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Robert Holmes Obituary

Robert (Bobby)
Holmes
BRIDGEWATER
Robert (Bobby) Douglas Holmes, of Clark Rd., Bridgewater, NY, passed away Friday, March 6, 2015, at his home, with his loving wife and family at his side, at the age of 78. He was born August 8, 1936, the son of Everett and Esther Brown Holmes in Bridgewater, NY. He was educated and graduated from Bridgewater Central School in 1955. After graduation, he served in the US Army from 1955-1958. Bobby married Eleanor Green on November 8, 1958, in Bridgewater, NY. He retired from the United Parcel Service in 1991 after 30 years of loyal service. He devoted his life to his family and was a friend to all who were fortunate enough to have met him. He loved doing what he did best, working with The Youth Outreach Program, which he founded in 1987, and the Oneida County Scared Straight Program. Bobby spent many years walking the halls of Thomas R. Proctor High School, Utica, NY, as well as visiting schools in many of the districts throughout the State, fighting the war against the use of illegal drugs. Anyone who had the opportunity to hear a motivational speech given by Bobby will forever remember it. He has received numerous awards from both local and State levels. In 2013, he took his place in the "Oneida County Ellis Historical Hall of Fame" book and, the newly published, "Legendary Locals of Greater Utica". Bobby's passions in life were many, including gardening, landscaping, and organizing the annual "Bonfire" at their home for many family and friends. Also, Bobby was an extremely gifted athlete, loved golfing, football, basketball, and in 1959, received a letter from the Philadelphia Philly's Baseball Organization to attend spring training camp, but chose to stay close to home with his new bride and family. Bobby is survived by his loving and devoted wife of 56 years, Eleanor Green Holmes; his son and daughter-in-law, Dale and Julie Holmes, of Fountain Valley, CA; his daughter, Brenda Holmes Williams, of Utica, NY; daughter-in-law, Sheila Holmes, of Rome, NY; his five adopted great-grandsons, Eric and Derick Taylor Holmes, and Robert, Pernell and Alphonso Linen Holmes, all of Bridgewater, NY; nine grandchildren, Melissa and husband, Christopher Prest, Ginger Lester, Beatrice Holmes, Robert Holmes, Dale Holmes, Eleanor and husband, Michael Jackson, and Jared and wife, Bernie Holmes, all of Utica, NY, Brian Holmes, and Jason and wife, Dawn Holmes, of Rome, NY; and 34 great-grandchildren; his brother, Reginald Holmes, of Bridgewater, NY; sisters, Juanita Holmes Bass, of Frankfort, NY, Leona Ruth Holmes Booth, of Rochester, NY, Deloris Holmes Gaston, and Deborah Holmes Getman, of Utica, NY; as well as many nieces and nephews, close relatives and friends. Bobby was preceded in death by his son, Brian Holmes, who passed away on January 26, 2004, and his great-granddaughter, Lynn'iya Serenity Holmes, who passed away on October 24, 2012. Visitation will be Monday (today) from 4-8 and Tuesday from 12-1 at the Smith Funeral Home, 3022 Oneida St., Sauquoit, with funeral services commencing at 1:00 on Tuesday, immediately following visitation. Robert Holmes will be laid to rest in The New Forest Cemetery in Utica, NY, in the Spring. The Family of Robert Holmes wishes to express their gratitude to Dr. Chabot and his staff, The Visiting Nurses Association, Hospice and Palliative Care, his sister-in-law Ruthie Green, his niece Joyce Bass, and numerous family members. In lieu of flowers, those who care to may contribute to the family of Eleanor Holmes at P.O. Box 111, Bridgewater, NY 13313.

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Published by The Observer-Dispatch from Mar. 8 to Mar. 9, 2015.

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Terry Grimes

March 2, 2023

He will always be missed, I cherished all the times he would come out to hear me play.

Terry Grimes

March 2, 2020

Uncle Bobby Holmes was a good man, he will always be missed!

Jenelle Baker (Grimes)

March 19, 2015

RIP Uncle Bobby. U will surely be missed. Great man with a heart of gold.

March 12, 2015

Reggie and Juanita and Holmes family,

Thinking of you. We sympathize with you and the entire family for your loss. Even though I never knew your brother personally I always admired him for his generosity and concern for young people. And now that we are older we understand what a tremendous capacity for love and commitment he had to take in five young children after raising his own family. Our sincere sympathy,

Jerry and Carmen Davis

Natasha Holmes

March 12, 2015

I Will Miss You Uncle Bobby. I haven't Seen You In A While But It Hurts So Much To Find Out Your Gone You Will Forever Be In My Heart I Love You All!

March 12, 2015

To the Holmes Family:From my family to yours, we are so sorry to hear of the passing of (BOBBY). As has been mention before, he always had a wonderful smile, and a big hug for everyone along with kind words. Take comfort in knowing our hearts go out to you guys. LOVE always. Carol, Gerard and Alda Bristow.

Oney (Ione) Barney

March 11, 2015

Oh my Eleanor I am shocked and SO very sorry ...Bobby was such a great guy !! Praying for you and the boys !!! Just read it on the Waterille Blog...

Tim Briggs

March 11, 2015

Our condolences to the Holmes family.

March 11, 2015

Our sincere sympathies to the Holmes family for the loss of a Beautiful man. He touched everyone-everywhere he went. God Bless! Carol(Senif) and Thom Price

Michael Nassar

March 11, 2015

Dear Mrs. Holmes and Dale,
I am so sorry for your loss. I had the privilege of knowing your husband/father since my Babe Ruth baseball days in South Utica playing against his team or on a team with Dale. He always had kind words for me every time I saw him. Many years later I was lucky enough to see him in North Utica and at Remsen, where he would come to speak to the students. Mr. Holmes was a GREAT man who touched many lives with his words and concern. He will be missed.

Mariangela Iuorno

March 11, 2015

To the family of Mr. Robert Holmes so very sorry to learn of the passing on of your dear one. God bless and take care. I work at Proctor High School as a library assistant and got to meet Mr. Holmes,a very kind person indeed. Mariangela Iuorno.

Clifford Wheeldon,Jr

March 10, 2015

RIP My Friend!!

March 10, 2015

Attended BCS and was in grade school but remembered Bob as a great basketball player...later a great mentor for many youths.....am sure The Lord has more plans for Bob...........

Shirley Ann Akinosho

March 10, 2015

My condolences to you Aunt Eleanor, and the entire Holmes family. You have been a devoted wife, and I love you both dearly.

March 10, 2015

Eleanor and the entire Holmes family. We are so sorry to learn of the passing of our dear friend and brother. Our hearts are heavy for the family for you have loss a precious gem. May God grant you peace and comfort during this very difficult time. Love and Prayers - Fred and Trudy Walker

Al Sherline

March 10, 2015

Condolences to Bobby's family.
He was a voice and presence that will be missed.

March 10, 2015

Our heartfelt prayers go out to the family of Bobby. My husband knew most of the Holmes family because of his business, the Ace Garage in Bridgewater. He did many wonderful things and sacrificed for his family members. That is a great legacy to leave behind.

Respectfully,

Bill and Peggy Salamacha

Alicia Dingle

March 10, 2015

Uncle Bobby ... You will be truly missed. You were loved by so many. The thought of you will continue to bring a smile to our faces and will always warm our hearts.

Bonita Weaver

March 10, 2015

Eleanor I am sorry to hear of your loss. My prayer to you and the family.

Terry Grimes

March 10, 2015

Uncle Bobby, you will be missed, your words of encouragement and praise for my singing will always and forever be remembered. Rest in peace.

Kathy Tardy

March 10, 2015

To the Holmes Family:I was so sorry to hear of the passing of (BOBBY).What a great Man he was.Whenever I saw him always a big smile on his face and a kind word.My thoughts & Prayers to his Beautiful wife & children.Gone but never forgotten,always watching over his Family even from the sky.R.I.P. Mr.Bobby Holmes.<3

paula culver

March 9, 2015

Mr. Holmes will surely be one of the brightest stars in heaven.

Craig Pritchard

March 9, 2015

My thoughts and prayers going out to the entire Holmes Family. Mr. Holmes was just a very nice pleasant gentleman to every one. I will miss Our chats dearly at the football games, as I used to sit in his van and have lots of different conversations. Rest In Peace MY Friend You Will Be MISSED *****

March 9, 2015

To the Holmes Family: May God comfort and Guide you during this season of loss. I had the pleasure of attending School with both Brian and Dale and our families have known each other for awhile. Peace and blessings to you.

Sincerely,
Bruce Bowens

Andrea LoParco

March 9, 2015

I graduated from Proctor High School in 1996. I cannot recall many of my teacher's names, however all these years later I have never forgotten Mr. Holmes and the speeches he gave. Heaven has gained a magnificent angel, and to many many youth this man was an angel while on earth. Thoughts and Prayers are with Mr. Holmes' family and friends.

March 9, 2015

To My cousins, Eleanor and family. Cousin Bobby will surely be missed. But it was his time. We will meet him again in the great bye and bye. So family be strong, be in prayer and know that my thoughts are with you all. Love ya, Nate
Dr. Nate Nichols, Boynton Beach, Florida

Marie Smith

March 9, 2015

I am at a loss for words. Mr. Holmes was such a great, caring and compassionate person. He gave presentations at my school about the effects of drug use. Scared the heck out of me then and now just thinking about it. He always got his message across and truly cared. Rest in peace Mr. Holmes. You will be truly missed and never forgotten.

Wendy Egresits

March 9, 2015

Mrs. Holmes and family,

Our dad worked for many years with Bobby at UPS and we heard a great deal about him from Dad. Our deepest sympathies go out to all of you as you struggle with his loss. Dad passed away 1 year ago today. We know what you are struggling with. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

The Allen Gates Family

The Guzman Family

March 9, 2015

His speeches still resonate in my ears to this day... my late father and I had great respect and admiration for you Mr. Holmes. .. may you rest in paradise and thank you..

S Bohn

March 9, 2015

My life is that much richer having been blessed with his insight and kind words.

March 9, 2015

Riches are not measured by the items you were able to hold in your hands during your amazing life, but measured by the moments, the memories, and the blessings that you have left behind. You,sir will always be a legend. You will forever hold a special place in our homes. We loved you and life and mourn your loss.
To the family- know that our thoughts and prayers are with you while you forge ahead with your lives, boys may you continue to make him proud.
Love and prayers,
Mr. And Mrs. Kelly Barney, Dalton and Cassandra Barney ( formerly of Bridgewater,NY)

Mr. & Mrs. Daniel Harding & Family

March 9, 2015

Please accept our deepest sympathy and our heartfelt condolences for the loss of such a wonderful man. My wife and I and our son, enjoyed the many times, sitting with Bobby while we enjoyed the numerous sporting events during our son's time at Mount Markham. Mr. Holmes was there to watch his great grandson play baseball and we could always count on Bobby's words of wit and wisdom. My wife, heard him speak many years ago when she was just a child, as a student in the Utica City School District and often spoke about the impact it had on her life as well as the lives of so many others. Rest well, Mr. (Bobby) Holmes. You will be sadly missed but fondly remembered. God bless your wife, family and friends during this difficult time.

Belinda Gaston

March 9, 2015

Uncle Bobby you will be missed. You have impact my life in more ways than I can express. It's been wonderful having you as a Uncle. God Bless.

ronert pritchard. Sr.

March 9, 2015

R I P. Bobby

Ralph Paladino

March 9, 2015

My late cousin and I used to see Bobby at the PHS Basketball games..a truly great man, who has done so much for so many people, still remember his full head of white hair.. my deepest sympathies and condolences to his host of loved ones...rest in peace Bobby, your legacy is all the lives you have touched in a very special way. Bobby is with Jesus now in Heaven..Bobby has left this world a better place. It was a honor and privilege to know him.

john and kath foley

March 9, 2015

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

A. Waggoner

March 9, 2015

Although I'd only had the opportunity to be graced by Mr. Holmes' presence a handful of times, he was a wonderful and kind man, full of wisdom and knowledge, and forever memorable. May he Rest in Peace, and my deepest sympathies to his family.

Michelle (Werner) Riegel

March 9, 2015

I met Mr. Holmes while I was in school in Waterville. I was an officer in our S.A.D.D. Chapter. Having him as a guest speaker impacted many of us in attendance. thoughts and prayers to his loved ones.

Tom Clarke

March 9, 2015

One of the best men I've ever had the blessing to meet. He would always give me guidance and steer me in the right direction. I'll never forget the bbqs out at the house and talks that we had! My heart goes out to the family and may he rest in peace.

Jennifer (Carey) Studer

March 9, 2015

My family's thoughts and prayers are the Holmes family. I remember as a kid hearing him speak many times through different Bridgewater programs. He was an amazing man God bless.

thomas raymonda

March 9, 2015

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Toni Lynn Amodio

March 9, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. I met Bobby when I was a student - almost 30 years ago! Anytime I would run into him - I always thanked him for such the big impact he had on my life and others.

Courtney Park

March 9, 2015

RIP Uncle Bobby, we will all miss you, you were a great guy and many will miss you, as many loved you deeply family or not. I will always remember you and keep you in my heart.

Rose Pearson-Simmons & Family

March 9, 2015

Sorry for your loss of your loved one Mr. Holmes was an Awesome man..He will surely be missed.

Dave Zogby

March 9, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with the Holmes family. Bobby was a loyal friend and outstanding human being. I was fortunate to have had the opportunity to work with him and share a friendship with him. Bobby helped many and will be deeply missed.

Tim and Carole Barletta

March 9, 2015

Mr Holmes was a true gentleman. He was a fixture at the boys' sporting events and had a kind word for everyone. He had compliments for ALL the players, cheerleaders, coaches and volunteers, from both teams. I always had a smile on my face after speaking with him. Such an inspiration! Our thoughts and prayers are with the family, and the thousands of friends, young and old, who will miss him tremendously.

Glen Fedor

March 9, 2015

I first met Mr. Holmes when he was a UPS driver back in the 80's. Our paths crossed again when I seen Mr. Holmes at the Oneida County jail where he was involved with youth programs. He was a great person and he will be dearly missed. RIP my friend

Richard Parry

March 9, 2015

No word can express my thoughts for the Holmes family as they were family. My days go back to when he was our Little League coach and what he taught us as kids growing up. RIP my great friend.

Phyllis Latreille

March 9, 2015

Wonderful caring man, always a smile and has done so much for our youth,,Thank You,,,Rest in peace Bobby.

Phyllis, David and DJ Latreille

Rena

March 9, 2015

God bless his family and friends during this difficult time. I remember Mr Holmes speaking over 20 years ago at my school. Every time I saw him in public this came to mind: "He's one of the few people on earth who is a true gem". A heart of gold he surely had. He'll be missed. His beautiful soul is is with God.

Gloria and Ken Shaw

March 8, 2015

Eleanor and Family, I am so sorry to read of Bobby's passing. In the 50 years that we have know each other, his unwavering dedication to humanity has only increased my respect and admiration for him. He was one of a kind and I'm truly saddened for your loss. Unfortunately, we are in Florida or we would be there to pay our respects. Please accept our deepest sympathy.

Joy Corey

March 8, 2015

Such a nice man. My thought's and prayers go out to the Holmes family. Love to all.

jennifer keiser

March 8, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. I remember loving hearing him talk in school. great man will be missed greatly!!

Bunches

March 8, 2015

Our thought and prayers our with you through this time. Mr. Holmes touched many peoples lives and was a kind gentle man. The impact he had on so many peoples lives will be truly remembered.

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