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Doug Soo Obituary
February 14, 1948 - January 12, 2014
The world has lost a wonderful and caring leader who was on his regular Sunday hike up Grouse Mountain. Doug was a self made man whose life in Canada started when he was 5 years old as a paper son. During his youth he was influenced by his adopted father, his god mother, and was mentored by John Ballam from the Boys' Clubs of Vancouver. He was always ingenious at finding ways to supplement being a ward of the state when his father passed and has led an exemplary life of giving back to his community. His professional career started in 1971 at the Clubs (Boys & Girls Clubs of South Coast BC) until he left for Britannia Community Centre to become their Executive Director in 1985. He joined Langara College in 1997 and headed up Continuing Studies until his retirement in 2012. Throughout his career, as an RSW, he counseled a multitude of people. He joined boards, committees, and organizations too numerous to mention. His warm personality garnered a respect in the community that was recognized in many ways. He will be lovingly remembered by his wife Penny, his sons Dylan and Gavin, as well as his sister-in-law Bebe Chin (Ron), brother-in-law Fred Mah Jr. (Lorna), god sister Coral Chin (George) and gazillions of other friends who he thought of as relatives. There will be a gathering for Doug on February 22, 2014 at Britannia Community Centre in Gym D, 1661 Napier Street at 4pm. Absolutely no flowers by request. If you wish, donations will be gratefully accepted, payable to the Vancouver Foundation for the Doug Soo Memorial Fund: #200-475 W. Georgia St., Vancouver, BC V6B 4M9 or https://s.vancouverfoundation.ca/DougSoo
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Jack Young
May 10, 2025
Dear Penny,
I have found out about Doug’s passing a few years ago. I have felt the tremendous loss. After reading the memories and watching his convocation speech brought back my memories of the great person that he was. I also remember you as the wonderful support for him when Lisa and I had dinner with your family. I have been trying to reach out to you and your family. Just thought of you and the family again today. I am hoping this can work.
I first met Doug in 1976 when he hired me as a Camp Potlatch counselor. Enjoyed seeing his leadership in action with the children and the staff. He had a lot of trust with us. Then I was fortunate to work with him again in 1977 as the registrar for Camp Potlatch. This time seeing another inspiring side of him in the office setting.
Now knowing more of his background and what he has gone through in his early life, his story is even more amazing. The world has lost a wonderful person who has mentored many to help others. Penny I hope you and your family will continue to find pleasure and comfort in hearing of his impact in this world.
With love and respect, Jack Young
Beverly
September 30, 2022
Read another Facebook post today--another privileged person kvetching about something incredibly mundane and thought about the amazing people I've been so fortunate to know who have risen above incredible adversity to live their lives with grace and gratitude and thought immediately of Doug. Never forgotten, always admired.
Jim Lane
July 8, 2019
I have fond memories of Doug i was a camper at camp potlatch during the 70,s and after my last year as a camper, doug offered me a job as sub chief then later a counsellor, he was a funny man full of life, adored kids and loved to teach, i knew his wife penny and at the time their little boy Dylan, we had soo much fun at this camp and doug was a huge reason we did, my deepest condolences to the soo family
Beverly
October 7, 2018
On this Thanksgiving weekend, I give thanks to the wonderful people in my life. Doug was one of those--a friend, a laugh, an inspiration. Never forgotten, remembered often!
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Phil Neal
July 24, 2014
I am very sad to hear of the passing of Doug Soo. I met him many years ago but he made a great impression in me, and I have never forgotten him.
My condolences to his family and his many friends.
Phil Neal
Joelle Materi
May 14, 2014
Doug, I wish this were just another one of your bad jokes, your worst yet. I miss you and always will. Love Jo-Jo
Doug at Langara
February 28, 2014
I had the great pleasure of interviewing Doug last Fall at Langara. This is an excerpt from that interview:
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Walking with Doug Soo through the halls of Langara College was like walking with a celebrity. Everyone stopped to say hello, catch up, and have a hug to welcome him back. He may have been short in stature, but his reach was very long, having touched many lives and communities over the years.
“It symbolizes the best side of working here - it's the good that you treasure and the people at Langara show that,” said Doug Soo, about his time at Langara.
Doug reminisced about his passion for community service, “At the core of what I do is community – I'm the beneficiary of caring people who did community work.”
Doug - you will always be fondly remembered. It was great to have known you.
Wendy Watson
Steve Quilala
February 28, 2014
Doug,
I was heartbroken to hear of your passing. You always greeted me warmly in the halls at Langara. Although my position limited my contact with you, I always enjoyed my visits to your office. You always believed in me, encouraged me, and appreciated my work. You were the perfect client. You always 'got it'. I will forever consider you a mentor.
I wish I had reached out to you before your passing, but you were taken too soon and I never got a chance to thank you. My warmest condolences to your family. You are truly missed.
Thank you, Doug. It was an honour.
Dorothy Mills
February 26, 2014
My sincere sympathy to Penny,Dylan and Gavin,
Dorothy Mills (Gavin's grade four teacher).
February 25, 2014
He lived the life of 50 men.
He is loved, respected and deeply appreciated! I will miss you my friend.
Thomas Kyle
bill ellison
February 23, 2014
HiPenny I am very sad to hear Doug has passed away my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family im sorry I was not at Dougs memorial as I just found out to day.I will all ways have found memorys of you to take care
Roy Sinn
February 22, 2014
It was a great day when Doug joined Langara College. His love for people, his work and his community was inspiring. I will miss his wit, his wisdom, his humour and his smile. We've lost somebody very special. My heartfelt condolences to his family and friends.
Roy
February 22, 2014
Whenever we met, Doug would inspire, cajole, and humor me, and would always make me feel like he'd gotten more than he gave. My condolences to Penny, his family and all of his many friends.
Thomas Tasse
February 22, 2014
I hadn't had the privilege of meeting Doug but I can imagine that we would have shared a laugh or two. As an Alumni of the CIEH program in 2005, I am one of many who have benefited from his generosity of spirit that helped to launch the program through Continuing Studies at Langara. He leaves behind a fruitful legacy of accomplishments from the heart. I should be so lucky to accomplish just a part of what he embraced in this life. Thankyou Doug ~
February 22, 2014
Doug's premature passing has left us with a huge loss. He will be dearly missed. His contributions are too many to list, his humour and humility were admirable. His love for his family and passion for his work is something that will stay with me for ever. Warm wishes for ease and comfort for Penny and her family Raj Gill
February 18, 2014
Doug Soo will be greatly missed, he still had so much to offer to our world. Since my arrival at Langara in 1997, I have looked up to Doug's leadership as head of the CS division. Over the years I very much appreciated the stimulating conversations, the sharing of his knowledge on varied issues, his wisdom, his cheerfulness and his positive energy. His generous involvement in the community is an inspiration.
My deepest condoleances to his family.
Anne-Marie Dussault, Vancouver.
Amie Smith
February 14, 2014
66 years ago Doug came into this world and his journey has been one of great significance. I usually would send him a birthday valentine , instead I will just reflect on the impact he had on everyone who knew him.
LeRoy Dunn
February 5, 2014
Some of my First memories of "Fraserview Boys Club" and Doug were with 10 other guys and our group club we all named.. "Doug Soos Mrs Whos". Years later we graduated to Camp Potlatch where Doug helped mold us into young adults. Life goes on and I would still have invites or just a call to say hello. Thank you Doug for all the years of friendship and humor. We at "The Club" will truly miss you. Large love to Penny and Family.
Ed Berry
February 2, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss Penny and ours. I last saw Doug at my mom's memorial and he and I agreed to get together soon after, as usual life intervened and I didn't follow up. Doug made a huge impact on my life, my career and my beliefs. He will be missed.
Louise Wilson
February 1, 2014
It has been a few years since I last saw Doug but always considered him a friend. He will be missed by many but not forgotten. He left a good impression with all he met. He was funny and kind. Best wishes to Penny and the boys.
David Ross
February 1, 2014
Doug's passing is a great lose. I knew Doug as a leading educator. Before I arrived at Langara I was told my many of fortunate I was to work with Doug. I quickly realized that his creativity, determination and sense of community were cornerstones of his success.
One moment I will always remember relates to the picture of Doug on the guest book. I believe that was the Langara Convocation a two years ago. Doug had just retired and was asked to deliver the convocation address to the group that included continuing studies graduates. It was without a doubt one of the most moving and insightful addresses I have ever heard. He spoke of challenge and overcoming what was for many would be insurmountable obstacles. But what it really did was speak of the man and what he represents, community, dedication and the never ending need to help others.
Doug you will be missed but not forgotten
Jocelyne Hamel
February 1, 2014
I had the good fortune of being influenced by Doug's leadership style as I was finding my own legs as a leader. He was a true visionary and he left great legacies in all his work. He had a way of making everyone around him feel valued and living up to their potential. And he had the best sense of humor ever! He will be missed.
January 31, 2014
Greg & I are really sad that we have lost a good friend and a great human being. We will always remember his perspective on life, his jokes, his insight on issues, candid comments and often his good advise on 'what's next'.
The Chinese community has also lost a good friend in our work to keep Chinatown vibrant, maintaining our culutre while reaching out to embrace others !
Doug, you will always be remembered !
wendy
Tom & Louise Wingert
January 30, 2014
It has been many years since we spoke to Doug, but he impressed us greatly with his kind and generous attitude. His memory will serve as a guide for how we should all strive to live. Warm condolences to Penny and family.
Roberta Kris Mason Payne
January 29, 2014
We were heart broken when we heard the news. Doug was a great man. It's never easy. Our thoughts are with you and your family. XOXO
Elik Tologanak
January 29, 2014
I was very Blessed to have met and share a meal with Doug along with the other instructors for Nunavut School-Community Counsellor Training Program.I felt from him how important his family was to him and his love for people and the great outdoors came across very strong.I only saw him for couple hours but felt I knew him all my life.My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.Rest in Peace Doug!
Melaniie Berglind
January 28, 2014
To the family of doug soo I'm sorry that he died I miss talking to doug he was very nice I miss him he was very good at playing ice hockey and I volunteer at Britannia were he once worked
Brendan Garcia
January 28, 2014
We miss you Uncle Doug. You never ceased to make everyone around you laugh and smile. The last time I saw you, Mason was playing with your Christmas slippers and singing tie. I won't ever forget that. We love you.
Geoff & Kie Low
January 28, 2014
His candle burned so bright that the light he cast helped and affected so many. He will be missed by us and many others.
Deb
January 28, 2014
Doug was a memorable personality to all who had the good fortune to cross his path. He will be sadly missed.
My heartfelt sympathies to my cousin Penny and sons Dylan and Gavin.
January 27, 2014
Doug never failed to light up a room with his smile and humour. He was a compassionate and generous man, who always found time in his busy schedule to help others. I feel privileged to have worked with him. My prayers and thoughts are with his family.
-Linda Ma
Mary Lumby
January 27, 2014
I was deeply saddened to learn of Doug's passing. Beginning as neighbours 40 years ago, a lifelong friendship with Penny and Doug has been endearing. The void that remains will be filled with wonderful memories of many good times. Also, his legacy will continue through all of us who have learned from his amazing contributions, his ethics, and his love of life!! A great loss to family, friends, colleagues, and the community....
Michelle Valancius
January 26, 2014
My heart break for the loss of a amazing soul! I met Doug when I was a camper at the first girls session at Camp Potlatch. I have been so blessed to have spent time with Doug while working and volunteering at the Boys & Girls Clubs or Camp Potlatch. I have so many fantastic memories and Doug will be so missed. Penny and Family may happier memories warm your heart & hug you tight during this difficult time.
Ron Nelmes
January 26, 2014
A special thank-you to Doug and Penny for your unbelievable inspiration and support for my work with the Boys' Clubs of Vancouver and Camp Potlatch. Doug will always have a special place in my heart.
Diana Smith
January 26, 2014
I crossed paths with Doug Soo infrequently, but always memorably, and SO gratefully for the vision, inspiration and commitment to making the world a better place he embodied. The 'torch' is now passed to each of us. Much love to family and friends.
Lisa MorrisMadaisky
January 26, 2014
Doug Soo was one of my College Teachers, a mentor and eventually a wonderful friend. He could make a room full of people laugh, but he could also tell a story that could fill their eyes with tears. Doug taught me more things than could ever be mentioned here; but the most important thing he taught me was the value of RELATIONSHIPS. Doug was a very special friend to our whole family. He brought us much joy, laughter, encouragement and he will be greatly missed. We will however remember and celebrate his life, whenever we share fortune cookies around a restaurant table. A tradition that Doug started and will always be remembered for. My thoughts and prayers are with you Penny, Dylan and Gavin during this difficult time. RIP Doug
January 25, 2014
A special thank-you to Doug and Penny for your unbelievable inspiration and support for my work with the Boys' Clubs of Vancouver and Camp Potlatch. Doug will always have a special place in my heart.
Tina Siver
January 25, 2014
Dear Penny
Dale and I are deeply saddened to receive news of Doug's passing as your lifelong soulmate and father of Dylan and Gavin. Our thoughts are with you in your time of loss.
Myy own remembrance of Doug is one of an influential mentor.To this day and always I refer to Doug as my life mentor. He taught me how to lead and be resilient in life. He helped me develop sound and caring values for people who are less fortunate-not to judge and give people a sense of hope. I am thankful to have robust values and beliefs that shaped my working life and made a
difference for many people
Thank you Doug
Thank you Penny
Eamonn Morgan
January 25, 2014
Having known Doug from his days at Britannia, I was shocked and saddened to hear of his passing.Doug and I worked together on many projects and I had a great deal of respect for his views. He was always available to Board or Hockey Committee members with his sage advise and humour. He will be greatly missed by all he touched throughout his life. Our sympathies go to Penny, Gavin and Dylan.He won't be soon forgotten,
Eamonn Morgan
January 25, 2014
I got to know Doug during his time as Executive Director at Britannia. As a board member Doug and I got to know each other well. Unfortunately the last time I saw Doug was at my wedding where his humour was appreciated by all. I have always hat the greatest respect for him and the clarity of his visions. I now that both Britannia and Langara will miss him. Our heartfelt wishes go to Penny, Gavin and Dylan.
Susan Witter
January 25, 2014
I met Doug back in the 70's when we worked in parallel careers in parks and recreation. Our paths crossed so many times in the next three decades in community connections and working in post secondary education. Doug was a caring, giving man always involved and giving back to his community. He was a person I always appreciated working with and was lucky I had many opportunities to do so. My condolences to Doug's family, he will be missed by so many.
Beverly Graham
January 24, 2014
Doug was a dear childhood friend--like a cousin you grow up with, sharing the "rites of passage", then drift away. But when you meet up again, as I was so very fortunate to do over the last few decades, and discover that such a friend is even more so the special, amazing person he was as a child, you feel very blessed. Doug was so very present in life it seems truly unreal that he is not with us anymore and I am one of very many who feel the gap. And just one of the many who will try to be a little kinder, a little more involved, a little more honourable, and a little more humourous because he touched our lives with his presence.
Nancy Cheff
January 24, 2014
Such sad news ~ I remember Doug from Britannia, he was such a kind and caring person with a wonderful and crazy sense of humor. His dedication to making this world a better place was noted in everything he attempted and succeeded in accomplishing. May the family find comfort in their wonderful memories and know that Doug truly did make a most positive difference in his life here. I feel blessed to have known him.
kelly Ip
January 24, 2014
I am saddened to to hear the passing of Doug and I just couldn't believe what I read this morning!
I last saw him a year ago at a workshop which he was the facilitator, an excellent one I may add.
I first got to know Doug when he was the ED at Britannia Community Centre when I was with the Court of Canadian Citizenship. He was, like his predecessors, very supportive to our outreach programs at Britannia and he and his staff were also so helpful to Citizenship staff and new immigrants.
He is leaving a great legacy behind him and he will always be remembered in our hearts and minds.
Condolences to his family.
Kelly Ip
Doug, 2004
John Butcher
January 24, 2014
Doug was a great guy. Many years ago he gave me something precious - a job! He was a fantastic boss and mentor and had enormous insight about people. Although decades have passed since then, we remained in touch (thank you Penny!) and I have always thought of Doug with fondness and high regard. There would be few people I respect more or whose counsel I would value more. The world is a poorer place without him. My deep condolences to Penny, Dylan and Gavin. This will be a dreadfully hard time for them. You don't lose a man like Doug and wear it lightly.
Phil Jones
January 24, 2014
Doug was a great man! I remember Doug from my days at Britannia. He taught me that Community and the people within that community matter. Thanks Doug. My thoughts and prayers go to his family and friends.
Susan Climie
January 24, 2014
I'm so sorry. Met Doug just a couple of times through HR Council committee work. His eyes lit up when he spoke of his hiking! He was an inspiring person and I'm sorry he was taken away so soon. Sincere best wishes to Doug's family and friends and colleagues.
Suzanne Crawford
January 24, 2014
I am so sorry to hear about Doug. He and Penny were my neighbours for many, many years. What a terrible loss for his family and for all of us who new him. My thoughts and sympathies are with you Penny, and Gavin and Dylan and all the family. I'll always remember him, working in the front garden.
Jackie Scheepbouwer
January 24, 2014
Penny, Gavin and Dylan, I will sorely miss Doug's sense of humor making the office such a fun place to work. He was so thoughtful, caring and truly took an interest in others when we were experiencing troubled times, his office was always open, no matter how busy he may have been. RIP Doug, so sorry that I never made a hike up Anything But the Grind with your group. Jackie
Joanne Komoski
January 24, 2014
Doug
You touched my life in so many ways, your ability to create constant laughter and joy was wonderful. Working with you was never a chore, I always had a smile on my face whenever I saw you walking the halls of Langara. Your heart will live on in my memories. Love and Light to you
Amie Smith, Ray Gallagher
January 24, 2014
Doug was such an inspiration to all. He emitted a warmth that was genuine. I will miss him, he was my "go to guy", not always giving me the answer I wanted, but it would be the one I needed to hear. Our deepest sympathy to Penny, Gavin and Dylan and thank you for sharing this special man with so many.
John Taylor
January 24, 2014
I knew Doug through hockey at Brit. He was always just so happy to be on the ice with us. He knew he didn't have the same same skills as some, but found joy in the little things like checking Pete or Darrin, or a well placed return pass, or banging home a rebound. I knew he also loved his hikes. He and Gary would discuss them at great lengths. I hope he is at peace now. Meeting his son Gavin at hockey and seeing what a fine young man he was, told me Doug was a great dad. Hosting Doug and Penny at a Canucks game, I could see how much they loved each other. Doug took time to help me with work projects supplying valuable insight. I also know he loved his travels. His constant smile made me think he enjoyed everyday and tried to live life to the fullest. These are the things I will always remember of my friend Doug.
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