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JAMES OTTINGER Obituary

James "Jim" Michael Ottinger (The Dude) James was born in Tacoma, May 18, 1965 and passed away in University Place on March 6, 2011. James graduated from Wilson High School and went on to earn degrees from UPS and Virginia Tech. James was preceded in death by his father Thomas W. Ottinger and his beloved dog Bailey. James is survived by his wife Wendy, daughters Amanda and Annika, mother Janice Ottinger, sister Jennifer Dane (Michael Dennett), nephew Kyle Dane, many other family, friends, and his dog Honu. Remembrance to be held on Sunday, March 13, 2011 at the Tacoma Elks Lodge, 1965 South Union, Tacoma from 1:30 B 4:30pm. Donations can be made to the Epilepsy Foundation Northwest, www.epilepsynw.org

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) from Mar. 9 to Mar. 13, 2011.

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Robyn Lawrence

March 15, 2011

I was so shocked and saddened to hear about Jim's passing. I worked with him at Russell and sat just across from him for a couple years. He always had a great attitude and was liked by everyone. He made me laugh on so many occasions. He will be missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and everyone that called him a friend.

Pamela and Makiah

March 14, 2011

Wendy, Amanda, and Annika,

Our thoughts are with you, and we are only a phone call away if you need anything day or night. *hugs* to you all

Kathy Davis

March 13, 2011

Search Light Moms wants to tell you how sorry we are for the passing of your James. If there is anything that we can do for you please let us know. We as mothers understand the day to day pain as we search for answers.
Love and Blessings,
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Suzanne Thomas

March 13, 2011

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Raphielle (aka Ralph) Gennette Chynoweth

March 11, 2011

I just heard of the news of James passing from Blair. I am so sorry for you loss of a wonderful man. I remember James fondly from my days at UPS as a Sigma Chi Little Sister.

Chris, Amy, Emma, and Ainsley Lawrence

March 11, 2011

Wendy, Amanda, and Ani,
Our deepest condolences to your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Craig "Cordo" McGarrah

March 11, 2011

I loved James, and James loved sharing the joy he got from his family. James delighted in the caring nature of his wife, the growth and adventures of his two daughters, and the achievements of his mom and the boss. James--thanks for the memories; you are missed.

Dean Darwin

March 11, 2011

Jim was my best friend for 40 years and I loved him like a brother. Jim was bigger then life and was one of a kind. Much love to Wendy and the girls, you know my prayers are with you and we will get through this together...

Vickie Clark

March 11, 2011

Jen, Wendy and family,

So, so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope that your closeness will help you through this time of deep sadness. Sympathies and prayers are with you all.

Lora

March 11, 2011

I am deeply saddened by the loss of James. We worked together at Russell, and he always had a kind and positive spirit about him. I enjoyed our chats about how he spent his weekends with his family. My heart goes out to his family and many friends...

Patty, Paul, and Olivia Pineda

March 11, 2011

Dear Wendy, Amanda, and Annika,
We are thinking of you at this most difficult time. Please know if you need anything, we are here.

Michele (Long) Dale

March 10, 2011

To the Ottinger Family~
I went to school with Jim for many years, and I was so sorry to hear of his passing. My prayers are with your family, friends and loved ones. He will be missed. God Bless.

Wendy (Halseth) Mazzuca

March 10, 2011

My deepest condolences to the Ottinger family. May God give you strength and comfort during this most difficult time! Jim was a great guy and we had a lot of fun times back in the high school days. Gone but most definitely not forgotten!

Hidie Matson

March 10, 2011

I will always remember Jim and all of us playing in my back yard! Playing Soccer, baseball, and staying up late playing in the neighbor hood as well. We always had so much fun. Those use to be the good days. I will never forget those childhood days with Jim, it truly was amazing. I will always remember Jims one line jokes that would make everyone laugh. I am so sadden by him passing on. I will never forget you. My condolences go out to his family at this time.

Nina (Foran) Starr

March 10, 2011

Dear Ottinger Family,
Jim and I went to school together, I am very sad to hear of his passing,
My thoughts prayers are with you at this sad time,

March 10, 2011

Dear Ottinger Family,
Rachel came home from school today and told us of James' passing. We are so sorry for the loss of your husband and father. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
Rosalyn, Patrick, Rachel, and Jacob Gutierrez

Lisa Lundemo-Beiermann

March 10, 2011

I am so terribly sorry for your family's loss. I knew Jim from Jr, high and High school, and he was the nicest person. I remember he would always let me cheat off his papers in class. He always had A's..I will remember him fondly. Rest in Peace Jim.

Ethan P.

March 10, 2011

I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you are back soon.

Lori Dodge

March 10, 2011

My families thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time!

Shauna Phillips-Chung

March 10, 2011

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this hard time.

Don Gartlan

March 10, 2011

Wendy, I'm so glad we had a chance to talk. James will be missed by so many people. While there are stories from working together at Russell, I can hear James saying Wendy and the girls. Always about being a husband and a father. I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Konni Epstein

March 10, 2011

Wendy, Amanda, Annika, Jennifer, and Janice & extended family, Our sincere thoughts and prayers are with all of you, this is such a tragedy, may God's love surround each of you during this difficult time. With much Love and sympathy from Jack & Konni Epstein

March 10, 2011

Wendy, we are so very sorry about the loss of James. Our thoughts are going out to you, and to your two girls.
Sabine, David, Peter, and Tom Endicott

Tina

March 10, 2011

Wendy, I don't know what to say. I'm so deeply saddend for the loss of your husband and father of your children. My thoughts and prayers go to you and your girls.

Blair Masenhimer

March 10, 2011

James was one of the first people I met in college. He was my fraternity brother and fellow economics student, but most importantly, I considered him my friend. I am deeply saddened by this loss. I pray our Lord will wrap Wendy and the girls in his His loving arms, and give them His peace and comfort.

I will always remember James' great sense of humor, his unique laugh, and infectious smile. He was one of the most positive and unique men I have ever met. He will be greatly missed.

Blair Masenhimer

March 10, 2011

James was one of the first people I met in college. He was my fraternity brother and fellow economics student, but more importantly, I considered him my friend. I am deeply saddened by this loss, and pray that our Lord will wrap His arms around Wendy and the girls and give them His comfort and peace during this time.

I will always remember James' great sense of humor, his unique laugh and infectious smile. He was one of the most positive and unique men I have ever met...he will be greatly missed.

Hollie Matson

March 10, 2011

I remember when I was growing up with Jim. I remember Jim and all our family playing Sardeans, I remember when Jim and my brother Robbie tried to take my dad's truck for a joy ride, and my mom caught them lol. Jim and his sister Jenny always played with us. I am so sadden by his passing, and my condolences go to his family at this time. I always smile when I think of the good times we all got to share as children. I will miss you Jim.

Amy Carr (Barrett)

March 10, 2011

An amazing man, who happened to be an equally amazing colleague. His sense of humor and love of his family will always be remembered. Thoughts are with all of you.

jennifer (clogston) burns

March 10, 2011

to james's family i am so sorry for your loss...

March 10, 2011

i went to grade, middle & h.s. with jim. were almost neighbors growing up...jim, i will always remember your kind & gentle ways, never saying a negative word upon anyone. your smile could light up a room. i am so sad to hear you were in such pain. you are in your resting place now. god bless you jim. my condolences to mike & jenny, janice & the rest of jims family & friends..

Susan Leuenberger

March 9, 2011

I am greatly saddened to hear of James' passing. I had the opportunity to work with him for a few years and, although he seemed sort of serious on the exterior, once you got to know him you realized what a funny and genuinely nice guy he was. So sorry for your loss.

Doug & Renee Klein

March 9, 2011

Wendy, Amanda & Annika: We're so sorry for your tremendous loss and we're praying for you.

Victoria Godyn

March 9, 2011

I remember working with James while at Russell -- helpful, sincere, and always had a warm smile for his friends. Words, no matter how gentle, cannot take away your loss. My heartfelt condolences.

Lisa Wilkin

March 9, 2011

I worked with James at Russell. He was always kind and helpful to everyone around him, and I feel fortunate to have known him. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Julie Horning

March 9, 2011

My heart is so deeply saddened to hear about the loss of our friend and classmate. I pray that God will wrap his loving,protective arms around all of you. My deepest condolences to all of you. God Bless you!

Paul K.

March 9, 2011

At Russell, James challenged me and he made me laugh with this unique sense of humor. When I called on him this past January, he answered "happy to help." That phrase is central to the memory I'll keep of James. Sorry for your loss and may you find comfort and peace.

Paul Hunter

March 9, 2011

Wendy,

My deepest sorrow and sympathy to you and the girls for your loss. I had the priveledge to work with James for a couple of years at Russell. He had a "how are we going to get this done" approach to everything. He also brought a great amount of levity to the workplace - conversations about the Big Labowski, the Cowboys, practical jokes played on co-workers...he was and will be missed. You are all in our prayers.

The Hayes family

March 9, 2011

The Dude abides. So long old friend.

Christine (Brubaker) Kelly

March 9, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers for the family, we will miss you Jim!!!

Derek Keith

March 9, 2011

Rae Hiramoto

March 9, 2011

Oh, Wendy, Amanda & Annika...we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to each of you and your family. Aloha from your Kilohana buddies...

Lyn Knapp White

March 9, 2011

So sad and sorry for your loss.

Jeanne Nakagawa

March 9, 2011

Jeanne Nakagawa

March 9, 2011

Wendy, Amanda & Annika:

Your Hawaii friend and Aunty is thinking of you all and praying for the family.

Your Tihati Ohana

Nils

March 9, 2011

I had the opportunity to work with James and was impressed with not only his professional abilities but also who he is as a person. He was genuine and fun. I'm so sorry for the loss. My wife and I will keep everyone in our prayers.

Debra Lanning

March 9, 2011

Wendy,Jenn,Amanda,Annika and our extended family, We are thinking of you and you are in our prayers -Rich and Deb L.

Tanya & Scott Padur

March 9, 2011

Our deepest heartfelt sympathy is with you all during this difficult time. Please do not hesitate to lean on your friends as you work to move forward. We are all here for you with love and support. We will always remember James being so genuine, so kind and so much fun to be around.

Jason Chinn

March 9, 2011

Annika I feel so sorry for you your friends and I will always be with you:)We miss you!

Chad Balcom

March 9, 2011

I worked with James as a Russell associate and as a client, and always enjoyed our conversations a great deal. He was constantly looking to do the right thing, and was just such a great guy. I'm so sorry to hear the news and wanted you to know that my thoughts are with you and your family.

Bev Fleischer(Melton)

March 9, 2011

Wendy, Janice, Jennifer, Amanda and Annika, please know I am thinking of you. I remember Jim as such a bright light, so funny and kind. He will be missed by so many.

March 9, 2011

I feel so sorry for Annika, my classmate and Amanda, her older sister!
But I'll always be here for you Annika! Mr.Ottinger was really nice, and I can't believe that you are sooo brave Annika. - Anna L. (WA, UP)

Jim Beaupre

March 9, 2011

I worked with Jim at CUNA. We were both new advisors struggling to build a career and take care of our families. I had a good conversation with Jim at the recent advisor conference in Phoenix. I was struck by Jim's tenacity, upbeat attitude, positive outlook and desire to take care of you and the girls. I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Fun times at McDonalds playland!

March 9, 2011

Wendy, Amanda, Annika, Janice, & Jennifer-
The Keith family is thinking of you and wishing you strength. We are here to support you and let you know how much we care.
Debbie

Jonathan & Janelle Cunningham

March 9, 2011

So hard to find the right words to describe the loss we are feeling right now. I'd just ran into James at Joseppi's about a week ago, and we had a few good laughs while we waited for our tables. We'd like to extend our heartfelt condolences to you and your family, and we are here to help you out in any way possible.

Shelagh Montgomery

March 9, 2011

Wendy -- I am so sad for you and the girls. James was one of a kind and I will cherish the memories we all had and will miss him terribly. I love you -- please let me know if you need anything at all.

Mike & Tracy Dane

March 9, 2011

We are so saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always

Jacque Kaui

March 9, 2011

Wendy, Amanda, Annika and the Ottinger ohana....sending warm thoughts and prayers to all of you hoping you will be comforted by our love.

Michelle McLean

March 9, 2011

Wendy, Amanda, Annika... Words just can not begin to express how deeply sorry we are. We love you all so much. You are all in our thoughts and prayers every minute. Michelle, Amber and Danielle

Krissy Ecklund-Culver

March 9, 2011

Jim, You will truely be missed!! Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Laureen & Ralph

March 9, 2011

Wendy, Janice, Amanda, Annika and Honu....Our loving thoughts and prayers are with you. "When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure"

Pat McElroy

March 9, 2011

Jim was the Rush Chairman when I pledged Sigma Chi. His influence and enthusiasm led me to membership at the UPS Chapter, what I count as one of the greatest blessings of my life. I am shocked and saddened to hear of this terrible loss to your family and the whole community of Tacoma.

Laureen & Ralph

March 9, 2011

Wendy, Janice, Amanda, Annika and Honu...Our loving thoughts and prayers are with you. "When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure"

David Hyde

March 9, 2011

Thoughts and prayers are with you. So sorry for your loss and at such a young age.

In Hoc

Stephanie Nicolai

March 9, 2011

Wendy, Janice, Annika, and Amanda,

Our hearts and arms are wrapped around you today, and we greive your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you. We'll miss James terribly and will always hold dear the time that we spent together.

Jeff, Stephanie, Carly, Caitlin and Nathan (Nicolai)

Karen Epstein

March 9, 2011

Still can't believe it. He was a wonderful father who cared deeply for his children and family. A role model for other fathers and husbands. Our hearts ache for you all. God Bless

Norene Beaver

March 9, 2011

Wendy and Amanda - Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time - know we are here for you! Wendy - whatever you need - consider it done!!! Blessings to you both The Beaver Family!!!

Jeff J

March 9, 2011

Wendy, Pam, the girls and I Love you guys and James so much. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

March 9, 2011

Know that your friends at TMG Hawaii and TMG share in the sadness you feel. Our love and thoughts are with you with the loss of James.

Angie Osborne

March 9, 2011

I am so sad for this loss. I have so many fond memories of james and david. Wendy ~ if you need resources for the girls give me a call.... or send me an email.... [email protected] David and James are hanging out together again ~ Please know how sad I am for your loss ~
Angie Osborne

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