GOLDER, VIVIAN M. September 3, 1921 to December 6, 2012 Vivian was born in Indiana and moved to San Diego when she was 21. A San Diego resident for over 70 years, she worked for Ryan Aeronautical, Langley, and spent the last of her career as Office Manager for T & D Transfer, retiring in 1983. Vivian loved her family, friends, cats, shopping, flowers and a good book. She was an avid golfer and over the years was a member of Bonita Country Club, Stardust and Chula Vista. She and Buzz met through their mutual love of golf. They married in 1984 and made their home in Bonita. Vivian is survived by her devoted husband Buzz, daughter Neva Wright and husband Steve, stepchildren Rory Bridge and Cathy, Bill Golder, and Bobbi Colabella and husband Steve. Her son Mike Haynes and stepdaughter Belinda Manley preceded her in death. Her joy continues in the lives of her six grandchilren and five great-grandchildren. A memorial service will be held on Friday, Dec. 14th at Glen Abbey Memorial Park, at 1 p.m.