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CLEMENS, Matthew Dempster, 55, of Ashburn, Virginia since 2003 died on March 20, 2011. Mr. Clemens was born March 7, 1956 in San Jose, California to the late Thomas D. and Janet Sandler Clemens. He was raised in Washington, DC and Bethesda, MD but had lived in Tucson for many years before returning to the Northern Virginia area in 1999. Matt had been a mental health counselor with Pathway Homes and was presently a substance abuse clinician with Loudoun County Mental Health at the Loudoun County Adult Detention Center in Leesburg. Love and service were Matt's Spirituality. From a young age he enjoyed the art of folded origami. Matt was an avid reader, loved film, jazz and his many cats over the years. He was a devoted husband and cherished his beloved wife of 13 years, Teresa Clemens of Ashburn, Virginia. Matt is also survived by his father-in-law, Kenneth Meyer; four sisters-in-law, Melanie Alcara (Jack), Veronica Meyer (Bob), Michele Meyer-Adams (Wes), Denise Meyer all of Tucson, AZ; two nieces, Jacquelyn Wall (Mike) of Tucson; Kendall Stringfield (Chaz) of Norfolk, VA and three great- nephews, Xander, Xavien and Xailen. Memorial Services were held on Thursday, March 24, 2011 at the LOUDOUN FUNERAL CHAPEL,158 Catoctin Cr. SE in Leesburg. Memorial donations may be made to the Gentle Barn, 15825 Sierra Highway, Santa Clarita, CA 91390 (www.gentlebarn.org) online condolences may be sent at www.LoudounFuneralChapel.com
Published by Arizona Daily Star on Mar. 27, 2011.

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Vincent Pawlowski

December 31, 2011

Matt,
Although we had not been in touch since 2005, you will always be in my heart and mind. Your friendship lives on, your influence on my life is unmatched.

Vince Pawlowski

December 30, 2011

Sadly,I only found out about Matt's passing away today. I and many of his dear friends in Tucson will remember him fondly. Thanks for being a part of my life, Matt.

Nancy Kelleher

August 18, 2011

Teresa,

When I found out about Matt I knew I needed to send word to you.
Strange thing is I had no idea until this evening (08/17/11).
For the past few days it seemed something was prompting me to look for Matt (and you).
You know how it is. Things/events happen that send some kind of message to look deeper for...something.
It started with an old copy of Bob Dylan's Chronicles that I ("out of the blue") stumbled across yesterday.
Then, this evening I thought I saw Matt in a photo of Washington DC booksigning event.
So, I went to look for his name online - thinking I'd find out how he (and you) were...
My heart breaks for you, Teresa. I am very sorry to know that he is gone.
I remember your wedding day so well.
I love you both.
Take care of yourself (and all the baby cats).
May God bless you and keep you safe.

Adrian Jonas

March 26, 2011

Teresa, Matt is now in Heaven beside God waiting for the day he will be reunited with you again. Although he may seem far away, he will never be further than a thought, a memory, a scent that reminds you of him, a picture or a video away. You have the very hard task of grieving his passing, and my heart and prayers go out every day for you so that you may receive the inner strength you need to get you through and help you to carry on. Let the people who love you surround you and help you. All My Love To You. You are constantly in my thoughts, and I am never further than an e-mail or a phone call away.

Don Rombach

March 24, 2011

Those we love remain with us
For love itself lives on,
And cherished memories never fade
Because a loved one's gone.
Those we love can never be
More than a thought apart,
For as long as there is memory,
They'll live on in the heart.

Greg Hall

March 24, 2011

Teresa,

I'm so sorry for your loss and you have our deepest sympathies and condolences. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

March 24, 2011

Teresa:

I am so sorry for your loss. Although I never got to know Matt, I know through you of the good work he did for others...and the light that he was in your life. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs,
Katherine

susan slugg

March 24, 2011

Matt, you had such an impact on my life without knowing it. You will be truly missed by all who knew and loved you. Love, Susan

Melissa Bernstein

March 23, 2011

There are no words for your loss. I lost someone very special, also very suddenly and I know you probably feel like it's just a blur. Just remember, Matt's heart is with you all the time. I am so truly sorry you are going through this.

Tammy Uhl

March 23, 2011

Dear Teresa,
You have my heartfelt sympathy as you deal with the loss of your beloved husband. May you find comfort in the love you shared, the beauty of the years you were blessed to have together, and the memories that will always be with you.

Darcy Mettler

March 23, 2011

Teresa, I am so sorry for the loss of your husband, Matt. My prayers and thoughts are with you. When my stepdad died two years ago, my 9-year-old son said as long as we remember him, he's always in our heart. Even though Matt is gone, may your memories always keep him close.

Anni Livingston

March 23, 2011

Teresa, my heart breaks for you. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you at this difficult time.

Gale Muehlbauer

March 23, 2011

Teresa,

I wish there were words of comfort to help you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Surround yourself with the people who love you, and try to gain strength in their loving care.

Jean Irwin

March 23, 2011

Teresa, I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this very sad time. Jean Irwin

Suzanne Hagen

March 23, 2011

I'm very sorry for your loss, Teresa.

March 23, 2011

Teresa,
Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear about your loss. I know that you will forever cherish all the memories you and Matt shared.
Nancy O'Rourke, Payson, Arizona

Vicki Johnson

March 23, 2011

Teresa,

Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers for the loss of your precious husband, Matt.

Vicki Johnson

March 23, 2011

Teresa,

I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray that God will comfort you with special memories of the love and life that you shared with Matt.

My thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathy,

Lana (Haws) Crain

Laurie Harford

March 23, 2011

I'm so sorry, Teresa!

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