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James Sommer Obituary

James Nicholas Sommer Born March 4, 1957; passed away unexpectedly on April 2, 2011. Jim lived a full life in 54 short years, and touched the lives of all who knew him. Jim was the consummate renaissance man, with talents ranging from singing with his gifted baritone voice to acting in various plays, and a love of music he shared with his wife Shirley of 34 years. He was an avid reader. He was also a dedicated golfer and a member of the TOY golf club. He was a student of the world and curious about all things in it. Jim retired from the Air Force as a master sergeant after 20 years of service. During his time of service he and his young family lived first in Arkansas, where he received his undergraduate degree in communications. The family settled in Lakewood, WA in 1990. After his retirement from the Air Force he worked at Cable Craft in Tacoma. Jim is survived by wife Shirley, sons Paul and John, his father Jim, loving sisters Annie and Mary, several nieces and nephews, and many friends whom he touched throughout his life. He was predeceased by his mother Madeline. The services will be held on Thursday, April 7th, 2011 in the Mountain View Celebration Life Center / Aspen Chapel. Viewing will be from 1 PM-2 PM, followed by a memorial service at 2PM. Immediately following there will be a reception at the RAM Restaurant in Lakewood.

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) from Apr. 6 to Apr. 7, 2011.

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Debbie Ramsey

April 20, 2011

Shirley, John and Paul - I am more sorry than I can say for your loss. I have such good memories of Jim from Oneonta, as well as from Germany with your John and Paul playing with my Sarah and John. My thoughts are with you. Debbie (Squires) Ramsey

April 12, 2011

Shirley--here is a line from a song I wrote for him all those years ago:

Keep him free, let him be the wind blowing where he wants to go, and come what may--keep him free.

Find peace where you can, woman.

Becky Test
(Beki)

Roger Martin

April 7, 2011

Shirley:
I am so sorry for your loss. Jim was a great man who touched so many. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers for understanding and peace.

John Swain

April 7, 2011

Shirley,
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I feel so lucky to have known Jim. He always made me smile.
Sincerely,
John Swain

Amy L Harden

April 7, 2011

Dear Shirley:

I was so sad to hear of Jim's sudden passing. My heart and prayers go out to you and your children, along with the rest of the Sommer family. The world will miss his smile...it is one of the main things I remember about him!!

With sympathy and love,

Amy (Onody) Harden

markal harris

April 6, 2011

we send our condolences love markal and candy

April 6, 2011

Dear Shirley,

We are so very saddened, and completely stunned to hear of Jim's sudden passing. We loved reading about Jim's life; what a wonderful, accomplished person! As you know, Mom was very fond of him as well. We love you, and feel deeply for you and your family. Will see you and talk with you very soon.

Mike and Renee deWolf-Gibbons

Sandra L Anderson

April 6, 2011

Dear Shirley and boys, While I am in Portland as I write this and will be unable to attend the memorial to celebrate Jim's life, I will keep all of you uppermost in thought tomorrow. I loved reading about his life and am sure that there will be many more tributes to his goodness, kindness, loving care for his family from all of your friends and family who'll be there to support you. Love, Sandy Anderson

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