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Robert Linder Obituary

Mr. Robert Brian Linder, 28, passed away Sept. 16, 2010 following a car accident on Highway 395 in Victorville. Born April 17, 1982 at St. Bernardine's in San Bernardino, he was a resident of the High Desert for 28 years.
He is survived by his fiancèe Heather Hord of Victorville; mother Colleen Calderon of Hesperia; father Brian Linder of Crestline; stepmom Janet Linder of Crestline; stepdad Yuri Calderon of Hesperia; brother Jonathan Calderon of Hesperia; and brother Nathan Calderon of Hesperia.
A visitation will be held at 10 a.m. Friday, Oct. 1 at Sunset Hills Memorial Park and Mortuary, 24000 Waalew Road in Apple Valley with services beginning at 11 a.m. Burial will be at Victor Valley Memorial Park, 15609 11th St. in Victorville.
I would like everyone to know a little more about the man we lost Sept. 16, 2010 Thursday in the accident on Highway 395.
He was 28 year old Robert Brian Linder. He loved life and enjoyed every day. He worked hard every day to accomplish his dreams, and did.
He was the owner of Neo Compware in Hesperia and was wonderful to our community.
Robert's mom Colleen was his best friend and hero. She filled his whole heart.
The loves of his life were his brothers Jonathan and Nathan Calderon. He spent time with them every day and turned into a kid himself when he got around them.
Robert was so proud of his father Brian and proud to be a Linder. Robert and I were engaged to be married next August. We were very happy and very much in love.
Every day I got to share with Robert was a dream. He treated me like a princess and always called me his, "Sexy Lady."
Robert will be missed by many. Everyone that had the pleasure to meet him fell in love with him instantly. He was amazing, loving, caring, funny, silly, smart and wonderful. As close to perfect as any man can get.
I love you baby and will see you in Heaven one day.
Heather Hord

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Published by Daily Press on Sep. 28, 2010.

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October 25, 2010

Bob,
Ill see you soon, but till i see ya again ill be working out so we can be buff were ever we end up.
I'll be seeing you!
James Alexander Hord IV

Robert and Tank. They love eachother sooo much

Tank Linder

October 24, 2010

Heather Hord

October 24, 2010

Baby, I still can't believe your gone. I thought I would get to spend my life with you. I am so thankful for the time we did have together. You still have my whole heart. Baby doll you are the most amazing man ever to walk this earth. I will love you forever and we will be together again one day. XOXOXXOXOXOXOXOXOXXO

james cox

October 23, 2010

ROBERT LINDER I will miss you and will

steff

October 19, 2010

we miss you so so much robert!
a piece of us is gone.we love you and are always thinking of you.my sister sends her kisses right back atcha

Nathan Calderon

October 17, 2010

Robert,

I MIISS YOU SO SO MUCH I don't not know why god had to take you so early i really just don't get it i love you for all the help for computers and love you gave me i will be just like you some day you were one of the bests brothers i can have and i will always remember that

Nathan Calderon

October 17, 2010

Robert,

I MIISS YOU SO SO MUCH I don't not know why god had to take you so early i really just don't get it i love you for all the help for cmoputers and love you gave me i will be just like you some day you were one of the bests brothers i can have and i will always rember that

Nathan Calderon

October 17, 2010

Robert,

I MIISS YOU SO SO MUCH I don't not know why god had to take you so early i really just don't get it i love you for all the help for cmoputers and love you gave me i will be just like you some day you were one of the bests brothers i can have and i will always rember that

Colleen Calderon

October 13, 2010

Robert you will always be in my heart you are a great son and brother your little brothers miss you so much and I miss you so much you are gone in person but not gone from our hearts you will be forever in our hearts

Summer Hord

October 7, 2010

Robert,

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!! You were
the best thing to my aunt heather also known as "Teetee" he treated her like Pretty Princess and gave her every thing. You were so hilarious and has a great personality.Robert gave her the best name in the world it was "Sexy Lady" and teetee gave him a name and that is "Baby doll" Also we called him "Bob". When I first bet you I didnt know what or why you were you here but when I saw you kiss teetee I new you two were togather and we loved you so so so so Much. We will always have you in are hearts forever and always!!! <3

victoria hord

October 7, 2010

When Teetee was with you she felt like she was in heaven . God needed you for some reason. I will miss you forever. You will be in my heart and i'll be in yours. you are funny and nice i will miss that. You are teetee's angel baby. you are sweet to teetee and treat teetee like a princess.

steff hord

October 5, 2010

robert u are an angel from above sent to watch over all of us.ur job here is done so you had to leave,and now we all grieve. we lovely dearly and i mean this sincerely.we will miss you and never never forget you! love you bob

janet

October 3, 2010

Colleen and Family,
I was so saddened to hear the tragic news about Robert. My heart goes out to you all.
May all the wonderful memories you shared together never be forgotten. And most of all, may the peace of God, thru prayer guard your hearts and thoughts as all of you cope without him. Philippians 4:6,7

Natasha S.

October 1, 2010

Robert,
I never had the pleasure of meeting you in person, but I felt as though I got to know you through Heather. She would always tell me what an amazing man you were and every time I saw her, she had a smile on her face, and that smile was because of you; whether it was because of something you did, or said to her, or maybe because of the numerous plants and flowers you were always giving her "just because." From what I learned about you, you were a wonderful man Robert, and I know you will be sorely missed by all who loved you. Rest in peace.

Lori Covieo

September 28, 2010

We will all miss Robbie with all our hearts. He was a wonderful caring person with a heart as big as the universe. He made us smile and made sure we all felt loved. His spirit will always be with us and the love he shared will not have been wasted. All we have to do is think of him and we will feel him with us always. Love you sweetheart.

Margaret Smith

September 28, 2010

My husband and I were devastated when we heard of your precious son's passing. Robert had just been at our home repairing my computer. He made such a wonderful impression on my husband. We both cried for your loss and remembered the day, we too, lost our precious son, Brandon. Please know that that we understand your pain. Your Robert was a wonderful young man! With deepest sadness,
Thurston and Margaret Smith

Cory M

September 28, 2010

Lighting this Candel means "you are not forgotten." , nor will you ever be!

Christina Beesley

September 28, 2010

We've known each other since Jr. High, you were always a good friend to me, even though we went our separate ways I still cared for you. You will always have a place in my heart from the memories we spent together. My heart goes out to your mom and family.

steff hord

September 28, 2010

miss you bob!!!!!

Desiree Delaney

September 28, 2010

Robert, I did not know you but I have only heard such wonderful things about you. You will be missed dearly and thought of often. Rest peacefully my friend.

Heather Hord

September 28, 2010

I love you baby doll. xoxoxoxoxox

Melanie Hord

September 28, 2010

We will miss you deeply and you are loved by so many!! In our hearts you will always remain!

Cory M

September 28, 2010

Robert, You lit up every ones life you came in contact with. You bailed me out of my locked car. You made me laugh and smile! You are definately missed but know that you are always with us. This is such a hard time for all of us. I Love you and Heather. She is right you are as close to perfect as any man could ever be. I think of you daily and have the highest respect for you! Always in my thoughts and heart you will be also. We miss you SO much! Cory

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