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RUTH ERK Obituary

ERK RUTH PARKER ERK On April 19, 2018, Ruth Parker Erk (nee Hobgood), age 91, passed away peacefully at her retirement community in Silver Spring, MD. She died of oral carcinoma. Of English heritage, she was born on April 17, 1927, the daughter of Elvy and Ethel Parker Hobgood, of Evansville, IN. Ruth was educated in the public schools of Evansville, and graduated from Evansville College with a degree in music and piano performance. After she married her fellow student, Frank C. Erk, the couple moved to Baltimore where her husband entered graduate studies. During their 69 years of marriage, Ruth continued to express her musical talents by teaching piano students privately, conducting church choirs, playing the organ for public occasions, was a member of a piano quartet, and playing in English handbell groups. When the couple moved to Long Island, where Frank became a university faculty member, Ruth continued her interest in the bass violin, which she played first in high school, and then in symphonic orchestras in Long island. She also sang in choruses wherever she lived, both in New York and England. After she raised their three girls, Ruth returned to college and became a librarian, after which she worked as an editor at the H W Wilson Co. in the Bronx, New York. She returned to the Smithtown Library (NY) system, and became director of one of their branches. Ruth was an activist for many worthy causes, and served in the League of Women Voters for more than 60 years in various leadership capacities. She was active in the church activities of the Disciples of Christ and the United Church of Christ, where she served on leadership committees and sang in the choir. Ruth was the backbone of the family. She never wavered. She lovingly supported each person's interest and encouraged them always to achieve their heart's desire. She will be sorely missed. She is survived by her husband, her three daughters, Susan, Elisabeth, and Stephanie, five grandchildren, Megan, Deanna, Paul, Carlene, and Sonia; her sister, Julia Hobgood Wood, of Evansville, IN, and nieces and nephews. Ruth's celebration of life will be held on April 28, 2018 at 2 p.m. at the Riderwood Chapel, 3140 Gracefield Road, Silver Spring, MD 20904. Memorial gifts may be made to the Christ Congregational Church, Silver Spring, MD, or to Casey House of Montgomery Hospice, Rockville, MD. www.collinsfuneralhome.comwww.collinsfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Washington Post on Apr. 22, 2018.

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Dee

April 16, 2023

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April 16, 2023

Dee

April 16, 2023

My grandma was a talented apple pie maker, pianist, and always wore lipstick. Put her heart into her political work and was faithful and sturdy always. I remember her African violets and how she valued intelligence and decorum. She loved her family deeply. I miss her presence still, even years later.

Stephanie

April 16, 2023

Mom,
You are missed deeply, each and every day. I laugh and cry at the ways you are with me, in moments I least expect. Thank you Mom, for your love and your laughter, and all that you instilled in me.
Wishing I could hug you,
Stephanie

Jeanette McGhee

April 24, 2018

May the God of all comfort and mercy give the family hope and peace during this time of sadness. Jeremiah 29:11,12.

Kathy McGuire

April 24, 2018

I met Ruth through the League and she was a wonderful role model for a new member. Over the years we have shared smiles and I appreciated her sage advice. I will miss seeing her at League Meetings and more... Kathy McGuire, Bethesda

Annette Delio

April 23, 2018

You have my sympathy ! It's a hard time for all of you but at least she is no longer in pain! Love you all !

Marion Giroux

April 22, 2018

I will remember you.Your light lives on in those who loved you.

April 22, 2018

Ruth was such a sweet, wonderful person. I met her at a Thanksgiving family function, and she was such a delightful person. All her tremendous talented gifts for music and the arts was an inspiration for so many. Mt deepest sympathy is extended to her loving family especially Susan, her daughter, who also holds a special place in our hearts for so many people. Ruth will be missed by so many for the loving devoted wife,mother, and friend that she was to all of us.May she now rest peacefully with God and all the saints in their loving care. With sympathy, Mari-Anne Caron, Fayetteville, NC.

Dennis Mills

April 22, 2018

Ruth was a loving and beautiful person. She had so much love and compassion in all she did throughout her life. She will be cherished and missed forever.

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