Betty Ruth Beildman Rush

Betty Ruth Beildman Rush obituary, Bristol, TN

Betty Ruth Beildman Rush

Betty Rush Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 21, 2010.
Betty Ruth Beildman Rush RALEIGH, N.C. Mrs. Betty Ruth Beildman Rush slipped peacefully into eternal life on Friday, Nov. 19, 2010, in West Hartford, Conn. Betty was born in Bristol Tennessee on March 19, 1935, to the late William Garfield Beildman and Jennie Florence Dixon Beildman. Betty accepted Christ at an early age and joined Hood Memorial AME Zion Church Bristol Tennessee. She participated in Sunday School, Various Christian Endeavor and sang in the junior choir. It was always her hope to be a missionary. Her formative years were spent in Bristol Tennessee where she graduated from Slater High School with honors. She went on to attend Livingstone College in Salisbury, N.C., where she earned a B.S. degree in education. While a student there, she participated on the basketball team, choir and was the president of Alpha Kappa Sorority. Following her graduation, Betty began her teaching career in Petersburg, Va. Shortly after marring, she moved to Fuquay-Varina, N.C., where she continued her professional career as a school teacher. She taught in the Wake County Public School system for 33 years. While there, she served as the Social Studies Chairperson and the In-School Suspension Coordinator. She went on to earn her master degree from North Carolina Central University in supervision and leadership. Upon moving to N.C., Betty continued to serve in various roles within the AME Zion Church, including Rush Metropolitan. During her dedicated service she served as Director of Conference Workers, District Director of Christian Education, Deaconess, Founder and Chairperson of Health Ministry and as a choir member. Her active involvement in the community included Executive Director and board member of Pine Acres Community Center, Registrar of Voters, Centennial Gala Committee, National President of the Beildman, Blevins, Howard, Dixon Family Reunion, National Negro Women's Society and N.C. Retired School Personnel. She was the 2002 recipient of the Martin Luther King Jr. lights of Hope Award and received service awards from the YWCA and the town of Fuquay-Varina. Betty was deeply devoted to her church, community and family. She leaves to cherish her memory two daughters, Mrs. Monica Rush Howard of Kennesaw, Ga., and Mrs. Tammy Rush Exum (Earl) of West Harford, Conn.; one sister, Mrs. Lorean Beildman Henderson, Bristol Tennessee; one brother, the Rev. Dr. J. LaVon Kincaid (Bobi) of Pittsburg, Pa.; five grandchildren, Hyatt Howard of Haven, Conn., Kristen Howard of Charlottesville, Va., Evan Earl Kyle Edmond and Jonathan Lee Exum of West Harford. Celebration of life service for Mrs. Betty Ruth Beildman Rush will be conducted at 12 p.m. Friday, Nov. 26, 2010, at Hood Memorial AME Zion Church. Burial will follow at Mt. View Cemetery in Bristol Virginia. Online condolences can be sent to the family via email at [email protected] Mrs. Betty Ruth Beildman Rush and family are in care of R.A.Clark Funeral Service Inc. Bristol, TN, (423)764-8584

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November 29, 2010

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November 29, 2010

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November 29, 2010

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Joey Mills

November 29, 2010

Sorry for your loss may God bless you during this time of sorrow.

vallarie poole-harris

November 29, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Anna Beasley

November 29, 2010

I am a former student of Mrs. Rush. I had her for Civics at Fuquay Varina High School. I have not seen her since graduation in 1975, but a remember her kindness and passion for life and what she believed in. I since sincere sympathy to her family. May God bless you in this sad time.

Claudia Daniel Henneberry

November 29, 2010

My memories of Mrs. Rush are from when she taught social studies at Fuquay-Varina High School. She taught me Civics and I remember her well as a passionate and sweet lady. She frequently mentioned her precious daughters, Monica and Tammy. She loved you very dearly. My regret is that I never saw Mrs. Rush after greaduation in 1975. She was a wonderful and accomplished lady.

November 26, 2010

Betty Ruth Beidleman Rush. Passion and perseverance were hallmarks of her life. She was passionate about family & family heritage, about the AMEZ Church, about education and opportunity for the young and not so young, about making our country, our cities and communities, more habitable places for African-American men, women and children, and, indeed for all people.
Steadfast in her belief, preserving through good times and not so good times, in pursuit of her dreams, she left a trace of her presence, a role model, a guide for our lives. Her life is worthy of our praise and honor. We will miss her.
BDHB Family/ Washington DC &Metro area)

Jim Hunsberger

November 24, 2010

Ms. Rush was a wonderful lady & a real sweet heart, both to my daughter Hannah who helped Ms. Rush with her beloved Pine Acres turorial program, and to me during time I was honored to have been of service to our community. Her advice and support was always welcome and appreciated.

I am so sorry I only found out about her passing...too late to attend services.

She will be missed.

With fondest rememberances and heartfelt condolences to Ms. Rush's family.

Jim Hunsberger & family

Jo Ann Wilson

November 24, 2010

Dear Monica and Tammy, I just now opened the Fuquay Independent and read the news of your mother's passing. She had a full life that guided many a student in the correct direction and at least one beginning teacher. My room at FVHS was next to the ISSP room for a while. She will be greatly missed. May God comfort you all.
Jo Ann Bowles Wilson

Mary E Booker & Family

November 23, 2010

Monica & Tammy, my family and I sends you our deepest sympathy and condolences may God give you peace.

Shameka McLean Howard

November 23, 2010

Dear Family of Mrs. Rush I am so sorry for you loss. You mother was a wonderful woman and she helped me in many ways. My prayers are with the family.

Mary McLean-James

November 23, 2010

To Monica and Tammy:
A heart of gold has stopped beating, two shining eyes are at rest, God broke our hearts to prove he only takes the best.
With Loving Memories.
Minster Mary McLean James

Hew & Emma Dorssett

November 23, 2010

Dear Family of Betty Rush,
May the love and peace of God descend upon you as you remember your dear loved one. Be blessed in the Lord.

Patricia Joyner

November 23, 2010

Ms. Rush was one of my favorite teachers, I know that she will be missed by her family. God Bless and comfort you...Patricia Thomas-Joyner.

November 23, 2010

Condolences from Milton & Carrie Hazzard + the family

November 22, 2010

Betty devoted her life to the service of the Lord. She volunteered much of her time, money and energy to ensure the success of our Family Group. Betty Ruth loved the Lord and family. She has passed over into the Promise Land , the place that the Lord God has prepared for her and where we who are true believers will meet her and our other loved ones on that "great getting up morning",
Rest in peace, Betty. Ede,and Family.

College Ave. Christian Church

November 22, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

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