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1936

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2017

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Shirley AMELING Obituary

AMELING, Shirley 81, Shirley Helbig Haskell Ameling, a native of Tucson, passed away January 17, 2017 in Tucson, Arizona. Shirley was a beloved wife and mother and was loved by all who knew her. She always had a smile and kind word for every one she met. Her sense of humor and infectious laugh brought joy to all who knew her. Shirley was born in Tucson Arizona to Clinton and Charlotte Helbig on January 3, 1936. She graduated from Tucson High School in 1953 and attended the University of Arizona. Shirley married Fletcher Haskell and together raised their daughter's, Charlotte Haskell, Susan (Haskell) Luedtke, Kathryn Haskell and Barbara (Haskell) Nichols. After her marriage to Don Ameling, the love of her life, she helped to raise Don Ameling's daughters Nanci and Ellen Ameling and their children. She is also survived by loving grandchildren Louisa Haskell, Hallie Luedtke, Ryan and Tyler Nichols. Shirley supported many of Tucson's philanthropic and social groups. She was a member of the American Legion, the Daughters of the American Revolution, the Rainbow Girls and member of the Junior League of Tucson. She served on the board of directors of St. Luke's Home Board of Visitors. She was instrumental in the membership and board of the Tucson Zoological Society. She was a loving member of the Church of Christ and a member of the following social groups, SNEDCO, OLA's and The Lunch Bunch. Shirley was a song leader at Tucson High School and remained a supporter of her class and others in the Badger's Foundation until her death. Memorial Service will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Monday, January 23, 2017 at ADAIR FUNERAL HOMES, Avalon Chapel. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the St. Luke's Board of Visitors or the Badger Foundation of Tucson High School.
Published by Arizona Daily Star on Jan. 22, 2017.

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Dolores Kishman

January 25, 2017

My prayers and thoughts are with the family.Shirley always had that beautiful smile and positive attitude throughout Tucson High. (1953)
Rest in peace dear Shirley.

January 25, 2017

Please accept my sincere sympathy for the loss of your precious Mom and my dear friend and fellow classmate in the graduating class at THS 1953

Joan (Cook) Wallis

Henry

January 23, 2017

Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss.

January 23, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. It is always so very hard to lose a loved one in death and our loving Heavenly Father is very aware and understand your painful loss. He will listen to your prayer and pay attention to your pleas for help because he is near to all those calling on him. In the days of your distress, he will answer you. Find comfort that your loved one will live again. (Psalms 86:6-7) Your family and friends have my deepest condolences.

January 23, 2017

I am sorry for your loss. May prayer comfort you.

1 Thessalonians 5:17 "Pray constantly."

Martha & Bob Burkholder

January 22, 2017

We will never forget your outstanding personality, your contagious laughter and your willingness to venture in whatever came our way. We first met in high school and our relationship has lasted all these many years. We'll miss you my wonderful friend, but know that we will meet again some day.

Jeanette (Jan) Greer - Malkin

January 22, 2017

To Shirleys family..This lady brings wonderful times and memories as my husband David (1935-2010) and I shared Tucson High school and class of '53 THS.. God bless you dear ones and I will always remember this special lady.

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