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J. Richard McEntee J. Richard McEntee, our beloved father, grandfather and friend, died June 20, 2010, after a brief battle with cancer. He was 74. Dick was born Sept. 23, 1935, to Bill & Marie McEntee in Franklin, N.J. He was the seventh of their eight children. He graduated from Franklin High School and earned a bachelor of science degree in chemical engineering from Villanova University. Dick married the love of his life, Katherine Marie Jones, on Oct. 20, 1962, in New Jersey. He and Kathy had six children, of whom they were extremely proud. Dick and Kathy were a team and true examples of faith, love and charity. Dick's career in research, development and management in the food industry began at General Foods, first in New York and then in Cobourg, Ontario, Canada. In 1967, he accepted a job at Nalley's Fine Foods in Tacoma. He retired from Nalley's in 1997 and formed his own consulting company, Hibernian Management Consulting. He was a vice president with CIM Financial Group at the time of his death. Dick's Catholic faith was central to his life and helped guide and define him. St. Charles Borromeo Church in Tacoma was his spiritual home for more than 40 years. He served on the Parish Council, and he gave his time, talent and treasure to church and school activities, including the school auction and the parish food bank. He was instrumental in bringing a Knights of Columbus chapter to the parish, and served as Grand Knight. He began an auction and dinner to support the Knights' efforts. Dick was a regular at daily Mass and took early morning shifts at perpetual adoration. His strong faith and deep convictions led Dick and Kathy to get involved in the pro-life movement in the early 1970s, first with the Voice of the Unborn and then with Human Life of Washington. In 1978, Kathy began the Washington State March for Life, and she always said she could do it only with Dick's strength and support. His faith and management expertise also called Dick to serve on the board of trustees of St. Joseph Medical Center. He was on the board for 10 years and is a trustee emeritus of the hospital. Dick was active in politics, serving on the Fircrest Town Council from 1969-73, as a precinct committeeman in the 28th District and as a delegate to the Republican National Convention in 2000. He was also a two-time candidate for state auditor, earning 1,016,396 votes in the 2008 election. Dick's other passions were clear: golf, food, music and family. He was a caddy in his youth to earn playing time on Franklin-area courses and money for school. He was a longtime member of Tacoma Country & Golf Club and served as president of the Club in 1997. He loved the game of golf and played at courses around the globe. He helped with tournaments at the Country Club and played as often as he could. His grandkids and he spent many days together on the course. No one could make a spaghetti feast like the Irishman (who learned from his Italian godmother). Preparing the meal was an all-day project, but a true labor of love. Dick loved time in the kitchen. He read his Saveur magazine each month and would poke around the grocery store for new things to try (and for a good bargain). And music. There was never a lack of music in the McEntee house. If Dick wasn't at the piano, the turntable (and later CD player) was on. He loved ragtime, Broadway, old standards, Irish favorites and opera. In the 1960s-70s, Dick and Kathy were part of Tacoma Opera Society and Tacoma Opera Guild, helping stage productions and bring opera to Pierce County. No St. Patrick's Day party was complete without Dick's singing and piano-playing. No son- or daughter-in-law was fully initiated until watching "Singin' in the Rain." Dick's greatest passion, though, was his family. He sacrificed to provide his children with top-notch educations. He treated us to memorable family vacations; highlights included a road trip across the country and three weeks in Ireland. He took his kids to the Puyallup Fair and to Mariners games. He said prayers with the kids each night and read stories before bedtime. He embraced being a grandfather and will forever be remembered as Snappy. He was funny and patient and brilliant and devoted. Dick is survived by his six children and their spouses, Rich (Jill) McEntee, Ann (Mark) Wiegman, Paul (Kari) McEntee, Aileen (Rob) Carrell, Kate (John) DeWeese and Noreen (Louis) Hobson; 13 grandchildren: Jack, Maggie, Peter, Emily, Sally, Sarah, Ryan, William, Clare, Gwen, Marie, Daniel and Thomas. He is also survived by his siblings, Catherine McEntee, Mary Lester, Dolores Morrow, Bill McEntee, Bob McEntee, Peggy Ann Lakin and Patricia Gordon and their families. He was preceded in death by his beloved wife and best friend, Kathy; a granddaughter, Lucy Marie Carrell; and brothers-in-law Faye Lester and Bill Gordon. Rosary will be recited at 7 p.m. Friday, June 25, at St. Charles Borromeo Church, 7112 S. 12th St., Tacoma. A funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Saturday, June 26, at St. Charles. Burial will follow at Calvary Cemetery. The family wishes to thank Franciscan Hospice House and Dr. Frank Senecal and his staff for their care of Dad. Memorial donations may be made to the Kathy McEntee Pro-Life Education Fund, PO Box 64275, Tacoma, WA 98464. Online condolences can be left at GaffneyCares.com. Arrangements by Gaffney Funeral Home, Tacoma. Dad, 'twas Heaven here with you. Give Mom a kiss from all of us.

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Jun. 25, 2010.

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Vicky Reder

July 11, 2010

Dear McEntee Family,
I just learned of your dad's passing, and my heart goes out to you. I know that having both your mom and dad gone leaves a big whole in your hearts. You now have big time intercessors in heaven - not only your mom and dad, but also all of the babies they tried to save. Only time heals, but know that they are with you at all times....closer than when they were here on earth.

Charla Johnson

June 28, 2010

Dear McEntee Family:
I was sad to hear of your father's passing. I have nothing but fond memories of your Mom and Dad when they were young and living next door to us on Evergreen. Please know that myself and the rest of my family will keep you in our thoughts and prayers and that your Mom and Dad will always have a place in our hearts.
Charla Johnson and Family

June 26, 2010

"We were sorry to hear of Your Father's passing; We will keep The McEntee Family in Our Prayers." Kevin & Kate Sanborn, and Family (Fircrest, WA)

Honor Leitzen

June 25, 2010

I first met Dick and Kathy at the age of 14, when they were associated with Voice for the Unborn, which preceded Human Life, and worked to stop Referendum 20, which legalized abortion in WA state in 1970. My family became deeply involved with the pro-life movement thanks to Kathy's passionate fire and Dick's quiet conviction. What a joyful reunion they must be having! We now have TWO advocates in Heaven, to whom we can pray, for their intercession with Our Lord in the cause of Life. We may miss them both terribly, but can only be joyful in confidence at God's great mercy and love. May he also continue to bless the McEntee family for their continuing the good work carried out by their parents and grandparents.

Steve Sanborn,Sr.

June 25, 2010

Please accept our heartfelt thoughts of sadness.Dick and Kathy will remain in our memories for the rest of our lives. How many babies did they save through their efforts....God only knows. Their reward will be great. The Sanborn Family

Melody Williams

June 25, 2010

Your commitment to the City of UP and involvement with the COPS Commission was admirable. I enjoyed your humor, intelligence, loyalty and friendship. You will me missed, but the legacy you and Kathy created, will continue.

Paul Cawthorne

June 25, 2010

Dear Kate, Paul, Aileen, Ann, and Noreen,
I was saddened to learn this morning that your father has died, but heartened by the fine obituary, which brought your dad to life in my memory. I will remember him in Mass tomorrow morning.
Yours in Our Lord,
Br. Paul, SJ

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