Grassl- Lindsay, Mary LAKESIDE -- Born September 7, 1940, in Brownsville, Texas, Mary moved to Lakeside at the age of 4, and graduated from Grossmont High in 1959. She was a beloved Lakeside business owner for 25 years. She and her partner Helga started the western retail store, "The Tack Room." She is survived by her husband Phil Lindsay, sister Carol, brother Carl, 4 children, 10 grandchildren, and 3 great-grandchildren. She will be missed very much. Services will be held Saturday, September 21, at 11 a.m. at Foothills Church, 365 W. Bradley Avenue, El Cajon.