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Stephanie Maxam Obituary

Maxam, Stephanie "Steph" Jaeb Dec. 30, 1959 to Oct. 3, 2011 Beloved Mother, Sister, Daughter and Friend More than life itself, Steph loved her children! "A hundred years from now it will not matter what my bank account was, the sort of house I lived in, or the kind of car I drove . . . But the world may be different because I was important in the life of a child" Age 51, of St. Paul. Stephanie was preceded in death by her mother Elizabeth Jaeb. She is survived by her 4 children, Davey, Kirstin, Anna, and Stephen Maxam. She also leaves behind her father, Ron Jaeb, her sisters, Maria Cremer and Anita Ballard, and her brothers, Jonathan Jaeb, Joseph Jaeb, and Andrew Jaeb. She grew up in Granger, MN, attending high school in Harmony, MN. She attended St. Mary's University and graduated from the Carlson School of Business at the University of Minnesota. She enjoyed many years of professional achievement at Arthur Anderson Company, Deloitte, and Pentair with her most recent position as the Senior Vice President of Human Resources, Compensation and Benefit Design for US Bank. Mass of Christian Burial 9:30 AM Saturday, October 8th at NATIVITY OF OUR LORD CATHOLIC CHURCH (324 S. Prior at Stanford Aves., St. Paul). Visitation 4-7 PM Friday, October 7th at O'Halloran and Murphy Funeral Home (575 S. Snelling Ave., St. Paul) 651-698-0796. Memorials in lieu of flowers may be directed to Stephanie Maxam Memorial Fund. Steph ("Mom") was, and will always be loved, and forever be missed.


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Published by Pioneer Press on Oct. 7, 2011.

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Renee Bianchi

October 2, 2021

Stephanie was a brilliant, hardworking person who always did the right thing. In the time I worked for her, she taught me so much. I will remember the impact she had on so many others.

Cynthia Hokenson

October 1, 2021

Stephanie will not be forgotten as my perky, outgoing, smiling former high school student. She left this earth too soon, but we should rejoice that Stephanie is with family member and friends in heaven.

October 1, 2019

I still think of Stephanie every so often, and how young and exuberant she was. I was her high school English teacher and her play director. I can hardly believe she has been gone for 8 years already. My condolences to her family. I will always remember that young lady' smile.

Mom <3

October 18, 2012

David Salmon

November 22, 2011

We are family friends of the Jaebs. My 3 siblings and I spent quite a few days of our childhood in Granger at their house. Stephanie always seemed like the strong, sensible one. May the peace of Christ guard the hearts of everyone affected by this tragedy.

Lisa Baumler

October 25, 2011

I was so sorry to hear of the death of Stepahnie. My prayers are with you all.

Cynthia Hokenson

October 24, 2011

I was a teacher at Harmony High School from 1972 to 1981 and had most of the Jaeb children as students. I retired from teaching in 2007, but my husband and I still live in our comfortable home in Preston. We have been on vacation recently, so you can imagine my shock when I read of Stephanie's death while going through the old papers that had accumulated. I am so very sorry for your loss, Jaeb family. I remember Steph's wonderful smile, her perky disposition, and her performance as Peppermint Patty in "You're a Good Man, Charlie Brown," which I directed. To the children of Stephanie, I can say what you already know: your mother was a special, caring person. I am sure her fine example will live on in all of you.

October 18, 2011

Afraid I haven't seen Stephanie forever but she still has that sweet little face and dimpled smile. I babysat for Stephanie and her brothers and sisters who were by the way not all as sweet as she! I loved every minute of it and made more balogne face sandwiches then one could ever count. Wish I could hug you all and make some sandwiches and tuck you all in to double bed bunk beds. All my thoughts and prayers are with you. Love and Memories.

Charlene Harstad

October 18, 2011

Afraid I haven't seen Stephanie forever but she still has that sweet little face and dimpled smile. I babysat for Stephanie and her brothers and sisters who were by the way not all as sweet as she! I loved every minute of it and made more balogne face sandwiches then one could ever count. Wish I could hug you all and make some sandwiches and tuck you all in to double bed bunk beds. All my thoughts and prayers are with you. Love and Memories.

Alan Hayes

October 15, 2011

I worked with Stephanie when she was at Pentair only 4-5 months ago. She was a talented professional and a caring person. My last contact with Stephanie sums it up. She gave me a bit of career advice and a hug.

Nick Bubnovich

October 13, 2011

To Stephanie's Children: I worked with your Mother off and on when we were at Arthur Andersen and always enjoyed the experience, particularly when I had the opportunity to personally be with her. She was a wonderful and thoughtful colleague, and as you know, entertaining, witty, and knowledgeable about much more than tax and accounting.
My deepest condolences to the four of you.

Jilly Jenkins

October 12, 2011

I would like to offer my sincerest sympathy for your family in this time of loss. Mine and many others prayers are with you.

Stephanie Harney, US Bank

October 11, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to her children. May your memories last an eternity.

Bethany Loberg

October 10, 2011

Dear Anna and Family,
I am so incredibly sorry to hear of your terrible loss. I cannot begin to imagine what you must be going through right now. You will be in my prayers.
Love and blessings,

Renee Bianchi

October 10, 2011

Stephanie was my boss, mentor and friend. She will be missed greatly by so many people whose lives she touched. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Amy Stein

October 9, 2011

Stephanie was a gifted professional and a valued colleague. But above that, I will remember her as a woman who cared deeply for her family and who would do anything for their happiness and success. She will be missed.

Andy, Jeanie,Ryan Anderson

October 8, 2011

Dear Maxam family - We are so very sorry for this tragic loss. We pray that the Lord will carry you through this difficult time.

Eleanor Junge

October 7, 2011

Ron and family. We are devastated at your loss. I had hoped to be able to attend on Saturday but I just don't drive in the cities any more. We loved the years spent with all of you and your family and missed the close contact in recent years. Just know that you are in our prayers and thoughts. All our love, Eleanor and Everett

John Stauch

October 7, 2011

Stephanie was a caring, intelligent, and thoughtful leader who was diligent and committed to her work and kids. I will remember her always for her resolve and willingness to help. She will be sorely missed.

James Straka

October 7, 2011

To the family, please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for this tragic and unnecessary loss. I live across the street, and always enjoyed Steph's smile and wave, which I will always remember. Her vibrance sparkled even at a distance. You are all in my thoughts.
- Jim Straka (1677 Portland)

Jim Trenda

October 7, 2011

Stephanie was a part of our lives and may her spirit live on in her family and all of us.
May we all learn from this tragic loss of life.

Jim Trenda

October 7, 2011

Davey, Kirstin, Anna and stephen, we love you all, if we can help with anything please call, our home is your home now and forever. Earl, Janan, and Earl IV.

Anne Garner

October 7, 2011

Davey, Kirstin, Anna, Stephen, the Jaeb family and all extended family,

I have known your mom since before you were born. What a remarkable woman! Full of zest for life and her family. She adored you children and that love sparkled from her when she spoke about each one of you.

She has inspired me with her faith and her strength. Know that her loving spirit and precious memories are with you always.

May God's loving presence comfort you.

Much love,
Anne (Zugschwert; Schuster) & Andy Garner

October 7, 2011

I remember Stephanie as a wonderful mom and strong woman. She will be greatly missed. Davey, Kirstin, Anna, and Stephan; my thoughts are with you.
Love, Kate Schuster Stattmiller

Rich Nagel

October 7, 2011

Remembering a classy and intelligent young lady that I knew at both Arthur Andersen, and at Deloitte.

May her family experience the comfort of God's presence.

Patty and Carl (Maxam)Weinmann

October 7, 2011

Davey,Kristin,Anna,Steven and the Jaeb family

Although we can't be with you while you remember your loved one, you're in our thoughts from afar.

Renee Ponto

October 7, 2011

Davey, Kirstin, Anna and Steven,

Our deepest and most heartfelt sympathies go out to you and the extended families! See you later today.

Sincerely,
the Werner and Ponto clans

October 7, 2011

Davey,Kirstin,Anna and Steve

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Steve,Lynn,Christian,Noel,Anders,Astrid Busse

Chris Burda

October 7, 2011

Steph, it's been a pleasure knowing you. You brighten the room, even the thought of you. Rest knowing your zest for living lives.

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