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Herbert Oxley Obituary

Herbert James Oxley Jr., 63, of Manchester, died on July 10, 2017. He was born in Watertown, NY on October 19, 1953, son of the late Herbert J. Oxley Sr. and H. Norma (Ogle) Oxley.

Herb was a 1972 graduate of Manchester High School West. He spent his entire career working in computers, most notably as a systems administrator for Sun Guard. He loved music, especially classical and rock & roll.

He leaves behind his siblings, William Oxley and wife Debra of Manchester; Diane Oxley of Manchester; Cindy-Lu Oxley of Albuquerque, NM; Marilyn Howard and husband Daniel of Manchester; and Robert Oxley of Manchester, as well as nieces, nephews and extended family members.

Services will be held privately at the convenience of the family.

Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium is assisting with arrangements. To leave a condolence message for the family, visit www.phaneuf.net

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Union Leader on Jul. 12, 2017.

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Donna Beals

November 15, 2017

Sad to find this, Herb was a part of our online bulletin board system back in the late 1980s called South Shore Secrets. It was nice to have the opportunity to meet him. Condolences to his family and friends. My handle was DonnaB.

July 19, 2017

I used to see Herbie at the Rock Rimmon Pool. Steve Rogers

Wendy Delgado

July 13, 2017

Cindy-Lu & Family,

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. May you find peace in knowing he is no longer suffering and is resting in a peaceful place. Sending Lots of Love,

Wendy & Danny Delgado

Norm Robidoux

July 13, 2017

I haven't seen you since Rock Rimmon days and the Zoo. God bless you Herb ox!

Richard Martineau

July 12, 2017

Diane,
My sincere condolences to you and your family on Herbert's passing.
I thought often of "Herbox" from the Rock Rimmon gang days.
Good memories !!!
Dick Martineau

DOREEN MURBY

July 12, 2017

so sorry to read about herbie l havent seen him for years guess he used to chat with sharon. let me know lf l can help with anything love to all of you aunt doreen

Sharon Murby-Hall

July 12, 2017

Sincerest condolences to the entire family. Sharon Murby-Hall and family.

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