Anita Marie Shelley

Anita Marie Shelley obituary, Bristol, TN

Anita Marie Shelley

Anita Shelley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 9 to Jan. 10, 2010.
Anita Marie Shelley Mrs. Anita Marie Shelley was born Sept. 15, 1939. She departed this life Jan. 8, 2010, in her home of natural causes. Anita was a loving, caring and devoted wife, mother, grandmother and friend. She was employed at the Bristol Wellness Center (YMCA) where she kept the nursery for 15+ years. She was fondly called "Nana" by not only her grandchildren, but also her nursery children and all the young people she took under her wing. She was a lifelong member of Lee Street Baptist Church in Bristol Virginia where she served as a deaconess and faithful member of the gospel choir, women's choir and the Tri-Cities Mass Community Choir. She was preceded in death by her parents, Mr. Fred and Mrs. Edith Caldwell; and her husband of 44 years, Mr. Louis Walter Shelley Jr. She leaves to mourn her death, her three sons, Mr. Tracy (Cathy) Shelley, Mr. Troy (Nicole) Shelley, and Mr. Todd (Helen)Shelley; six grandchildren, DeShaud, Staci, Corey, Talya, Tyra and Camryn. Funeral arraignments are incomplete. Mrs. Anita Marie Shelley and family are in the care of R.A. Clark Funeral Service, Inc., 423-764-8584 www.raclarkfuneralservice.com

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January 29, 2010

Orion "Rusty" Callison posted to the memorial.

January 15, 2010

Sharon Smith-Kirkland posted to the memorial.

January 14, 2010

BRIDGET WORLEY posted to the memorial.

Orion "Rusty" Callison

January 29, 2010

I am so very sorry for your family's loss. Ms. Shelley was a wonderful person who will be remembered and missed. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.

Sharon Smith-Kirkland

January 15, 2010

Tracy, Troy & Todd,
Our hearts grieve with you as you mourn the loss of your dear mother. I have always enjoyed your mother’s spirit and sense of humor while growing up in Bristol. My mother, Mona Jean Smith, sends her sympathy as well. To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. God bless you all and your families during this time of sorrow.

BRIDGET WORLEY

January 14, 2010

TRACY AND CATHY
WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. BRITTANY ALWAYS ENJOYED GOING OVER THERE WITH TYRA. MRS SHELLEY ALWAYS MADE HER FEEL WELCOME. WE WILL KEEP YOU IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS
BRIDGET AND JERRY WORLEY AND KIDS

shelby rhea

January 14, 2010

Troy, and family , I just found out about your mom passing just want you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you .
shelby rhea

Melissa, Meredith, and Bryan (and family) Morton

January 13, 2010

Tracy, Troy, Todd and your families
I am so sorry for you loss. My family will be in prayer for you. Please remember God is with you and will give you the strength to keep on moving.

Melissa (Callison) Jones

January 13, 2010

Tracy, Troy, Todd and your families,

I am so sorry for your loss. Your mother was an amazing and dear person, and I have such wonderful memories of growing up across the street from your family. Please know that you are all in the prayers of my family. God is with you, and as the lovely poem posted earlier said, our loved ones are never far away.

January 13, 2010

Tracy,Troy & Todd, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your families through this difficult time.
God will see you all through this difficult time and give you the strength you need.

Love,
Martha, Annissa & Bryson
Charlotte, NC

January 12, 2010

Tyra,
We just wanted you to know that we are thinking about you and we love you.

Lee Street Youth Choir

Kenneth and Dorothy Harville

January 12, 2010

Words are not enough to convey our feelings for the loss of your mother and a dear friend. May the love of all your friends and family help you through your grief in this difficult time. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you and that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Curtis (Doug} Brown

January 12, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

January 11, 2010

Dear Tracey, Troy, Todd and Family,
There may be little we can say, and not
much we can do, but we want you to know
that you are in our prayers.

Your mother willl be missed very much, but thank God for memories.

If there ia anything that we can do, please do not hesitate to let us know.

Douglas and Vivian Releford,
Kingsport, Tn

January 11, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours
Classmates Tommy and Beatrice King Horton

Michele Harbaugh

January 11, 2010

Praying for all of you during this time.

January 11, 2010

Tracy, Troy, Todd,
We are truly sorry for the loss of your mother. We know what it's like not to have one around anymore but you still have so many memories to cherish. She loved all of you and she will be missed.
God Bless
Lewis & Donella Jones

Nicole Huntley

January 11, 2010

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Karin Kain

January 11, 2010

Troy, Nicole and girls,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please let me know if I can be of help in any way. I emailed your loss to our school family so they can pray for you all. Love to all, Karin Kain

Mike Jones

January 11, 2010

Tracy, Troy, Todd, and Family. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. Anita was a great woman and will be missed by many. Your loss is truly Heavens gain and I look forward to seeing both your mother and father again on the other side of Glory.
May God Bless you and your family.

Azarene Springs & Archenia Shaw

January 10, 2010

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

BILL @ FAMILY BUNCH

January 10, 2010

TRACY.TROY.TODD CATHY AND FAMILY IM DEEPLY SADDEN FOR YOUR LOST BUT HEAVENS GAIN. SHE RESTING IN THE HANDS OF THE LORD NOW. I KNOW THAT WILL BRING YOU GREAT COMFORT. THOUGHTS AND PRAYER

Cindy Ferguson

January 10, 2010

Tracy, Troy, Todd, and Families, We are deeply sorry for your loss. Your mother will be missed by each of us! Her conversation in the nursey was always enjoyable, she had such a bright outlook! Blessings to all of you, Cindy, Logan and Owen Ferguson

Earle and Carolyn Hutcheson

January 10, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers go up for the Shelley and the Caldwell families. May God bless and comfort and give you needed strength at this time.

Connie Daggs

January 10, 2010

Tracey, Todd, and Troy; My thoughts and prayers are with you all in your time of sorrow. I have such fond memories of both your parents as we once sang in the choir together and served the Lord in song. They were both a blessing in so many ways to so many people. May God wrap you in HIS arms of comfort.

Rev.& Mrs.Larry Williams

January 10, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

teressa johnson

January 10, 2010

To Todd Tracey Troy Deshaude and family Iam very sorry for your lost and god bless you all. teressa Johnson atlanta ga

January 10, 2010

To Todd Tracey Troy Deshaude and family Iam very sorry for your lost and god bless you all. teressa Johnson atlanta ga

Cindy Mutter

January 10, 2010

Tayla and family,
Just wanted you to know that you ALL are in my thoughts and prayers. Praying that the Lord will give you peace.

Robert Wells

January 9, 2010

May God be with you in your time of sorrow.
You have my deepest sympathy.

Carolyn Beverly-Bolden

January 9, 2010

To the Shelley family, My prayers are with you during this time. I was shocked when I got the news about Anita. I just went through some pictures a couple of weeks ago and had picked out some to give to her, therefore I will give them to the family. Remember that God can sustain you at this time.

Neta Buckwalter

January 9, 2010

Dear Todd, Troy,Tracy and Family, Your mother was a precious soul and she loved her family dearly. My condolences to you and yours. May God be with you and have comfort in knowing she is with our Heavenly Father. Bless you all. Neta Nasser Buckwalter

Delores & Sidney Shelton

January 9, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Margaret Huntley

January 9, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Paula & IV

January 9, 2010

Tracey, Troy, & Todd, I am so sorry for your loss. Your mother was a beautiful person and I so enjoyed working with her when I played for the young adult choir many years ago. Both of your parents have made a mark in this world that will never be erased! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Charles & Mary Burns

January 9, 2010

I still have not recovered and gathered my thoughts from your call. Your mom was one of a kind. My thoughts are with you guys as you go through this difficult time in your lives! My God give you the strenth you need.

Tina Turner Gudger and family

January 9, 2010

Tracey,Troy,Todd and your families, words escape me just wanted to let you
all know that your mother will be missed by all who knew and loved her,our community has lost a wonderful person,May God bless you all and give you strength to carry on

Byron Rogers

January 9, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with all of the family through this. She was an extraordinary woman who will be missed.

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January 29, 2010

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January 15, 2010

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