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Ryan Aumiller Obituary

Ryan W. Aumiller
Utica
Mr. Ryan W. Aumiller, age 45, of Utica, a cherished husband, father, brother, nephew, uncle, and friend, passed away unexpectedly Friday, March 9, 2012, in the privacy of his home. Ryan was born Ryan Willis Aumiller on June 14, 1966, in Albany, NY, the youngest child of the late Richard and Gloria (Cappallo) Aumiller. Ryan attended school in Liverpool, NY, graduating from Liverpool High School in 1984 and going on to SUNY College Oswego where he received a Bachelors of Fine Arts degree in Graphic Design. After working a short while in Graphic Design, Ryan's gifted technical skills led him to start his own company, Computer and Business, Inc., which later became Ryan Macintosh Solutions. As the economy began to limit his business opportunities, Ryan accepted a position at the Munson Williams Proctor Arts Institute including the Pratt School of Art working as a computer technician; a position he loved. However, little did Ryan know that renting an apartment above Pizza Heaven in 1992 would lead him to find his own Heaven on Earth; his family. What started as a friendship, would, with one subtle hand hold at the movies, forge an eternal bond with the woman who would become his loved and cherished wife of over 16 years, Donna M Coppola. Ryan and Donna shared a love, devotion, and passion that anyone would aspire to find, yet so few do. In 2001, Ryan and Donna were again blessed with their greatest gift, their daughter Danielle. Ryan so loved his "favorite girl" Danielle and shared every interest and adventure with her, and especially loved their "Father/Daughter" Tuesday Dates. As a young boy, Ryan's extraordinary artistic ability and creativity stood out, in his sketching, his singing, his school projects, etc., he was magically creative and gifted with both his hands and mind. As technology advanced, so did Ryan's ability to express himself as the digital era would provide Ryan an ideal median to express his heart and soul through music. With no formal music training and only as a hobby, Ryan demonstrated his talent as a singer, guitarist, and musician, composing and performing several original songs to be treasured by his family. Ryan was quick-witted, fun-loving, and always had a smile upon his face. Ryan"s repertoire of impersonations and sense of humor made every family gathering a complete joy. Ryan had the unique ability to diffuse stress with laughter and bring out a smile in the most difficult of situations. In addition to music, Ryan's many hobbies and passions included fishing, jet-skiing, enjoying local music, supporting numerous local charities, and spending time at his family cottage on the Great Sacandaga Reservoir in the foothills of the Adirondacks, but most of all being with his wife, daughter, family, and friends. He was a parishioner of St. Mark's Church. Remaining to forever cherish Ryans memory are his wife, Donna; and his precious daughter, Danielle; his brother and sister-in-law, Richard W., Jr. and Mary Aumiller of Clarence Center, NY; his sister and brother-in-law, Robyn and Greg Low of N. Syracuse; his maternal grandmother, Virginia Cappallo; nieces and nephews, Jon, Kevin, Cameron; Alexandra "Allie"; and Joey; aunts and uncles, Sharyn Cappallo, Kevin and Linda Cappallo, and Renee and Bruce Randall; great-aunts, great-uncles, and cousins; father-in-law, Philip C. Coppola; in-laws, Lori and Joseph White, and Steve Coppola; aunts and uncles of the Coppola family, especially acknowledging Virginia Coppola and her daughter Tina; and the many wonderful friends with whom Ryan was blessed throughout his life. Ryan was predeceased by his mother and father Gloria and Richard Aumiller; his maternal grandfather, Willis Cappallo; paternal grandparents, Walt and Connie Aumiller; and his mother-in-law, Dorothy A. Coppola. Though tragically short, Ryan leaves a legacy of life, love and devotion, and will be greatly missed by all of his family and friends. Ryan will never be forgotten as his kindness, love, and friendship touched the lives of all those who have been blessed to know him. God Bless you Ryan as you are together again with your mom and dad. We love you. The family would like to acknowledge the dedication of the Deerfield Volunteer Rescue Team; Donnas sister, Lori for her valiant efforts; the St. Elizabeth Medical Center for their sympathy, and comfort; and Sue Cooper for her support and compassion. Donna wishes to thank her family and all the many wonderful friends for their support, love, and devotion. Visitation will be held Tuesday from 3:00-6:00 at St. Marks Church, 440 Keyes Road, North Utica. Ryans funeral service and Celebration of Life will commence on Tuesday evening at 6:00 at St. Mark's Church immediately upon conclusion of visitation, where his Mass of Christian Burial will be offered. In lieu of floral offerings, expressions of sympathy in the form of donations may be made to the family to enable the establishment of a scholarship fund for Ryans daughter; envelopes will be available at the service. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Eannace Funeral Home, Inc., 932 South St., corner of Hammond Ave. Online tributes at www.EannaceFuneralHome.com

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Published by The Observer-Dispatch from Mar. 11 to Mar. 13, 2012.

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Hans Boyesen

March 17, 2012

Donna and Danielle and family...

We were so deeply saddened to hear about Ryan.
He is home with the Lord now. It is so difficult to find any reason for a loved one to pass before their "time". Donna, myself and the boys will lift you in our prayers and may your faith carry you and Danielle and your family through the healing period.
With much sympathy and love, Hans, Donna, Christian and Erik Boyesen

JOY & VICTOR DIORIO

March 15, 2012

TO THE FAMILY OF RYAN AUMILLER AND ALL WHO MOURN HIS PASSING. KNOW HE IS IN HEAVEN WITH MOM AND DAD. PLEASE ACCEPT OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY. HE WAS SUCH A FINE MAN.

Patti Gallacher

March 14, 2012

Donna, I was so saddened to hear about Ryan and my heart is breaking for you and Danielle. I have such fond memories of the good times you shared with Chris and Tim and wonderful pictures to remind me of those better days. I know they are together now and will always be watching over you and your daughter. I hope their love will give you strength and comfort during this difficult time.

Jim & Rene Armstrong

March 14, 2012

Donna and Danielle, Words could never express our sadness in your loss. May God bless you and give you strength as you pick up the pieces. We'll treasure the memories we have and know that we are always here for you in any way. Jim, Rene, Joy and Lincoln

Ron & Sharon Fehrman

March 14, 2012

Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of Ryan's family and friends, may you all find peace and comfort.

Patricia Servatius

March 13, 2012

Donna,
I just heard of the loss of your beloved husband and father. My heart was grieving as I heard today and I really thought that Ryan was great. I will contact you when I get home the end of April. Meanwhile, I have you in my thoughts and prayers and I am so sorry for the loss of Ryan. Please take care of yourself and Danielle.
Love Pat Servatius

Laurie Maugeri

March 13, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Ryan I will always remember his great sense of humor and his kindness he will be greatly missed rest in peace Ryan

Christine Lawrence

March 13, 2012

Donna, my heart and mind simply ache for you. I pray that God blesses you and your daughter with strength and some level of peace. Thinking of you always.

t b

March 13, 2012

Words can't express the loss, memories will comfort, and pictures will never tell the whole story...

Ryan has left an impact on those of us that were gifted to be a part of his life.

Michael Stolarczyk

March 13, 2012

Donna,Danielle,my thoughts and Prayers are with you and your Family.Ryan you gave me so many wonderful memories and laughs that I will never forget.I'll always remember the good times that we had together.I'd like the tears of those who grieve to dry before the sun,of happy memories that Ryan left when life is done,GOD Bless you and your Family, Michael Stolarczyk and Daughters Tami and Stefani,

Michael Stolarczyk

March 13, 2012

Donna Danielle Ryan my thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family.To everyone who shared memories of Ryan this is what He would want. I'd Like the memory of me to be a happy one,I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when Life is done. I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways,of Happy times and Bright and sunny days,I'd like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun, of Happy Memories that I leave when Life is done. God Bless You All, Your Best Friend;Michael Stolarczyk M arcy N,Y,

Peggy Mario Fall

March 13, 2012

Hearts are broken when a loved one is taken away,
No words said can heal the pain...
Only time...till you embrace again.

Feeling the sadness of your loss, praying for strength & courage at this time & in the future.

Lori Jones

March 12, 2012

I am so very sorry for your loss. I know what a difficult time this is. If there is anything I can do for you please let me know. Let your wonderful memories of Ryan get you through this time.

Robin MacBlane

March 12, 2012

Ryan, one of the sweetest, kindest guys I know. RIP my friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family

Kaitlyn

March 12, 2012

Rest in peace Ryan. You are now the guardian angel your wife and daughter need!

Lisa Tamilia

March 12, 2012

My heart is so saddened with the loss of Ryan!! He gave so many wonderful memories and laughs to everyone he met!! Rest in peace...You, Donna, Robyn, Rick & their families will continue to be in my thoughts and Prayers. :(

Gaile Beebe

March 12, 2012

Robyn, so sorry to hear about your brother, Ryan. Very sad. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Erika Schmitt-Holeck

March 12, 2012

Donna, my heart goes out to you and your daughter please know that you will be our thoughts and prayers daily. Ryan was a wonderful person! Many blessings.

Renee Hansen

March 12, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the two LOVES of your life, Donna and Danielle and your whole family. I am so sorry for the loss of such a GREAT man. We are left with another angel to watch over us, and the man upstairs only takes the good ones this early!! My deepest sympathy during this difficult time. Ryan...you were "one in a million", the definition of a true gentleman and human being...I will miss you dearly! Godspeed my friend...
Love, Renee Hansen (Prichard)

Tom Keefe

March 12, 2012

Donna and Danielle my thoughts and prayers are with you both...Something that I would like to share with the both of you during this time of trauma..."There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go". May you both find the strength to carry you through the coming days.

Rich & Laurie Copeman

March 12, 2012

Robyn & Greg - SO Sorry to learn of your loss. Please know that while you are hurting, we are lifting you and your family up in prayer during this difficult time.

Anthony Merulla

March 12, 2012

I was a childhood friend of Ryan's, and the news of his passing is extremely sad. I remember Ryan as a kind, fun and talented person, and I have many fond memories of those days long ago. My thoughts and prayers are with his family in these difficult hours.

Gary & Julie Addington

March 12, 2012

Our prayers are with you and the family. We wish you all the strength and faith in overcoming such a loss.

March 12, 2012

Donna,
My heartfelt sympathy to you and Danielle. May your special memories be his gift to you. Annette Guido - Guilderland, NY

Mark Vinciguerra

March 12, 2012

Ryan touched so many lives in so many ways. He will be missed. To his family, may you find strength to live each day with his memory fresh and and his spirit alive.

Cindy Stone

March 12, 2012

You and your family are in my prayers, Rick. May your faith and love sustain you...

Susan and Brennan Culkin

March 11, 2012

Donna and Danielle all our thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope for strength and peace for you in this sad and difficult time. Love to you.

Joe Damian

March 11, 2012

Rick and family my heart goes out to you. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Lisa Tamilia

March 11, 2012

My heart is so saddened with the loss of Ryan!! He gave so many wonderful memories and laughs to everyone he met!! Rest in peace...You, Donna, Robyn, Rick & their families will continue to be in my thoughts and Prayers. :(

Lynniel Costelli

March 11, 2012

"Life is eternal, love is immortal and death is only a horizon; and a horizon is nothing... for we shall reunite again"
~ My Dearest Friend Donna, may God Bless You and comfort you through your loss and pain.

Susan Clement

March 11, 2012

Donna, I am so very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter. Peace be with you and God Bless.

Thomas Perras

March 11, 2012

Rest in Peace, Ryan. Prayers and consolations to your family. You will be sorely missed by all.

Diane Chruscicki

March 11, 2012

Donna,
My thoughts & prayers are with you and your daughter. Please call me if you need anything. God Bless you both

Paula Moore

March 11, 2012

Donna, my heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your daughter. May God embrace you both and give you strength at this time.

Mike Pellegrino

March 11, 2012

I was so shocked to hear of Ryan's passing . He was a wonderful person who I got to know briefly at Munson - Williams . My thoughts and Prayers are w/ him and his family , may God embrace you Ryan and deliver you to Heaven's Shore's Mike P.

Denise Smith

March 11, 2012

Donna,
May god be with you through this time and in the future. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Laura Putnam

March 11, 2012

I am so saddened to hear of Ryan's passing. He was a wonderful, caring, and fun-loving person. He was the type of individual that others instinctively gravitate toward because of his playful and friendly disposition. His radiant personality will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

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