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BERNIE GOETZ Obituary

An Angel Among Us Bernie Goetz, age 51, was taken by the Lord January 27, 2011 to be reunited with his Mom and Dad, Florence and Henry Goetz. At 3 days old Bernie was placed in the loving care of Florence and Henry, who were the only parents he knew his whole life. It was love at first sight for Florence, even though she was told he was unlikely to live through the week. With much love and nurturing, Bernie proved the doctors wrong and lived an Amazing 51 years. Bernie had an unwavering faith in God. He loved to go to church and always looked forward to belting out his favorite church hymns. He loved getting together for our large family gatherings and could always be counted on to entertain us with cute jokes, hilarious impersonations and his love of singing. His other passion was Big Time Wrestling. He knew all the wrestlers and lived to go to the live matches. He always kept in his pocket an updated list of the ever changing good guys vs bad guys roster. He would read all the newest wrestling magazines cover to cover. He proudly graduated from Foss High School in 1980. He worked for Center Force for 30 years. Over the years he made lots of friends, including special lady friends Sandi and Kelly. He so looked forward to his work social functions and holiday parties because Bernie LOVED to dance! To say Bernie was special to our family is an understatement. He was adored by his family and everyone who came into contact with him fell instantly in love with his warm and loving personality. He leaves a big hole in our hearts and will be truly missed by all. Yet, we rejoice in knowing he is reunited with Mom and Dad and sister Helen Nation, all of whom preceded him in death. He leaves behind his sisters and brothers Rose (Bill) Sanders, Judy (Byron) Gilman, Hank (Ann) Goetz, and Joseph Goetz - all of Tacoma, and Bill (Wanda) Gates, Robert (Sandra) Gates, and Ester (Knute) Nelson - all of Wisconsin, as well as 190 nephews and nieces who loved him dearly. Bernie was an organ donor. Because of his giving nature, four people will have a second chance at life. Viewing will be held at Gaffney Funeral Home Friday, 2/4/2011 from 10am - 5pm, and a service will be held on Saturday, 2/5/2011, at St. Joseph Catholic Church, 34th and Tacoma Ave. S., with a Rosary at 10:15 and the funeral service at 11am. Bernie Goetz April 15, 1959-Jan. 27, 2011

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) from Feb. 2 to Feb. 4, 2011.

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Bonnie Mitchell

April 16, 2025

You are missed. I always enjoyed having you ride my shuttle

Curt

April 16, 2025

Bernie My Man.....I enjoyed fried Chickie yesterday in your honor. Love and miss you. I see you everyday (screen saver of you and me in our tuxedos....

Rose

April 15, 2025

Happy Birthday Bernie. Think of you and miss you every day.

CURTIS D GILMAN

January 27, 2023

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CURTIS D GILMAN

January 27, 2023

Bernie, You would have corrected my last year, It was 11 years now 12 years since you went home. I still have the picture of me and you, The Stylin', profilin', mustang riding, top rope flying, kiss-stealing, wheelin' n' dealin' son of a gun! With a big giant WOOO!! It never gets any easier when we lose someone we really love and words are harder to find. But God has given me an amazing life and family that I believe He will bring us back together. Bernie, You and always will be the conversation of angels in our family. Happy Anniversary.

Curt

Curtis Gilman

January 27, 2022

Bernie, 10 years and it sometimes seems longer but with so vivid memories. One of the most punctual people I know. Always new what time breakfast was, what time the bus was gonna pick you up for work, time to help Grandma with dishes, 8:00 on the dot for your cereal, and all the times wrestling was gonna be on. I miss the times I can give you the sun glasses and we go cruise,(even if it was just to jack in the box). Shopping at Safeway and Costco. Or even just watching you set examples for all of us on how to be amazing. Funny thing, you are that unspeakable anger that God talks about in the Bible. Always grateful.
Your missed a lot and will live in my heart forever.
Love you Uncle Bernie.

Rose Sanders

January 27, 2021

Miss you as much today as the day you left us. Memories of you are always going to be tucked away In our hearts, only to pop up when we least expect them. We thank God for giving us you and all the memories. Love and miss you always. Rosie

Judy

January 27, 2021

Love and miss you Bernie.

Let there be tears of Joy.<br />Curt

Curtis Gilman

January 27, 2021

Curt Gilman

January 27, 2021

Wow, Bernie, 10 years have gone by and you are missed daily. We laugh and we cry but we thank God for the special gift he gave us. You have been such a joy and a memory and I share your story every chance I get.
I prayed, Heavenly Father, you gave us such a blessing and I am thankful. Bernie made a permanent impact in my life and that was directed from you. Lord thank you for the spirit Bernie had and allow us not only to set examples you have commanded us but the love as well Bernie shared. I am blessed with having You as my Lord and Savior. Bernie was an inspiration to so many people. Thank you Father.
Bernie I love and miss you..

Kimberly May

January 28, 2020

It's hard to believe that 9 years ago you went to be with God. Every time I look at my shoulder, I think of you, (sorry it will never wash off). I know you are at peace with God and I will miss you always. I will love you forever and always, until we see each other again.

MaryRose Gilman

January 27, 2020

Wow!!!! 9 years. Time goes by so fast. But thinking of all the smiles you have put on our faces throughout the years have made it a little bit easier to deal with loosing you. We love and miss you Uncle Bernie.
Love MaryRose

Judy Gilman

December 23, 2019

Merry Christmas Bernie , thinking of you and I know you are singing loudly all the Christmas songs . My love to you , mom and dad and my love Byron, . Love Judy

Joe Goetz

December 22, 2019

Joe

MaryRose Gilman

February 1, 2019

Love and miss you Bernie. We will have our shake when I get there. I love you.

MaryRose

Rose Sanders

January 27, 2019

Thinking of you on your very special day. The years are passing quickly but it seems like only yesterday that you left us.
Every time I go by the So Tacoma center I think of you and your girlfriends going dancing there every month. Our memories of you will always be cherished in our hearts. Miss your hugs. Love Rosie

Curt

January 27, 2019

Sorry Bernie, I really meant eight years.

January 27, 2019

Oh yeah, by the way, liberty and I are having fried Chickie tonight in memory of you. Yum yum

Curt

Curt Gilman

January 27, 2019

Bernie, my brother. It has been 7 years today and sometimes it seems lingers cuz your not here but then it just seemed like yesterday when I watch wrestling or think about cruising in my mustang when you were trying to pick up chicks and playing poker/slots at the David Cassidy concert. Well I miss ya and have some news for you. Today is not only a special day to be thankful you went to see our Heavenly Father but it is the day that Alyssa is getting married. You were a stud and still have yours and mine picture of us all dressed up. I love you and greatful God have us you.

Judy & Byron

April 16, 2014

Love and miss you.

Rose and Bill Sanders

April 16, 2014

Missing you with all of our hearts. But keeping the beautiful memories of you alive in our minds and in our hearts. Love Bill and Rose

Toni Gilman

April 15, 2014

Happy Birthday Uncle Bernie, I told you I would be back real soon. Hope you are rejoicing as you usually do on your special day. Be assured we will be celebrating it down here and thinking about you at he same time. Love and Miss you so very much. Stay sweet as you always have been and I look forward to the day we get to meet again. Love you bunches.

April 6, 2014

Hey Big Guy, I am mmissing you so much right now. it has been real rough lately and you have been on my mind alot. Your smile in your pictures in such an inspiration to me. You always had something nice to say to me and to everyone. Such a BIG heart. I know you are up in HEAVEN getting all excited and telling everyone that your birthday is just around the corner. Wish you were here so we could celebrate it together but rest assure we do celebrate it here for you. I know you were one very happy young man when those SEAHAWKS won the SUPERBOWL. How about that. WOOO HOOO... Love and miss you so much Uncle Bernie, I will write again real soon. God Bless and be good

Rose Sanders

January 27, 2014

Good morning Bernie. Today is your 3rd anniversary in heaven. It is amazing how much you are still missed. So many things remind us of you. I know you are happy with God, and Mom and Dad. Hope you are celebrating with all your family in that glorious place.
Love and hugs always. Bill and Rosie

You being you...Love you

November 28, 2013

Mr, Bernie Goetz, I know your looking down and keeping an eye on all of us here. But that doesn't take the sting out of missing you. Knowing that your in Heaven with Grandma and Grandpa and Our Savior Jesus Christ. I still go through your pics and yearbook and the ribbons you won for bowling to high school, The hardest thing about life is knowing that I have to wait to see you again. I Miss you so much and want to say thank you for you> Bernie you are the real deal, No one can ever compare here on earth to what you stood for. Bernie when I say real deal I mean it, You had compassion, you didnt hide your feelings no matter the issue. I thank you for that transparency. I miss you like never before and I want to say Happy Thanksgiving. I remember you always had that wishbone up on the window sill and waited for it to dry to break it. Great times and memories. I love you.
Curt

April 15, 2013

Happy Birthday Bernie. I think of you daily and miss you so much. So many things remind me of you, a shuttle driving by, a lobe bug on the road,whenever a wrestling commercial comes on TV. Most of all I miss your laugh and hugs. Love you always. Rosie

Kimberly May

April 14, 2013

Happy Birthday Uncle Bernie! I miss you so much every day. I hope you are dancing with the angels. Love you forever. Kim

January 28, 2013

Well Bernie it has been 2 years since you went to be with mom, dad, Helen and of course to be with God and all his angels. It seems like yesterday to all of us because we still miss all the things about you. Your smile, how you giggled when you played a joke, and always your hugs. You were always the kindest and gentlest person and we thank God for loaning you to us for such a short time. Miss and think of you daily. Love your sister Rosie

Susie

January 26, 2013

Thinking of you, and the joy of being in God's presence! I can't wait to see you again!

January 25, 2013

My Dear Bernie,
It is almost 2 yrs since you went to be with the Lord, Mom & Dad & Helen.I know you are singing and dancing with the angels and loving every moment.Byron and I still play the wii bowling and think of how much you loved playing it with us. We miss you very much.You touched many many people with your great personality.Give mom, dad & Helen our love too. We love you all. I have a mass being said for you tomorrow,and Mary Ann will be there too and sends her love to you too. Your sis, Judy

Curtis Gilman

January 24, 2013

My uncle Bernie, how I miss you dearly and cannot stop thinking about your smile and how happy you are wrestling comes on. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you, grandma, and grandpa. I have that letter you wrote after grandma went to be with Grandpa, and it says, " Dear mom and dad I hope you are happy again I love you both you are dancing in heaven I miss you take care love Bernie". I know everybody tells me I need to learn how to let go and I have tried but I cannot let go of missing you grandma and grandpa. I love all three of you tell grandma and grandpa I said hi and I miss you guys very much. I will always love you all and God bless please look down on us from time to time and if we are not walking in God's path, make sure you put us on the right path I love you all. Curt

Rose Sanders

June 27, 2012

Hi Bernie, Just wanted to say hi to you, mon, dad and Helen. I've been thinking about you a lot lately. Guess it' s because the donor picnic is coming up soon and is an emotional time. Brings back those sad days when you first left us. I know you are in the greatest " HOME" there is. Be happy and give my love to mom and dad. Love you always. Rosie



"HOME" there is and are happy.

April 15, 2012

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BERNIE, Today you would have been 53,I know you are dancing and singing with the angels. You are missed very much.We love you. Judy & Byron

Shay DeWitt

January 27, 2012

Bernie, I never met you, but maybe I will have the grand privilege when I make it up to heaven.You are gone from this earth but you live on through the peoples lives you have touched so gracefully. Thank you for leaving such hope and love in the heart of my dear friend Curt, and for being his hero. Take care up there and save me a seat.

Curtis Gilman

January 27, 2012

Bernie, My Uncle and Angel. You have been on my mind everyday, I wear the bracelet and kiss it every morning and tell you I love you before I put it on. Its hard for me not to cry when I speak of you and tell your story. It is an amazing story that will never die, just like your spirit. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you, Grandma and Grandpa and it don't get easier to know that I cant come see you in person and hug you and get those phone calls. I went to Church this last Sunday and we watched a small video about honoring someone special in your life and I prayed with the Lord and thanked him for you in my life and I honor you. You have made an impact on so many lives and I am Thankful for you. I could write my feelings down about how much you mean to me and all the great things about you but it would take forever. Its hard for me to call Aunt Rosie or Judy and talk about you without breaking down and thats why I try not to call them much. I dont want to upset them and make them cry. I could just hear you now."Dont cry big baby", but this is one time that I cant stop. Bernie You are my hero, angel and spirit. I love and liss you dearly. I will never get over the loss You,Grandma or Grandpa.The way Grandma cared for all her kids and all of us if my foundation I am building my family. Thank you and I will write you soon. Love Curt

January 27, 2012

Dear Bernie,1 year has past since you went to be with the Lord,but seems so fresh in our minds as tho it was yesterday .We will always remember you and all the joy and love you brought into our lives.We thank God for giving us 51 wonderful years with you. We love and miss you.Dance with the angels as I'm sure you are cause you ARE an Angel. Love Judy and Byron

Rose Sanders

January 27, 2012

Dear BERNIE, It has been a year since God called you home to be with Him. We all miss you beyond words. Your smiles, our morning coffee before work, and even our "booty-bumps". And then there were the times you would hide and jump out and scare us. How you would giggle. How I miss those giggles. You gave Everyone your love and that is what we miss the most. I know you are with mom and dad and that you are happy. Please look after all of us here and know that you are always remembered with more love than a heart can express. Love Rose

January 26, 2012

My Dear Bernie, A year ago today God started to call you home to heaven with Him,and tomorrow it will be 1 year since you completed that journey. It has been a hard year as we all miss you terrible.You touched so many of our lifes,and left us so many amazing memories.May you R.I.P. Give mom dad and Helen our love.Love and miss you .Judy

December 25, 2011

Hey Bernie, I woke this morning thinking of you and how I can still hear your voice telling me to get up and singing Christmas songs, Bernie I hurt so bad knowing I cant hug you. I so miss you so much Bernie. Christmas is good but will never be the same. You. Grandma and Grandpa were the main ingredients for Christmas and what Christmas was about. Bernie, Merry Christmas and know that I miss you so much and I love you will all my heart, hurting or not, My heart is strong with your love. \Merry Christmas. I love you
Curt

Rose Sanders

November 28, 2011

I Love and Miss you every day. A shuttle stopped outside the front of the house this am and Gunner started barking and wagging his tail. I guess he thought you were back home. It brought me to tears. Miss you mom and dad so much. Love and hugs.

curt

November 27, 2011

Bernie, I know you know whats happening in Wrestling before we do, But I wanted to let you know that Hulk Hogan became a good guy and Sting put him in his place. Brotha, I dont go a day without thinking about you, Grandma and Grandpa (dont let them beat you in Shaft...lol) I cant seem to let go of the fact that you are gone and I keep waiting for a phone call from you atleast once a week. It hurts me to know that you are gone but not too far away, I will always keep you in my heart and stand up for everything you wanted and believe in. You are a true ANGEL from God that blesses me every day of my life, knowing that you were put here to prove that Angels are real. Bernie I love you man. You are in my heart always,. Love you bro.
Curt

October 27, 2011

Dear Bernie, Thinking of you again today,It is 9 months today that you left us for a safe place in heaven with mom and dad. You are so missed and are in our thoughts and prayers daily. love you.

September 19, 2011

Bernie, I came across one of the letters that you sent to me. I'm so glad that you and I spent the time to write, but I never thought I would cherish them as I do now. But who could have known you would be gone so soon? In this letter you told me all about your mom getting her new bathroom, and all the new things done to it. But you always managed to slip in a phrase to remind me of the Bound for the Promised Land CD you wanted me to find! I hope you're singing the songs everyday! Bernie, you have got to know by now, just how much you are loved and missed... And I'm really missing you tonight... I love you, Susie

Toni Gilman

July 28, 2011

Hi Uncle Bernie. It was six months yesterday since you left us to go be with our Lord. Even though it seems like it was just a couple of days ago. I miss you so very much. Your smile and laughter on the weekends when you came to visit, the old shows we watched together, yes and even the darn crazy wrestling you would talk me into letting you watch. Hope you, mom & dad are all together and having a great tiime. Take good care of them. Tell them hello and give them hugs from me and dont for get about Helen too. Love all of you lots. R.I.P. Love Toni

May 8, 2011

Hi Bernie, It's Mothers Day and you are the lucky one to be able to spend it with our mom, I know you had a great day with her and dad .Love you Judy

Cameron Gilman

May 8, 2011

Hey Bernie I miss you I was thinking about you when I was in class for church tell Grandma happy Mothers day for me I love you. Cameron

April 25, 2011

Hi Bernie, Happy Easter!! We thought about you on Easter and talked about all the fun things we did with you last year. Sure do miss you alot.
Saturday was Summers birthday and we were silent for a bit waiting for you to start the birthday song out for us. We did that in memory of you.
I bet you are singing like crazy up in heaven. We love and miss you. Love you lots. Toni & Ryan

April 24, 2011

Happy Easter Bernie,
We missed you going to church with us but you were thought of during the singing of the songs, and know you were ther with us . All our love ,,.....Byron and Judy

Susie

April 24, 2011

Happy Easter, Bernie. He is Risen!

April 21, 2011

Hi Buddy, It is almost Easter. I'm sure you have a chocolate bunny waiting there for you from mom.We will miss you here but will put a bunny here for you too

April 17, 2011

Happy birthday Bernie. Jerry sent me a picture of your new headstone, and it's beautiful! I wish I could have been there, but I know I'll see you soon enough! I know you're very happy, and that brings me comfort, though we all miss you terribly.

Susie

April 16, 2011

Hi Bernie,Well it is 1 day after your big day,it was a very hard day.We visited you and so did others.You touched so many and left a big memory with us all. I talked to Maryann today and she also misses her special buddy,we will be seeing her tonight at church.Please watch over us all and have a wonderful day in heaven with all our loved ones and our lord. LOve you .....Judy

April 15, 2011

Happy 52nd Birthday Bernie, Stopped by to see you, mom and dad this morning. I miss you everyday. Everytime I see the "shuttle" I think of you. When I came home there was a card from Maryann to Judy, me and all the family. In it she wrote "I will be thinking of my dear friend Bernie on his 52nd birthday in heaven" Bernie you touched so many lives and willbe forever missed. Love Rosie

April 15, 2011

I too am sending birthday greetings to you, but i would rather be wishing you a happy birthday in person. You are missed and loved by everyone. Judy and I will play a game of yahtzee and wii bowling in your honor.Happy Birthday, Bernie,..you are the Champ.
...Byron

April 15, 2011

Happy Birthday Bernie. Wow 52! It seems like yesterday that I was holding you when you were a little baby -- yes you really were a baby. But now you are a grown man. I miss not being able look forward to seeing you when I come home. I will visit you and Mom and Dad when I come home.
Love you,
Your Brother
Jr

April 15, 2011

My Dear Little Brother, Happy Birthday.
You were so excited and proud when you showed me on the calendar when your 52nd birthday would be,little did we know 2 hours after you showed me all of our lives changed forever.I'm sure you are ejoyingtoday with mom,dad,Helen and allthe angels. We miss you so much.Love Judy and Byron

Kimberly May

April 15, 2011

Happy Birthday! I miss you more than words. Hope you are dancing with the angels. Love you forever. Kim

TONI SAWYER

April 15, 2011

HAPPY BIRTHDAY UNCLE BERNIE!!!!!!!!!
52 WOW, HOW FAST TIME GOES BY. IT IS YOUR DAY EVEN IF YOU HAVE LEFT US AND TRAVELED TO THE PEACEFUL LAND TO BE WITH YOUR MOM & DAD. I CAN SEE YOU NOW TELLING EVERYONE THAT IT IS YOUR BIRTHDAY AND WHAT YOU WANT. WE WILL BE VISITING YOU TODAY AS WE DO ON YOUR SPECIAL DAY EVERY YEAR. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU EVERY DAY MORE AND MORE. TELL MOM, DAD, AND HELEN HELLO FOR ME. GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU.

April 13, 2011

Hi Bernie, Just a couple more days till your birthday,52, we miss you so much. We went to visit you and mom and dad the other day.Put some flowers flag and wind mills for you all. We are getting ready for Easter,you get to spend it with mom and dad and our Lord.We will be thinking of you. MaryAnn sends her love to Love you little brother. Byron and Judy

March 19, 2011

Hi Bernie, It's been a couple of days since my birthday and I just wanted you to know how much I missed you singing "Happy Birthday" to me. Bill and I went out to the cemetery to see you ,mom and dad. Your head stone is in and looks real nice. Tonight for supper I baked those small apple pies for Bill and me(the ones that look like pot pies) we had to laugh about the time I thought they "were" pot pies and fixed one for your lunch when you came home from work. I sure miss your laughing . give mom and dad a hug and kiss for me. I miss and love you always. Rosie

Cameron Gilman

March 6, 2011

Hi Bernie, I miss you and I wish you were still alive so I talk to you about wrestling. I Love You & Miss You So Much...

Cameron Gilman

March 6, 2011

hi Bernie its cameron how are you doing in heaven I miss talking to you about wrestling

Toni Gilman

February 28, 2011

Hi Bernie, I spent most of yesterday thinking of you and talking privately to you. It was a month yesterday that your mission on earth was offically over and it was time for you to make your journey to HEAVEN where all the ANGELS are free to dance and sing and watch over their loved ones. I LOVE YOU & MISS YOU SO MUCH........

Joe Goetz

February 27, 2011

I think of you every day,love your brother Joe.

judy gilman

February 26, 2011

Hi Bernie,
It is 1 month today you started your journey to be in heaven. We think of you every day. you are missed so much. I shed many tears ,some sad ones some happy memory ones. You will be in my heart and thoughts forever. you were and are very special. Love you ,your sister Judy

judy gilman

February 23, 2011

Hi Bernie, Hope you are enjoying yourself with mom and dad and Helen. You are missed so much here. We think of all the little jokes you did while with us.It is snowing here today I know you would be having a fit cause you didn't like snow because it would make you miss work, and you would say "I HATE THAT SNOW"but I think you are making it snow now for us cause you know we liked it.All our love to you mom, dad and Helen. We love you ,your sister Judy

Kimberly May

February 23, 2011

Hi uncle Bernie. Well I went out and got a lasting tribute to you. No, it won't wash off with soap and water. Heehee! I'll look at it and think of you. I promise to dance. I love and miss you. Kim

February 22, 2011

Hi "George"oops I mean Bernie. I Just want to let you know how much we miss you. I miss your little jokes you use to play everyday and most of all your smile and giggles when I did something silly. I hope you are happy with mom and dad. Love you all Rosie

Toni Gilman

February 19, 2011

My Dearest Bernie, I was just thinking about you and wanted to write you real quickly to say Hello. And to let you know that we have not forgotten about you at all. You are in our minds and actually you are broughjt up in conversation daily. We love you and miss you and your loving smile. Take care

Toni

February 18, 2011

Bernie, I wonder what you're thinking now! I wish you could tell us. We'll have to wait to find out, I guess. But I know you're so very happy. I love you. Susie

Toni Gilman

February 9, 2011

Bernie, I Love You so much and always will. You had a way of always making me smile and laugh even if I was not in a good mood. You are an awesome man. Never a harsh word came out of your mouth and you cared for so many people unconditionally. You will be truly missed. Heck, who will watch the Seahawks with me next year and sit on the couch squealing the way you did when Seahawks got a touchdown or yelling at the opposing teams coach when he hides his face behind his clipboard (only Pete is allowed to do that) LOL. I will miss the nights when you would stay overnight and ask just before going to bed, "What's for breakfast?" You know you would get what you wanted. If I had it that was. Be sure to tell Your mom & dad & Aunt Helen I Love them & miss them. But you are all together now and I bet you are all dancing and holding hands. May you rest in peace. You are an angel Bernie. Take care and I shall see you as soon as God calls on me. Love you my Favorite Uncle. Love Toni

Susie

February 6, 2011

Bernie,

Though we are so far apart, you will always be near to us. I remember how you wanted me to find you the cassette of Bound for the Promised Land. But then CD's came out, and you wanted it on CD, too! And after much searching, I found it. But where did you put it? I looked for that, and your picture that you showed everybody, and we can't find either! And I am left remembering your love for the Partridge Family! I sent you their DVD series, and after you saw a DVD player, you wanted on for yourself! I remember how you marked your calendar with "Curt", so you could ask him to find one for you. Grandma made you mark it for 2 wks later, so that you wouldn't hound him too often! She knew that you wouldn't give Curt a break, and would remind her daily unless she did that. If we said something, you held us to our word. It didn't take much to make you happy, and you gave us so much more happiness then we gave you. Bernie, I love you, and miss you. Thanks for writing to me, and our talks on the phone. I'll check back and share more memories later. Say hi to everyone up there! I'm glad you're in the Promised Land now.

Kathy Mcghan

February 6, 2011

BERNIE,You have touched me and so many others with your loving smile and warm heart,So many memories I have that will stay with me forever, I enjoyed when you would sing songs to me,very nice!!!Thank you for teaching me a few things about life, You are a very special person to me, you will be missed.love ya! Kathy Mcghan(Miller)cousin

Kathy Mcghan

February 6, 2011

Bernie, You have touched me and others, with Your loving smile and your kind heart, I have so many memories that will stay with me forever!Thank you for teaching me somethings about life, you are a very special person to me. Your cousin Kathy MCGHAN-Miller

February 5, 2011

Uncle Bernie,
What a lovely service it was today. There were tears and there was laughter. I will keep our memories close to my heart. Thank you for being such a wonderful and loving uncle to me. I will love and miss you always.
Love
Goofball

Nicole Cavalier

February 5, 2011

The Goetz family,I have not been apart of your life in years,However I do recall that big ol'smile and Bernie's joy for life.I can see him at family get together,s enjoying every minute of it.You are the one whom got my Boys into wresteling.When they were little guy's(MONJAY & CARRIAO),they would sit right next to you and watch the bout's...Bernie I know how much you ment to this family.I have seen the love they have for you.They couldn't love you more and you could not ask for a better family and they couldn't ask for a better person,Brother,Son,Uncle or friend. God bless you and your family as you fly among the angel's

February 5, 2011

Bernie, My heart aches with your passing. Your smile and laughter will be in my memories forever. As I cry, I can feel you pat my shoulder and say "poor baby". Your innocence and way of carring about others without judgement, I wlll not forget. Know that you are surrounded with love. as the tears come, the laughter will follow. I will have a big hole in my heart. Love you forever Uncle Bernie!
Your loving niece, kim

Janette Simmons

February 4, 2011

My Prayers are with you all at this sad time May God be with you all as you face the up coming days ahead,

Hank Goetz

February 4, 2011

Bernie, a person could not ask for a better brother then you. You always had smile for me when we would meet. I will miss the wrestling talks and your lovely smile and cute little smile when you would say "I know" and giggle. You are so kind and have such a loveing heart - you are the only person that has lived on this earth for 51 years and have never said a bad word about anyone no matter what they would say or have done - except for the bad guys on wrestling. I will miss you so much.
Your loving brother,
JR

Tami Tone

February 4, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

February 3, 2011

Dear Bernie,
Your personality and warm smile will be missed forever. We were blessed to have you in our family for 51 wonderful years. We (Byron& I )will always think of you when we play Yahtzee and bowl the wii .You enjoyed doing both so much. You were very "SPECIAL" to us.Love you and miss you. You are a angel in heaven. Byron &Judy

February 3, 2011

B is for the brightness you brought to everyone's life.

E is for the excitment you always showed when the hawks were playing.

R is for the rights from wrongs you always preached about to us all.

N is for NICE LADY-and we all know you love them....

I is for increadable, its just the type of person you always have been.

E is for EVERYONE will miss you so very much. I love you Uncle Bernie.

February 3, 2011

Uncle Bernie,
There are so many things that we will miss about you. Your loving smile, your tender heart, the joy you brought to everyone you came in touch with. With your unbiased opinion, you made everyone fill like they were family all along. You didn't just grow on people, because everyone loved you as soon as you entered there lives. Tell grandma and grandpa we love and miss them dearly. You are now at piece and in the hands of the one who generously brought you into our lives. We will love you and miss you, and cherish all the wonderful memories that you have given to us.
Love, MaryRose & Tony

SUE BENNETT

February 3, 2011

BERNIE: EVERYTIME I THINK OF YOU ( ANGEL UNAWARE ) COMES TO MY MIND. MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHT'S ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. YOU WILL CERTAINLY BE MISSED MY FRIEND. LOVE SUE & RICK

MaryRose Eckroth

February 3, 2011

Uncle Bernie,
There are so many things that we will miss about you. Your loving smile, your tender heart, the joy you brought to everyone you came in touch with. With your unbiased opinion,you always made everyone feel that they were family all along. You didn't have to grow on people because they loved you as soon as you came into there lives.Take care of grandma and grandpa and let them know we love and miss them dearly.Now you are at piece and in the hands that so generously brought you into our lives. We will always love and cherish every memory.
Love MaryRose & Tony

February 3, 2011

Bernie, You are truly missed, I can remember the last time I saw you. You were watching wrestling and being silly, you could make anyone laugh. Now go laugh with my mommy and sing the praises of our Lord Jesus Christ. I didn't know you well but you always made me smile.
Love to you, Twila

February 3, 2011

Bernie, , All I can put into words at this time is how much I love you. I thank God for giving us the last 13 months. I will always miss you, mon and dad. Everytime I hold someones hand I will think of you and our little joke. Love Rosie

Cheryl Balliett

February 3, 2011

Bernie (Uncle Bernie),
You will truely be missed. We'll miss your pure heart, your kindness you gave others, your adorable humor, your passion and your innocent out look on life. What you taught everyone of us, in your family, will be with us forever. We learned from you that life isn't about what someone is told they can't do, it's about the determinaion they put into doing it and getting it done. We learned from you an unconditional love is possible, no matter who you are. We learned from you to be passionate about the challenges that life gives us.
You are a teacher, in your own right.
I pray that I pass onto my child what you have taught me. Your a very strong man, a couragous man and my hero. God has decide that your journey and job here is complete. You must now travel with him. As you take on your new travels, we'll always remember you and what you gave each and everyone of our lives.
Now you go and tell Mom (Helen) Grandma and Grandpa we said hello and that we love you all.

Mischelle McCormick

February 3, 2011

Hey Bernie Buddy,We met in 1988 on the centerforce janitoral crew at the DSHS buliding we worked together for a long time. Seen you at the gladd dance and you always saved me a dance. I will truley miss you my buddie save me a dance for when i get there. Mischelle

Gail Misner

February 2, 2011

Hey there Bern, we've worked together for many years and you've brought us all so much joy. Your friends will miss you dearly as will I. You did it; you completed this part of your journey. And a journey to be remembered it was. I’m sure you’re having quite the celebration right now with those who went home before you. Thank you for sharing your life with me, with us. With a slight nod of my head (just as you often did) I say to you, “I like you”, and I mean it with all my heart. Dance on my friend…
Gail

February 2, 2011

Bernie, I was always amazed at you when i was a little girl. I lived right next to your sister Rose and i grew up with you your brother and neices and nephews.You were always like apart of our family too. YOU WERE AMAZING. ONE TIME AFTER WE HAD ALL GREW UP. I SAW YOU AND YOUR MOTHER IN THE GROCERY STORE YOU WERE SHOPPING AND YOUR MOTHER AND I BEGAN TO TALK.She said how blessed she was to have you. She said that you took care of her and your dad and that you worked too. OH I SEE NOW, YOU JUST HAD TO GO TO HEAVEN TO MAKE SURE THE GOOD WORK IS STILL BEING DONE. I LOVED YOU BERNIE.

LOVE:JOY CALDWELL CAGE

Ed Gilman

February 2, 2011

Bernie, I'm going to miss you, but I know your happy where you are now.
You beat me to heaven!!!!
Do a little jig for me up there.
Love always, Ed and Liz

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