to everyone who knew her. My deepest sympathy to her entire family & to so many others who loved Lynda. God bless the broken hearts; that they may be healed by the loving memories they will always have of the happiness she brought to their lives.

December 12, 2013

Anthony, Kim, Rachel & Families~ Sending our most sincere condolences to you during this most difficult time!
~ Cheryl and John Fejko & Family

Donna Widmann-Leigh

December 12, 2013

Thanks for always being so sweet. You beautiful Angel Linda! Great memories! Peace to the family, so sorry for this tremendous loss

Mary Tanzer

December 12, 2013

I only knew Lynda through work, but that little bit was enough to recognize an incredibly kind and warm personality. She was a joy to talk to. You always came away feeling that bit better. She will be sorely missed here at Tishman Speyer.

Donna Conklin-Gerepka

December 12, 2013

My heartfelt condolences to the Messina family.

December 12, 2013

My sincere condolences for such a great loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the Messina family. RIP joanne dePula

RJ Balint

December 12, 2013

Anthony, I was so saddened when I read of Linda's passing. Please convey my condolences to your family.
I'll always remember how she would bring some sparkle into any room she entered. No one's words, only time can lessen the type of pain you are now feeling. Stay strong.

Cara Zuccarello-Giquinto

December 11, 2013

To the entire Messina family, our deepest sympathies for such a beautiful person both inside and out. She was a part of our family for a long time and will always be in our hearts. The Zuccarello family; Tom, Sue, Lisa,Cara & Carla.

BOB BONHAM

December 11, 2013

MY BEST TO HER FAMILY..I HAVE NOT SEEN HER SINCE SHE COMPETED BUT I NEVER FORGOT HER

Jimmy and Cindy Norato

December 11, 2013

Our hearts go out to the Messina family, lots of memories of Linda, may she rest in peace

Lonnie Teper

December 11, 2013

My heartfelt sorrow for Lynda, her family and loved ones. She was a great lady, smart, nice and a terrific bodybuilder.

Steve Russo

December 11, 2013

My thoughts and prayers to Lynda and her family.I remember the good times we had as kids when the 2 family's would get together.Rest in peace with Uncle Tom And aunt Dolly.Also remember the last time I saw you at the Trump Marina Deck,as you were watching one of your favorite bands ,Dogs Voices.Rip

Angela Zuccarello-Coluccio

December 11, 2013

Dear Messina Family, We are so sorry for the loss of Linda. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Angie Zuccarello- Coluccio and Family

Mickey Zuccarello

December 11, 2013

To Anthony, Edward and the entire Messina Family - I had the privilege of spending many years of my life with Linda including countless hours at the gym and training for numerous contests, attending family functions, and enjoying each other's company. My most memorable moments that will always stick with me is the endless hours she would shop til she dropped in New Hope for an outfit to go out on the town to Zadar's. She always looked her best! My prayers to the entire family during this very difficult time.

Mickey & Heather Zuccarello, Michael Carl Rocco Zuccarello & Mark

Sharon Rojek Dileo

December 11, 2013

Sending heartfelt condolences to the entire Messina Family on the loss of one so loved. I will remember Lynda for her passion for life, her bubbly personality, her smile and boundless energy. The world was brighter to have her here...she takes with her a piece of our hearts. Thoughts and prayers for all of Lynda's loved ones.

The Lynda I remember

Christine Lee

December 11, 2013

My most sincere thoughts and prayers to the Messina family. Lynda and I worked together a long time a Merrill Lynch. Many funny stories and times we shared as a group. I am so distressed to hear of her passing. What a beautiful, smart and talented example she was to all people and woman. Lynda, LBI, NARDIS, RODNEY'S STOLI, LYNDA "MELASSINA" "ML CONSTRUCTION" lol - thank you for the memories. With love

leona hartnagle

December 11, 2013

sleep in peace Lynda, my thoughts and prayers to your family and the female rat pack.

david paulaski

December 11, 2013

i will always remember and never forget the great times we shared growing up together from st hedwigs to L B I your friend dave plow, the nic name you gave me

Lenny Kent

December 11, 2013

Although I can't be with you while you remember your loved one, you're in my thoughts from afar.

russ derricott

December 11, 2013

I knew Linda from Man s world gym and she also lived across the street from me on Emory Ave. She was such a nice person and had a smile that always was so full of life. My prayers go out to her family. Such a very sad loss of a wonderful person

Jerry Jacobs

December 11, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of the Messina Family over the loss of your Sister, Sister in Law and Aunt.

Geri and Ron Pagliaro

December 11, 2013

I'm imagining you arriving at a most beautiful and peaceful place. Running to meet you are your mom and dad, my Chochi Stef, your Chochi Arlene, your Aunt Peggy and little Kathleen. They are surrounding you with their hugs, kisses and laughter. You feel all their love again. I am left with wonderful memories of you as the cute tiny baby I loved to dress and cuddle. You were a lovely flower girl at our wedding, so grown up with your long gown and curls. Family memories of you mothering each of your baby brothers as they arrived. Peace to your brothers as they live with your loss. Lovingly, Cuz Aunt Geri and Ron

MARY HOLT-JOHNSON

December 11, 2013

MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE ENTIRE MESSINA FAMILY. LYNDA YOU WERE MY CHILDHOOD FRIEND, AND CLASSMATE OF E.H.S CLASS OF 1978. LEAVE BEHIND YOUR BEAUTIFUL SMILE AND A LIFETIME OF WONDERFUL MEMORIES. R.I.P LYNDA. NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.

Filomena Holman

December 10, 2013

Rest in Peace, Lynda. You were a beautiful and sweet woman. Now you're an angel in Heaven. Watch over your family and friends.

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