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Cole HUGHES Obituary

HUGHES, Cole Hunter (Age 44) December 25, 1972 - May 26, 2017. A most charismatic, beautiful son and brother died suddenly on Friday, May 26th. Cole was the younger of two sons, raised in a loving home, first in Kansas City, then in Boston and finally in Tucson. Outwardly, Cole looked like he had it all: intelligence, confidence, athletic ability, beautiful blue eyes, captivating smile, his Dad's wit, his Mother's charm, and the ability to engage and forge a relationship with anyone. Inwardly, Cole was sensitive and had struggles he hid well from his close friends and loving family. Upon graduating from Salpointe Catholic High School, he walked on and started as a freshman soccer player at UC Santa Barbara. This is where drugs first entered Cole's Life. Although Cole could never be completely honest about the trouble he was in, his love and respect for his parents became a lifeline over the years. He completed numerous drug rehab programs, but the craving that comes from true addiction was more than he could overcome. Over the past three years, Cole humbly submitted to the rehab option of Teen Challenge, a long-term faith based recovery program proven to be extremely effective. During his time at Teen Challenge we witnessed the emergence of a "New Cole." Upon completion of the program, he became actively involved as a speaker and counselor at The O'Reilly Care Center. As one who had been there, Cole had a profound effect on the lives of people in the throes of addiction. We believe and pray that Cole's testimony to the addicts he loved has saved and will continue to save lives in the future. Though unclear if drugs directly or indirectly led to his death, years of drug abuse took a toll on his body. The worry his parents felt when Cole was under the influence has been replaced by a deep feeling of loss in knowing that they will not see his smiling face again, until they join him and their Savior in heaven. Cole had surrendered his life to Christ, and that gives such peace in the presence of what would otherwise be untenable grief. Cole's struggles have ended. He is with our Lord. We will miss his keen sense of humor, his smile, his beautiful eyes. Good-bye Cole, we are going to miss you, but we rejoice that you are home. "We can trust God with this." Cole leaves behind his parents, John and Thompson Hughes; his brother, Justin (Wendy); nieces, Hailey, Tenley and Britney; nephew, Tanner. A Memorial Service will be held on Friday, June 9, 2017 at 10:30 a.m., Catalina Foothills Church, 2150 E. Orange Grove Rd., Tucson, AZ 85718. The family asks that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to Teen Challenge of Arizona, P.O. Box 77370, Tucson, AZ 85705. Arrangements by EAST LAWN PALMS MORTUARY.
Published by Arizona Daily Star on Jun. 4, 2017.

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Molly Sheedy

July 5, 2017

Dear Dr. Hughes: You may not rembr me but of course I rembr you & your generous, thoughtful care. You are the kindest dr. I have ever known & a joy to visit; I am sure Cole embodied those virtues as well. Being an RN in detox et all, I can realize the heartache & trials of this awful disease & its impact on the families that are also so affected. I wish you peace, love & comfort... and the fond memories of Cole that will always be in your heart. With the sincerest of sympathy......

Donna & Ira Haskell

June 19, 2017

Dearest Thompson and John,
Ira and I were so saddened to hear of your losing Cole. We have been through the first chapters with our son too, and can only imagine the heartache and loss you are feeling.
It must give you both some comfort to know that Cole helped others. Our son is doing the same thing through AA and a detox facility where he donates his energies.
You are wonderful God Loving people! Our thoughts, prayers, and love is with you and your family.

Sheri and Rock Thompson

June 16, 2017

It was years ago, but I remember 4 year old Cole on ski trips with CCCC to Hidden Valley. He was energetic, funny, and a dare devil on the slopes! He made us all smile. We are so very sorry for all of you and pray that you will all know God's amazing care and tender touch as you walk through the coming days and years.

Carolie Sherard

June 11, 2017

Dear Thompson & John & Justin, my brother Larry Potter informed me of Cole's passing. I missed it. I am sorry I wasn't at the service to support you. It is so hard to lose a child before we die. How I praise that Cole had accepted Jesus as his Savior. The obit was so beautifully written. I am thinking of you & will hold you up in prayer to God our Father.

June 11, 2017

We were saddened to hear of Cole's sudden death and wish to extend our most sincere sympathy to the family at this time.
Jose and Margie Estrella

Ryan and Marla Ayers

June 9, 2017

We are deeply saddened to hear about Cole, and we send all of our love and prayers to the entire family, to those Cole loved and touched, and to those who cared for him.

Lynne

June 9, 2017

I was a patient in O'Reilly just 6 months ago, in December. I remember listening to him and his love for life and family. He was a great encouragement to those of us who were listening and seeking help. May God comfort you, knowing how much hope and love he had to share.

June 8, 2017

Aunt Thompson, Uncle John, Justin and Family. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Please take comfort that Cole is now with Christ. We Love you.

Erik, Christa, Brodie and Ava

June 8, 2017

To the Hughes Family. My name is Linda Lenhard and I have been a patient of Justin's over the past 6-7 years. Our son. Bob Lenhard, was a classmate of Cole's. We Live just below you on Columbus Blvd. He will be at the service tomorrow. I just wanted to personally offer my condolences to all of you. He absolutely had beautiful blue eyes!. I am so glad you know the Lord and know where he is. He is watching over all of you.

Patti Wolf

June 8, 2017

My heart weeps and I am very saddened. I was moved to tears upon reading your thoughts.. poignant, beautiful, and candid ! May God give you strength and hold you in the palm of His hand. I do know that we now have a very Special, Cherub like Angel above us who will shine his bright light down upon us.

John R Hughes

June 8, 2017

BELOW IS THE LINK FOR THE LIVE STREAM VIDEO OF THE MEMORIAL SERVICE AT 10:30 FRIDAY TUCSON TIME

http://cfcpca.org/streaming-video

Amy Thompson

June 8, 2017

What a beautiful, honest and truthful obituary of your son. My heart goes out to my Aunt, Uncle and family. I know that Cole is in peace with the Lord and not struggling in emotional and physical pain anymore. His time on this Earth was important as he helped many. RIP Cole Hunter Hughes.
-Love, Amy

June 8, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and the entire family.
Love,
Sally and family

Tina Streight

June 7, 2017

My deepest sympathy. Cole will be forever remembered and forever missed by all who knew him and loved him. Rest in Peace, Cole.

Carol Rupel

June 6, 2017

Cole was my husband mike's roommate at Teen Challenge... I will forever remember his kind cheerful spirit and big blue eyes...we are deeply saddened and shocked by this news and pray for comfort and peace for Cole's family.

Pat

June 6, 2017

I'm so sorry for the loss your family has suffered. May you gain comfort and strength by pouring out your heart in prayer to God.

susan harris

June 6, 2017

Beautifully expressed. Feel my arms around you. Love, Susan

Cathy Dreifort

June 6, 2017

I am so sorry for you loss and thank you so much for sharing this story. There are too many lives being lost to addiction and so glad you have brought this to light. Bless his soul for all that he did to help those who also suffer from this horrendous disease. I have a loved one who is currently active and it is heartbreaken. God bless you as you try to deal with the loss of such a special man.

Diane Bassett

June 5, 2017

To the Hughes family,
I am so heartbroken over the loss of your son , Cole. I Was so shocked to hear this. Thompson, my heart goes out to your family, you are in my heart and prayers now. Let the Lord wrap you in His loving arms now and feel the comfort of His love.

craig orozco

June 5, 2017

R.I.P Cole , you always made people around you better and thats the best anyone can do .
Craig O '91

Mary Schneider

June 5, 2017

I was touched by the obituary for your son. We also have a son who has been struggling for years with addition. We are also a lifeline for him. Teen Challenge is a wonderful organization that we have supported for many years. I only wish our son would make the decision to walk with them. May God bless your family during this difficult time.

Winnie Garrett

June 5, 2017

Thank you for sharing his story. Although I did not know your son, my daughter also struggles with addiction. I pray for comfort for your family and peace knowing that you will see him again.

Susan R

June 5, 2017

This is a beautiful tribute to your son. There are so many young people struggling with the disease of addiction in Tucson, and those parents are greatful for your honesty and words. Thank you, and may you find peace.

E K

June 4, 2017

I didn't know Cole, but I am too familar with his problems. Your obituary was filled with love and sadness, and I am writing to let you know that his story will no doubt help many others, whose parents will be spared your grief. Bless you all, and Bless the wonderful young man that Cole must have been.

Dave and Marty Chakmakian

June 4, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you with love in this tremendous sorrow.

Jackie Melz

June 4, 2017

I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Cole. My heart goes ou to you. Stay stong and know the Lord will care for Cole and you both.

Kevin Cotter

June 2, 2017

I have many fond memories of Cole from Salpointe and Tucson United Soccer. I specifically remember a moment during a game at Tucson High School when he made a ridiculous move to his left on the sideline that amazed everyone watching and left the guy defending him helpless. I remember him as being very friendly and positive - always smiling.

Lisa Aquilina

June 1, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Cole is now in the arms of our Lord.

Louise Thomas

June 1, 2017

To Thompson and John...
Our hearts are broken for you and your family. What a beautiful man...Struggles are sometimes more than one can bear...may God keep Cole in his arms and shower him with the peace he needs for eternity. Much love, Louise and Al

Tanya Wilson

June 1, 2017

May his soul rest in peace with our lord our savior

Pastor Mark Vavra

May 31, 2017

May you be comforted in the knowledge that he is now complete and with Christ. Blessings. pastor Mark Vavra, the Sober Project.

Kris (Lindell) Hicks

May 31, 2017

Cole was such a kind soul--we had so many deep and spiritual talks in High school--and a ton of laughs. I'm so sad to hear of his passing for your family and all the rest of us left with his memory, but hope his spirit is now free and flying after such struggles in life.

May 31, 2017

It is an honor to read this beautifully written obituary. A poignant and powerful tribute to your son ,Cole Hunter. I believe Jesus Christ , arms open wide, was there to greet Cole to his new journey. A portion of my favorite and comforting Psalm....." Be Still And Know That I Am God". My love to John and Thompson and the entire Hughes family. Cosmo M.

Alicia Fodor

May 31, 2017

There are no words. My heart breaks for you all. I am so sorry. Shelter together under the all loving arms of God.

Jocelyn Cotter

May 31, 2017

I have warm memories of you both Thompson and John and of Cole, going back to our Salpointe/soccer days. Sending loving thoughts and prayers to you at this difficult time. Love, Jocelyn Cotter

Rita and Mark Doyne

May 31, 2017

So sorry for your tragic loss

Louanne Trueblood

May 31, 2017

John and Thompson, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. The tribute you have written is beautiful and at the same time lovingly honest. There is little that I can say except that I am so very sorry, and I am thankful that he is with the Lord.

Louanne Ward Trueblood

Margo Ingram

May 31, 2017

Wonderful memories of a wonderful person. So sorry to hear this news. Thoughts and prayers are with Cole's family during this difficult time. Rest in peace. Lots of love.

Oriana Lehman Wood

May 31, 2017

Dear Cole... you are already missed. I can never forgot your wit and fun you brought to EVERYTHING... especially my first Salpointe Class ....of Honors Geometry... you became my idle... along with all the smart fellas that surrounded me -- you in particular made me feel like I fit right in... and being my first year - that meant a lot . Soon we all be came fast friends for the years of Math to come. We all bonded on those famous Ski trips! And our crazy jumps and stupid fun only we know how to have. And who didn't have a crush on you... all of us did (those fellas too!)
I married a SalPointer of your year... Justin Wood and he described you best; "Cole was the kind of cool... we all wanted to be." You had a confidence no one that age in high school had... but in a laid back delivery. I miss knowing you don't walk among us... but am comforted you watch over us.
Thanks for being the spark you were, while we had you. Oriana Lehman class of '92

Michael Sanders

May 31, 2017

Cole was a great guy. We had some fun times together back in high school. Rest in peace Cole. Your departure was way too soon.

Brigette

May 31, 2017

Cole...I have never forgotten sitting next to you in Mr. Harrison's class and laughing hysterically with you over the rocket ship at Reid Park. In fact when I have thought about you over the years I still picture you waving your arms frantically flying. We lost touch after highschool but I never forgot your sweet and kind spirit...take that rocket ship to heaven Cole! Love and prayers...

Salpointe Catholic High School

May 31, 2017

The Salpointe Catholic High School community extends deepest sympathy to Cole's family and friends. You are in our prayers at this difficult time.

Gary & Sue Forrest

May 30, 2017

Words cannot express how our hearts ache for the loss of precious Cole. We wish we could be with you now to hug you and hold you. We are asking the Lord to lift you up and carry you during this most difficult time! We love you. Gary and Sue

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