BETTE SWENSON

1924 - 2018

BETTE SWENSON obituary, 1924-2018, Tacoma, WA

BETTE SWENSON

1924 - 2018

BORN

1924

DIED

2018

BETTE SWENSON Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 10, 2018.
Bette Darlene Swenson Together Again Age 94, died peacefully on May 30th, 2018 at her adult care home in Bothell, WA. Born on April 3, 1924 to Odean and Mildred (Quimby) Jerlow in Huron, South Dakota, she lived and worked on the family farm with her three younger brothers near Carthage. After high school graduation she attended college briefly in Estherville, Iowa. Bette later moved to St. Paul, Minnesota, where she worked in a munitions factory supporting the war effort. It was here she met her future husband, Chester Swenson, after his discharge as a pilot from the Army Air Corps. They married in October of 1945 and were together for 65 years until his passing in 2010. Chet was hired by Northwest Airlines in 1945 and moving the family every few years soon became a way of life. Chet was based in St. Paul, Seattle, Spokane, and Seattle once again. The family moved to Tacoma in 1961 and soon became involved with the Fircrest Golf Club and Fircrest Swim Team. Although Bette had her hands full raising three boys while her husband was often away on long trips, she still found time to chaperone for the Daffodil Festival and loved taking "her girls" around Tacoma for their appearances. A fantastic cook, she loved cooking for her sons and their friends from the neighborhood, sports teammates and fraternity brothers. When the boys were grown and gone she turned her culinary skills to the grandkids with sumptuous main dishes, casseroles, cakes and pies. Shortly after Chet retired, they bought a seaworthy trawler, christened her the Option B, and enjoyed cruising Puget Sound and the San Juan Islands with family and friends. In her later years she and Chet enjoyed many winters in the Arizona sun. Bette had a wonderful sweet nature, a caring disposition, and a positive attitude. Her tough South Dakota roots and deep faith enabled her to survive three bouts of cancer over the years. She will be greatly missed by friends and family in Minnesota, South Dakota, Washington and Arizona. She is survived by her sons Gary (Sally), Craig, Dave (Jill) and grandchildren: Jamie, Sam, Davy (Jake) Goetze, Brooke, Heather (Trevor) Uhler and Luke, and eight great grandchildren. A special thank you to Blueberry Gardens Senior Care of Bothell who provided superb care and friendship to Bette for the past five and a half years. No service is planned at this time.

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Kelly Brooker

October 29, 2020

This couple made a lasting mark on my heart as I worked at the cancer center when I first me them. I saw them on a weekly basis and it reminded me daily how to really love someone. They’re both shining down together and I think knowing that is the ultimate peace. I considered myself a friend of both of them.

Barry Ryan

June 12, 2018

What a wonderful woman and family. I was blessed to live on the same street in Spokane and Fircrest and grew up playing sports and spending time with Gary, Craig and Dave. Bette was indeed a great cook and a wonderful adult role model for me.

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