Search by Name

Search by Name

Roy Cajero Obituary

Roy F. Cajero 63, born in Tucson, Arizona on September 3, 1950, died on April 9, 2014 in Memphis, Tennessee. He was the third son of the late Nick M. and Josephine Cajero. He is survived by his three brothers, Paul Cajero of Los Angeles, Michael Cajero and Nick Cajero of Tucson; cousins, Olivia Cajero Bedford of Tucson, Monica Tardino of Ridgefield, Conn., Travis Bedford of Tucson, Tara Bedford Chipman of Washington, D.C. and nieces, Channa Cajero of Los Angeles and Shayla Cajero of Tucson. Of course, there is also his other very large Memphis family. Roy graduated from Tucson High in 1968 and received a BA in English from the University of Arizona in 1972. After graduation he traveled to Europe, most notably Northern Spain where his Mother's family had relatives. He completed a Master of Library Science from Indiana University in 1974. He moved to Memphis and was a librarian at the Memphis Public Library from 1975 until his retirement in 2004. He loved his work. He was active in senior citizen outreach, along with children's and young people's projects, and services with the library Bookmobile. Librarianship was his profession - photography was his passion. His photographs appeared at The Tucson Art Center and in The New Yorker, The Washington Post, SPIN, The Columbia Journalism Review, The Memphis Flyer, and the book, "Dear Dr. King: Letters from Today's Children to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr." He donated over two hundred photos to the Memphis City Library, reflecting his Memphis world. His website: https://memphislibrary.contentdm.oclc.org/cdm/landingpage/collection/p16108coll6 He was a generous and helpful friend, always available to offer a helping hand. In the recent harsh winter of 2013-14, Roy and a friend befriended a homeless man who had surgery one day and was released from the hospital the next day. Together, they paid for an apartment for the man to live in through the spring. Roy was also active in animal rescue, promoting adoption, spaying and neutering for homeless animals. He loved all music from Copland to the Blues. He played guitar and was happy to teach others to play, too. He will be remembered by his many friends and relatives in Tucson and Memphis for his immense empathy for the less fortunate, his love of music, his caring for animals, and his determination that through books and reading a better world can emerge. To quote a poet, "His like will not be seen again." In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the Humane Society of Southern Arizona, 3450 N. Kelvin Blvd. (520) 881-0321 and any shelter of your choice for homeless people. A remembrance of his life will be held Sunday, May 18, 2014 at Holy Hope Cemetery Mausoleum, 3555 N. Oracle Rd., Tucson at 12:00 noon followed by an informal buffet reception at Club 21, 2920 N. Oracle Rd.
Published by Arizona Daily Star on May 15, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for Roy Cajero

Not sure what to say?





6 Entries

Jeanne Pascal

March 28, 2016

3/28/2016
Its been a lot of years Roy, and I discovered your death on the internet. I was devastated, the Earth is diminished for me with your departure from it; and I had things to say that did not get said before you left. You were the love of my youth, and I learned much from you, and I respected and admired your work ethic, your creativity and dedication to your passion photography which we learned together in Dr. Dennis Pett's darkrooms at IU. You followed me to Memphis, and I left there without you. I always loved you and I have thought of you all my life, but our needs and styles were so different they did not work together as lovers. I married a wonderful man and we celebrated our 35th anniversary today:full, happy years. I hope you had a life filled with love and joy and fulfillment and purpose. We focused our lives on many of the same things. We were very alike in so many ways. So alike, but so different in some very important ways. I hope death was kind and gentle when he came to you, way to early in your life. And, I hope we will meet again in another time and incarnation, and I will put Scarlet Begonias in your hair.

Barbara Bailey

May 14, 2014

Roy will be missed in many areas of life. I knew him at the Memphis Public Library as a hard working and effective professional and again as a retiree, lending his quiet but firm voice to discussions at meetings. I will also miss his distinctive voice on WYPL reading the newspaper as a volunteer. My condolences go to all his family and friends.

Janet Wyatt

May 10, 2014

I knew and worked with Roy for most of my career at the Memphis Public Library. He was funny, insightful, and enjoyed people of all ages. He will surely be missed. My deepest condolences to his family and friends.

Kate Pappas

May 8, 2014

Expressing deepest sympathy to all of Roy's family and friends. Although it had been many years since I saw Roy, I will always remember him from my time in Memphis as one of the best people that I have ever known. Rest in peace and thank you for being so kind to me.

May 8, 2014

My Condolences and Prayers to Roy's Family. I worked with Roy for 9 years at the Memphis Public Library and I never met a more professional, courteous and caring human being in my life. The consummate professional he was. Taught me alot about life, people and service to your fellow man. Charlie Hunt.

The Staff of Family Funeral Care Summer Avenue Chapel

May 8, 2014

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Showing 1 - 6 of 6 results

Make a Donation
in Roy Cajero's name

Memorial Events
for Roy Cajero

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Roy's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Roy Cajero's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more