Bernice A. Rutledge

Bernice Rutledge Obituary

RUTLEDGE BERNICE ALBERTA RUTLEDGE (Age 52) Of Mt. Airy, MD, passed away on Sunday, July 25, 2010 at home with the loving care of family and friends. She is survived by her husband of 32 years Michael Edward Rutledge and sons Justin and Jesse Rutledge. She fought her battle every day for 15 years with incredible optimism and unswerving faith. Bernice ran in the Race for the Cure and was instrumental in starting and raising funds for Howard County Relay For Life. She worked for the Howard County Office of Aging at the Glenwood Senior Center. Her kindness, loving spirit and strength touched hundreds of lives. In addition to her husband and children she is survived by her mother Betty McKoy, Sister Louise Little Brothers James, Paul, Larry and Kenny McCoy and their spouses and numerous Nieces, Nephews and an abundance of Friends. Funeral Services will be held Wednesday July 28, 2010 12 Noon at Crossroads Community Church, 895 Leidy Rd. Westminster, 21157 with viewing one hour prior. The family will receive friends on Tuesday July 27, 4 to 8 p.m. at BURRIER-QUEEN FUNERAL HOME AND CREMATORY, P.A., 1212 W. Old Liberty Rd. Winfield, MD 21784 In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Western Howard County Relay For Life, 2400 Rt 97, Cooksville, MD 21723, The American Cancer Society or Crossroads Community Church

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Published by The Washington Post on Jul. 26, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Bernice Rutledge

13 Entries

Beverly Cochran

July 29, 2010

Dear Michael, family and friends who have and had the blessings of being in Bernices life....I only knew her for 2 years but during that special intimate time camping, talking, crying, and supporting each other's battle with cancer, she graced me with her love of life. She lived each day to its fullest and has made my life better forever and because of her I will never give up, I will fight the fight and also celebrate each day God has given us. She will always hold a special place in my heart and soul. Always and Forever...May GOD bless you all.

Lisa Thornton-McMillan

July 29, 2010

I worked with Bernice at Howard Rensin's office and one of my most fondest memories is her lending me her maternity clothes when I was pregnant with my first son Brandon. She will live in my heart forever.

She fought the good fight and finished her course may she rest in peace.

Love you Bernie.

Lisa

Jeff and Marianne

July 27, 2010

Michael and family, we are so sad to hear Bernice passed away after such a long battle. I am sure she was, and will continue to be, an inspiration to others engage in similar fights. Even though we have been friends for just a few years, which all started with a Ball canning jar, it seems like we have known you forever. And it is good friends and family in times like these that mean the most. We will continue to keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers, and hope to see you soon.

July 27, 2010

Mike, Justin, Jesse and all of Bernice's family,
I was so sorry to hear that Bernice had lost her battle. She moves on to the arms of God and her family that has passed before her will be there to guide her way. There have been very few people that I have ever met in my life that were as special as Bernice. She has taught us all how to live our lives, find joy in every day and to look to the positive side of life, not to dwell upon negatives. Her strength and passion throughout the years have made me thankful to have been privledged enough to call her a friend. I hope that you continue to feel her love for you all, as she will always be with you. May God Bless you all. Ginny McKeldin

Bruce Schank

July 27, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

July 27, 2010

Bernice will be sadly missed at the Glenwood Senior & Community Center. Her bright smile, sincerity, and generous spirit to everyone she encountered, leaves a void within us all. May her family be comforted in knowing that her legacy - her strength to endure and her tireless efforts to raise funds for Cancer research - will live within the hearts and minds of those who knew her.

Shyami Codippily Murphy, Glenwood Community Ctr. member

Joe Williams

July 27, 2010

Michael,
Bernice has a beautiful smile...when things get rough,close your eyes and remember her smile.You two will be together again some day.She's young again,healthy again,and will never suffer again.
Rock on,Bernice!

Susan Ford

July 27, 2010

My sincere sympathy goes out to the entire family. Bernice was a caring loving person, it was a great pleasure to know her. Her spirit lives on in the ones she she left behind.

Debbie Thrift

July 27, 2010

James and Family: My sincere sympathy to you and your entire family at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Debbie Thrift

kathy eckard

July 26, 2010

Betty, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I worked with you in Bethseda. May God bless you and your family. Kathy Eckard

Mary Palka

July 26, 2010

Mike, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Bernice touched the lives of all who knew her. She was courageous and kind in spite of the battle she waged. Please let us know if we can do anything to help you. Mary and Mark Palka

Hart Family

July 26, 2010

Our heartfelt condolences to Bernice's family. We were so sorry to hear of your loss. May you our Heavenly Father, the God of comfort and tender mercies be with you all (2 Corinthians 1:4). WIth deep sympathy,

Gracie Lewis

July 26, 2010

Coping with the loss of someone so dear is difficult under any circumstances. As time passes focusing on the happy memories you all shared together can help to ease the pain you feel right now. Our Heavenly Father is there to support you as well. Encouragement is found in the scriptures at Psalm 55:22 to 'Throw your burden upon [Our Heavenly Father] himself , And he himself will sustain you. Never will he allow the righteous one to totter.' He will help you to cope with your grief. Have faith in His promises. They never fail. I offer my sincere condolences to you all.

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