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Brett Avram Obituary

Brett D. Avram 5/03/1982 - 3/30/2007 There is comfort knowing you are with the Lord, until we're together again. We love and miss you. Mom, Royd, Cole, Chad

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Published by Arizona Daily Star on Mar. 30, 2010.

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Mary

March 30, 2024

Your beautiful face popped up on my FB memories today. But I didn't need the reminder as you will occupy that place in my heart - reserved for just you.
M

Dale

March 29, 2024

Hey man, you're still remembered.

Pops

March 30, 2022

The years go on but the pain never ends. I really miss you.

Patricia Steiger

April 1, 2021

I can't believe its been yet another year that has passed since you went to Heaven, Brett. It just truly breaks my heart as you were way too young. I know you are in Paradise and truly happy there. It's your loved ones that are still here, that are left heartbroken. Tell my Brandon that I love and miss him so much. I remember you 2, and James playing when you were just a little boy! You are a sweetheart and know that there is piece of my heart that is yours. Enjoy Paradise and all the beautiful bright colors there. You have earned this. We all love you! (((Hugs)))

Dale

September 3, 2020

I still think about you, man. Garden is still running, thanks to you.

Nicole Osego

March 29, 2020

Brett,
13 years later my heart still hurts. I miss you. You still make make me laugh and smile from our memories together.

Tony Hernandez

July 2, 2018

Hey chief.
We kept the Garden alive. I think we even outlasted a lot of other clever sites we loved. Things got more rougher, and more interesting...I think you would have liked the challenge. For now, here's to another 10 years of Balamb

Stephanie Straw

February 11, 2016

Brett,
I think about you often, and I wish that we could troll the internet, play MUDs, and laugh together again. I hope, wherever your soul is, that you're wielding a gunblade. I love you.

April 21, 2015

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Dale Mallows

April 18, 2015

Hey Brett,

I just wanted you to know that you're not forgotten. I hardly knew you but you made such an impact on me as a person. The Internet isn't nearly as entertaining without your wit and sense of humour. I miss you.

Dale Mallows

March 8, 2014

Hey Brett, I still think about you, man. You're not forgotten.

Belinda

March 30, 2013

I can't believe its been 6 years since Brett passed away. He was a great friend. I know I will see him again in the future.John 5:28-30

Ann Neill

October 10, 2012

Dear Sandy,

My heart goes out to you and your family. I cannot imagine the pain of losing a child. Please know that I am here for you if ever you need me.

Love,
Ann

Lauren Caygill

April 9, 2011

Hey Brett! I am so sorry that I am late in writing on your page. I know I didn't have the opportunity to meet you but I know we would have got along swimmingly! I heard you like stores like Banana Republic, Express, Guess etc. and I love those places too! I also heard that you liked sushi! There's a strong correlation between us with that as well! I hope it was okay that I took your watch and had it fixed up by Skagen, you should see it, they put a new crystal on it because they were unable to polish the current crystal that was scuffed, they put a new battery in it, colored and polished the metal ring that held the excess portion of the watch to the band and they even fixed the band up! It's beautiful and above all classy. Cole loved it and I gave it to him as his graduation present even though it was supposed to be a Christmas present! But that's another story! Brett you would be so proud of your brother he graduated from basic training and let me tell you he was tiny! You totally could have taken him on and won if you wanted to lol! Oh! I am also getting your black Gap peacoat dry cleaned so either Chad or Cole can wear it, whoever claims it first. I know which ever one wears it is going to look great but completely incomparable to how you would have looked had you worn it! Thank you for being there for your brothers and teaching them along the way. It helped shape Chad and Cole into the men they are today (as well as Shae). Again, I am sorry I couldn't meet you but I want you to know that everytime anyone talks about you I can't help but get a little sad. You must have been the life of the party. Stay fly Brett and hopefully when I get to heaven I'll get to meet you in person... or unless you want to visit me in a dream... which your mother said would be cool if you introduced yourself to me early... just saying! Alright have a good one Brett! I'll see you later :-)
- Your sister in law L

Kimberley Sitton

April 2, 2011

I feel extremely privilaged and blessed to know Brett and his wonderful family for many years. Your mom has been a great inspiration and influence in my life. You are loved and missed by many that you, also have inspired and continue to inspire. Remember that one summer, floating down the Nooksack River on tubes? Pick out a nice river for us to have fun and spend
time together again when I see you. Love you and miss you.

Patty Dunn

March 31, 2011

So hard to believe it has been 4 years. Brett, you are missed and loved so deeply by so many family members and friends. I feel privileged to have known you since you were a little boy! Rest awhile in Jesus' arms, then go and explore the beauty of Heaven!???

Cathy Peterson

March 30, 2011

I never got to meet Brett, but I consider his mother to be a very dear friend. And because she is such a special person, I know that Brett must have been too. Take solace in knowing he is with the Lord and is whole, happy and healthy. Knowing too that you will be with him again some day should bring you peace.

Jamie Holt

March 30, 2011

What beautiful words. I also was blessed by God with a wonderful son who is now with Jesus. How lucky we both were. I pray that your love will get you through this most difficult time.

L S

March 30, 2011

I didn't know Brett but his mom's words greatly touched me. I can clearly see how much she loved her son. May God and His angels continue to guide his mom and watch over Brett.

Chad Caygill

August 24, 2010

Brett, I miss you every single day of my life and would probably do anything just to have you back. I have so many memories of us :). And i just hope I'll never forget them. Til i see you in heaven, I love you!

Kimberley Sitton

May 7, 2010

Brett, you'll live forever in our hearts. We truly miss you and look forward to seeing you again in our Lords Kingdom. I Love You.

Lauren Diaz

March 31, 2010

I am sorry I couldn't meet you in time Brett, but I hope you're having lots of fun and I'll see you in heaven! Your mother speaks about you in every conversation we have, she misses you so much. Take care.

March 31, 2010

Sandy,

Hey Beauty, I know your heart still hurts & probably always will. You are in my thoughts & my prayers. He is still a wonder in your heart & in the hearts of the who love you. He lives on through you.

Nicole Osego

March 30, 2010

I can't believe it's been three years since Brett has passed away. I miss him.I can't wait to see him again.
John 5:28,29; Acts 24:15

Gayle Woods

March 30, 2010

Sandy,
You have been on my mind so much lately. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Please call me sometime.
Love you.

Gayle

Cathy Peterson

March 30, 2010

Sandy,
I think of you often. I hope you are doing okay. Do take comfort in knowing Brett is with the Lord and you WILL be with him again some day. Please take care.

Cathy Peterson (Jackie Berger's mom)

Jackson Law

March 11, 2010

Hey Brett,

Jack Strife here, as you know it back then during the irc kiddy days. Man, i can't believe it when i first heard from steve that you've passed on. It's been over 7 years now, since we've last gathered. I can still vaguely remember our old crew hanging out with the #ff7 and #ff8 team way back during the MSN days. Those were the good old days. You will be missed Squall.

Steve Griffin

January 17, 2010

Hey Brett,

I realized we hadn't talked in a while and I was trying to look you up and I came across this. I'm so shocked and saddened at this, I can't even believe it. I never knew you personally, only online, but we got to know each other well. You were such a great person, I can't help but remember all the great times I had talking to you, and how you'd never fail to make people laugh.

I'm really gonna miss you.

Steve

Maura Morin

March 31, 2009

God's continued peace and love to you and yours. Love, Maura

Susan Marshall

March 30, 2009

I don't know you but want to say, what a handsome son. I know this pain as well. Many people will send you support on this day. Bless you.

Kim and Dave Sitton

March 30, 2009

My dearest Brett, We have your picture on our mirror on my dresser and think of you often. We miss you very much, but find comfort knowing you're in the light of the peace, joy and love that being with our Lord brings. We continue to stay in touch with your family and speak to your mom often. We all look forward to seeing you again. Love you

Carmen Cousins

March 30, 2009

Sandy,
I can't believe it has been a year. I know you still miss him. May his memories continue to keep you happy.

Libby Wright

May 12, 2008

Your family asked for donationsto be given in your honor to help homeless children. It was truly a blessing to have known you when you volunteered to help us. I have your pic on my desk as part of a memorial. I pray for your family.

Mary Meer (Avram)

March 30, 2008

Gone from our sight but never from our memories or our hearts.

He shall be greatly missed.

Kimberley Sitton

March 30, 2008

We send our love and prayers to all of you in memory of Brett. He was truly an inspiration in many lives and is truly missed. Love, Kim, Dave and Family.

rosalinda

March 30, 2008

your son is so handsome and i am sorry for your loss of a son may god be with you always

Jan Henderson

August 12, 2007

Sandy,
Please contact me. Tell Nema and Stuart that my heart aches for their loss. I have tried to contact them and have had no success. My Mom, Winnie Kapp, loved all of you, and your parents also. Please contact me or have Nema or Stuart get in touch with me. My heart and prayers go out to you. What a beautiful son you lost.
Jan Henderson

Lucas Griego

August 8, 2007

I never had the chance to meet you officially that is definetly my loss, I have heard stories about you so I feel like I kinda knew you. Your family Loves and misses you SO much, you will never be forgotten! Godbless you and I know you will watch over your family and help them through this! Here is a prayer for your family.God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.

Melanie Irven-Allen

July 25, 2007

Dear Nick, Sandy & families,

My heart is broken to know that you have lost the most precious treasure we can receive in this life ~ our children.

I have only just learned of Brett's death and want to send my love and prayers to all of you. I remember meeting him for the 1st time when he was only a few days old and holding him so dearly. My wish for you in the days ahead are to cherish every memory and thought that you have of your time with Brett.

I would love to hear from you. (In your time)

Love always,
Melanie

Melissa Sheets

July 23, 2007

I met you once and I never got a chance to know the man you were, but I do know that your time here on earth touched more lives than you would ever have guessed. I would have liked to know you and I'm sorry I missed out on that. We always think we have tomorrow even though we know it's not guaranteed. The more and more I'm around your family (who is quickly becoming like my family) the more I learn who you are and how much laughter you brought to everyone you encountered. For reasons that we can not and will never comprehend, your time here with us on earth is complete, but you are far from being gone. We love you forever and then some more.

Amber Sinnott

June 10, 2007

I will miss you old friend.

Chad Caygill

May 8, 2007

Brett i love you big brother and i will nevr forget who you are. you are so popular. you are every thing i could ask for . please visit my dreams. p.s. i know youre in heaven!:):):):):):):):) but i am still sad:( :( :( :(

Dena Larson

April 25, 2007

Sandy and Nick,
So sorry to hear about your loss and I am deeply saddened. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. Sandy, I left you a couple of messages and you are probably not wanting to talk but know I am here for you always.
Love Dena Larson/Dalatri

Jenn

April 24, 2007

Brett had some fantastic ideas, to share his passion for writing, as well as his hobbies. I never met him in person, though what I do know, is that he had a wonderful sense of humour, and a great loyalty to his friends. We shall miss him. Good bye Brett

Dale Mallows

April 21, 2007

Brett was an amazing, smart and funny man. Every time I hear a song by NIN or see a guy with stylish hair and designer jeans, I'll think of you, guy.

My most sincere condolences to his family and friends.

Diane Raimondo and Valarie Hummel

April 19, 2007

Nick,
Our hearts and tears are with you and your family as you grieve the loss of Brett. Know that you are always in our thoughts at this difficult time.

Evan Gonzalez

April 13, 2007

"My thoughts are with you all in this difficult time.

I never knew Brett personally, but I talked to him a few times and even then I came to realise how witty and intelligent he is.

I'm sure that most of you know that Brett created balambgarden. I know that every one of the thousand members will be thinking of him.

I am deeply sorry for your loss."

I personally cannot put my feelings any better than this. You'll be missed, Brett. Rest in peace.

Elaine Steven

April 10, 2007

Rest in peace, Brett... I didn't know him personally, but from what I knew of him, he was a really great person. We'll miss you.

Steve Hopkins

April 9, 2007

Sandy & Nick;

May the peace of the lord be with you and your families during this difficult time. Our hearts go out to all you.

Ahmed Khanzada

April 8, 2007

A friend of five years, a teacher, and a role model. I will never forget you.

John-Paul

April 8, 2007

Wow...its just so hard to believe this. I thought it was a sick joke at first, but then the reality of it all stunned me. I didn't know him that well, but I did like him. He was funny and had a damn good sense of humor. His death is going to be a great loss...

Daniele Loomis

April 8, 2007

Sandy and family,
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family!
Tim and I will pray for God's comfort in this time of great loss.
God Bless you sister,
Daniele

Jason Ousley

April 8, 2007

Brett Avram was a very caring and truly great friend to me. My condolences to his family; stay strong.

Miriam StClair

April 8, 2007

My deepest sympathies to all who knew and loved Brett, there are so many of us.

James Lind

April 8, 2007

My thoughts are with you all in this difficult time.

I never knew Brett personally, but I talked to him a few times and even then I came to realise how witty and intelligent he is.

I'm sure that most of you know that Brett created balambgarden. I know that every one of the thousand members will be thinking of him.

I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Susan Thompson

April 6, 2007

Sandy,Ryod,Nick&Chris,
How can any words express How deeply sad it is to see such a loss for your family. Sandy all your love shows in the pictures and details and endless sacrifices only a mother knows. All my love to all of you . Brett will never be forgotten only in a better place. Love to all your families.
Susan Thompson

Judi Kettlewell-Snavely

April 6, 2007

Dear Sandy, Nick, and Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Hold on to the memories, and know that he is your angel watching over you. God Bless you.

Mikki McGee

April 5, 2007

To: Sandy,Royd & family and Nick and Kris & fanily,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I was honored to be a part of this day with you. I can only hope that time will heal your broken heart and that you will find comfort in knowing that Brett is in the arms of our God and will feel no pain or cry any more tears, until of course, when you are reunited and his tears will be of Joy!!

Tamara Klein

April 5, 2007

Dear Brett;

I am so glad I met you. You completely changed my life and you don't have to worry; I will never forget you. You made every day we spent together amazing and I will always hold you highest in my heart. I would give anything to have you back for 5 minutes to give you a hug and tell you I love you...but I hope you always knew that anyways. I will come visit you first chance I get and we'll have a chat, just us. Maybe even a fruity picnic, I know you'd like that.

I love you.

The Howards

April 5, 2007

To Sandy and ALL your family,

We wish to extend our deapest and heartfelt sympathies to your family.

May the PEACE of THE LORD be with you always.
_
_

Carmen Cousins

April 5, 2007

To All of Brett's Family:
Our condolences in your loss. I remember when Gilbert and Brett played together as little boys. We all have our memories but can never understand this unexplainable loss.
Carmen (Guzman) Cousins & Family

Tanya Mackay

April 5, 2007

To the family - I'm very sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I only hope the knowledge that so many people are thinking and praying for you provides some comfort.

Seth Knisley

April 5, 2007

Brett I love you. You were the person who showed me that Tucson wasn't the worst place in the world, even though you thought it was. I love you so much. Thanks for talking to me. Thanks for making me feel like I wasn't the bad guy when I did bad things. Thanks for letting me be your friend. You were The Only Cool Guy.


I miss you so much I wish I could talk to you. I love you.

Rebecca Dreiling

April 4, 2007

Brett was an intelligent young man who had a lot going for him. He and the family will be in my prayers and thoughts.

Patty Kelsey

April 4, 2007

Brett, I am so glad to have known you. I always enjoyed seeing you at Heidi and John's holiday dinners. This should not happen to one so young. I cannot imagine the sorrow your family is feeling at this time and hope their memories of you will help them to heal. You have found peace. I will miss you.

Paul Farrell

April 4, 2007

You and I have been friends for nearly 20 years. I was very proud of that. I felt as if we'd always have each other to fall back onto for years on end. You were way closer than a friend to me, you were my brother. I love you bro and will miss you always.

Bob & Fran Zimmerman

April 4, 2007

Our deepest sympathy and prayers to family and friends of Brett.

Cathy Stahl

April 4, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Bonnie Kwon

April 4, 2007

i was fortunate to enjoy brett's company as a friend and co-worker. we enjoyed many conversations and debates, i always appreciated his wit and intellect.

please accept my condolences for your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Natalie Taitano

April 4, 2007

I Love you so much, words cannot express. But then again you always found a way to put things into words like no one else could. My faith has been tested to it's very limit but also regained because of you. I know you are at peace and for me that's the answer to my prayers. I love you.

Your Sister and Friend,
Natalie

Pete

April 4, 2007

May the Lord grant all your family peace and strength during this time. I will keep Brett and your whole family in my prayers.

Jaclyn Hauer

April 4, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

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