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Laurie Jones
June 7, 2019
I remember Jill's positive attitude and she always had a smile on her face. Miss you my friend!!!!
Cindy Sokol
June 15, 2012
Our dearest Jill, the girls and I miss you sooo much!!! We know you are always looking down on us, especially when little things happen that remind us of you. Your the angel watching over us. You were a dear friend and also a great aunt. You will forever be in our hearts.
Love ,
Cindy, Ed, Dayna & Jessica
June 26, 2011
The more I read the thoughts of people that were touched by Jill the more my eyes filled with tears. As family members, we all know of her many qualities and to see so many people that knew and experienced those qualities in their lives also, is wonderful.
From time to time we may wonder what our purpose in life is. What greater purpose can there be than to have touched so many people in the way Jill did?
Don and Carol Pedicini
John Harder
June 26, 2011
Jill:
You always made me laugh and you are the kind of person that anyone who meets you never forgets. I am sure heaven is a much funnier place now. All my best to Garfoli and Alderman families, you will be in my prayers.
Tami Wygant-Alden
June 25, 2011
I remember you from junior high and high school. You always had that smile that brought joy to everyone. My thoughts and prayers to your family.
Wendy Hawthorne
June 24, 2011
I remember all of the great friendship that Jill and I shared through elementary school and high school. She always had the brightest smile and such a loving sense of humor. Jeff and Jane and Sue and Jen and family, my sympathy goes out to you because I know Jill fought a valiant fight. Love Wendy Hawthorne
Susie kay Wheeler
June 15, 2011
Jeff,Mom Garfoli and family;
Their are no words that can express our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family over the loss of our Jill. While there is nothing we can say that will ease your pain, just know that we are grieving with you and thinking of all of you. We love you,
John and Susie Kay
June 15, 2011
I will always remember Jill as one of those people you hoped to run into on a bad day. She had a way of lifting everyone's spirit and even though she had so many trials of her own, she was a great testimony to the strength we can have as human beings. I will miss her and always remember her with a smile!
Love you Jill!
Mary
Nancy Kelly
June 15, 2011
I knew Jill was a cancer survivor. She paid the postage for me when I sent my son's (!) ponytail off to Locks of Love, and said she always did it. I will never forget her.
Sheila Czarnick
June 15, 2011
Jill,
You will be always in my heart. I still feel your strength everyday. I will never have another true friend like you. You are an angel,and I know you will always be watching over me.
I love you and miss you everyday.
She
June 15, 2011
To Jill's family, My sympathies for your loss. I knew Jill from working at RPI. She was always kind and friendly to all who dealt with her. We had many a laugh. She is missed! Jeanette
Melissa & Marty Rolfe
June 15, 2011
It was always a pleasure to visit with Jill. She always opened up her arms to give a great big hug and her smile was contagious. Jill was an absolute joy to be around and we will miss her dearly.
Seebald Buher Family
June 15, 2011
Alderman Family,
We are very sorry about Jill's passing. Jill was always a smiling friendly face with a personality to match upon entering the RPI Student Union.
Paul and Colleen Seebald
Al Buher

Sue
June 15, 2011
To my beautiful sister, friend & kindred spirit.
Miles may have physically separated us, but all we had to do was shut our eyes & we were together sharing every journey in our lives.
You will always be the lilt in my walk,
the twinkle in my eye,
the laughter in my voice,
& the love in my heart.
You are with both your "fathers" now. RIP my sweet sister ... you definitely earned it.
All my love forever,
Sue
June 15, 2011
Jeff: As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Tony, George, Anthony,Justin. ADI
June 15, 2011
Jeff:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, know we are all here for you in your time of sorrow.
Cousin Kathy
heather,robin,ken anders
June 14, 2011
to the alderman family
we are sorry for your loss.. our thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this time of sorrow...
June 14, 2011
Jeff and Family....Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Judy and Bob Gamache
Savana Alderman
June 14, 2011
Aunt Jill you may be gone but will never be forgotten...you now are my guardian angel and not a day will ever go by that I won't think about you and miss you. I love you so much. I truly lost my best friend that I always could count on. Arabella, little Scott and I will see you again some day.
Savana Alderman
June 14, 2011
Aunt Jill you may be gone but will never be forgotten...you now are my guardian angel and not a day will ever go by that I won't think about you and miss you. I love you
Dan Fridgen
June 14, 2011
I want to express my sincere sympathy to Jill's family. Jill....you have left us way too soon. You were always so friendly, funny, and fun to visit with. RIP.
Burt, Jen & Brandon Packard
June 14, 2011
We have always been together in spirit even when parted by states. Rest peacefully in heaven and we will be together again one day. You are loved. Simply the best sister and aunt.
June 14, 2011
We lost a beautiful soul. Jeff and Family , you are in my heart and prayers. Jean Long (Wohlleber)
Cheryl
June 14, 2011
Another star shining brightly in the night sky.... Another angel to watch over loved ones.... this is the woman I had the utmost privilege to have known. Jill's enthusiasm for life was contagious. Who could not help but smile when she looked your way with that smile of hers, and those eyes!! Jill brought beauty into ours lives. To exemplify Jill's love, would be to honor her and all she held dear. I will miss you my friend. Rest in Peace. I love you....
Christine/Jim/Jon/Kait Gagnon
June 14, 2011
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Michelle Orzel
June 14, 2011
The world has lost a beautiful human being. What a fun person- she made me laugh every time I saw her! She always had a smile for you. She cared for everyone and was a joy to be around. I'll miss you, Jill!
cassie urquhart
June 14, 2011
to the alderman family
I am sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with all of you
June 14, 2011
~Jeff and family,
May the love and support of friends and family help carry you through this sad and difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
~Peter & Lisa
Laura R
June 14, 2011
My sincere condolences to all of Jill's family. What a wonderful and caring person she was. I met her in the mid-1980's when I was a student at RPI and had a job in the Student Union. We had some great laughs together. She always remembered me years later when I stopped in to visit, and always cared so much about others' lives, even during her illness. A beautiful Light, snuffed out too soon. She will be missed.
Joel, Scott & Jaimee Phelps
June 14, 2011
Our condolences to the Alderman and Garfoli families. Jill was an amazing woman who will be deeply missed!
Margee and Rick Hyde
June 14, 2011
One person should not have to go through everything Jill went through and yet she was always smiling. Words cannot express how sad we are and how much we will miss her. Be at peace our friend and no doubt we will see you again. Love you.
Lynn & Dave Shippee
June 14, 2011
Dearest Jeffery,
It was such a shock to hear of Jill's passing. We are still trying to get over the tragic news. Jill was such a kind and compassionate person who did so much for others. She has been a great friend to us and we will be ever thankful for having had the opportunity to know her. Our deepest sympathy is with you and your family at this sad and difficult time.
Helen Hebert
June 14, 2011
Jeff and Family
I'm very sorry for your loss. Jill was a sweet person, she always made me laugh. She will be greatly missed. Loved her beans !!!
Heather W
June 14, 2011
Jeff and Family~
I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Jill was a beautiful person and will be greatly missed.
Pam McCumber
June 14, 2011
one of the funniest people i knew and always put a smile on my face - it was a joy and pleasure to have known her -
Jill i have missed seeing your smiling face at the post office and will continue to do so- may you rest in peace
Kath'e Reyes
June 14, 2011
My sincere condolences to both Alderman and Garfoli family.
Jill your contagious smile and beautiful personality will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone.
God bless.
Kath'e Reyes
June 14, 2011
Jill, you will be greatly missed, your contagious smile and beautiful personality. My sincere condolences to jills family.My prayers are with you all.
God bless.
June 14, 2011
Jill, I will always miss your friendship and Your smile that always brightened my day., you always knew how to make me laugh. I will always remember and miss you very much. RIP my friend. Love Laurie and Don Jones
John and Justine Hudson
June 14, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Audrey Hayner
June 14, 2011
Jill: You always had a beautiful smile on your face for everyone. RIP, I will miss you.
June 14, 2011
An absolute beautiful person has left this world, through all her turmoils she was always "perky", loving ang giving. You will be missed Jill. RIP
Rita
Charlene Morizio
June 14, 2011
Jill, I will miss your friendship and awesome smile. You are certaintly a wonderful person.
God Bless "The Good Char"!!!!
Dawn Thurley
June 14, 2011
To Jeff, The Alderman family and the Garfoli family,
I don't even know where to begin to say I am sorry. There is nothing that you can say to comfort the family at a time like this. In Jill's short period of life she has made more friends and made more people laugh than a lot of people that live twice as long as her. She has also had more sickness and injuries than most people have that live twice as long. She is finally out of pain and at peace. She will be with all of you always. It is going to be much harder on the family and friends that remain than for Jill. She will definitely be missed and thought of daily.
My Prayers and Love are with all of you,
Dawn Thurley
June 13, 2011
The staff of On Call Medical Services wish to express our sincere condolences to Jill's family. She was one of our favorite patients. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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