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2010
Donald Backe Obituary
It is with great sadness and heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Donald J. Backe on Oct. 12, 2010.
He was born on July 21, 1928 in Burbank but spent the majority of his early life in Saticoy. He was a longtime resident of Camarillo. His last days were surrounded by his family and friends at home.
Don was preceded in death by his parents, Edmund and Helen (Quintana) Backe, and his beloved wife of almost 40 years, Margaret (Wieneke) Backe. He is survived by his children, Nick Backe, Dawn Adrianne (James) Jordan, and Kurt (Jennifer) Backe. His grandchildren are Jonathan Backe, Jared Backe, Jason Backe, Chloe Jordan, James Jordan, and Matthew Jordan.
He was an exceptional Dad who never failed to love and protect his children. He adored his grandchildren. He leaves his children and grandchildren a legacy of strength, loyalty, and absolute integrity.
Don was remarried on Nov. 6, 1999 to Maureen (Sanford) Backe. They enjoyed their years together traveling and with family. Maureen always referred to Don as her "Knight in Shining Armor."
Don was owner of Backe Electric and retired in 2002. He was a member of the American Legion, and the British Car Club. His son Kurt and he worked together to restore his Triumph GT6. He won first place for his Triumph at the Central Coast British Car Show just this past June.
He proudly served his country with an honorable discharge from the Army on June 29, 1956.
Funeral services are as follows: Visitation will be from 2 to 8 p.m., with Rosary being held at 7 p.m., on Monday, Oct. 18 at Joseph P. Reardon Funeral Home, 757 E. Main St., Ventura. Funeral Mass will take place at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, Oct. 19 at the San Buenaventura Mission in Ventura. Burial immediately following at Ivy Lawn Cemetery, Ventura. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Livingston Nursing Association or Cancer Society. Arrangements under the direction of Joseph P. Reardon Funeral Home, 643-8623.
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October 30, 2010
Don and his wife Maggie raised three amazing children. Maggie passed away several years ago, however, she left Don the amazing gift of their wonderful children and grandchildren. Don had love and compassion for each of his children.
He did not always agree with some of the actions they took throughout their lives; however, his loyality and love for his children, Kurt, Nick and Dawnie/Adriannne is something no one could wedge themselves in the middle of that bond.
Whether it was prepping Adrianne for horse back competition or working through growing pains with Nick and the kids or training Kurt to someday take over Backe electric or working on cars in the garage till midnight; Don was an amazing father and loyal friend.
And though the cancer took his life, the cancer did not take the glint in his eyes away for his children or Tammy; his caregiver who never gave up on him.
Irene Henry, Tim Ehritt and family
Philip Snow
October 19, 2010
Don Was a patient for many years in my Camarillo Dental office, as was his wife and children who I enjoyed treating very much. Don always had the last appointment of the day so we spent a lot of time talking about our kids, our work and life in general. I always felt he was a straight shooter in every respect. So many pleasant memories! My thoughts to the family.
Larry & Paula Santora
October 19, 2010
My brother & I had the pleasure of working together with Don. I'll always remember him as a witty, warm & humble man. He will be missed. Our thoughts & prayers are with his family. Keep his memory close to your hearts.
Robin Sanford
October 18, 2010
I love you, Don. It is an honor and a privilege being part of your family. Thank you for showing courage and dignity with a disease that never fights fair. Please keep an eye on us.
Chuck Smith
October 18, 2010
Don was a mentor and friend. I wish his family peace and comforting memories.
Camco Breaker & Controls
October 18, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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