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Debra Joyce Imhoff (Dufresne) Born November 8th, 1951; passed away February 12th, 2011 Deb was born to Barbara and Arthur J. Dufresne on November 8th, 1951 in Tacoma, WA. She was raised by her mother Barbara and stepfather Tom Burslem here in Tacoma. She graduated from Franklin Pierce High School in 1970, where she met and married her devoted husband of 38 years, Daniel Imhoff. She spent most of her time raising her two children, James and Jodi. In her healthy years she loved camping, the outdoors, and doing many crafts. In 1998 Deb was diagnosed with a life-threatening lung disease, and she made the difficult decision to be put on a transplant list. After three long years on the list her call came, and she was given a second chance at life. Her main goal for survival was for her children (James and Jodi) to "make her grandbabies". Her prayers were answered with her three little angels, Tyler, 6, Joshua, 3, and Conner, 3. Deb would hide her pain and suffering with hugs and kisses whenever the boys were in her presence, they were her whole world and they loved her dearly. Deb was preceded by her father Arthur J. Dufresne, her brother Buddy, and her father-in-law Albert Imhoff. She is survived by her mother Barbara, stepfather Tom, husband Daniel, brother Mike, sister Cheri, children James (Stacy) and Jodi (Eric), her grandchildren Tyler, Joshua, and Conner, and many more loving relatives. We will always love and miss you, Mimi. A small private "Celebration of Life" will be held on March 26th, 2011 at 2:00 pm at the farm.

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Mar. 20, 2011.

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Rosemary

February 12, 2025

Thinking of you Love, Rose

Rosemary Rogers

November 8, 2024

I miss you my friend. Love ya, Rose

Rosemary

February 12, 2024

Hi Deb, I hope you are relaxing up there. I know you are watching over your grandkids. I can´t believe how much they have grown. I have been thinking of you. Love, Rose

Rose Rogers

November 8, 2023

Happy Birthday Deb. Love,
Rose

Rosemary Rogers

February 12, 2023

You are in my thoughts today. Love, Rose

Rosemary Rogers

February 8, 2023

Deb, I think of you often, Our old favorite songs still bring tears to my eyes while thinking of you. I hope you are enjoying sweet music up there. Love, Rose

Rosemary Rogers

November 8, 2022

I hope your having a nice birthday up there. You are still older than me! Ha ha
Love ya, Rose

Rose

March 20, 2022

I think about you and all the fun times we had. I hope you are having a relaxing time up there. Love, Rose

Rose

January 22, 2022

Thinking about you and remembering some fun times.

Rose Rogers

November 8, 2021

Deb I hope you are having a nice relaxing birthday up there. You are still turning 70 before me! Love Rose

Rosemary

February 12, 2021

I am thinking about you Deb. Love, Rose

November 8, 2020

Deb, I hope you are celebrating up there! Happy Birthday , Love Rose

November 8, 2019

Thinking of you today. Love Rose

James Imhoff

March 14, 2019

Missing alot lately mom sure wish you were here.

February 12, 2019

Deb you are in my thoughts. Love Rose

February 12, 2018

Hi Deb, you have been on my mind a lot lately. I miss you, Love Rose

November 8, 2017

Deb, I have been thinking of you . Your grandkids have grown so much. I know you are watching over them. I am glad they have a guardian angel. Love Rose

February 12, 2017

Deb, I have been thinking of you this week. I miss you my friend.

Cheri Barry

December 28, 2016

I miss you more today tears in my eyes as I type to you. I've seen some of your family but you are the one I want to see. Im moving to Gold Beach Oregon in March. Its so beautiful I feel CLOSE to you when im looking at the ocean and see all the big birds swirling around. Some day soon I will see you again.

Traci Long

November 10, 2016

Missing you still my friend

November 8, 2016

Deb , You are on my mind often but especially today! Love Rose

November 8, 2016

You know my Dear if you were still alive
I'd celebrate with you for
On this day you'd be sixty-five
But you no longer age
How good that must be
Still wish you were here
To grow older with me

Happy Birthday love

Ur Hubby

September 30, 2016

Hi Deb, I just wanted to let you know I think of you often. Love Rose

August 26, 2016

Fourty-three years since we walked the isle together
Watched our children grow friends come and go
Oh the times and troubles we had to weather
We wandered apart, but never too far
Until the day you finally left me
We knew in our hearts after all those years
That we were meant to be


Happy Anniversary
Luv,
Ur Hubby

May 17, 2016

You raised our kids 'til they were grown
You were in their lives most everyday
"Make me grand-babies" you said
Then you slowly slipped away
This was you're plan
Though we never knew
To help keep us all
From missing you
It kind of works
But we still do


Happy Mom's Day
Ur Hubby

February 17, 2016

It's five years now, no time to cry
Since you've gone away
The grandkids miss you...so do I
And often they would say
As they look toward the sky
Will Mimi show up today
It starts to rain, you start to cry
She misses you I'd say
Look up kids! I knew she'd try
She made a rainbow for you today


Still missing you

Ur Hubby

February 11, 2016

Deb I have been thinking about you a lot lately. I miss you. Love Rose

Rosemary Rogers

January 11, 2016

Deb I am sitting in my living room eating Lays Potato chips and thinking about you. Fun memories from when we were 12 and 13.. We would share a bag and I always had a Pepsi and you always had to have very cold milk! I miss you my friend.

Traci Long

January 3, 2016

Thinking about you today. Miss you my friend.

January 2, 2016

Another Christmas has just passed
I hope that you could see
Your grandkids have grown up so fast
There presents gave them glee
Unlike the Christmas I had at home
No presents , lights , nor tree
At home no point to Christmas
Without you it's just me


Love & Miss you
Ur Hubby

November 9, 2015

Your 64th birthday
If you were here
I'd celebrate with you
My Dear
But, alas you are gone
So I celebrate
Your birth alone

Miss & love you
Your Hubby

November 9, 2015

Happy birthday old friend. I miss you still.

Cheri Barry

November 8, 2015

Today is your birthday and I'm missing you so much. Sis I got it back to your daughter. Sorry it took so long.

November 8, 2015

Happy Birthday my old friend! I have been thinking of you a lot lately. I miss you , Love Rose

August 27, 2015

If you were still on this earth with me
yesterday it would've been forty-three.
I don't know why it wasn't meant to be.
Still miss you dear. Happy Anniversary.

Love you Mimi,
Hubby

August 26, 2015

Happy Anniversary Mom! We love you ♥

Cheri Barry

June 8, 2015

Sis I was finally able to get something to your daughter that you wanted so much. I hope you see how much I love you and your family. You are always in my HEART. Love u sis.

February 12, 2015

It's been four long years
Since you went away
Though my life is busy
I miss you every day
I know you're finally at peace
I've only one concern
That you're there to greet me
When it becomes my turn


Love & miss you Mimi

Ur Hubby

Eric

February 12, 2015

We love you and miss you Mimi!

February 12, 2015

I miss you.

February 12, 2015

Deb, I am thinking of you today. I miss you. Love Rose

cheri Barry

January 29, 2015

Im miss you so much SIS. I was up in Washington last yr it sad not to be able come see you and show you my grand daughter EmmaJo she is so sweet you would of fallen in love at first site. I talk to you every night and daddy too. We miss u both so much.
Pennies from Heaven.

Traci

January 4, 2015

Thinking of you, missing our visits,you are a great friend. Miss you

January 3, 2015

Thinking of you, love Rose

January 2, 2015

Another year has come and gone. The season's finally done.
You thought of us as "Soul Mates". I guess it must be true.
For I'm spending New Year's by your side.
.........Guess I'm still in love with you.

November 10, 2014

If you were on this earth you'd be sixty-three.
I know you're out and about enjoying yourself.
But I'm still wishing you were here with me.

Happy Birthday my Mimi

Ur Hubby

November 8, 2014

I have been thinking about you a lot lately. I hope your having a nice birthday up there. I love you , Rose

cheri barry

October 12, 2014

Sis I miss u so much. I wish we could of had some time together before u left this earth. I pray u hear me when I talk to at night. I love u always and miss u so much. Oh sis I now have a grandson and a granddaughter. They are so sweet you would of loved them. One day I will see you again. ????

September 2, 2014

I think of you often and I miss the fun times we had together! : ( I love you Rose

August 30, 2014

Our special day has come and gone, still hiding all the tears.
If you were this on earth with me
it would've been 42 years.

Happy Anniversary My Mimi
Ur Hubby

May 17, 2014

Mothers Day has come & gone. The family we made together is growing up. Your babies & grand-babies still wish you were here to share life with them and so do I. Every once in a while they will do something that reminds me of you & I know you have touched them in your own persuasive way. It's nice to know you keep in touch! Happy Mothers Day.
Love & Miss U Mimi
Hubby

April 9, 2014

Well my dear that time is here
And my Birthday wish came true
For on this special day,my dear,
I grew one year closer to you

love & miss U
Hubby

February 14, 2014

Deb,I have been thinking about you a lot these last few days.i can't believe it's been three years..I miss you my friend , Love, Rose

February 12, 2014

Happy 3rd year in your new life. Hope all is well with you. I still come home at night expecting to here your voice ("It's about time you got home") & someday I probably will. At least I see your spirit come out in your daughter once in a while & all I can do is smile. Thank you for that!

Still love&miss U
Ur Hubby

Love Always, Your Daughter

February 12, 2014

It's hard to beleive that it has been 3 years. So much has happened. I still think about you every day, and wish you were here. I miss hearing your voice and I wish I could talk to you again. You always knew what to say to make me feel like the best daughter in the world. I wish I told you more how much you meant to me. If I had it to do over again I would tell you everyday just how much you meant to me. I love you Mom!

January 2, 2014

Well. We start another year without you. We all miss you Mimi.
ur hubby

December 24, 2013

I asked Santa for a gift today
He said he couldn't do
It was to spend this Christmas Eve
Alone at home with you
And so I'm here alone,my dear
I guess that's the way things are
But my dear you need not fear
I'll still love you from afar.

Merry Christmas my Dear
Luv U my Mimi
Ur Hubby

December 15, 2013

Miss you Deb! Love , Roselberry

Traci Long

December 14, 2013

Was thinking about you today, I miss you, our talks, your encouraging words and all your knowledge on life. You will forever be in my heart and thoughts..I miss you

Cheri Barry

December 13, 2013

Your candel always burns in my heart. I miss you so much sis. Its hard to not have your sister to talk to and laugh with or even cry. Tears from heaven. Love u sis..

November 8, 2013

It would have been sixty two.
Happy Birthday my Dear.
And hear I sit,alone & blue.
'Cause you are there & I am here.

Miss U Always
Ur Hubby

Cheri Barry

October 5, 2013

Your always on my mind sis. Love u

Cheri Barry

October 5, 2013

Deb I miss you more every day.
Ur b-day is next mo. Sure wish we could see eachother just one more time. I will always love u. ?.My heart breaks that we never got to talk or see eachother just one more time. I talk to you all the time and to dad and my mom. I hope your all in heaven and happy..

James

August 28, 2013

Happy Anniversary Mom ! We all miss you very much and wish you could be here to see all these crazy kids we have running around when we get a chance to get together. Jaylin and Josh are growing like weeds and Jaylin has a little bit of you in her that reminds me of you everyday! Love you mom!

August 28, 2013

I miss you! Love Rose

August 28, 2013

41 years ago we grafted a tree
one part you, and the other part me
Thou your branch has died,the tree lives on in your memory
Where ever you are I hope you can see
How our tree grows on,
so beautifully.
Happy Anniversary

Love & miss you Mimi
Ur Hubby

Your Daughter

August 26, 2013

Happy Anniversary Mom! I know dad was thinking about you today, and so was I. I miss you mom. I think about you often. I feel your presence with me even though I can't see you. You always told me that I can do anything that I put my mind too. Thank you for that. Keep looking down on us Mimi!

Cora

May 14, 2013

' Still miss you at all the family celebrations.

May 13, 2013

Happy Mothers Day my dear. Everyone misses you in the gossip circle. It's just not the same without you.
Thank you for allowing me to pass on the memory of our love through our children & grandchildren. I only hope where ever you are you're able them all grow. As much as I try I can never take the place of their Mimi.

Love&Miss you always
Ur Hubby

Happy Mother's Day!

Jodi, Eric, Tyler and Conner

May 12, 2013

Happy Mother's Day Mom! We all missed you today. Our Mother's Day gathering just isn't the same without you. My boys made sure to make it a special day for me. They are getting so big! Conner just had his spring program, and sang so well, you would have loved it. Blowing kisses to you Mimi! We love you!

April 19, 2013

Dan-I've tried to email you but it seems that the email address I have are not working. My email is the same, would you please send me your updated email? thank you.
Debbie-I think about you so much and miss you.

Lindsay

April 2, 2013

Happy Easter my dear. Family gatherings aren't the same without you.

Miss U Much,
Hubby

cheri Barry

March 2, 2013

Sis I miss you so much. I feel so alone and lost. My mom died on Jan 7, 2013 that made me even more alone. I feel like i have no family. Lost and alone.
Your in my heart and head every min.of every day. I MISS U SO MUCH THE PAIN HURTS SO MUCH.
I WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS YOU FOREVER.

March 1, 2013

Today is your grand-baby girls birthday. She has your smile & detirmination. wish you were here to share her with me.
Miss you
Hubby

February 13, 2013

44 years ago you you struck my heart
like an arrow from cupids bow.
And though you are apart from me
I still love & miss you so.
AWW WAA BOO

February 12, 2013

Happy re-birth my dear.
It's been 2 years and I'm still missing you. But then, I probably always will.
Love & Miss You my Mimi
Ur Hubby

Remembering Your Smile

Your Daughter and best friend

February 12, 2013

Mom, it's been 2 years since you left us and I miss you even more. I wish I would have hugged you more and told you more often how great of a mom you were to me. I miss our evening talks and still think about picking up the phone to call you. I miss all the great advise you gave me, especially when it came to raising my handsome boys. They think and talk about you often and wish you were still here as much as I do. Today will be a day to remember you! Today will be a day to be thankful we got to share all the great memories that we have of you. I love you, mom!

February 12, 2013

Hi Deb, I just wanted to let you know I will be thinking of you and today will be an especially Blue day. Love, Rose

Rosemary Rogers

January 16, 2013

Deb, I have been thinking of you. I miss you my friend. Love Rose

Hubby

January 14, 2013

Another Year Without You.

Miss you Mimi

December 28, 2012

Well, another Christmas without you. I've got another lady in my life now. Her name is Jaylin. I hope you approve as I'm still missing you. Your boys keep me busy. I know you would be proud of the way our children are raising them. I only wish we could this family together.

Love you & Miss you
Ur Hubby

Jodi

December 18, 2012

It's Christmas time again. It snowed today and you would have loved it. The boys are getting so excited for Santa to come. I wish you were here to enjoy this time with us. Just the other day...we were on our way to Zoolights, and Conner says "I really wish Mimi could come to Zoolights with us." Then he said "oh wait, she will be with us because she is right up in those clouds above us." The twinkle in his eyes reminded me so much of you. We are always thinking about you. We love you and miss you, Mimi.

cheri Barry

December 15, 2012

I miss u more today than yesterday. I light this candele in ur name. Sis remember pennys fome heaven... Tell dad and Buddy i cant wait to be with you guys. Love u always

November 13, 2012

Happy B-Day my dear. Wish you were here. I guess I'll have to grow old without you. Hope your celebrating where-ever you are.

Luv U,
Hubby

cheri Barry

November 10, 2012

Happy Birthday sis Nov.8,1951. I miss you so much. I wish we could have a day to share all the love i have for u and how much u mean to me. I miss u big sid from little sis. Huggs and kisses from my heart to urs. Love u always Cheri

Tyler&Conner

October 31, 2012

Trick or Treat Mimi!

Hubby

October 31, 2012

Happy Halloween Mimi. Not the same without you. You always enjoyed all the little kids that came to greet us.

My the Spirits be with you!


Aw Wa BOO

Cheri Barry

August 29, 2012

Sis I miss u so much. If I could have one wish it would be to spend time with u to tell u how much I love u.. Some doy we all will be together again... Miss u. Love u Cheri

Hubby

August 27, 2012

This would have been our 40th my dear. Wish you were here! I think about you often, I guess thats when your spirit touches me. I know 'til death do us part',but I still feel married to you.
Love & Miss you Mimi

hubby

August 27, 2012

Well this would have been our 4oth. Wish you were here. I think about you often. I believe that's when your touches me. Thank you for that! I know 'til death do us part,but I feel like we're still married.
Love & Miss you Mimi

Your little kids :)

August 26, 2012

Happy 40th Wedding Anniversary Mom! I know you would have been so happy today. The boys are growing up so fast and are about to start school again. Yes, it's Fall, your favorite time of year. There are many things that remind us of you everyday. The boys will say "hey Mimi liked that or Mimi would have loved to have seen that". We look at the wonderful pictures that you let us take of you, and talk about all the memories that we made together. I know that they will remember you forever Mimi as will I! We love you and miss you!

Jodi

July 4, 2012

We are thinking about you today Mimi. Happy Independence day! We love you and miss you!

hubby

June 7, 2012

I miss you everyday my dear.
I,ll love you 'til my end.
Although we've had our differences,
you were my closest friend.

miss u mimi

Rosemary Rgers

May 31, 2012

I am thinking of you . Love Rose

Cheri Dufresne

May 29, 2012

Sis im taking the train to go to Wa for my dayghters wedding I will miss you so much I cant come see you anymore your in heaven now. I miss u so much. I will think of you the whole train ride. I will dream your on the train with me and talk to u in heaven the whole train ride wishing you were with me. I love and miss you more now than ever. Love u sis..

Cora

May 17, 2012

We missed you once again at our Mother's Day gathering. I am so amazed at how much of you I see in your little granddaughter, Jaylin. It's like your smile having been brought down to all of us, along with the twinkle in her eyes being yours. I'm sure you were as excited as the rest of us when we heard we were all blessed with a new baby girl in the family.

May 16, 2012

Deb,I think of you often.I can't listen to our favorite music anymore because it brings me to tears.I wish I would have told you what you meant to me before you left us.I miss you my friend. Love Rose

Your Little Kids

May 13, 2012

Happy Mother's Day Mom! There is still not a day that goes by when we don't all think about you. Conner had his spring program and you would have loved it, he was such a "ham". I think he is going to be a ladies man. Tyler had his field trip to see his first play, he loved it and thought the theater was so beautiful inside like the titanic. This will be another day where we cherish the time that we had with you, and look forward to the time we will see you again. We all love you mom and hope you have a great Mother's Day!

J.I

May 12, 2012

Happy Mothers Day Mom! It seems like yesterday that I talked to you I miss talking you. Times have been tough all around and some days it seems like the stress of life could take me down but I just keep plugging along, it would be easier if you were here though. Josh is doing very well in school you would be very proud of him. Jaylin is growing like a weed and she has alot of your traits and her smile is a mirror image of yours but I'm sure you know that. I miss you mom and hope to see you again one day. I love you, your son.

D I

May 11, 2012

Once again another Mothers Day without you. We all wish you were here.
Miss you Mimi

Tyler,Conner,& Grampy

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