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James Waldeck Obituary

James Jolly Waldeck Jr. died Friday, November 15, 2013 in Williamsburg, VA at age 79. Born January 6, 1934 in Hampton to James Jolly Sr. and Rose Waldeck, he was preceded in death by his parents.
Jim grew up in Hampton and knew early on that he wanted to attend the United States Military Academy at West Point, NY. To prepare for this, he attended Fork Union Military Academy and graduated in 1951. He graduated from West Point in 1956 with a Bachelor of Science degree, and he later earned a Master of Science degree in Operations Research, Systems Analysis from Georgia Tech.
After graduation from West Point, Jim started what was to be a 30-year career in the Army as an infantry officer. Jim commanded airborne infantry units from platoon through brigade levels in West Germany, the 82d Airborne Division, the 101st Airborne Division, and the 172d Infantry Brigade. He served two combat tours in Viet Nam, where he was awarded the Silver Star, the Bronze Star with V device, the Purple Heart with oak leaf cluster, and the Air Medal. Other awards throughout his career included the Legion of Merit, the Meritorious Service Medal, and the Army Commendation Medal. Jim's service on the Army Staff helped with the Army's transition from the draft to the Modern Volunteer Army. He subsequently served as one of the initial recruiting group commanders, implementing the Volunteer Army policy he helped design. Jim retired from the Army in 1986.
Jim was a loving husband, father and grandfather. He was a true soldier, and lived every day by the guiding principles of Duty, Honor and Country. He shared his wife's passion for raising, breeding and, occasionally showing Airedale Terriers. He also loved German cars, and he was active for many years during his retirement in local enthusiast clubs.
Jim is survived by his beloved wife, Sue Ann, his four sons: James III (Wendy), Michael (Nancy), John (Debi), and Peter (Josie), and eight grandchildren.
The family will receive friends Friday, November 29, 2013, from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. at Nelsen Funeral Home, 3785 Strawberry Plains Road, Williamsburg, VA 23188. Interment will take place at Arlington National Cemetery at a later date.

Published by Virginia Gazette from Nov. 23 to Dec. 22, 2013.
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My sincere condolences to Sue and family. Jim was a considerate and long-time customer who loved to talk about his military experiences and dogs as I took time to listen while I worked (Computer Clinic). Loved to hear his stories. Such a fascinating life he led and he was proud to be an American.

Christine Justis

December 11, 2013

I always enjoyed talking with Jim about German cars when we worked together at the Joint Warfighting Center. Deepest condolences to the family at this time.

Jerry Coffman

November 26, 2013

Jim was a staunch and dependable good friend in our times together in the Army and in our time in retirement he eagerly helped us greatly. He is sorely missed.

Jim and Kay Thornton

November 26, 2013

I worked with Jim for 5 years at Cubic. He was a great mentor and friend. He took my duty when we went to Vicenza, Italy, so I could go to Venice for the day. My thoughts and prayers are with him and his family.

Colin Claus

November 25, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. We lived in Jim's old house in Wythe, and raised three children there. He was always there if something went wrong. I remember him with a smile and a good story about the old house he grew up in. I cherish the memories of him and Sue. I got my first Airedale from them, still keeping that tradition going. Many prayers for you Sue and your family.

Renee Olsovsky

November 25, 2013

It was a great pleasure to know Jim and to consider him a friend. My deepest condolences to Sue and the family. You are in our prayers.

William (Bill) Gustafson

November 25, 2013

Jim was a friend and mentor while we worked for Cubic at the Joint Warfighting Center and Joint Forces Command. I have missed him since he retired. May God be with him and his family.

Andrew Brantley

November 24, 2013

Jim was really a joy to be around and share topics. His presence in my life will be long remembered. May God bless Sue and her family.

MG(R) Bob Gordon

November 23, 2013

I always loved seeing him at the bank. He was such a kind man. My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this time. He will always be remembered with great fondness.

Christina Long

November 20, 2013

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