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Dad & I dancing at my wedding in 2003!
Amy Shumate
April 17, 2012
Thank you so much to the anonymous sponsor who has sponsored Dad's Memorial Site until April 13, 2013.
Rob Blizard
November 26, 2010
I knew James as the caregiver for my uncle, Les Childs. James was one of the nicest people I have ever met. And he was wonderful working with Les. My parents and I were very saddened by his passing.
Amy Peltier
December 22, 2009
I too worked with Jim at Wellmont Bristol, and it's very sad to hear of his passing. He was a treasure to fellow staff, patients, and all who had the pleasure to come into contact with him. He had such kindness and his humor made the long nightshift pass a little more easily. Jim, you are missed!
December 9, 2009
I was drawn to write to you because of the beautiful memorial you dedicated to your loved one as you share the stories and the memories of how they lived life and how very much they meant to you, may you find comfort...And, throughout this difficult time, may you also know the deep sympathy and concern that is felt for you and all your family The Bible assures us: “God is near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit he saves.” (Psalm 34:18) May you find comfort in the memories that are yours to cherish always.
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December 9, 2009
I was drawn to write to you because of the beautiful memorial you dedicated to your loved one as you share the stories and the memories of how they lived life and how very much they meant to you, may you find comfort...And, throughout this difficult time, may you also know the deep sympathy and concern that is felt for you and all your family The Bible assures us: “God is near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit he saves.” (Psalm 34:18) May you find comfort in the memories that are yours to cherish always.
Cathy Shumate
November 28, 2009
You know how much you mean to us. We love you , Amy and are right here for you whenever and whatever yor need. Love, Cathy and Dan
Sally
November 25, 2009
I worked with James at Wellmont Bristol hospital and he always kept us laughing.. I know sometimes I would get aggravated at him but you just couldn't stay mad at him plus he would stay after you till you would laugh.. I know that my fiance' died in 2005 and James was there for me along with all of our other friends.. we were all close on 3 west like a family and he will be missed by all.
Allan Bradley
November 24, 2009
Sorry for your loss my friend...
Brian & Ellie Worley
November 24, 2009
James we were so sorry to hear of your loss, we are praying for you and your family. Brian & Ellie Worley
Ralph Booher
November 24, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. I knew Jim as a teacher and his children as students.I am sorry to hear of his passing.
Ralph Booher and Family
November 24, 2009
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Jim.He was a joy to work with he kept us laughing all the time.But he's in a better place now.No more suffering.His Friend at Flavorich
BARBARA KAYLOR
DOT DALTON
DAVID YORK
WAYNE FEATHERS
Becky Nunez-Collins
November 24, 2009
Thank you for sharing Jimmy with the rest of us. I was honored to attend school with him and he was always jovial and delightful to have as a friend. He also cared for my elderly Mother at BRMC when she had surgery and gave her exceptional care. I feel blessed to call Jimmy my friend.
You and yours will be in my prayers and if I can do anything for you please know I am as close as your telephone. (228)324-3950
Marvin Blizard
November 23, 2009
Late one night in 2005, I received a phone call from a stranger, James Sandefur, who, with quiet and confident demeanor, demanded that I return to BRMC and sit with Les Childs -- my brother-in-law and his patient. When I returned, James was already calling his friends to arrange for round-the-clock sitters. My first conversation with James continued off and on that night until about 3 am. James continued to care for Les part-time for two more years. He kept a keen medical eye on Les while they enjoyed themselves -- going in James’ truck to the pool hall, the Burger Bar and to Java J’s, etc. During this time, my family and I came to love James – a very modest man who loved his family dearly. We have lost a truly good person.
November 23, 2009
To the entire Sandefur family. Please know that you are in my thoughts and my prayers. May you find comfort in many wonderful memories of Mr. Sandefur, the many acts of kindness and goodness he did for others and also in the knowlege that he is now at peace.
God bless and comfort each of you.
Terry Forrest
Donna Thomas/Ostermeyer
November 23, 2009
So sorry for your loss. Jimmy and I had gone to John Battle together and he was always a kind a caring person.
I know he is in a much better place; you will be in my prayers.
Sharon Dupont Crowe
November 23, 2009
I am sorry for the loss of Jim. I went to high school with him and remember his laugh and love for life. Your family will be in my prayers.
Debbie Keith
November 22, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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jason Booher
November 22, 2009
"Jamie, Amy & Jacob, I am soo sorry to hear of your fathers death. He was a good man. He had a kind heart and would help anybody in need.
Elizabeth Guinn
November 22, 2009
Amy, Jamie, and Jacob:
I am so sorry to hear about your daddy. It is hard to loose a parent and it will take time to heal the hurt. Have peace in knowing he is in a better place and is not in pain any longer. God be with you all in this time of need.
Cousin Elizabeth, Darrell, Kayla and Emily Guinn
Janet Statzer
November 22, 2009
Tommy and family: We are thinking of you during this most difficult time. Look to God for comfort, peace and rest as only He can provide. You are in our most sincere thoughts and prayers.
Jack & Jean Ingle
Dee Ingle, Shea, Sierra and Dallas
Luke & Janet Statzer, Steven and Paige
Terri Grizzle
November 22, 2009
Jamie, Amy & Jacob,
You all are in our thoughts & prayers.
In the long days & nights ahead, may you find comfort in all the memories you have of your Dad & knowing someone so special will always live in your hearts.
John & Terri Grizzle,
Mae & Sheila Bowers
Max Jackson
November 22, 2009
Sorry to hear of the passing of James,I wish I could have known him.He was a great person and will be missed by many who loved him.I'm thankful that the Lord has a place prepaired for those that love him.May the God of peace comfort you,the family and friends during this time. In Christ, Max & Sherry Jackson (Pastor Pine Hill Church)
Roy and Elizabeth Stanley
November 22, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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