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Norma Lagomarsino Obituary

Norma Jean Lagomarsino

Ventura, CA

With her family by her side, Norma Jean Lagomarsino passed away peacefully in her home on November 26, 2015. She was born on November 18, 1926 in Burbank, California to Dexter and Minnie Mabrey. Norma grew up in Palm Springs, California. As a child, she frequently visited her relatives in Ojai and Ventura California where she ultimately resided, and met her future husband, Robert. In the early 1930's, she attended Ojai Elementary School for a short time, and then finished her primary education in Palm Springs. Norma enjoyed cooking, gardening, swimming, horseback riding, skiing, singing, and playing tennis. She was a talented soprano with an amazing voice. Her vivacious spirit guided her towards becoming involved in many philanthropic organizations. In 1968, Norma, Alan Rains Jr., and a handful of Ojai residents started the first Ojai Chapter of Pop Warner Youth Football, which later became The Ojai Eagles. In the late 1960's, she taught a cooking class to young members of the local Ojai Valley (Mira Monte) 4-H Club. In 1970, Norma and her husband Robert were instrumental in the creation of a co-educational Villanova Preparatory School. St. Catherine's, an all-girls Catholic high school in Ventura, was the sister school for V.P.S. and at that time had ceased to exist. Parents of V.P.S. students embraced and implemented the change with much optimism. In 1971-72, Norma, Mary Farrar, auctioneer Joe Quinn, and the Villanova Mother's Club established the first annual Villanova Preparatory School Auction. A fundraiser that is in existence to this very day. In the early 1980's, she served as president of The Congressional Club in Washington, D.C., and chaired The Annual First Lady's Luncheon, also held in Washington, D.C. In the mid 1980's, Norma was on The Board of Directors of The National Institute of Mental Health, in Washington, D.C. In 1985, she testified before a U.S. Senate panel about the failures of governmental policies toward the mentally ill. After she spoke, Senators Orrin Hatch and Ted Kennedy had stated to her husband, then Congressman Robert Lagomarsino, that her testimony had brought tears to their eyes. After her husband had retired from congress, Norma and Robert devoted much of their time at the new university: C.S.U.C.I. She worked hard to establish The Robert J. and Norma M. Lagomarsino Archives.

In her later years, she spent much of her time with her family and helped with organizations such as the Catholic Charities and Child Abuse and Neglect. She also served on the Santa Cruz Island Foundation Advisory Council. As once reported in the Ventura Star, her husband while speaking at an event said, "Norma is great but not easy".

Norma is preceded in death by her son Dexter, and survived by her husband, daughter, son, daughter-in-law, six grandchildren, and three great grandchidren. She is loved and will be greatly missed.

A private ceremony was held in her honor.

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Published by Ventura County Star on Dec. 13, 2015.

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Ed Bedwell

April 18, 2017

Just heard of Norma's passing. It was my honor and joy in life to work for Bob, and thereby Norma! No one was more dedicated and protective of a spouse that Norma and she inspired us all. Bless you.

Duane & Jeanie Eskew

January 30, 2016

Dear Bob & family, Our deepest sympathies for your loss. We had a great time with you and Aunt Norma when we saw you a couple of years ago, just remember that she is in a better place.

Laura Davidson

December 27, 2015

Norma was so kind and served as a role model for me while growing up in Sacramento. And Dana and Dex were just great kids to know at St Joseph's and Capitol Towers. Fine people and fine memories, a remarkable family. Norma served so many so well.

December 26, 2015

Dana,
I'm so sorry To hear about your mom. She was a lovely lady who, if caught at the right moment, was full of fun.
You've had a rough couple of years, and I think of you often. Please accept my sincerest condolences.
Love to you, Nancy Brough

Evelyn Taylor

December 16, 2015

If it wasn't for Bob and Norma, I wouldn't have the wonderful job that I have now, as their archivist at CSUCI. Norma was elegant, fun, extremely bright, compassionate, and fiery and I will always remember her grace. Norma, it was a great pleasure knowing you. Thank you for honoring me with your presence.

Ernest Tiangco

December 16, 2015

Norma is in a better place now. God bless her and the entire family. Growing up with Dana ...she was always one step ahead of us!

Bob Flesher

December 15, 2015

Dear Lagomarsino family, Our deepest sympathies for your loss. May her memory be a blessing.
Bob and Sarah Flesher

MR & MRS RUBEN PRECIADO

December 14, 2015

DEAR CONGRESSMAN LAGOMARSINO, SO SORRY FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS.
YOU ARE IN OUR PRAYERS.
THANK YOU AGAION FOR THE CONTRIBUTIONS YOU AND NORMA HAVE MADE FOR THE GENERAL PUBLIC

Sister Catherine Osimo, CSC

December 14, 2015

A patron of Catholic education has died. Her legacy continues at Villanova Prep and in the lives of youth who grew into adulthood. God bless this valiant woman.

Lane Bergstrom

December 13, 2015

May our God light your way.

Lane Bergstrom

December 13, 2015

To Bob and the Family, I have known Norma since 1962, it seems forever, and will always think of her with love beyond words. She was a good friend, one to be admired and trusted no matter what the circumstances. Few people have the personal qualities that Norma shared with all she met. She will be missed by many, none more than me! Blessings to you all at this time of grief.

Alicia Smith

December 13, 2015

Grandma, I miss your sense of humor and your laugh when we would mimic other family members. I miss our trips together especially to Palm Springs. I miss your funny British accent. I miss your advice on everything even though at times I wouldn't listen and then would regret it. I miss your singing and going to Mass with you. I miss your fashion advice, shopping with you, and just being girls. I miss your stories about your dad, mom and your good ole days in Palm Springs with Barbara Foster. I miss how you were so proud of your NORMAL license plate. I miss my favorite meals like your spaghetti and Thanksgiving/Christmas dinners. I miss your love and knowledge of basically every flower that exists. I miss you always mispronouncing my dogs names even though you knew their names. I miss how you would wear that hilarious Michael Jackson jacket. I miss watching Shirley Temple movies and Gone with the Wind with you. I miss going to the Sportman's with you. I miss celebrating our birthdays together. I miss learning from you because you were like a mother to me. I miss taking care of you. More than anything I miss YOU. I never will stop loving and missing you.

Dana Smith

December 13, 2015

Mom, you taught me right from wrong. Whether by an example, or a song. You always said that to be truly free, honesty is the best policy. So as I say good-bye with a tear in my eye, I know that in the end, we will meet again. Your loving son, Dana.

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