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Love, Laurie
March 27, 2023
Patti, I still hear you say, "It's going to be a GREAT day! Thanks for being a GREAT friend!
Joan Weber
April 2, 2020
Patti, I still think of you very often and miss you. You were a true friend.
Patricia Aaron
March 27, 2020
Friendship is a privilege--I was privileged to have you as a friend. You are missed by many.
Julia Marlowe
March 27, 2020
I miss you very much and remember fondly our times together. You were my Maid of Honor when I married in 1985 so naturally I remember you on my anniversary.
Patricia Aaron
March 27, 2019
Patti, you are greatly missed. You were a wonderful friend.
March 27, 2012
Doug and family,
I miss Patti very much and think of her often. Hoping all of you are well. Take care. Love, Joan (Weber)
Candace and Dawson Carriere
May 1, 2011
Doug and family,
Patti truly lived up to her motto. She was the most positive and enthusiastic person we have known. She was a wonderful friend and is truly missed.
Nancy Jenene Bowman
April 20, 2011
I loved Patti I was lucky to have her as my friend and be able to give her massages for 30 years! i am the lucky one for having her in my life thank you Patti! I will miss you!!!
April 19, 2011
Dear Doug and Family
I just returned from an extended stay in Mexico to learn of Patti's passing. I had the pleasure of meeting Patti through my Body Basics buddies. Her smile would light up the room. She lived her motto and was always positive and enthusiastic. I was blessed to have known her. God Speed, Patti....you will be missed.
Barbara Rock
Ollie Phinizy
April 16, 2011
Patti, I do not know anyone that had more true friends than you. I am honored to be one of the many. You always made my day! I was so happy to be your Nurse and give a little back. Doug and the kids will have a tough year ahead and they will get through it with all the wonderful memories of smiles you have left them.
Doug, Mary Lou, Ruth and Sam, you have my deepest, deepest sympathy.
Greg Becker
April 16, 2011
I met Doug and Patty soon after I arrived in Tucson in 1984. Patty impressed me with her love of life and concern for others. She gave so much and now will be sadly missed. She will live on as an inspiration to all who knew her.
April 15, 2011
Dear Doug and Family,
Please accept my condolences during this time of sorrow. Patti was a living Angel! I know she will be missed by her family and all of the people who loved her, but please take comfort in knowing that she is now speading her Love around Heaven. Bobby A. Browning (Thornton, CO).
Deborah Dungan
April 13, 2011
Doug, Mary Lu, Ruth and Sam,
I am so very sorry. Patti was the most positive and open-hearted person I've ever known. She will be deeply missed. Thinking of all of you in the days and months ahead.
Marla and Kevin Jirak
April 7, 2011
I first met Patti at the University of Arizona during my doctorate work. She quickly became a wonderful friend as we shared the stories, trials, and joys of raising a disabled child. We used each other's shoulders when a given day was frustrating. We shared wonderful memories watching our children play tennis to the best of their abilities with the challenges they had. The most memorable moment was how she gave my husband and I a precious gift of her photography from our wedding. My deepest sympathy to Doug, Sam and the girls. May you continue to find support in her wonderful memories of which there are sure to be many. God's blessings to all of you.
Dorothy Briggs
April 6, 2011
Patti hired me as a student worker in the late 1970s. We had many laughs together. She supported me over the years in so many different ways. She lived her life with hozho, the Navajo word for harmony, beauty, and balance. She was lovely in so many ways.
Afshan Ava
April 6, 2011
Dear Doug and family-
I can not even begin to imagine how hard Patti’s loss is for you. I met Patti twice and had short conversations with her but she made her mark on my heart whose zest for life was contagious.
I am sure that she made whoever was fortunate to cross her path feel welcome, loved, and appreciated.
May your heart and spirit find peace and comfort in God’s love, and I pray that Lord pours upon you his sweet amazing grace.
With deepest sympathy,
Afshan and Nanda
Earl Hieber
April 5, 2011
The joyous spirt, hospitality, and kindness I experienced when with Patti, I know will be missed by all who knew her. My most sincere sympathy to you Doug and all your family. God's comfort be with you!
Joan Weber
April 4, 2011
I knew Patti since 1989, working with her at the UA. She was the most loving and giving person I have ever known and will ever know and was always a joy to be around. I will forever miss her friendship and will always love her. My sincere sympathy goes to Patti's family.
Rodney Cate
April 4, 2011
Dear Doug and family,
Patti never failed to make me smile. Her example is one we should all aspire to. Pat and I have you and your family in our prayers.
Maureen Kelly
April 4, 2011
Patti was a wonderful woman who was even more than that beautiful obituary statement captured. We at UA have suffered a great loss as has her family. She made her mark on this earth and on all who knew her. R.I.P., Patti!
Marcia Klarr
April 4, 2011
A beautiful soul, a courageous spirit, an amazing role model and a true friend to all that were fortunate enough to cross her path. I am so lucky to have been one of them.
April 4, 2011
Patti was always first for every greeting and for every meeting with a big smile. We shared a love of the Wildcats. I am a better person for having known and worked with her for many years at the U of A. Patti will be missed by everyone who was fortunate enough to cross her path.
Shirley OBrien
Tina Higdon
April 4, 2011
Dear Doug and Family,
I feel grateful for knowing Patti the past few years through working with your son, Sam. You both made my job joyful and Patti always made me smile and her energy always had me feeling uplifted. Being in her presence was inspiring to any around her. I will miss seeing her, but know she will never be far from those she loved.
Patrick McCarthy
April 4, 2011
Patti was a great Beacon parent, volunteer, donor and friend. Doug and Sam, our prayers and best wishes are with you and your family.
The Staff and Clients at Beacon Group
Karen Lamb
April 4, 2011
Aunt Pat was an inspiration to all and showed us how to live life to the fullest. We love you and will miss you!
Aunt Karen, Uncle Rich, Lindsay, Courtney, Brittany, and Chloe
Ann Rohde
April 4, 2011
Dear Doug and family,
You have all been in our thoughts and prayers. Ellen and Mark have kept us up to date on Patti's condition and shared how joyous her birthday celebration was. May you sense God's peace as you move forward. Cling to the wonderful memories you and Patti shared.
We are sending our deepest sympathies to each of you.
Tom and Ann Rohde
(Ellen's sister)
Ellen Wylie
April 4, 2011
Patii was a person who loved life!!!She always had a camera in her hand and lived life to the fullest. She was a wonderful sister in law, and I will dearly miss her!! She never knew a stranger and always made everyone feel welcome. We love you Patti. Ellen Wylie (Bloomington, Illinois)
Barbara Geving
April 3, 2011
Patti IS a shining star, now her love and light shines down on us from above. Her great love touched my daughter's life in a a very profound way... like a light house she & Sam helped Megan find her place. Blessings to her delightful family~ we love and thank you Patti, we will never forget your enthusiasm and will carry your spirit with us always.
Laurie Dean
April 3, 2011
I learned so much about life from Patti. She was truly the most positive person I've ever known. For the rest of my life, I will hear her voice saying, “It's a good day!”
Gene Barrick
April 3, 2011
My condolences to the entire family. One of the Oak Street gang in Danville.
Gene Barrick
Micki Taylor
April 3, 2011
Very sorry for your lost we will miss Patti she was a wonderful person who loved life!
Susan Freund
April 3, 2011
My deepest sympathy to Doug and the whole Wylie family. I can only think how lucky I was to have Patti in my life for 25 years. I will really miss her, but hope that we can keep up some of our traditions such as getting Sam and Brian together for their August birthdays.
Brian Maranville
April 3, 2011
Patti and Mary Lu were very good to me and Kate in the months leading up to our wedding many years ago... Patti was always so cheerful, and ended up taking more pictures than the official wedding photographer. I'll remember her enthusiasm and joy, and I send my sympathies to Mary Lu and the rest of the family.
Sue & Mick McKenna
April 3, 2011
Patti and I met in 7th grade and have been close friends ever since that time. We laughed together and cried together. She was so full of positive energy, never met a stranger and tried to always live life to the fullest. I will truly miss her sweet smile and her zest for life. My thoughts and prayers are with the wonderful Wylie family.
Vicky Randall
April 3, 2011
My heart felt sympathy to the Wylie family. Patti was such an energetic, loving person. Was great getting to know her when Sam was at CDO. She will be truly missed.
April 2, 2011
Ms. Wylie was my Academic Advisor at the U of A. Without her support and encouragement I would have not graduated.
Julia Marlowe
April 2, 2011
Patti was a very dear friend and was my matron of honor at my 1985 wedding in Blacksburg, VA. We met in 1979 and were always in touch. I will miss her dearly.
Monica and Michael Frey
April 2, 2011
Our heart felt sympathy to all the Wylies. We will miss Patti very deeply. Her spirit and energy live on in our memories. She brightened all who came in contact with her. It was a pleasure to be considered a friend of hers and our family will continue to keep her memory alive. Our prayers to you all. She is in His hands and she is free of the pain of this world.
Patricia Aaron
April 2, 2011
Doug, thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Take comfort--those who love will be reunited in eternity.
G and E Sproles
April 2, 2011
We are thinking of you. Patti was a wonderful friend, filled with fun and cheer. We will miss her.
April 2, 2011
When I first met Patti at U of I, I knew then she was a ball of fire who would live life to the fullest. In keeping up with her adventures through Connie, I was always amazed at how she never let the bad hands that life dealt her get in her way. She just played out all the hands with positive determination, fortitude, grace, and dignity. What a role model for all of us.
Please accept my most sincere sympathy at this time.
Paula Rancilio Lisle, Il.
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