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Joan Cochet Obituary

WILLIAMSBURG - Joan Kay Cochet, loving wife, daughter, mother, grandmother, and twin sister, passed away on October 9, 2014, at her home in Williamsburg. Joan is survived by her husband, Anthony Cochet Sr.; son, Andy Cochet, Jr. and his wife, Allyson and their children Drew, Noah, and Camille Joan; daughter, Cheryl; sister, Jean and her family; and father David Galliart. A visitation will be held at 5:00 p.m. on Monday, October 13 at Nelsen Funeral Home, 3785 Strawberry Plains Rd., Williamsburg. Services will be held at 10 a.m. on Tuesday, October 14 at Williamsburg Presbyterian Church, 215 Richmond Rd., Williamsburg. Interment will follow at Cedar Grove Cemetery, 809 S. Henry St., Williamsburg. Memorial contributions may be made to the Colonial Williamsburg Foundation, Post Office Box 1776, Williamsburg, VA 23187-1776. Online condolences may be offered at www.nelsencares.com.

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Published by Virginia Gazette on Oct. 11, 2014.

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Beth McGill

October 5, 2022

I think of Joan so often. When I remember my precious Jane, Joan comes to my mind. Joan was one of the sweetest and most sincere people I´ve met. She was so easy to talk to and get to know. They weren´t many, but I so enjoyed our times together. I´ll always keep her in my heart. I´m so glad Joan came my way. My love to Andy and family.
Love
Beth speaks McGill

December 2, 2017

I'm so sorry Andy. Jim Harrison

March 15, 2016

Hello, How are you doing

Paul Gentry

March 1, 2015

Andy and kids, Jean, Dave - I just stumbled upon the announcement. I was floored, to say the least. I won't pretend that I can even imagine the depth of your grief. Words are useless now, I know; but, you have my deepest sympathy nonetheless. I will always remember her fondly.

November 9, 2014

My Dearest Joanie:
How can I possibly say how much I loved you and how much I miss you? You were the greatest gift God ever gave me, and you blessed me with 35 wonderful years and two absolutely perfect children. As one song writer wrote, “You were the wind beneath my wings.” Another sang that “my world is empty without you.” Both verses are so true. The World will never really know how truly smart and perfect you were, but Andy Jr., Cheryl, Jean and I will always know that. You were so beautiful and genuine, inside and out. We miss you so badly, and there is such a void in our lives. I don't know why this happened, but I want you to know, I loved you from the first moment I saw you, and I always will.
Your loving husband,
Andy

October 25, 2014

Andy, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your wife. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Tom O'Brien (Sierra Vista, AZ/r/Fort Huachuca CPAC)

Tina Woods

October 24, 2014

My heart goes out to you and your family for the loss of you lovely wife Joan. I will keep you in my prayers.
Tina Woods from 1st Advantage F.C.U.at Ft. Eustis.

Jen Gleason Smith

October 22, 2014

I am so sorry to hear the sad news! Please know that my family and I are sending thoughts and prayers your way. God Bless you all.

Peggy Mills

October 20, 2014

I was truly saddened to hear of Joan's passing. What a wonderful and lovely person to have shared in our lives. I know your pain and heartache are great. Allow God to be your strength during this most difficult time. The National Center has lost a true gem. God bless all of you.

October 17, 2014

My God give you strength as you go through this difficult time. We are praying for each of you.
Ray & Janice Mixon

Tish Ash

October 17, 2014

Andy,

I'm so sorry for your loss. May God continue to bless you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tish Ash, Dept of Army, EEOCCR

Jim Robinette

October 16, 2014

Andy, can't tell you how sorry I am about Joan. She was an amazing person, and such a joy to be around. I can only imagine the pain of your grievous loss. Carol Anne and I are praying for you, and for the rest of your family.
Yours,
Jim

Roz Ryan

October 15, 2014

May the peace that comes from the memories of love shared comfort you now and in the days ahead.
Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Victoria F Vasquez

October 15, 2014

Dear Family and Friends of Joan Cochet: My heartfelt condolences to all who knew and loved Joan. I just met Joan this summer via the National Center for State Courts ICM Fellows Program. In the three weeks in Williamsburg, I came to know and work with Joan. I found her to be intelligent, charming, helpful, caring, and the utmost professional. I know my journey was greatly enriched by having come to know her, though only slightly. Please know that she has touched so many students and court users through the NCSC programs . We were so lucky to have been taught and helped by her. She was truly a touchstone of the NCSC organization. She will be remembered by so many people because she helped us all so generously. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of mourning. All my best, Victoria F. Vasquez, ICM Fellows Class of 2015

Judy Dyer

October 15, 2014

Andy,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Anne Norfolk

October 15, 2014

Andy, so very sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. I never met her but I know she was a very special person from our conversations. Please know that you are in my prayers.

October 15, 2014

Andy, my heart is broken for you and the children. We were shocked and devastated when we heard about Joan. You are in our prayers. May the Lord hold you all closely to Him. We love you.
Prayerfully,
The Speaks Family(Beth)

Brigitte White

October 15, 2014

Cheryl,
I am so sorry about the loss of your mother. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Barry Phelps

October 15, 2014

Jean -- I'm thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. So sorry for your loss.

Jill Greene

October 15, 2014

Dear Cochet Family,

What a sweet, special lady you had in Joan. My work put me in regular contact with Joan and I will surely miss her positivity, kindness, patience and wealth of knowledge. She is simply one of a kind and irreplaceable.

Jones Family

October 14, 2014

Dear Cochet Family,
we are so very sorry for your loss. Joan will live on in the memory of so many who knew and loved her. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Eboni Scott

October 14, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. So sorry for your loss.

Kevin Woodman

October 14, 2014

David, so very sorry for the loss of your daughter. I am glad I had the honor to meet her and see her smiling face each day at Greenfield. I will miss her much as will many here...Kevin

October 14, 2014

Andy,
So sorry to hear of Joan's passing. My prayers to out to you and your family
Carol Lilly

October 14, 2014

Andy, so sorry to hear of Joan's passing. My prayers go out to you and your family.
Carol Lilly

Barbara Berryman

October 14, 2014

Andy and Family,
My heart goes out to you during this time of your unimaginable loss. I pray for your comfort and strength.

Bonny Supplee

October 14, 2014

Andy - my heart breaks for you. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.

Michelle Baxter

October 13, 2014

Andy, My heart goes out to you and your family. I pray that you can find peace and comfort in our loving God. I am so sorry.

Bob Hart

October 13, 2014

Andy,

You and your family are in my prayers. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Bob Hart

Ava Hicks

October 13, 2014

Joan was such a great help to me when I called with questions or advice, as a librarian @ the Arkansas Supreme Court Library -- she was ever ready to assist, very smart. And charming - I enjoyed talking with her. I am so sorry to learn that she is gone. I send my condolences to her family.

Kitty

October 13, 2014

Cheryl, so sorry to learn of your mom's passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family as you grieve.

Tracy Sohoni

October 13, 2014

Joan was a person that is all too rare in the world – funny, smart and genuinely kind. She had a way of making everyone around her feel valued, and during my time at NCSC was always someone that would go above and beyond to be helpful. Her loss will be felt by all that knew her, and my deepest condolences go out to her family.

Pat Riter

October 13, 2014

I was so sorry to hear about Joan. I so enjoyed working with her when she was with the York County Public Library. She was such a joy to be around. My prayers are with her family.

Charlotte Sugg

October 13, 2014

Joan was such a bright star at the National Center for State Courts. She loved the Center and her Center family loved her. She was a wonderful person and also a member of the "Center Purl's". We planned many Purl Luncheons together. She will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers to the family.

Karen and Vince Norako

October 13, 2014

We are so very sorry for your loss. Joan was such a wonderful boss and mentor to our daughter, Jenny Norako, when she worked at the National Center for State courts. We will cherish the memories of that time and will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Karen and Vince Norako

Kim Bartleson

October 13, 2014

Joan was an exceptional person that I was fortunate enough to work with. She always went out of her way to make sure I received what I needed. She will be greatly missed. Thank you to her family for sharing her with me.

Jarret Hann

October 13, 2014

Put simply, she was the nicest, most genuine person I've ever met. Her loss is immeasurable. Deepest condolences to her family and everyone who knew her, she made life better.

Janice Blackwell

October 13, 2014

Andy,my heart truly goes out to you and your family during this sorrowful time. My prayers for the peace and comfort that only God can give during times like this will continue for the days ahead.

Nina K. Jimmerson

October 13, 2014

My thought and prayers are with you at this time. Rest a sure that God will comfort you in this hour and He will turn your sorrows into dancing. She was a true ray of sunshine every time we were together. As former manager of FedEx Office (Kinko's) in Williamsburg we will truly miss her.

Joan holding my baby daughter, 2007.

Anne Skove

October 13, 2014

What a loss for everyone -- our world is suddenly far less patient, kind, smart, and funny.

Susan Hoffer

October 13, 2014

To The Cochet Family
My deepest sympathies to your family. I had the pleasure of meeting and interacting with Joan this past May 2014 at the NCSC while involved in education at the center. Her work at the National Center will last forever and be acknowledged forever. She quickly touched us all, as she worked with us.

Beverly Goodman

October 13, 2014

Joan was such a kind, caring and friendly person. She will be missed greatly at NCSC. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends during this difficult time. May your memories bring you comfort.

Neal Clarke

October 13, 2014

On behalf of the entire staff at Greenfield Senior Living please accept our heartfelt condolences. Joan always brought a smile to everyone she interacted with. She will be missed.

October 13, 2014

Cochet Family:
I never had the pleasure to have actually met Joan. However, as a member of the 2014 Fellows class, I did have the benefit of Joan's presentation regarding the NCSC library and her kind and professional assistance during the completion of my fellows paper, having specifically mentioned her in my Acknowledgment. Joan was so very passionate about the NCSC library and clearly took great pleasure assisting others. She was always quick to help and share her knowledge. I am aware that words are insufficient to express my sympathies for your loss. But, I wanted you to know the impact that Joan made upon me, even from a distance. May you find comfort and peace.
Debora Wells-Guevara (Chandler, AZ)

Marla Randall Widmaier

October 13, 2014

May the sorrow in your hearts be replaced with memories of a life so joyously lived. God bless all of you in your time of mourning.

October 13, 2014

Andy, my thoughts are with you during your tragic loss. God bless you and your family. Alice Ward

Ilonka Dazevedo

October 13, 2014

Joan was one of the nicest people I've ever had the opportunity to work with. She always was willing to help, with a smile. She will truly be missed. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Cheryl Wright

October 13, 2014

To the Cochet Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. There are no words that can speak of such a great loss. Joan was truly a wonderful, funny, unique, and gentle person. I'm honored to have known and worked with her. She will be greatly missed.

Tina Colonna

October 13, 2014

Cheryl,
I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. Please know that you and your family have been, and will continue to be, in my thoughts and prayers.

October 13, 2014

Cheryl,

You and your family are in all of our thoughts and prayers. Words won't heal the loss but know that we are all here for you and praying for your comfort.

Carol Schenk

Joanne Hanna

October 12, 2014

To the Cochet family,I had the pleasure of meeting Joan a few months ago when I started styling her hair.We had very nice conversation and she was so happy about being a grandparent.I will miss her warm and sweet smile.Im so sorry for your loss.with prayers,Joanne Hanna

Brenda Uekert

October 12, 2014

Joan was the lifeblood, the touchstone, the energy of the National Center. She never failed to extend a joyful greeting and always lent a hand when she could. Her memory will provide warmth and generosity for generations to come. We are all better for knowing her. Joan will be sorely missed.

Marie Hopkins

October 12, 2014

Cheryl, I'm very sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved mother. My thoughts are with you.

Haydee Gonzalez

October 12, 2014

Dr. Cochet and family. It's hard to find the right words that could possibly provide some, if any, comfort during this time. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lewis McCoy

October 12, 2014

I don't know what to say but I just wanted to let you know you are in my heart and prayers.

Haydee Gonzalez

October 12, 2014

A candle to light the way. Your in my prayers.

Serafim Perdikis

October 12, 2014

Andy, Christina and I are saddened by your loss. Our condolences to you and your family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. -Serafim

October 12, 2014

Dear Andy. We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you. Please let us know if we can be of help.
Your neighbors, Tom and Alice Lindsay

Jesse Rutledge

October 12, 2014

Joan touched and helped so many people. In her workplace she had an impact every day, on her colleagues in the office next door all the way to people she assisted on the other side of the country. My deepest condolences to her family.

Barbara Creel

October 12, 2014

We were so very sorry to hear about your mom Cheryl. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. Barb and Lou Creel

Frances Cox

October 12, 2014

Andy and family,
I will always remember what a sweet and gentle lady Joan was. I am keeping you close to my heart in prayer. Gods peace.

Bob Novak

October 12, 2014

Andy, my prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. May you find comfort in memories of your beloved Joan.

Peggy Tighe

October 12, 2014

Dearest Andy: My heart goes out to you with the sudden loss of your beloved wife. May you be surrounded by much love, reminded of the beautiful times, and held in God's grasp during this heartbreaking time. . .With love, Peggy

Susan Russell

October 12, 2014

To the Cochet family,

Sending you thoughts of peace and courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.

October 12, 2014

Dear Andy,
We are so sorry for your loss, and are keeping you and your family in our thoughts during this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Linda Pincus and Gary Best

Barbara Sesek

October 12, 2014

Andy, my prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Sending you, the children and grandchildren my condolences, you all are in my thoughts as you deal with this loss.

October 12, 2014

Andy: Our deepest regrets on your loss. Our prayers are with you. Mike and Cheryl Mack

Kristine & Steve Amerson

October 11, 2014

Our heartfelt condolences and love to you, dear Andy, Allyson and your family.

Janis Roorda

October 11, 2014

Bruce and I are holding you in our prayers in your time of grief...

October 11, 2014

What a great lady! We keep thinking about you all. Best wishes, Jim & Lauren Rosenblatt

October 11, 2014

Andy, We are shocked to learn about Joan's passing, about your loss. Frequently, we greeted each other when she was leaving in the morning and returning afternoon. We'll miss her warm and kind smiles. Please, accept our heartfelt sympathy. If we can help, please do not hesitate, we live across from you house.
Arieh & betty

Liz & Mike mcCarthy

October 11, 2014

Andy, our heartfelt prayers go out to you and your whole family. Your lovely Mom will be missed.... We love you.

Candy Tyrrell

October 11, 2014

Andy--

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy on the passing of your wife. I will always remember your generosity to me at Fort Monroe. God bless you.

Brenda Taylor

October 11, 2014

I am so very sorry for your loss. Joan was a beautiful blessing to all her knew her; and I give thanks for the life she lived and the lives she touched.

Lynne Bolinger

October 11, 2014

Grieving for you as this wonderful light has gone on. You are in our prayers.

Heather Poulsen

October 11, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. Cheryl, you are in all of our thoughts.

Alice Allred

October 11, 2014

Joan was a fabulous librarian. She could find anything. Her smile and sense of humor will be missed. God bless her family and friends.

October 11, 2014

Andy and family, Tom and I were so terribly sorry to hear about Joan's passing; please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers Toni and Tom Wainwright

Susan Anthony

October 11, 2014

My prayers go out to the Cochet family. I'm saddened by your loss and I'm here for anything you need. My deepest regrets.

Deborah Smith

October 11, 2014

Every day was better because of Joan's sweet smile and sparkling sense of humor.

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