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Patricia Carnes Obituary

Patricia Danforth Carnes of Tucson received her angel wings on May 19, 2011. Pat was born in Tacoma, Washington on March 17, 1940 to the late Munroe and Opal Danforth. She was the oldest of four daughters. Pat graduated from the University of Puget Sound in Tacoma with a Bachelor's degree in Political Science. She received her Masters Degree in Guidance and Counseling from University of Oklahoma in 1964. Pat began her career as a Resident Counselor at the University of FL. In 1972, Pat moved to Arizona, where she began her mental health career. She spent her life helping others through her work at West Center, La Frontera, CARF and Compass Health Care. Over her 40 year career, Pat was recognized many times for her dedication to the Tucson community, including the Robert Moore Lifetime Achievement Award. Pat is survived by her daughter, Sarah Parish; grandchildren, Hailey, Terry and Lily of Tucson; son, William Carnes; grandchildren, Kayleigh, Kathryn and Tanner of Atlanta, GA; sister, Jody Romano of Palm Desert, CA; sister, Kay Iams of Eatonville, WA. A celebration of Pat's life will be held over the summer. Arrangements will be announced. Our heartfelt gratitude is expressed to family and friends who supported Pat during her illness. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorials be made to Compass Health Care or the Brewster Center for Women and Children. Arrangements entrusted to ADAIR FUNERAL HOMES, Avalon Chapel (742-7901).

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Published by Arizona Daily Star on May 29, 2011.

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D K

June 11, 2011

Mama Pat I will never forget what you have done for me and my family. You were an amazing woman that made an impression on everyone you met or spoke to. You always and will continue to light up a room.

Michael Bennett

June 4, 2011

I met Pat in the early 1990's. The story is too long to tell here but like countless others I can attest that she was a wonderful person. She persued me to join the CARF team but I politely refused. Needless to say she won & we became friends & I am forever grateful! She always had a great smile & laugh that we will all miss.

June 3, 2011

I met Pat in 1991 when she visited our organization in Washington, DC. She was very knowledgable about the CARF standands and caring. Every time I would see her at a CARF conference she would always ask about my supervisor with endearing concern. Pat always had a smile on her face and a good person to know. Her work on earth is finished and now she has accepted her heavenly reward. I will truly miss Pat. L. Darnell Lee-Redish (Woodbridge, Va/Washington, DC

David MacDonald

June 3, 2011

Sadness and fond memories abound. Pat was so very patient with me at CARF surveyor training in 1992. She allowed me to meet so many wonderful people since. My thoughts and prayers are and will be with her and her family

John Holderegger

June 3, 2011

May she rest in peace. Her legacy will live on and on. As a twenty year surveyor with CARF, Pat held a special place in my heart.

Sheryl Hedgley

June 3, 2011

I am so very sad to hear about the loss of such a wonderful, kind and classy lady. Pat was a great CARF friend and leader. She taught me so much in our travels together. I will miss her and I feel blessed for the privilege of having known her.

Jim Guderjohn

June 3, 2011

I first met Pat in the middle 70's in Tucson. Our trails crossed many times through the years, including in 1991 when she recruited me to serve as a CARF surveyor. I always looked forward to seeing her each year during the annual surveyor training. I will miss her. She provided much for many.

Chris Eiel

June 3, 2011

Pat was a friend and colleague of mine. She recruited me to CARF in 1992 and remained a friend for the next 19 years. Pat was a wonderful woman and a dedicated professional. I will miss her.

Barney Hall

June 3, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. I worked with Pat on several occasions as a CARF survey team. My memories are of long car rides and interesting conversations. She will be missed.

May 29, 2011

Sarah and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember your mom from La Frontera and she was so full of energy and fun to be around. I also remember quite well how fondly you spoke of her when you would come to see Colter. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love Kay Franklin

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